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CosmicSensation: it isn't right.
That's the crux of the issue here.

I agree with ur stance that she shouldn't be judged.

One should point out an anomaly when one sees one.

3coins: nope. . People are different. . I am always very plain. .i dont sugar coat my words. .i say things how it is in my mind and what i told her came straight from my mind...that is how i am

I don't care if you sugar coat your words or not. That's your business.


I've got one question for you though, why did you post her private issue here, something she probably told you in secret?
To get genuine advice or for people, who know nothing about her to judge her?

3coins: i cant believe you are on her side. . .giving examples with people living in the USA. . .and beauty queens MARRYING older men. . .hello? Are we talking about marriage here?. . .we are talking about a guy that wants to "chop and clean mouth" here. . .well. .your opinion sha. . .i wouldnt let my 17 years old daughter date a guy above 30. .maybe you can allow yours. . .i dont know

CosmicSensation: I'm not in support of the whole judgemental attitude being displayed here

BUT

If this 17 year old Girl in question were your younger sister, would u fold your
Hands and watch things unfold if u had the power to put an end to it?

CosmicSensation: I'm not in support of the whole judgemental attitude being displayed here

BUT

If this 17 year old Girl in question were your younger sister, would u fold your
Hands and watch things unfold if u had the power to put an end to it?

Good question.


If she were my younger sister, I won't judge her for starters.

I'll sit her down one on one and she'll list her reasons for been attracted to the older guy.

Is it the money, the sex or the security, that makes her see the stars and moon in his eyes?

(you'd have to make yourself trustworthy enough to get honest answers) if she replies honestly, you can make her see reasons why its wrong, socially, spiritually and even health wise.

The most important thing is to not judge her. Just make her see reasons and hope to God that she's smart enough to see things your way.

You could also access the dude if he's a player or if he's really serious before drawing conclusion.

CosmicSensation: at 17?

Yes, she's a year, if not a few months away from being legal.............she can do whatever she wants to.…eventually.

Beyonce was 17 when she met Jay z. Dating started when she was 18.

A few days back, I saw a thread hit front page about some of the most extreme marriages, you'll see 24 year old beauty queens with 70year old husbands.

It's their life, their choice.

I'm not saying its right, neither am I willing to justify her actions. But no one here should judge her like they have a perfect flawless life. (I blame the op for publishing it here, especially in the manner he did----like he expected the demeaning remarks and name calling).


Mr 3coins, if she's really your friend, we won't be talking about this right now.

Suley316: but he is an ugly tout who is supposed to be married andshe is about 13 years his junior and she shouldnt b thinking of marriage till shes in her twenties there fore in this case ill judge her at the speed of light

3coins: guys issue dey o

a close friend of mine(a girl) told me in a chat on fb today that she is dating a guy that is over 30. . This girl is just 17. . .this guy is ugly. . He looks like a tout. . And this girl is very beautiful. . To cut the long story short. . I asked her if the guy is spoiling her with gifts. . She said "no". . I bashed her like crazy,then i told her not to speak to me again till she ends that insanity. . Guys and girls. . What would a guy overy 30 be doing with a 17 years old girl?

tags: naijaboiy,neldrizzy,chizzy94,suley136,benromeo39,alikaxon,Gbemi00,kulkatty,pweetyz,modusOperandi. . .say something

Maybe she's tired of younger guys and just needs someone older and more mature to lean on emotionally......and maybe financially.



Or maybe she just wants to satisfy her 'curiosity' on why there's a big deal in dating older men.


Don't be quick to judge her.

njokusboy: No I won't, forget the English... most people won't care about it... people who don't stay here would automatically assume dis is what happens in Naija..

chimhigher: C UR MOUTH..MANAGE..WELL U CAN TURN DOWN UR ADMISN ND GO 2 A PRIVATE UNI..UR POPSI NA BABA OLOWO...FYI COMPANIES NO DEY USE UNIBEN CERT PLAY..

Who is arguing about Uniben Certificate?

All I said was compared other "big universities" Uniben lags behind these days. In both infrastructure and comfort. Don't interfere if you don't understand the argument.

chizzy94: That's to show the cankerworm has eaten deeply into Uniben .

*shrugs*



The least we can do is manage it. It holds our future after all.

Neldrizzy: what's good for the goose is good for the gender..... Why condemning uniben when no Nigeria university has recorded/recording a clean sheet... Most of you complain abt the poor state of uniben hostel, ask uniport studnt hw their hostel is, even BADDER than that of uniben, do you know MOST of IMSU hostels has no door Brother stop condemning Uniben...

