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Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Ken4Christ: 9:57pm On Apr 26, 2018
Broken relationships and marriages are common things people experience on a daily basis. Why do you think they happen?
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by misreal(m): 9:59pm On Apr 26, 2018
Satan...
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Martinez19(m): 10:03pm On Apr 26, 2018
1) ego. Some can't say sorry or yield when necessary to their spouse. They want to flex their wings all the time.
2) unrestrained sexual appetite. Infidelity.
3) unrestrained interference by a third party particularly in-laws.

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Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by PlsBanMe: 10:26pm On Apr 26, 2018
Lack of commitment and respect for ones partner.
Believe me, if both partners have sense of commitment, they will weather all storm. If one's partner is respected, you won't hurt their feelings to the extent of irreconcilable differences.
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Slimdoug(m): 11:24pm On Apr 26, 2018
The man goes broke, then tries to double his hustle, then finds himself getting more stressed, but he is not going to give up just yet. So, he tries harder and goes harder. He wakes up very early in the morning and retires very late at night. He pushes even harder, because he loves his wife and kids. But with the stress comes a downturn of testosterone, and then a lack of libido, and then john Thomas keep sleeping when it's time to work. It then gets to that point. No money, no good sex, no joy at home. But madam must wack! Madam must be fuçked hard. Harder and harder. Madam must be happy like her mates.

So, she starts to throw tantrums. Like a kid, she throws her toys out of the pram. She talks to her girls about her man's deficiencies, and incapability, and lack, and laziness, and foolishness! And then her girls says yoo! Babes, why you dey dull??! