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Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Ivorianaija(f): 11:56pm On May 25, 2018
"Orientation change
If being gay is truly a choice, then people who attempt to change their orientation should be able to do so. But most people who are gay describe it as a deeply ingrained attraction that can't simply be shut off or redirected.
On that, studies are clear. Gay conversion therapy is ineffective, several studies have found, and the American Psychological Association now says such treatment is harmful and can worsen feelings of self-hatred.
For men, studies suggest that orientation is fixed by the time the individual reaches puberty. Women show greater levels of "erotic plasticity," meaning their levels of attraction are more significantly shaped by culture, experience and love than is the case for men. However, even women who switch from gay to straight lifestyles don't stop being attracted to women, according to a 2012 study in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior.
Those results suggest that while people can change their behavior, they aren't really changing their basic sexual attraction."
Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Ivorianaija(f): 11:51pm On May 25, 2018
The Caucasian race was formed through a genetic mutation in humans thousands of years ago. Does that make them unnatural?
Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Ivorianaija(f): 8:25pm On May 25, 2018
mhisbliss:
cheesyIs that all?

All I am saying is that you shouldn't just form your opinion without doing research on it first and having solid evidence. The bible is not a primary source due to the constant changes that have been made. How do you know that the translation you are reading is even accurate? The bible was originally in Hebrew, then translated into Greek, from Greek it was translated into Latin, from Latin to Spanish, and from Spanish to English. How are you sure there were no mistakes in between all of those translations.

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Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Ivorianaija(f): 8:20pm On May 25, 2018
mhisbliss:
What matters is, its unafrican today, i wasn't there yesterday but I'm here today

This is an example of someone becoming completely brainwashed by colonialism. Clap for yourself

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Romance / Re: I'm So Down Right Now, How Do U Handle Heartbreak. by Ivorianaija(f): 8:06pm On May 25, 2018
The best thing to do is give yourself time to reflect. 6 years is a long time to spend with someone. Give yourself some time before you start dating again, whenever you're ready you can find someone who actually appreciates you.

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Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by Ivorianaija(f): 8:02pm On May 25, 2018
mhisbliss:
I came across a thread where a guy claimed he discovered his sister is a lesbian, some of the comments on that thread got me annoyed and amused, most of the comments were "She's born that way, its natural" i know that this comment is influenced by the western world but we're not like them, we have norms, culture and a way of life, and we're supposed to be who we are.

Theres no evidence anywhere to prove that homosexuality is natural, it cannot be genetically or biologically defined, theres no gene responsible for homosexuality, and nothing about the human anatomy suggests homosexuality is natural, if you examine the male and female sex organ you'd know that it is designed to complement each other, and to reproduce, both needs to work together, therefore by design, we're supposed to be heterosexual not homosexual,

Our culture frowns at it, it is clearly unafrican, abnormal and every religion frowns at it, including christianity
Romans 1:26–27 follows this same reasoning. Paul says that men abandoned the natural sexual function of women and engaged in unnatural sex with men. His words make it clear that homosexual behavior is unnatural because it is a rejection of God’s design for sex. Homosexual desire, then, would also be unnatural for the same reason: it drives people to abandon the natural design and function of human sexuality.

No one is born gay, its a psychological and societal problem and it needs to be curtailed as soon as it is discovered.


Unafrican you say?

Africans did not think that homosexuality was wrong until the Europeans came and introduced them to the Bible. Isn't there a quote that says "We were given the Bible, and they took our land"

Most of the concepts that we condemn are largely brought to us by the Europeans that colonized us. Event the bible that you reference was given to us by the Europeans. Before you say that the bible was written by middle eastern men, the bible we know today has been severely edited for hundreds upon thousands of years to suit the way people wanted it. Think for yourself, not for the white man.

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Romance / Re: Young And Unmarried Girls Wearing Wedding Rings. by Ivorianaija(f): 7:54pm On May 25, 2018
Picture this:

A woman is knocked down and she falls, people see the ring on her finger, "How dare you knock down somebody wife"

A woman is knocked down and she falls, no ring, single lady, *people go along there business*

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Fashion / So, You Want To Go Natural?: The Basics Of Natural Hair #teamnatural by Ivorianaija(f): 12:01am On May 25, 2018
Going natural is a big step in achieving healthy hair, and healthy hair is the best hair. First let me inform you of the dangers of relaxers/perms:

Breakage
Next, another related issue, using relaxers has a tendency to cause breakage. Given that relaxers permanently alter your natural hair texture, your hair will become weaker and more likely to break. Over time, this can cause serious breakage to various areas of your hair, if not all of your hair in general.

Scalp Infections
Another fairly common issue among those who rely on relaxers for hair straightening, scalp infections are very serious and can cause massive and irreversible. In fact, several consumers have had to file lawsuits to attempt to rectify the issue. These serious infections can cause permanent bald spots and often have to be treated by a professional.

Respiratory Issues
The number one reason why relaxing your natural hair is dangerous for your health, they can literally cause health problems. Filled with very strong chemicals (such as lye), the chemicals in relaxers can affect both hairdressers as well as the ones receiving the relaxers. Breathing in the chemicals on the regular basis or even periodically, and over time, can cause symptoms such as prolonged sneezing, coughing, wheezing and other respiratory issues. These symptoms can be all the more damaging to those with pre-existing respiratory issues.

Are you scared yet?

Moving on, before you even consider going natural you should think of how you are going to do it. Will you let the under-growth of your natural hair keep growing and then you cut off the relaxed/damaged hair at the end, cut away the relaxed hair and grow out and maintain whatever is underneath that, or you could just shave your head completely down and grow your hair out all over again. This all depends on you and what you think is the most beneficial.

After you have decided upon this, the next step is to identify your hair texture. The type of hair you have will dictate the type of products you can and can not use. At the bottom of this page is a hair texture chart if you are not sure. Most black people tend to have hair texture ranging fro 3a (curly) to 4c (kinky/coily). Type 4 hair tends to absorb a lot more moisture than looser hair textures do therefore they need to constantly be moisturized. Never let type 4 hair become completely dry. I repeat, NEVER LET TYPE 4 HAIR TO BECOME COMPLETELY DRY OR YOU SHALL SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES! When Type 4 hair is dry it starts to tangle and then you will have to detangle and it will become painful.
Type 3 hair is similar but not completely the same. Type 3 hair doesn't need as much moisture to be maintained. In fact, when there is too much moisture in type 3 hair it becomes crinkly and smells a bit odd. You don't want smelly hair.

There are many things you can do with your natural hair such as dreadlocks, sisterlocks, twists, braids, braid extensions, and you can still straighten it without chemicals. I personally have had sisterlocks (tiny dreadlocks) for the passed 5 years and they grow long very quick in my own opinion. You can also still wear a wig with your natural hair under as long as you have a protective style under. A protective style such as cornrows/braids is good to have under your wig cap.

If you have any questions please comment and I would be happy to answer! grin

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Romance / Re: Understanding The Secret Language Of Women by Ivorianaija(f): 11:17pm On May 24, 2018
Lazyreporta:
Lazyreporta is a romance blogger..

If you want money, go to finance section.

By the way, read to understand..
Don't quote me if you only read the headline, Abeg.

Only 3 out of every 100 guys really knows how to handle their women.

Be among "the 3% men!!!"

Learn to listen as a man...
It's not what she says but what she does!



Cc: Dominique

Where are you getting these illegitimate statistics? They are almost as illegitimate as you.
Education / Re: Is A Foetus A Parasite? by Ivorianaija(f): 11:12pm On May 24, 2018
Yoruba4Life:
Wait... what's all these 'Encyclopedia' terms and biology jargons on here?

Abeg, make I commot before dem talk say I no go school now grin

Uneducated person in a conversation of the intellectuals. Please stay in your lane.
Romance / Re: Man Beats His Wife Black & Blue For Refusing Him Sex On Daily Basis (photos by Ivorianaija(f): 10:00pm On May 24, 2018
The amount of abuse Nigerian women endure is astonishing.
Romance / Re: Let's Take Time To Appreciate Our Dark Skin Beauties And Melanin Queens by Ivorianaija(f): 9:54pm On May 19, 2018
what has my thread turned into?
Romance / Does Anyone Else Remember This Song? by Ivorianaija(f): 4:09pm On May 19, 2018

Romance / Re: Let's Take Time To Appreciate Our Dark Skin Beauties And Melanin Queens by Ivorianaija(f): 1:47pm On May 19, 2018
You need some more melanin beauty in your life

Romance / Re: Let's Take Time To Appreciate Our Dark Skin Beauties And Melanin Queens by Ivorianaija(f): 12:22pm On May 19, 2018
Let me bless you with some more

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Romance / Looking Classy And Expensive (even When Your Bank Account Isn't Looking To Good) by Ivorianaija(f): 3:41am On May 19, 2018
You don't have to spend thousands to look classy. There are so many ways you can style yourself, so you can look like you spent almost a forutne at a designer shop. It all comes down to picking the right peices, wearing the correct fabrics and when all else fails ACCESSORIZE! Every woman wants to feel like a million dollars. But you have to look the part to be the part.





1.Leather Jackets -

These jackets look great as long as you stick to a certain style. Modern cuts and silhouettes work best. Just make sure to stay away from leather jackets that are covered in shiny buttons, fringe, and too many zippers. The key is to keep it simple if you want to look as sophisticated as possible. Make sure to get lightweight faux leather jackets to accomodate to your climate.


Pick the Right Fabrics! -

One of the easiest ways to spot cheap clothing is to look at the material it's made of. Most cheaper peices are constructed of inexpensive fabrics such as polyester, rayon, acrylic, and nylon. Instead try to select luxe fabrics that will last longer over time, such as suede, cotton, and linen. If you're looking for a cheaper option try a cotton and polyester blend.

Buy Designer Inspired Pieces -

Just because you may not be able to afford designer pieces doesn't mean you can't enjoy wearing items that look like they cost you a fortune. Many shops offer clothing items and other items that look almost exactly like designer items but at a cheaper price.

On amazon.com you may find designer bag look-alikes such as Ainifeel and Cherryhill. Remember to keep your bags simple! No rich woman would be caught dead with a bright patterned bag.

Wear More Black

Wearing black gives you a slim look and also makes you look very classy. Black is a neutral color so it can be paired with anything. Add more neutral colors to your closet such as nudes, whites, and the occasional light pink.


Simple Lipstick Colors

The best lipstick colors are nudes, reds, and pinks. Also keep in mind what matches your skin tone. The best lipsticks for darker women are deep reds and browns. For lighter skin tones the best lip colors are bright reds, and pinks.

Wear Pointy Shoes
Pointed shoes add a posh flare to your outfit. Be sure to add pointed flats and heels in neutral colors for an even more polished look. If you must wear printed shoes make sure your outfit is solid color to balance out the patterns.

Sunglasses

Sunglasses have the ability to make anyone look like a hollywood star. Make sure to pick a style that flatters your face, but a general good look for anyone is oversized pairs. They instantly add a bit of glamour to any outfit.


Links to some fashionably classy websites:
https://www.amazon.com/Ainifeel-Womens-Padlock-Shoulder-Handbags/dp/B01MQF5D80/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1526697525&sr=1-1&nodeID=7147440011&psd=1&keywords=ainifeel&dpID=41oOIEPCsNL&preST=_SX395_QL70_&dpSrc=srch

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00SXVPTUO?aaxitk=ppTwcIl.5o28pb.7Jg.eRQ

https://www.amazon.com/Actlure-Cowhide-Leather-Crossbody-Shoulder/dp/B01FW1BBN6/ref=sr_1_2?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1526697635&sr=1-2&nodeID=7141123011&psd=1&keywords=designer+dupe+handbags&dpID=41STdKWaUnL&preST=_SY395_QL70_&dpSrc=srch

Romance / Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Ivorianaija(f): 2:37am On May 19, 2018
Therealev:
It's natural. Human wants is insatiable. If Billionaires ain't satisfied with the money they have, don't expect human to be satisfied with anything. Be it, Love Live, Finance or Position, they always want to move to the next one. And the biggest curse that happened to Love is Monogamy. If there wasn't Monogamy, there won't be anything like cheating. You like a Woman, you marry her instead of going through the sad route of divorcing one to be with another. Or while being with one, you're stealing out with another. Abraham wasn't monogamous, Isaac wasn't, David, Solomon and I'm sure from my Muslim counterparts' point of view too, most of the prophets didn't preach monogamy (I'm open to correction). As long as there's Monogamy, there'll be a constant instance of cheating and a higher rate of divorce. Even the tongue and the teeth disagree, let alone two people from different backgrounds. And don't even mention Love, that shid is outplayed and overrated. Tolerance and Compromise is what keeps relationships these days. #My2Cents

I hope you are okay with women being in polygamous relationships too? Like you said it's natural. Or do men think that when a woman comes across a handsome man she will look away.

