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1stGerman:
I don't know if it's only me or there are others like me.
I will start a relationship with a lady, promise I wont cheat (which I mean most time). But along the line the sex becomes boring. I don't feel the urge when I'm with her again. Sometimes my peninsula won't even rise to the occasion!

But when I move to another new girl the urge comes back and my peninsula becomes very active and effective.
Recently I met this girl and I really like her but the same thing is playing out again! The sex was great at the beginning but now, it's not so again.

How do I make this stop cos it's preventing me from long time commitment.

From the way you talked it seems you are still a child.. I never meant that as an insult, I mean that you should understand that sex is not just about putting your pennisula in a vagina and thrusting in and out, you have to spice it up... I am sure you have never done sex positions like the cavemen, or roleplay or had sex in the kitchen or in the public before.. these are things which are meant to spice sex up...

Let me tell you something, sex will never be the way it was at the beginning, it will starrt to get boring and that is why it has to be spiced up...

wow

I laugh scatter

Ubenedictus:
the pope never said hell doesn't exist, the existence and eternity of hell is part and parcel of Catholic dogma

Hmmm

Marriages and relationships scatter because people are confused...

Love is not a physical quantity and it is not a feeling either, love isn't about caring at all... Love isn't about helping someone actually... Love goes beyond that and that is what most people don't get...

In the end most people don't date becausee of love but just because of their emotions and one thing about emotion is that they change... A time goes on the feeling of touching an iphone X fades away so the same way the feeling of being happy with someone fades away and that is why love is not a feeling...

To answer your question, relationship scatter because as time goes on those feelings that brought both of you together fade away, thye change and you find out you can't stand the same person you wouldn't live without and you find out you can have sex with the same person that keeps your thing at attention daily... Feelings have changed so you can't tolerate each other anymore, feelings have changed so you expect him/her to do some things like house chores, share money, have great sex and is any of them is not giving enough there becomes a problem and that is because the strong feelings you once had that made you tolerant and caring and always seeking for each other's happiness is fading away.... That is why people cheat, to get that feeling again...

Love is not a feeling, it is not about caring, helping and doing the best for another person...