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Elder001:
with money "nobody is ugly"


if there's money she can even purchase costly makeups and other stuffs that'll make her extremely beautiful.


beauty will fade away within 5-6years of marriage.

Make up can't really do much after awhile.

People who have lived in poverty tend to keep the mindset of poverty even after they have left that situation. The poverty mindset: get more!

Try to be in relationships with people that you know are from the same socio-economic background as you are. That way you both have the same goals and no one is lagging behind. Also, when entering a relationship it is important to make it clear to your partner what you are able to provide and your limits. If they have a problem with the expectations you have set they may not be right for you.


Just an extra bit for fun,
According to east asian belief, everybody has a soul mate, a person that they are destined to be with before eternity. Their souls are bound together by the invisible string of love and nobody can cut it. No matter how far that person is away the soulmates will eventually find eachother.

even if she was attractive the looks would have eventually faded, however money can last a long time if spent well. Suit yourself

[quote author=chendstone01 post=67626804][/quote]Nigeria of course

emmyid:
Ops! You even a lady? In fact "U deserve some accolades"

Everywhere I went the response was "Why is a lady buying a gun for?" "I can not give you a gun ma you are lady!" and other bs

emmyid:
Brave moves! Hope your gun is licensed though?

Yes, but it was very difficult. A lot of people don't feel comfortable selling guns to women apparently.

I was walking back from work one night by around 8 o'clock and a man was trailing behind me. I didn't think much of it until I noticed he started getting closer to me. I started walking faster, but was relieved when I felt my hand gun in my bag. Before I could open my car door he grabbed my shoulder. I was one step ahead of him. I kicked him directly in his privates, and hard. I was ready to shoot him but I drove off.

I'll never forget that night, and what could have happened if I wasn't prepared.

Just an opinion piece.

Many schools in other countried provide sexual education for kids as young as 10 and 11. Some prefer abstinence education while others support full sex education.
Most sexual education programmes consist of:

-Education of STD's

-Education on Birth Control methods

-Education on Pregnancy and abortions

-Education on consent and sexual harrassment

and etc.

What do you think?

And also half-cast or being mixed doesn't automatically make you light skin. Mixed can be anything
Southern Indian + Black = Dark Skinned

Black Jamaican + Nigerian = Dark Skinned

etc.

And also being mixed doesnt just have to do with race, I personally am Ivorian and Nigerian, I am mixed culturally.

This is mostly opinion, in fact, this is all opinion! The preference of light skin women is deep rooted in colonization and the ideals white colonizers pushed into the minds of Africans. Sadly, those ideals still stayed with us until today. Decolonize your mind!

It depends what you mean by "younger guy"
25 yr o woman and 20 yr o man
20 yr o woman and 18 yr o man
30 yr o woman and 20 yr o man
or
55 yr o woman and 35 yr o man

or
78 yr o woman and 67 yr o man

There are many possibilities

An African woman and her children were kicked off a United Airlines flight after a fellow passenger complained that she had a “pungent” odor, according to a racial discrimination lawsuit filed against the company.
The incident involving the passenger, a white male, happened two years ago, when Queen Obioma, a Nigerian citizen, and her two children were boarding a flight from Houston to San Francisco. The family had flown from Lagos, Nigeria, and were on the second leg of a three-flight journey to Ontario, Canada.
Obioma saw that the other passenger had sat in her assigned seat in the business-class cabin, according to the lawsuit, which was filed Friday in federal court in Houston. The passenger refused to move, so a flight crew member, instead, asked Obioma to sit elsewhere in business class.

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Later, before takeoff, Obioma went to use the bathroom. On her way back to her seat, the same passenger was standing in the aisle and blocking her from getting to her seat, the lawsuit says. She said “excuse me” three times, but was ignored. After several minutes, Obioma managed to squeeze her way to her seat.
But just after she sat down, a crew member told Obioma to go outside the aircraft, where another employee told her that she will be removed from the flight. The lawsuit says the pilot had personally requested that she be removed because the male passenger, who was not identified, had complained that her smell was “pungent,” and he was not comfortable flying with her.
“At that point Ms. Obioma was lost, confused and disoriented. Her mind went blank and she was utterly befuddled,” according to the complaint.
Obioma explained that she was taking her children to school in Canada for the first time, and that they had appointments they could not miss. Despite her situation, crew members refused to let Obioma back onto the aircraft and removed the entire family from the flight.
“Ms. Obioma watched her minor children marched out of the aircraft like criminals, confused and perplexed … She sobbed uncontrollably for a long time,” the complaint says, adding that the children, who were seated in the economy cabin, were humiliated.
United Airlines’s media office did not immediately respond to a request for comment Saturday. In a statement to the Houston Chronicle, a spokesman said the company has not been served with the lawsuit and is unable to comment because of the pending litigation.
Read More here: https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/nigerian-woman-kicked-off-united-flight-after-white-man-complained-she-was-‘pungent’-suit-says/ar-AAxaO1U?ocid=spartandhp

Consent means actively agreeing to be sexual with someone. Consent lets someone know that sex is wanted. Sexual activity without consent is rape or sexual assault.
DISCLAIMER: If there would be anything you would like to see in my series of sexual education posts please comment below; also comment if there I anything you would like to add to this collection.