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Romance / Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Ivorianaija(f): 2:33am On May 19, 2018
Eventually when your woman gets tired of all of your shit she will go out and find a better man. Unless she's depending on you, which will force her to stay with you because you are her source of income. And this is how women become trapped in relationships.

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Romance / Re: PORN: Nairalend.com Will Be Turned To A Porn Site. Advice Please. [PICTURE] by Ivorianaija(f): 2:27am On May 19, 2018
Most good quality websites take a long time to build if you want any fancy features.

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Romance / Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Ivorianaija(f): 2:23am On May 19, 2018
What's the difference between side chick and second wife? Polygamy is polygamy. Prove me wrong

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Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by Ivorianaija(f): 2:17am On May 19, 2018
Try to ask questions other then "How are you" and "What are you doing"

If you ask boring questions you will get boring answers
Romance / Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Ivorianaija(f): 2:12am On May 19, 2018
Sometimes a man will have a romantic relationship with his partner and they are in love. However, they may have different sexual needs. In some cultures a man will have his romantic partner, the woman he is in love with and they have a family with, and his sexual partner for his sexual needs. The sexual partner understands her role in the relationship and may even have a romantic partner of her own. The wife may have a sexual partner if she pleases. Your love is one way and your lust is another. Maybe Nigeria could pick up on this practice
Romance / Let's Take Time To Appreciate Our Dark Skin Beauties And Melanin Queens by Ivorianaija(f): 1:54am On May 19, 2018
Everybody seems to be obsessed with light skin women, but dark skin girls have their flow. Let's give them their credit.

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Romance / Re: Lady Share Photos Of Made In Nigeria Toys She Bought, & They Will Scare You(pics by Ivorianaija(f): 1:40am On May 19, 2018
At least children are having toys that look like them. Would you have your child playing with a white doll with long blonde hair and blue eyes? Or a beautiful black doll with big chocolate brown eyes and large beautiful lips, a reflection of themselves.

here are some better quality black dolls for you to enjoy:

Romance / Re: How Can You Keep Up With A Girl That Replies Your Chat With "Yes,ok,no,fine,? by Ivorianaija(f): 1:33am On May 19, 2018
Maybe you should just call. Would you rather have credit or a relationship?
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Ivorianaija(f): 1:31am On May 19, 2018
I think every woman should establish herself before thinking of any kind of relationship. You should never depend on anybody for anything, because when that person decides they are done with your shit you will be left with nothing.
If your boyfriend make ₦100,000 per month and your girl ₦100,000 per month, you put one and two together and you have enough to support each other.

This is what having a spending plan is for! You should learn from Cote'd'Ivoire!

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Romance / Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Ivorianaija(f): 1:26am On May 19, 2018
It's funny how many guys expect their woman to stay with them after they've cheated, and sadly some of them will. But when their woman even breathes in another man's direction he will go cow-mad!

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Romance / Re: 10 Categories Of Guys That Don't Deserve Virgins As Wives by Ivorianaija(f): 1:24am On May 19, 2018
Many Nigerian men realize that maybe the girl who isn't a virgin didn't lose it because she wanted to but by force. Stop and think before calling someone a LovePeddler.
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Romance / Re: Wife Doesn't Seem To Care About Her Appearance by Ivorianaija(f): 8:51pm On May 17, 2018
And you yourself have you been keeping up your own appearance? Empty ocean calling melted ice dry.
Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by Ivorianaija(f): 8:40pm On May 17, 2018
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Romance / Re: Nairaland Men, Stop Wasting Your Time On Unattractive Girls. by Ivorianaija(f): 8:27pm On May 17, 2018
It seems as if you people don't have life away from this website. Don't you have jobs? School work? Wife? Kids? mtcheeew

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