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nlPoster:
Who is visiting and who is staying at the house?

Your write up is not clear.

24kmagic:
My type? What type is that?
"Understability", Seriously?
On the contrary, you're the one who lacks understanding of simple English. Did I say you asked him, madam graduate? I said you expected him to, just as you admitted in one of your replies. You didn't ask him, but of course you expected him to, because you have a vagina. And when he failed to give you the money, as expected, you denied him the one thing you can offer him, which is SEX.

Babe why na?
I de sure say na one yeye poly you finish from, coming here to form posh and Corper.

Just swerve biko

Don't quote me again.

Bye

24kmagic:
For a girlfriend that knows her guy's struggles, yet, keep expecting him to give her money, I don't know what words to describe such a girlfriend other than a bad, insensitive and parasitic girlfriend. Yea you're absolutely right, I don't have a relationship. I don't need a liability in my life, cos that's exactly what having a girlfriend means. My story is not on any relationship/romance section on any social media. I know that any penny I make is for myself only, not for me and one yeye thing. Like, I'm extremely free from all financial problems. Money for hair, money for tp, money for shoes, money for pad, money for everything. For what, sex? Nope, I can get sex without having to keep a liability in my life.

And thanks for the "stingy" compliment.
Go and work on that your yeye accent, it's annoying. It's allowed when speaking but not when typing.

Oreofepeters:
My dear calm down, we all know it's in the gene of every Nigerian girl to dump their so called soulmate when they are away and your guy is aware of that. The guy is just tryna avoid stories that touches the heart. Just tell him you are not going for nysc again and see how happy he would be.
Your girlfriend is yours when she's presently with you.
Once a girl go for nysc, the probability of fvcking male roomates is 50/50 even it doesn't exempt a married woman sef
Once you go, you go Abaddon am for another guy wey no get mouth odour and he knows. Abi no be u?

24kmagic:
He his, he hasn't,

Yoruba people, Una no de even fit hide this Una rubbish accent even for text?

Aboki.... Same thing
Inyamiri..... Same thing

Chai!

Now back to the matter.....

E good say him no give you that money (that is if him even get be that).

Cos once you go that NYSC, that guy go authomatically become ex. We Sabi Una type wella, na dem.

Which boyfriend will use his hard earned cash to initiate cheating in his relationship? Common, will you stay there and ride that nigga as he wants?

Rubbish.

Don't quote me

Oreofepeters:
Enough of this epistle. That is trying to save himself from breaks and some sort of of emotional blackmail.
Just like the guy above me said, we know una type once you enter nysc you go forget the him

Martinez39:
Did you ask him for the money directly or did you imply that you needed money? Let's start from there.

Kingoflotto:
Hmmm... Something is definitely wrong somewhere...if truly he used the money to buy the clothes then you guys need to have some serious talks about each other....relationships should be 50/50 and mutual understanding and interests should be paramount in sustaining it...let him know your mind and thrash it out... But be observant about his reactions and be on guard(your heart)cos in life shit happens while you source for the money elsewhere, don't try bugging him too much .... Just be matured about it...

Kingoflotto:
Hmm.... Waiting for the elders... I rarely comment on posts or anything here on nairaland but for some strange reasons I feel like commenting on your thread But before they come.... Because there are always two sides to a coin.. So from your own perspective... Did you offend him anyway or did you do anything wrong that have made him act like that...?

MedicH:
Somebody u call ur bf should be conscious of issues pertinent to u and going to camp is one. He just treated it non challantly and it makes me think he is bearing grudges. There's no part of nigeria now that 10k can't cover bus fare except in festive periods and that's chicken change. Why did he chose between clothes for a wedding and ur going to camp? How long have u two been together? Is there any where u dont meet his.needs?

MedicH:
Unfair, very unfair. There's more to this than what u just wrote so get his own side of the story. Where did you wrong him?

kiddoiLL:
I think you should've listened to him when he kept saying you guys should go to the park to go enquire fees for the transport. maybe he kept quiet because he wanted to know the amount it will cost so he'll split his budget? I don't know.
Maybe you should've had a little bit more faith in him when you kept reminding him no money but he stood with you going shopping and again asking you guys to go to the park. Faith? maybe....

Guess I lacked faith... But he shud have just opened up to me when I told him I wil b more sad if I just end up going to d park without d assurance of me going to camp... And from someobe telling me he his also broke... I don't think I lacked d faith either


On his part, his end game seems kinda immature, if he really knew how important this issue was and that you really needed to leave, he would've known better than to just stand up and go blow the money on clothes the minute you didn't show up. So I understand where your anger brews from, a more sensitive guy will know that in the end he needed to use the money for your trip

MrCork:
..are u half cast or lightskin?

MariaLavina:
I get you my sister, no be men? just go about it the way ladies have advised, help him seek solutions too and please create a bond/ friendship in your relationship it goes a long way.

Erediauwa:
Dear Itsjare,


If I may ask, how long have you guys been together?

I believe you were not blind to notice that he has a "Tinubu-like teeth" and "mouth odour" when he first approached you.... You saw and smell all these before you accepted to date him....

Why complaining when it's almost time?

If we decide to check your own flaws, it might not be pleasant to our sense of smell or sight.

Here's my advise; Remain where you're, playfully tell him to brush his mouth 3 times a day if he will stand a chance of feeling your lips and since you know he has a "Bright future" Be rest assured he can also have a "Bright Teeth"

MariaLavina:
Very well scripted!

BTW the bolded can lead to lot of issues that can be avoided if the situation is handled tactfully. Believe me, questions like so you've been avoiding me because of that? Do you even love me? how deep? can you even accept my flaws? oh what other things have you seen in me miss perfection? etc will begin to flow if care isn't taken.

Sometimes it's better going that way.(my suggested way out)