What’s consent?
Sexual consent is an agreement to participate in a sexual activity. Before being sexual with someone, you need to know if they want to be sexual with you too. It’s also important to be honest with your partner about what you want and don’t want.
Consenting and asking for consent are all about setting your personal boundaries and respecting those of your partner — and checking in if things aren’t clear. Both people must agree to sex — every single time — for it to be consensual.
Without consent, sexual activity (including MouthAction, genital touching, and vaginal or anal penetration) is sexual assault or rape.
Here are the basics of consent. Consent is:

Freely given. Consenting is a choice you make without pressure, manipulation, or under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Reversible. Anyone can change their mind about what they feel like doing, anytime. Even if you’ve done it before, and even if you’re both naked in bed.
Informed. You can only consent to something if you have the full story. For example, if someone says they’ll use a condom and then they don’t, there isn’t full consent.

Enthusiastic. When it comes to sex, you should only do stuff you WANT to do, not things that you feel you’re expected to do.
Specific. Saying yes to one thing (like going to the bedroom to make out) doesn’t mean you’ve said yes to others (like having sex).
You get the final say over what happens with your body. It doesn’t matter if you’ve hooked up before or even if you said yes earlier and then changed your mind. You’re allowed to say “stop” at any time, and your partner needs to respect that.

Consent is never implied by things like your past behavior, what you wear, or where you go. Sexual consent is always clearly communicated — there should be no question or mystery. Silence is not consent. And it’s not just important the first time you’re with someone. Couples who’ve had sex before or even ones who’ve been together for a long time also need to consent before sex — every time.

There are laws about who can consent and who can’t. People who are drunk, high, or passed out can’t consent to sex. There are also laws to protect minors (people under the age of 18) from being pressured into sex with someone much older than them.

The age of sexual consent is how old a person needs to be in order to be considered legally capable of consenting to sex. Adults who have sex with someone younger than the age of consent face jail time and being registered as a sex offender. The age of consent varies in different parts of the U.S. and in different countries. There may also be other laws that define the age of sexual consent by state. Learn more about the laws in your area at the Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network (RAINN).

What’s sexual assault and what’s rape?
Rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse can have different legal definitions. In general, rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse are forms of violence in which there is sexual contact without consent — including vaginal or anal penetration, MouthAction, and genital touching.
In the U.S. the legal definitions of rape and sexual assault vary. Some states use these terms interchangeably, while others define them differently. Often, people will use the term “sexual assault” to refer to any kind of non-consensual sexual contact, and use the term “rape” to mean sexual contact that includes penetration.

Anyone can be a victim — no matter their gender, sexual orientation, or age. But certain groups of people are more likely than others to experience sexual assault in their lives. Women, people with developmental disabilities, and women of color are more likely to experience sexual assault over the course of their lifetimes.

Sexual violence doesn’t happen in one single way. There doesn’t need to be a weapon involved and the victim doesn’t need to have fought back, screamed, or said “no” repeatedly in order for it to count as rape or sexual assault. Most sexual assaults don’t happen by strangers in dark alleyways. Often, it’s someone the victim knows or even a romantic partner. If you or someone you know has experienced this type of violence, you’re not alone, and help is available.

You deserve to feel safe in your relationship. Emotional, verbal, or physical abuse is not your fault. Here’s how to recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship and get help.

How do I know if my relationship is unhealthy?
Sure, nobody’s relationship is perfect, and people make mistakes. But if you feel like you’re being treated badly, you probably are. Listen to yourself. Healthy relationships make you feel good about yourself — unhealthy relationships don’t.
Lying, cheating, jealousy, and disrespect are signs of an unhealthy relationship. So is trying to control a partner. That includes:

-keeping track of where they are and who they hang out with

-checking their phone or e-mail without permission

-keeping them away from friends or family

-telling them they can’t do certain activities

-preventing them from having money

What are the signs of an abusive relationship?
Anyone can find themselves in an abusive relationship, no matter their age, gender, or sexual orientation. Movies and TV shows that depict abuse might give you the impression that an abusive relationship is only when someone is getting hit or physically hurt. But there are different types of abuse that can affect your body, your emotions, and your self-esteem.
Physical abuse means hitting, kicking, pushing, or hurting someone in any way.
Sexual abuse is forcing your partner to do anything sexual, from kissing to having sex. When you don’t consent to sexual activity, it’s considered sexual assault or rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.
Verbal abuse is name-calling, put-downs, and using words to hurt someone.
Emotional abuse is when your partner tries to make you feel bad about yourself. That can mean hurting your feelings on purpose, jealousy, blaming you for the abuse, cheating, or continually criticizing you. Emotional abuse affects your self-esteem.
Reproductive control is pressuring your partner to get pregnant, end a pregnancy, lying about birth control, or other controlling decisions about pregnancy and parenting.

Threats and intimidation use the threat of violence or abuse to control a partner. Threatening children, suicide, or physical violence are all ways to control your behavior.
Isolation is controlling who you see, what you do, and limiting your access to friends, family, and other forms of emotional and financial support.
Each relationship is different, and the signs of an abusive relationship can vary. But all of these behaviors are ways that one person tries to maintain all of the power in a relationship and control their partner.
Sometimes abusive behaviors begin slowly and get worse as time goes on. If you’ve been feeling devalued, afraid, or controlled, get help. Everyone deserves to be in a relationship where both people feel safe and are respected, trusted, and loved.
How do I get out of an abusive relationship?

