₦airaland Forum

so sorry for this unfortunate incident especially close to your wedding day, but remember a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage, u dont want to go into a marriage without trust, it will quickly kill that marriage, my advice is that you call off the wedding for now, take your time to access the situation before taking a stand, people would want to know why you are stopping the wedding, so be prepared to give them a good reason other than what really happened. such is the kind of life we live today, people will surely disappoint you when you least expect it is well with you.

in the matters of relationships especially as it relates to marriage, you need to seek the face of God for direction. Thank God you have not slept with any of the guys, so you will have clear head and heart to handle the situation, from your account, it is obvious all of them have helped you progress in life one way or the other, so you need to be clear in exactly what you want from a man as husband, you need to define your expectations from your future husband, having done that, you will then sincerely ask yourself if you can live with the short comings/low points of any of these guys, i want to believe you know them enough to be able to sincerely answer that question.mind you, you cannot change an adult, so dont even begin to think you can change him after marriage, remember as Africans/Nigerians, we dont marry the individual alone, we marry the family as well, so you need to consider his family too in considering any of the guys, no sentiment, dont marry out of pity, or feeling of indebtedness, marriage is a life time venture, God places people to be our helpers at one point in time or the other, so these guys have not done anything out of the ordinary, good enough you should appreciate them for all their help, but remember you will be staking you future with any man you choose to marry. In all of this, you should rely on God to lead you, some people will say follow your heart, well not a bad idea, let your heart align with what God is saying to you, wishing you Gods direction and blessings.

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what do expect from the Nigerian Army, when their OGA AT THE TOP is lawless, they are bound to follow suit, the Lord will help us in this quantry called Nigeria, God bless the good people of NIGERIA

Did i hear NBA complain of lawlessness by the EFCC and Buhari"s govt? HYPOCRATES!!! Them all!!! when EFCC and Buhari was busy violating citizens rights by disregarding court rulings, they were busy interpreting the law to justify the actions of EFCC, now it is their colleague, they turn around to cry foul, who is deceiving who?, let the man face the law according to the definition of EFCC and president Buhari, chikena!!!

lovely ladies, naija is blessed

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