This is just sad.




How can you compare Uniben to Uniport and IMSU?


That's just disgraceful.

Neldrizzy: and i can list tons of changes uniben has recorded for jus past 3 yrs!!! Hope you saw the new architectural building behind education faculty? While some buildings are still going on..... Are you aware that 3 uniben student won the BEST student in Africa for MPMG scholarship scheme sponsored by Airtel ??

After 44years, they are just introducing architecture as a course.
Even Ambrose Ali has Architecture.

Wow. .

Neldrizzy: has there been any changes in Nigeria as a country ever since we got independence ? The corruption has been there and its still there, stagnant.... See leave uniben oo. No be them start am

I could list tons of changes that Nigeria has recorded since 1960. From Health, to Telecommunication to Research and even Sports.

chizzy94: LOL.
What crowd? C'mon!

Exactly. The crowd in Unilag and Ui is way more.

Uniben staff are mostly inefficient.

chue: LOL.
Your love for Uniben ehn .
The rain had nothing to do with it. Even in 2012 when it was sunny they still didn't hesitate in delaying us. I vividly remember loitering around 500 or 1000 Physical Science or so sha for more than two hours just to right an exam.
Smh


D onli tin uniben is fast at doin is collectin script frm candidates even b4 d time limit

Fvcking true

Neldrizzy: sure they can!!!! Its a gradual step you know

Neldrizzy: are you aware some schools are yet 2 conduct their Post ume ?? FYI uniben admin is one of the fastest wen it comes to conducting of pume exam, releasing of result and admitting student, among it counterparts!

Fast?



Did I hear you correctly?! I wrote my pume in 100 Lt hungry, dizzy and frustrated because an exam scheduled for 1 pm began by 5pm.


My brother wrote Unilag pume in 40 minutes, with a computer! No stress. He's currently on faculty clearance...............that is the definition of fast. For a Federal institution Uniben is slow.

idiosyncrasy: uniben is still on session plus busy with the admissions of those we r to b cleared,likes of 2nd batch putme , pude among others. we gas wait!

That school is still in session shouldn't be an excuse, Unilag is also in session and clearance is on-going.



Uniben adminstration is naturally slow.

Lots of back door admission going on.

CosmicSensation: I can still help u out sha .

I sent u a pm a few days back btw, I wonder How much longer I have to wait for a reply.

Replied.

CosmicSensation: lol.
What's a 500 LT?
Oh that place!
I can't remember the last time I entered there sef.

So you've finally abandoned your career in glass cutting.

I was about coming to you for prescriptions.

CosmicSensation: lol. I should be the person asking that.

Not true. I'm always here.



How is 500 LT btw? Still rushing for seats?

CosmicSensation: . Lol. Boss abeg e don too late for washing na. When u come want mk I dry?

So you still remember NL?

pweetyz: To prove vhat i've been an ardent follower..lemme tell u of some of the babaz of the thread..NELDRIZZY..a rili funny nd carefree guy..BENROMEO..i think d last part of his name describes him he helped almost all nairalanders check their admission status..GUYZ U CAN RELY ON TO GIVE U ACCURATE SOLUTIONS TO UR PROBLEMS..ahika efedua ojingbe godwin aliaxon nd odas..D BABES OF THE THREAD..abel tessy itsaliyah ryota nd odas..so xowie if u wern't mentioned..the guys are so so fun..honorable pomk nd gatsgreat are both cool thoughi'm human so i 4got some names..my 2 best favouries are neldrizzy nd benromeo though..

Awwww.


How cute.

Thanks

Tayeurhobo: I still waiting for second batch, l have 55 aggregate and i put in for medicine. What course can i be given and is it sure my name will be out with second batch.

Drdonzeez: Have you been admitted into medicine??,,,,if yes,,you can still use it,,,,by the way,,,which course are you presently?

Yes.



Aeb.

CosmicSensation: that outburst was.


On a more serious note sha, maybe, just maybe changing ur font colour will stop whoever is coming from last year's thread from assuming you to be doc miss.

Yeeaah, that's not happening.



Purple is my color

CosmicSensation:

It's not funny.

odizeey: funny. but I Neva even see doc miss sec nawa o

Bia, this doc miss fellow should come and confess that this account is devoid of her influence.


ItsAaliyah is not doc_miss.

odizeey: u guys committed no offense. its just DAT any small tyn ''Warri Nor Dey carry Last''. who dey carry last nw? buhaha

Swagalord18: link

Seriously, how credible is that list?