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Abuamam:
Your husband knows that you can copy the numbers to your phone. He probably trusts you not to call those numbers that could lead to dubious connections (you know what I mean). Your husband is more concerned that others from your past would try to contact you, and perhaps lure you into some uncompromising situation that could end up breaking your marriage. That is why he insists that you should break your sim. If he did not care about you, he would not have cared who does or does not call you.
The reason why he does not feel the need to break his own sim, is because such connections are usually initiated by the man, and he probably feels that he loves you enough not to initiate any such contact with anybody from his past.
Give it to him to help you break it. Copy the numbers that you need in his presence, with a running commentary all the way about who each person is. He will pretend he is not listening, but believe me, he is all ears. Assure him that you will never welcome calls from people that could give him cause to worry, and I assure you, your marriage will stand on a trusty foundation.

On the other hand, if he suspects your hesitation, alarm bells will ring, and there is no silencing those bells once they start.

word for who has ears! Forget these self-imposed feminists trying to break ur home. they accommodate more than that in other phases of their family lives.

RIP Madiba! Respect to the Legend!

Anglovel:
Congrats to her, Hajiya aisha pls transform taraba like u did at d high court abuja

but pls dont embezzle N32b like u did at d hct abuja btw 2003-2008;

oppressing xtians at d hct,

sleeping wth d Chief Judge,

frustrating Diligent moslem/xtian Magistrates who do their Legal duties Honestly out of Service .

....Embezzling Contractors Payments,

Usurping all d Judicary Abuja High Court Contracts,

CHOP ALONE,DIE ALONE!

STOP UR FETISH WAYS,TARABANS ARE NOW WISER,BE CAREFUL,

U WILL SUCCEED IF U CHANGE FRM UR EVIL WAYS,OR ELSE UR END WILL BE WORSE THAN SUNTAI S OWN,

UR 3 EX HUSBANDS.. ANGO ABDILLAHI, JUSTICE SIDI BAGE, ALHASSAN, HVE NOT FORGOTTEN HOW U USED DEM ND DUMPED DEM...

NO MATTER D PARTY U STAND TO RUN FOR,U R NOT PURE...ROTTEN ROOT/APPLE......

EAT DOT COM,ESTATES ALL OVER

ABUJA,PRIVATE JETS,"A" CLASS

GARDEN/BAR.......NOW U WANT

POWER,U R ALREADY A

BILLIONAIRE........

. had wanted to ignore ur post as a rant frm a detractor, but seeing d mention of 3 ex-hubbies for a role model to be, a supposed mother of a state, former civil servant with such opulence! I giv up. Anyways, I hope she wins & prove our moral theory wrong

When leaders are blessed with spouses who try to overshadow them, more problems are created more than solutions. Southsouth wd av bn more united had big mummy peace not created dis problem btw amaechi & oga jona. see what's brewing in bayelsa, d very home of oga, now.

our repressive culture in naija doesn't support creativity. talent is talent. we shd rather encourage every talented individual to use it for d good of d society. It reminds me of dis Benin boy dt wanted to fly to America by all means, nigerians began castigating d organization which offered to help develop his talent in a beneficial way.
southern nigeria is even more liberal, d north is far worse, dis probably accts for d high poverty rate & d holy social vices.
don't go to school.
don't do sports.
don't drum.
don't dance.
when dis talents are repressed for long, youths become frustrated, take to heavy drug use & ready to destroy at very least provocation.

OMG! Looks can be deceptive, never judge a book by its cover. I ask for His protective Hands on all of us here forever & ever more!

Yes! by rule. but we shd know dt killing more of our men cannot bring back d eroding discipline in d NA overnight. d judgmnt is enough alert to others who may like to toe dt ignoble path. nothing bad if our (civilian) c-i-c grants amnesty as an exception to this. We ve lost so many soldiers already.

NBS didn't goof, d Op did, probably deliberate as a sensation for readers' attention. how does percentage of those employed bcom economy's employmnt rate. chk d article again plsssss.

its heartwarming to see a nigerian here. we may not know his worth today but d future will give d vivid pic. NL has affected lives . soar, soar like d eagle seun! kudos to other talented young entrepreneurs yet unknown out there too.

with d demise of their rallying point- Amir Bashir Mohammed, d jittery camp commanders will begin taking decisions dt wd ensure their own safe landing now. its not out of their magnanimity, rather they re testing d ground after all dis years of negotiations.

oludolars: This is far away from a lexus Rx300.This is nothing but a cheap 1997 Toyota Harrier from Japan Converted from right hand drive to left by naija mechanics already giving issues.

1.No RX300 comes with Fabric seats leather seat is standard for all Lexus and not an option
2.No Rx 300 will have a toyota logo on the steering wheel.
3. The entire side glasses of Rx300 are branded Lexus not Toyota and the two rear and rear windshield and the entire rear side glasses are factory tinted
4.The the boot has fully exposed you as there is no Lexus RX 300 logo apart from the L
5.No lexus has manual seat adjustment but power seat adjustment
6The sound system of Rx300 is branded lexus and not unbranded like urs

This is a big insult to the prestigous Lexus.

I will neva allow anyone swindle innocent ppl on dis forum.The VIN has no relationship with lexus.

Post the VIN of the Vehicle if you can argue this over with mi.

Buyers shine ur eyes well!

. how I wish every section on NL is inundated wit peeps like dis oludollar. I mean pple who are experts in what they re doing; pple who would argue their points with convincing facts rather than insults; dis Land (NL) would av bn a paradise on earth!

