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RomanceRe: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(op): 5:19pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:
You know she said, "Is he trying to buy me with his money? (I love him already)"

Op, just to be sure you really love him, ask yourself, "If this man lost all his money, woud I still be willing to be his wife?"
with all he has done for me i will say yes
RomanceRe: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(op): 5:17pm On Feb 03, 2015
LadyX:
Well put. She's already in love with him.
yes i am in love with him.
RomanceRe: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(op): 5:12pm On Feb 03, 2015
numericalguy:
OP,

Your sister is jealous of you and she has been putting all manner of evil thoughts in your head. Doesn't your man smile If you both are together? If the man had been smiling so much, then your sister would have claimed he was making passes at her.
when we are together he smiles alot.
RomanceRe: Story Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(op): 1:14pm On Feb 03, 2015
linconoyee:
This is a touching story my sister, firstly I want you to see this guy as ur helper, angel, Obe in million and I don't want you to disapoint him for any reason at all, don't go for what ur sisters said, it's not advisable. He's not busy your love with money. But just scared me about your story is that, he slept in the bathroom why you sleep in the room. You need to pray regarding this man to know is not a ghost, but if u have know about is family, then that will be better. Call him and explain things to him, he may be trying to please you in all ways. Hut not knowing is going on the wrong side now.
But I still hold the point, pls don't ever think of disappointing him. Thanks
I know about his mum and dad, he is a native of Enugu
RomanceStory Of How I Met Him, Should I Marry Him Or Not? by ispeaklight(op):
On the second day of my graduation from unilag (were i studied mass communiction) i travelled back home from lagos to portharcourt were my parents reside. Here my story line begin, please read below so as to give me perfect counsel thanks.

It was on the 22 of november 2011 when i visited my friend's house, so why going back home we must have to cross one of the busiest road over here, but something happened i and my friend were carelessly discussing and were'nt watching and focusing why crossing the road, unfortunately a car almost hit me down why my friend had already crossed, at that time i was lucky because the guy driving the car was careful enough to stop the car from hitting me. And seriously i was scared i jumped out of the road look at the guy with a very bad eye and motive, he glanced at me, then moved the car from the road and then spend time looking at me before i could know he began to shed tears, my friend touched me and said is okay lets go, i listen to her and leave immediately but before i could even step 3 times he blocked me and was really pleading and begging me to forgive his carelessness, that it was all his fault.

He asked me if i was injured that he could take me to the nearest hospital or chemist, but i said no he should'nt bother because at this time i was ashamed as people were really staring at us. I walked out of him immediately but he blocked me again and pleaded for my forgiveness as if he had known me somewere, i had no other obtion than to tell him he did'nt hit me, at the end we left each others to our different ways.

But as fate may have it, he met me again in 2012 on a dirty road, why i was looking for were to put my legs, he asked me to enter his car but i asked him not to bother that i can manage, but he pleaded so i agreed, why in the car he gave me paper and pen to write my phone number and i did, after i have got home he called me in some hours and asked me to be his friend but i said not too fast, he pleaded and sounded as if he was crying to end the whole matter i agreed immediatly, he also asked for my facebook address i also gave him too, we began our chat on facebook and in few months i got to know him more better as he also knew me in and out too, as of then i do teach in a school very far from my home, but he always volunteer to come and pick me every day, he never missed out even one day.

One night he called me to come out side that he is waiting for me, i asked him outside were he said my house, seriously i was perplex because i never showed him my house niether did i give him my address in anyway, why i came out i met him and we began to discuss all of a sudden he proposed to be my boyfriend, but i said no, that i like it as we are just friends, he knelt down and sounded as if he was crying (i can't really tell if tears dropped out his eyes because it was late) to prevent any further drama i agreed immediately, i have always know him as a guy that allow feelings and emotion to control him.

At this time, we became more intimate as never before, he began to call me "sweetheart", but i call him by his name though, he has always been so good to me, he give me lot of money and bought fruits for me even when i dont ask for them, when my grandmother died and my parents did'nt have much to contribute, i told him and he gave me N300,000 for the burial and i was shocked.

Few months after the burial he sent me a message on facebook, pleading with me to accept the gift he had prepared for me, i asked him what gift but he said dont bother, all i need from you is to behave matured and dont seem to be too suprise because you might faint, i thought as much as i could to guess what kind of gift but to no avail, the day he planned came and he took me out to a very busy area here in portharcourt and showed me a very big supermarket with 6 staff in uniform and said this is your supermarket, i looked at him and look at the supermarket, i became dumbed for about 5minutes and screemed (just joking though, but i can remember that i was scared,suprise and happy at same time) after all i accepted the key to the supermarket and the one to my office, we both went to my parents and explained the whole issue and they were very happy because they had already known him to be my fiancee for a long period anyway.

But something suprised me most, he asked me not to pay the staff working at the supermarket, that he is incharge of their payment, few months after he bought me a nice highlander car. But something is suprising me most we have been in relationship for 2years and some moths now and he had never mentioned marriage, he is a very handsome guy of 30years old why am 23.

I had to pass a night one of the days in his house after i have finish cooking for him and washing most of his cloths, to be suprise he gave me the key to his bathroom and asked me to lock it and he slept in the parlour, the next morning i asked him the reasons for his decision last night and he replied "i dont want to sin that is why i slept off the bathroom".

Less i forget, he owns 3 big poultries in portharcourt and a pure water and bottle water industries too, he also works in shell.

The reason for this long story is because i need your advice,

1. Do you think this guy want to buy my love with money? (although i love him very much anyway).

2. What are his reason for not talking about marriage yet because i dont want him to leave me and marry another girl.

3. My senior sister asked me not to marry him because he had never seen him smiling ever.

4. Do you think this is true love?

5. He is too good at begging and crying when i dont agree most times to him, do you think if we get married he will still be as gentle as he is now?

I need your advice please, thanks.

Regards: Ozichi jonathan
WebmastersRe: Post your PHP Problems Here by ispeaklight(m): 6:11pm On Jan 28, 2015
mine is not realy a problem, i need to know what platfrom was myschool.com.ng built on, and how can i learn to build a site like that?
PoliticsRe: The Buhari Supporters Group by ispeaklight(m): 11:36pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: When Will APC Stop Lying? Pictures. by ispeaklight(m): 11:35pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: No Longer Supporting Buhari by ispeaklight(m): 11:33pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: Why Buhari Will Get Less Than 1% Igbo Vote by ispeaklight(m): 11:33pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: Gen. Buhari Recovers Stolen Millions From Ex-ministers by ispeaklight(m): 11:31pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: NTA News July 1985 - Report On Buhari's War Against Indiscipline by ispeaklight(m): 11:30pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
Jokes EtcRe: Buhari Finally Won APC Presidential Primary Election <pics> by ispeaklight(m): 11:29pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
PoliticsRe: Politics Chat Room - "The Beer Parlour" by ispeaklight(m): 11:26pm On Dec 05, 2014
Never knew Buhari has this much die hard fans.. See for urselfs > http://askusfast.com/bforum_0.xhtml?blog=20&get-blog=20 .. I petty GEJ
WebmastersRe: Wapka Tutorial For Newbies Ft Wapkalords Pelij, Clintonnzedimma, Khaynet by ispeaklight(m): 8:17am On Nov 27, 2014
Khaynet:
Thanks bro for saving the day
Its nothing bro, just glad i could be of help
WebmastersRe: Wapka Tutorial For Newbies Ft Wapkalords Pelij, Clintonnzedimma, Khaynet by ispeaklight(m): 6:15pm On Nov 26, 2014
nnamdiosu:
please o wapka lords. ive registered and created my new wapka site this evening. thanks to you guys. however its like I'm lost o. I saw some links like software, pictures, videos etc. but I didn't put them there o. plus I saw an advert below my page. is it that wapka people are doing advert in my site. its a forum I want to do o. pls help. God bless you lords.
clintion the whole details on ur site i.e the music, videos, software etc is due to your selection of a default template from wapka. If you don want it then you will have to delete it.

Feell free to ask questions.. Am here
WebmastersRe: Wapka Tutorial For Newbies Ft Wapkalords Pelij, Clintonnzedimma, Khaynet by ispeaklight(m): 6:13pm On Nov 26, 2014
dhtml18:
Clinton, i think all you need to do is to provide a simple outline - a kind of walkthrough simple enough for a beginer, you dont need to into advanced stuffs as such since this is targeted for newbies.
cool

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