If you’re in an abusive relationship, know that you’re not alone and you deserve better. If your partner hurts you physically, emotionally, or sexually, remember: nothing you said or did justifies their behavior. Everyone gets mad sometimes, but talking things through is the way to deal with problems — not hurting you or putting you down.
Abuse doesn’t happen because you did something wrong, or weren’t good enough to prevent it from happening. Domestic abuse happens because someone made a choice to manipulate and control you to make themselves more powerful. Remember, you deserve healthy, happy relationships. Abuse of any kind is never OK.

When you break up with an abusive partner, it’s important to have a safety plan if you’re afraid they might hurt you, your children, or other people you love. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 6820 to get support and advice and check out their safety plan. If you’re in high school or college, you may find the safety plan at Love Is Respect helpful. If you feel like you’re in immediate danger, get away from your partner and call your emergency service number.

How can I help someone who’s in an abusive relationship?

Leaving an unhealthy relationship can be really hard and can take a long time. In fact, it takes an average of 7 tries before someone leaves an abusive partner for good. So don’t give up on your loved one if they’re not ready to leave or they keep going back. The best thing you can do is listen, be supportive, and when you get the chance, talk about how much better life could be.
Here are more tips:
Be supportive and listen patiently. Having you there and getting support can make a big difference.
Help your loved one recognize that abuse is not “normal” and they don’t deserve it.
If your loved one is open to leaving the relationship, develop a safety plan together and identify resources that can help. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is an anonymous online and phone service that can help.

Connecting with someone romantically, emotionally, and physically can be really amazing. But there's a lot of work that goes into building a good relationship.

What are some tips for having a great relationship?
No relationship is perfect all the time. But in a healthy relationship, both people feel good about the relationship most of the time. A great relationship takes more than attraction — it takes work, and both of you have to be willing to put in the effort. Here are some tips for building a healthy relationship:

Love yourself. Being comfortable with who you are means you’ll be a happier partner.
Communicate. Talk to your partner about your feelings. Ask questions and listen to their answers. If you’re upset, say so — don’t make your partner try to figure out what’s up. Talking through problems builds trust and makes your relationship stronger. And it’s not all about how to deal with your problems — don’t forget to let them know when something they do makes you happy.
Be honest. Be truthful with each other about what you do, think, and feel. Honesty creates trust. Few things harm a relationship more than lies.

Give each other some space. Couple’s time is great, but spending ALL your time together isn’t. It’s healthy to have your own friends and interests outside of the relationship.

Agree to disagree. You’re not always going to see eye to eye, and that’s OK. The important thing is to respect each other’s opinions and ideas.
Forgive and ask for forgiveness. Everybody makes mistakes. Be willing to apologize for yours — and accept your partner’s apologies.
Support each other. When your partner does something great, tell them! Your partner should do the same for you.
Talk about sex…openly and honestly. Telling your partner what feels good and what you like and don’t like helps you have better sex. Never pressure your partner into doing something they don’t want to do, or let your partner pressure you — consent is a must.
Take care of your sexual health. Talk to your partner about how you’re going to protect each other against STDs and unintended pregnancy. Practice safer sex and get tested for STDs.

How do I know if my relationship is healthy?

It’s good to check in with yourself from time to time to see how you’re feeling about your relationship. The questions below focus on romantic and sexual relationships, but they can apply to other kinds of relationships, too. After you’ve asked yourself these questions, it could be helpful to answer them again from your partner’s perspective.

Does your partner listen to and respect your ideas?

Does your partner give you space to spend time with your friends and family?

Do you have fun spending time together?

Do you feel comfortable telling your partner when something they do upsets you?

Do you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings?

Can you tell your partner what you like sexually?

Does your partner make an effort to get along with your friends and family?

Is your partner proud of your accomplishments and successes?

Does your partner respect your differences?

Can you talk to your partner about birth control and/or safer sex?

Relationships can be complicated, but if you answered “yes” to all of these questions, there’s a good chance you’re in a healthy relationship. If you answered “no” to two or more questions, you might be in an unhealthy relationship.
How can I make my relationship better?
Keeping your relationship in great shape definitely takes work. Talk to your partner about things that you think could be better. Be clear about what’s bothering you, and be respectful. Good communication is a big part of solving problems. If you have trouble working through things on your own, you might consider getting help from someone outside your relationship. Sometimes talking with a counselor or therapist can help couples work through issues and improve their relationships.

What Exactly Are STD's?
STDs are infections that are passed from one person to another during vaginal, anal, and MouthAction. They’re really common, and lots of people who have them don’t have any symptoms. STDs can be dangerous, but the good news is that getting tested is no big deal, and most STDs are easy to treat.

Types of STD's


Chlamydia
A very common STD caused by a bacterial infection. Often doesn’t have symptoms, but easy to treat once it’s diagnosed.

Genital Warts
Growths on the genital area and around the anus. Caused by certain types of HPV.

Gonorrhea
A common STD caused by a bacterial infection. Often doesn’t have symptoms, but easy to treat once it’s diagnosed.

Hepatitis B
A virus that can cause liver disease, which is spread through sex or sharing personal hygiene items like razors or toothbrushes.

Herpes
A common STD that infects your mouth and/or genitals. Causes blistery sores. There’s no cure, but symptoms are treatable.

HIV & AIDS
HIV is an infection that breaks down your immune system and can lead to AIDS. There’s no cure, but treatment can help you stay healthy.

HPV (Human Papillomavirus)
A super common STD. HPV is usually harmless and goes away by itself, but some types can lead to cancer.

Molluscum Contagiosum
An infection that causes small bumps on your skin. It goes away by itself and usually isn’t dangerous.

Pubic Lice
AKA “crabs.” Small parasites that attach to the skin and hair near your genitals. Easy to get rid of with treatment you can get at the drugstore.

Scabies
Scabies are tiny parasites that cause itching. Passed through skin-to-skin contact, usually during sex. Can be cured.

Syphilis
Syphilis is a common bacterial infection. It’s easily cured with medicine, but it can be dangerous if you don’t treat it.

Trichomoniasis (Trich)
“Trich” is a major cause of vaginitis. It’s very common and easily treated.

What should I think about before raising a child?

Raising a child is a full-time job. Thinking ahead about the challenges you’ll face and the support you’ll need can help you prepare to be the best parent you can be.
What support will I need if I have a child?
Whether you’re a single parent or parenting with someone else, a child needs nonstop care and attention. Having a partner and/or family members to share the work of parenting makes the job a lot easier. Most parents need help, especially when it comes to money and time. The kind of support parents often need includes help with running errands, getting clothes and baby supplies (hand-me-downs are really helpful), babysitting, and just having someone to talk with.

Parenting with a partner is usually easier than parenting alone, but it can put some serious stress on even the best relationships. Raising a child on your own has unique benefits and challenges. Either way, being realistic about your day-to-day life and the support you’ll need is important when you’re thinking about raising a child.

How will parenting work with my partner and me?
Parenting with a romantic partner or a co-parent helps both parents feel supported, and many couples enjoy sharing the responsibility of raising a child. Creating a family with someone can be really rewarding, and it may even bring you closer together.
But most people find that having a child tests even the strongest relationship in ways they don’t expect. Sometimes the stress is just too much and the relationship doesn’t last.
Either way, your relationship with your partner will change when you have a baby. Parenting together takes good communication and a commitment to stick through the hard times. If you’re considering parenting with a partner, here are some questions to think about:

Is our relationship healthy enough to provide a loving and stable home for a child?

Do we agree on when to have a baby?

Will we communicate openly and honestly with each other?

Will we share the financial responsibility of caring for our child?

Will we share the day-to-day work of caring for our child?

Do we agree on how child care and/or daycare is going to work?

Can we deal with the strains that pregnancy and raising a child puts on relationships?

If our relationship ends, how would we continue to parent?

Talking about these questions together can help you figure out if the two of you have similar expectations about having a baby. No matter what, parenting with someone else takes teamwork, patience, and compromise. It works best when both people are deeply committed, and agree on what they each expect from the relationship and raising a child together.

How do I parent without a partner?
Many people find themselves parenting on their own, or they choose to become single parents. Being a single parent can be tough, but it’s definitely not impossible. Plenty of people do it, and many single-parent families are healthy and happy. Parenting on your own has unique advantages, too. You won’t have to make compromises with a partner, so you can raise your child exactly the way you want — with your values, principles, and beliefs.

For most people, raising a child on their own is also super challenging. The responsibility for your child is 100% on you, and you may have to make a lot of sacrifices that you don’t expect. For example, it may be harder to find and keep a romantic relationship as a single parent.
If you’re planning to raise a child without a partner, questions about money, career or school, and other types of support can be even more important.
Ask yourself:
What would raising a baby by myself mean for my future goals and plans?

How much support will I have from my friends, family, and community?

Can I handle the financial responsibility of caring for a child on my own?

Can I handle the day-to-day work of caring for a child on my own?

Who will take care of my child when I’m working or going to school? Can I afford child care/nanny/babysitter?

Is there someone I trust who is willing to take care of my child at the last minute if I get sick or have to stay late somewhere?

How will I feel if having a child makes it hard to find a romantic relationship?

If you're thinking about parenting on your own, talk with your family and friends about the help you’ll need. Be realistic about how much time, energy, and money the people in your life can give to you and your baby. You may also be able to get help from certain government programs, but they usually only cover part of what you need to provide for your child.

I’m ready to have a baby. What should I do now?

Having a healthy pregnancy starts BEFORE you get pregnant. Once you’ve decided you’re ready to have a baby, visit a doctor or your local Planned Parenthood health center for preconception care. Your nurse or doctor will talk with you about things like your physical health, your mental health, your diet, and your lifestyle. They’ll also give you any exams or screenings you might need so you can go into your pregnancy as healthy as possible.

Contact your local Planned Parenthood health center to make an appointment for preconception care, or for help finding a doctor in your area. Some local health departments or community health clinics may also provide preconception care.

When is the right time to have a baby?

Becoming a parent is a big deal, and there’s a lot to think about. Everyone’s situation is different, but the decision is personal and only you can know when you’re ready.

Why do people decide to become parents?
Parenting can be joyful, rewarding, and life-changing — many parents say it’s the best decision they ever made. The loving bond you share with your kids and the pride you take in your child’s accomplishments can be really fulfilling.
Raising a child not only takes a lot of love, it also takes a lot of energy and patience. Your child’s needs will change constantly as they grow. As a parent, your job is to figure out what your child needs to live a happy and healthy life, and do your best to help make it happen.
Raising a child can be easier to handle if you have realistic ideas about what it means to be a parent.

Can I meet all of my child’s needs?

Even though it can be fun and satisfying, parenting is also super hard. Children depend on you for EVERYTHING, including food, shelter, safety, affection, love, and guidance.
Ask yourself if you have what you need to take care of a child, like:

Time — raising children is a super-important full-time job, and it can impact your other plans and goals.

Energy and care — children need parents who are loving, patient, and involved.

Planning — raising a child takes day-to-day planning and long-term planning for all the stages of your child's life.

Material things and money — children need clothes, diapers, food, health care, day care, etc.

Parents have to give up a lot for their children, and meeting your child’s needs can be frustrating and challenging. People who are raising kids usually get less sleep and don’t have as much time to do things they need and want to do. Having a baby is expensive, and many people find parenting hard financially.
Most people don’t realize how much work raising a child takes until they’ve actually experienced it. Talking with other parents about the joys and struggles of parenting can help you figure out if you’re ready to raise a child.

When should I have a baby?

Even though a lot of people expect to recognize the “perfect time” to have a baby, the reality is the timing may never feel totally perfect. But certain points in our lives are usually better than others to become a parent — like when you know you can meet your child’s needs and give them a loving and healthy home.
It’s normal to have lots of different feelings about whether you’re ready to take on the challenge of parenting. Here are some things to think about:
1.Am I ready to be totally responsible for all of my child’s needs?

2.Will I be able to raise my child in a safe and healthy environment?

3.Can I afford to raise a child right now?

4.Who will I raise a child with? How will we share the work of parenting?

5.How much support will I have from my family and friends?

6.What would having a baby right now mean for my future?

7.How would having a baby right now affect my family?

8.Is someone pressuring me to become a parent?

9.Am I ready to go through pregnancy and childbirth?

10.Will I be able to take care of my health and get prenatal care in order to have a healthy pregnancy and child?

Parenting is a lifelong commitment. So no matter when you decide to become a parent, you’ve got to be totally sure it’s what you want to do for a very long time.

What is the birth control implant?

The birth control implant (AKA Nexplanon) is a tiny, thin rod about the size of a matchstick. The implant releases hormones into your body that prevent you from getting pregnant. A nurse or doctor inserts the implant into your arm and that’s it — you’re protected from pregnancy for up to 4 years. It’s get-it-and-forget-it birth control.

What is the birth control patch?

The transdermal contraceptive patch is a safe, simple, and affordable birth control method that you wear on the skin of your belly, upper arm, butt, or back. Put a new patch on every week for 3 weeks, and it releases hormones that prevent pregnancy. Then you get a week off before you repeat the cycle.

What is the sponge?

The birth control sponge (aka the contraceptive sponge or “the sponge” for short), is a small, round sponge made from soft, squishy plastic. You put it deep inside your vagina before sex. The sponge covers your cervix and contains spermicide to help prevent pregnancy. Each sponge has a fabric loop attached to it to make it easier to take out.

What is the birth control ring?
The birth control ring (AKA NuvaRing) is a safe, simple, and affordable birth control method that you wear inside your vagina. The small, flexible ring prevents pregnancy by releasing hormones into your body. The ring is really effective if you always use it the right way.


What is the birth control pill?

Birth control pills are a kind of medicine with hormones that you take every day to prevent pregnancy. There are many different brands of pills. The pill is safe, affordable, and effective if you always take it on time. Besides preventing pregnancy, the pill has lots of other health benefits, too.

What is the birth control shot?

The depo shot (AKA Depo-Provera) is an injection you get from a nurse or doctor once every 3 months. It’s a safe, convenient, and private birth control method that works really well if you always get it on time.

How does breastfeeding prevent pregnancy?

When you exclusively breastfeed — meaning you nurse at least every 4 hours during the day and every 6 hours at night, and feed your baby only breast milk — your body naturally stops ovulating. You can’t get pregnant if you don’t ovulate.
No ovulation means you won’t have your period, either. That’s why breastfeeding-as-birth control is also called the lactational amenorrhea method (LAM). “Lactational” refers to breastfeeding, and “amenorrhea” means not having your period.

What is a cervical cap?

A cervical cap is a little cup made from soft silicone and shaped like a sailor's hat. You put it deep inside your vagina to cover your cervix.
The type of cervical cap that you can get in the U.S. is called FemCap®.

What’s a diaphragm?

A diaphragm is a form of birth control that’s a shallow cup shaped like a little saucer that's made of soft silicone. You bend it in half and insert it inside your vagina to cover your cervix.

What is a female condom?

Female condoms are an alternative to regular condoms. They provide pretty much the same great protection from pregnancy and STDs. What’s different about them? Instead of going on the penis, female condoms go inside your vagina for pregnancy prevention or into the vagina or anus for protection from STDs. They’re sometimes called internal condoms or referred to by their brand name, FC2 Female Condom®.

What are Fertility Awareness Methods?

Fertility awareness methods (FAMs) are ways to track your ovulation so you can prevent pregnancy. FAMs are also called "natural family planning” and “the rhythm method.”

Birth Control Implant
The implant is 99% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your implant to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Birth Control Patch
The patch is 91% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your patch to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Birth Control Pill
The pill is 91% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your pill to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Birth Control Shot
The shot is 94% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with the shot to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Birth Control Sponge
The sponge is between 76-88% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your sponge to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Birth Control Vaginal Ring
The ring is 91% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your ring to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Breastfeeding as Birth Control
Breastfeeding as birth control is 98% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom for help stopping STDs.

Cervical Cap
Cervical caps are between 71-86% effective. They don’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your cervical cap to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Condom
Condoms are 85% effective. They help protect you from STDs. Use another birth control method with your condom for even more pregnancy preventing power.

Diaphragm
The diaphragm is 88% effective. It won’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your diaphragm to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Female Condom
Female condoms are 79% effective. They help protect you from STDs. Use another birth control method with your female condom for even more pregnancy preventing power.

Fertility Awareness Methods (FAMs)
FAMs are between 76-88% effective. They don’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with FAMs to help protect you from pregnancy and STDs.

IUD
The IUD is 99% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with your IUD to help stop pregnancy and STDs.




Outercourse and Abstinence
Abstinence is 100% effective. It also protects you from STDs.

Spermicide
Spermicide is 71% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom with it to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

Sterilization (Tubal Ligation)
Sterilization is 99% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom to help stop STDs.

Vasectomy
Vasectomy is 99% effective. It won’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom to help stop STDs.

Withdrawal (Pull Out Method)
Withdrawal is 78% effective. It doesn’t protect you from STDs. Use a condom and withdrawal to help stop pregnancy and STDs.

What’s the average age people lose their virginity?

The average age when people have sex for the first time is 17. Sometimes it may seem like everybody at your school is doin’ it, but that’s usually not true. Only about half of high school students have ever had vaginal sex. And most teens who have had sex don’t do it very often.
Choosing to have sex for the first time is a big decision that’s very personal. People think about lots of different things: religious, spiritual, and moral beliefs; family and personal values; desire; love; and/or relationships. Whatever your reason is, it's important to wait until you're sure you're ready to have sex.

Lots of teens who've had sex say they wish they had waited. If you’ve already started having sex and want to stop, that's totally okay — just because you've had sex before doesn't mean you have to do it again. People can be abstinent (not have sex) at any time, for any reason. And some people choose to never have sex — that’s totally okay, too.

Try not to worry too much about what other people do. When you lose your virginity isn’t as big a deal as making sure you and your partner are ready for sex. If you have sex just to fit in, it probably won’t be a very good experience. It’s better to wait to have sex until you feel totally ready — and are prepared for some of the possible consequences of sex (like pregnancy or STDs).


Does it hurt to lose your virginity?

The first time you have vaginal sex, it may hurt, or feel good, or both. There might be pain and bleeding the first time a penis or fingers go into your vagina, but it doesn’t happen to everybody. Some people naturally have more hymenal tissue than others — this pain and bleeding can happen when their hymen gets stretched.

If pain and bleeding doesn’t get better after the first time you have vaginal sex (penis-in-vagina), you can slowly stretch your hymen tissue with your fingers over time to make it less painful. In rare cases, people may need to see a doctor for a small procedure to open their hymen. If you're worried about your hymen or have pain during sex, talk with your doctor or visit your local Planned Parenthood health center.
You may also have pain or irritation during vaginal sex if your vagina isn’t lubricated (wet) enough. It’s totally normal to not have a lot of vaginal lubrication, and it doesn’t mean anything’s wrong with you or your partner. Using lube can help make sex more comfortable. It may also help to wait until you’re fully turned-on before putting anything in your vagina.

For people with a penis, penis-in-vagina sex isn’t usually painful. Sometimes friction during sex causes irritation on your penis, but using lube can fix this. If you have pain in your penis or genitals during sex, it could be a sign that something’s wrong. Go to a nurse, doctor, or your local Planned Parenthood health center to get checked out.

Anal sex may hurt the first time (and every time) if you don’t use lube. The skin on your anus and rectum is delicate, and it doesn’t make its own lubrication the way vaginas do. So using lube reduces friction, which helps prevent pain and tearing.
Going slowly and making sure you’re relaxed are also important. Some people don’t ever like the way anal sex feels, even if they do all these things — that’s totally normal and okay.

Nobody should have sex that feels uncomfortable or painful. If something hurts, stop. And if you’re having pain during any type of sex that doesn’t go away, visit your doctor or your local Planned Parenthood health center.

Can you get pregnant when you lose your virginity?
YES!
Whenever semen (cum) or pre-cum gets in your vagina, pregnancy can happen — whether it's your first time or your hundredth time having sex. Pregnancy can also happen if cum gets on or near your vulva (your outside genitals), or if fingers that have wet cum on them touch your vulva or vagina. Remember: it only takes one tiny sperm to cause pregnancy. Read more about how pregnancy happens.
That’s why lots of people use birth control and condoms whenever they have sex. Using birth control is the best way to prevent pregnancy if you have penis-in-vagina sex. Adding condoms gives you extra pregnancy protection and — BONUS — helps protect you from STDs, too.

Is it possible for a penis to not fit into a vagina?

It's possible, but it’s not very common. Vaginas are pretty stretchy. Most vaginas are between 3 and 7 inches long. And vaginas can stretch much longer and wider during sex and childbirth. But rarely, some joysticks won’t fit comfortably into some vaginas.
If a penis goes very deep in your vagina and hits your cervix or other areas, it can feel uncomfortable or painful. You can usually avoid it by trying different positions, going slower, or asking your partner not to put their penis in as deep.

A virgin is someone who’s never had sex. But people define “sex” and “losing virginity” in many different ways.


What does it mean to be a virgin?


A virgin is someone who’s never had sex — but it’s not quite as simple as it seems. That’s because sex means different things to different people, so virginity can mean different things, too.
A lot of people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity. But this leaves lots of people and other types of sex out of the picture.