Oshio is more qualified than many in d race going by antecedents, but naija with frivolous considerations like zones, tribes, religion might deny him. its luck dt took jona himself there, not dt he could hav got there on an ordinary circumstance.

Just a wk after talking Ribadu&company to back down for him as he promised not to contest 2015 election, journalists asked adamawa acting guvnor whether he still meant what he said. He told them to leave dt in d hand of God. Nigerians & gentlemen agreemt! If a nigerian promises heaven n earth without putting it on paper, to me its nothing. Jona is one of us, he rep our collective psyche. It seems to be deep in African blood. see Mugabe. OBJ d statesman couldn't help it with his 3rd term bid too. even our eggheads in d citadels of learning ar pushing for more years (holding unto few available spaces) despite brilliant youths roaming d streets looking for jobs.

Oga jona hasn't done any wrong here, its his duty. when he didn't visit chibok despite d initial cloud on d kidnap, we all booed him. his synagogue visit doesn't suggest attempt to shut out necessary investigations, its human lives dt are lost here, nigerians included pls!

Op. I can relate perfectly to d write-up. d battle of Vimtim has changed d configuration. d path frm mubi, mararaba, kwarhi, dzakwa, hildi, sabongarikuma, mampaya, uba, usara, bazza, hav sighted some peace. I found myself there last week. Bh mystery has bn unrafled & their end is near. d crackhead shekau is kind of jittery now, so much pain &misery caused by a handful of delusional misguided beings unknowingly backed by same peeps who eventually bcame helpless victims.

ilugunboy: Are you still one of those thinking it is still a coincidence that from all available jets in the Presidential fleet, the air force fleet and other numerous private aircraft in Nigeria.....the goverment saw only a jet owned by a close confidante of the President suitable for the assignment....?

Let's call it what it is......it was a MONEY LAUNDERING expedition that went awry.

You guys should leave Christians out of this....it was a monkey business involving a pastor .....that is all!

. fact!
ffk must hav had difficult moment trying to put up something dt would be readable. at d end he scored less than average.

Op, did u say Nig troops? No qualms, soon very soon, d entire citizenry & indeed d whole continent will heave a great sigh of relief. Those dt wish to celebrate would while those who want to brood can satisfy themselves. however let's remember those laying down their lives for us in d troubled times we are. tenks

Op. pls make a minor adjustmt to d title -Lent not borrowed. Now to d point, I assure u, ur aunt isn't saying all there is to d story. individual parties don't normally let out their own dark sides when making their cases. circumstances surrounding this scenario are more complicated than u ve just stated.

VirginFinder: Now that's impressive.
Kudos to our army.


But when will the hot pursuit of BH begin?
Eagerly waiting.

. Soon very soon, God blessing d NA.

dis post is one in a million, I can relate with almost all d points here. I get d mental pictures as I read along. Welldone OP, we need more of dis to shape d thinking generation on NL.tenks

Pls be aware dt bh established a strong base around gabun after almost wiping off d entire residents. d mountaineous terrain there is good for their operations & NAF has done some airstrikes there. Yola used to have two helicopters and two alpha jets, after d maidugri helicopter crashed, one was sent there leaving only one for surveillance now. Then dis jet disappeared on friday, and one of d newly acquired jets has been deployed &actively in use immediately. Yola still has two active crafts. Bh &their sympathizers hav no cause to rejoice. They won't hav breathing space again!

if peeps don't believe this, they re justified...but mark it, d true end of bh just began at vimtim. If sahara reporters n bbc who seemed to b on bh side cos they ve bn givin kind of balanced/true story could tell u this, know its true. out of about 8 camps, d only still strong ones are now about 4 mostly in yobe axis esp wit d crush of bama super command today. indeed d end is near for bh! kudos to our heroes, both d fallen & d healing. -soon & in d months ahead, we shall hav cause to heave a sigh of relief & giv thanks to Him.

hippyzuki: Thnk God Nigr no de this 1. We no kuku get airline talkless of the 1 way de crash...

. funny truth

Op. ur posts ar always deep research as if u ar being paid for such efforts. love it. keep it up.

Whether anyone likes it or not, BH's end is very close. Those innocent bloods spilled are crying loud for vengeance. We went in company of Borno guvnor & some NASS members to as close as Madagali bordering Gwoza & saw d devastation firsthand today. BH has pretty done their worst, thy shd wait for uncle nemesis.

Musiwa. dis ur advocacy would hav bn relevant to us in d south during Zik & Awo's era. With much respect to Sardauna, I guess dt is still much needed in d Northern part. Lack of basic western education is to blame for much of d religious militancy we are witnessing there now. It is an accumulation of long period of irrelevant not-so-useful kind of religious education dt made d youths unemployable after many years of deprivation. Then comes d frustration & tendency to vent it on d society.

Mimiy, I can assure u over 80% of NL members (my humble self inclusive) are of your class, forget all d braggings. dat's why u see them glued to d forum, at least what they can't do physically they do mentally. Online involvemt provides better accommodation. d emotional stress of trying to be like others, I mean extroverts, might be more than d likely reward, I know frm experience. Just try to be yourself.

Bob the GOAT! the legend lives on.

Op is in dreamland pls wake him up. Nigeria where after all d constituency allowance, a greedy lawmaker in d stateHA still manipulates d impeachment power in his possession to clear d road for him to be guvnor to enable looting unlimited.