Some people haven’t had p-in-vagina sex, but they’ve had other kinds of sex (like oral intercourse or anal sex) — and they may or may not see themselves as virgins. And there are lesbian, gay, or bisexuals who may never have penis-in-vagina sex at all. But they probably don't see themselves as lifelong virgins just because they haven’t had p-in-vagina sex.

Many people believe rape and sexual assault aren’t sex — it’s only sex if both partners have consent. So if someone was forced or pressured the first time they had vaginal sex, MouthAction, or anal sex, they may not see that as “losing their virginity.”

Bottom line: the definition of virginity is complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what you believe. Some people don't even care what “virginity” means or think it matters. Stressing about whether you’re a virgin is way less important than how you feel about your sexual experiences. Ask yourself: are you happy with the sexual experiences you've had or decided not to have?


What’s a hymen?

The hymen is a thin, fleshy tissue that’s located at the opening of the vagina.
There’s a lot of confusion about hymens out there. Many people think the hymen totally covers the opening of your vagina until it’s stretched open, but that’s not usually the case. Most of the time, hymens naturally have a hole big enough for period blood to come out and for you to use tampons comfortably. Some people are born with so little hymenal tissue that it seems like they don’t have a hymen at all. In rare cases, people have hymens that cover the entire vaginal opening, or the hole in their hymen is very small — they may need to see a doctor for a minor procedure to remove the extra tissue. Just like other parts of our body, hymens are a little different for everyone.

Your hymen can be stretched open the first time you have vaginal sex, which might cause some pain or bleeding. But this doesn’t happen to everyone. And there are other ways that a hymen can be stretched open: riding a bike, doing sports, or putting something in your vagina (like a tampon, finger, or intimacy gadget). Once your hymen is stretched open, it can’t grow back.

Does having a hymen mean you’re a virgin?

Some people believe that you’re not a virgin if your hymen is stretched open. But having a hymen and being a virgin are not the same thing.
Some people are born with hymens that are naturally open. And many other activities besides sex can stretch your hymen. So you can’t tell if someone has had sex by the way their hymen looks or feels.

I don't know why most women in Nigeria primarily use pads when there are other options such as:
Tampons
(You insert the tampon into the vagina and take it out)

Natural Period Sponges
(Insert and remove)

Menstrual Cup
(Insert and remove when cup is full)

Stay woke ladies.

There are period panties that serve as a reusable pad but in the panties and they're easy to wash. I get my own from https://www.shethinx.com/

DISCLAIMER: There were many NGO programmes in Abuja specifically, many of which I listed here. If there's anything you would like to see added to this list in the future please leave any comment.


International Institute of Tropical Agriculture - http://jobs.iita.org/eRecruit/Home/GetDocument/2452

United Nations - https://careers.un.org/lbw/jobdetail.aspx?id=96038

United Nations Office for Project Services - https://jobs.unops.org/Pages/ViewVacancy/VADetails.aspx?id=15462

Helen Keller International - https://www./job/549384/nutrition-program-officer-helen-keller-international-hki-in/

CAFOD (Catholic Agency For Overseas Development) - https://www./job/549169/programme-officer-peace-building-and-governance-nigeria-cafod-catholic-agency-for-overseas-development-in/

FHI 360 - https://fhi.wd1.myworkdayjobs.com/en-US/FHI_360_External_Career_Portal/job/Abuja-Nigeria/Audit-Analyst_Requisition-2018200938?mode=job&iis=Indeed&iisn=Indeed.com

THE CENTRE FOR DEMOCRACY AND DEVELOPMENT - https://www./job/549093/programme-officer-anti-corruption-the-centre-for-democracy-and-development-cdd-in/

SOCIETY FOR FAMILY HEALTH - https://www./job/549298/mobile-interface-officer-society-for-family-health-sfh-in/

Deutsche Gesellschaft für Internationale Zusammenarbeit (GIZ) - https://jobs.giz.de/index.php?ac=jobad&id=index.php?ac=jobad&id=37034
(german company)

MERCY CORPS - http://jobs.jobvite.com/careers/mercycorps/job/oAuf7fwa?__jvst=Job%20Board&__jvsd=Indeed

MALARIA CONSORTIUM - https://ng.indeed.com/viewjob?jk=53a31352ad1185ab&tk=1cd0tjq281bad199&from=company

UN WOMEN - https://jobs.undp.org/cj_view_job.cfm?cur_job_id=78731

UNITED NATIONS (UN) - https://careers.un.org/lbw/jobdetail.aspx?id=96756

UNICEF - https://www./job/549006/ta-programme-assistant-hact-gs-5-the-united-nations-childrens-fund-unicef-in/

English Language Teacher
Noble Hall Leadership Academy for Girls - https://www./job/549614/english-language-teacher-noble-hall-leadership-academy-for-girls-in/

DANGOTE - https://careers.dangote-group.com/Applyprojects.aspx?FvzGJuoNo7dyRDLoemNuOA==

UNITED NATIONS DEVELOPMENT PROGRAMME -https://jobs.partneragencies.net/psc/UNDPP1HRE2/EMPLOYEE/HRMS/c/HRS_HRAM.HRS_CE.GBL?Page=HRS_CE_JOB_DTL&Action=A&JobOpeningId=16165&SiteId=2&PostingSeq=1&PortalActualURL=https%3a%2f%2fjobs.partneragencies.net%2fpsc%2fUNDPP1HRE2%2fEMPLOYEE%2fHRMS%2fc%2fHRS_HRAM.HRS_CE.GBL%3fPage%3dHRS_CE_JOB_DTL%26Action%3dA%26JobOpeningId%3d4097%26SiteId%3d2%26PostingSeq%3d1&PortalContentURL=https%3a%2f%2fjobs.partneragencies.net%2fpsc%2fUNDPP1HRE2%2fEMPLOYEE%2fHRMS%2fc%2fHRS_HRAM.HRS_CE.GBL&PortalContentProvider=HRMS&PortalCRefLabel=Careers&PortalRegistryName=EMPLOYEE&PortalServletURI=https%3a%2f%2fjobs.partneragencies.net%2fpsp%2fUNDPP1HRE2%2f&PortalURI=https%3a%2f%2fjobs.partneragencies.net%2fpsc%2fUNDPP1HRE2%2f&PortalHostNode=HRMS&NoCrumbs=yes&PortalKeyStruct=yes&

RUSSELSMITH GROUP - http://russelsmithgroup.com/jobs/procurement-administrator/

PETRONOMICS LEARNING AND DEVELOPMENT - https://www./job/549609/paeaadmin-officer-petronomics-learning-and-development-in/

WORKFORCE GROUP - https://www./job/549671/retail-sales-officer-workforce-group-in/

JUSTICE AND EMPOWERMENT INITIATIVES - https://www./job/549058/creative-media-officer-justice-and-empowerment-initiatives-nigeria-in/

BRADFIELD CONSULTING - https://bradfieldconsulting.has-jobs.com/admin-program-officer-for-an-ngo-lagos/198167/0

AIICO INSURANCE - https://www.pushcv.com/jobs-in-nigeria/job156c57a/Relationship-Executive-at-Aiico-Insurance-in

NIGERIAN STOCK EXCHANGE -
https://www.nse.com.ng:8443/careers/#/vacancy/68

Ikorodu, Lagos State, Nigeria




Performance and specifications
Property Type
House
Total Rooms
1
Bedrooms
1
Bathrooms
more than 5
Parking Space
Yes
Ad details
Now officially opened for Business is Caritas Event Hall. The exquisite, stunning, spacious, state-of-the-art hall can seat 800-1000 guests, and is fully air-conditioned.
Perfect for that dream Wedding, Concert, Birthday celebrations, End-of-year parties, and so much more. If you truly want your event to be special, then come celebrate @ Caritas Halls.
Special Features:
- Fully air-conditioned hall
- Spacious parking space.
- Playground for kids.
- Well-built and air-condiitioned Male and Female Toilets.
- Uninterrupted power supply
- With big Standby Generator.
Also available for rent for your occasions are:
- Event Planner and hall décors
- Live Band
- Concert Equipments
- Stage and Lighting Effects
- Entertainment Gadgets (pyrotechnics, confetti, smoke machine)
- Professional Caterers
- Photographers, and lots more.
For bookings and more info, call us today @ Caritas Events on 08033434632

DISCLAIMER: I am not the owner of this information, the originial post can be found HERE: https:///ikorodu/commercial-property-for-rent/800-seater-ultra-modern-event-hall-for-rent-10275851.html?cur_pos=2&pos=2&page=1&ads_count=2&ads_per_page=2

Taiwo20:
Post pictures and price

Price ₦370,000

Mushin, Lagos State, Nigeria



Make
Volkswagen
Model
Golf
Year of manufacture
1998
Trim
1.9 D Cabriolet
Colour
Red
Condition
Nigerian Used
Transmission
Automatic
Mileage
112366, km


Ad details
1.) BRIEF DESCRIPTION ENGINE: very good engine condition, ARMS AND LEGs: In order Transmission: 5 speed Automatic transmission , Selecting at its best. AIR CONDITION: Not chilling sir . Body type: sedan, (First Body, Factory Paint) Interior: Fabric Music player: Fm player, 6 Alloy wheels/Tires: Alloy wheels, Good tires Spare tire, Jack, wheel spanner: (2.) POSSIBLE FIXES AND ISSUES ONE NEED TO RECTIFY AFTER BUYING? Whatever you want to do is to your taste, in order to make the vehicle more good looking in your own way. (NIGERIAN USED, BUT TOKUNBO engine and gear driving STANDARD, KICKSTART AND TRAVEL) (3)Papers relating to d said vehicle: 1. Lagos cleared Custom duties papers 2. Vehicle particulars (4) WHERE EXACTLY IS THE VEHICLE? Location: Ayantuga/kumuyi junction by AP bustop mushin lagos (How to locate easily will be further explained, when you call) (5) CONCLUSION The sincere condition of the vehicle has been stated here, kindly call for inspection , you are free to come with anybody for inspection. For more information: Call

07084752475

DISCLAIMER: I am not the owner of this advertisement. Original ad can be found HERE: https:///mushin/cars/clean-volkswagen-golf-3-1998-red-11416621.html?source=main_page

Why get people just let their hair breath?! When you bombard your head with weaves and don't leave it every once in awhile your hair will start to break off. Be warned, all these girls you are messing with can be slowly going balled under the Brazilian weave.

Let's do like the Russians and overthrow the government!
Kill the corrupt leaders, imprison those left, and leave the country to the people!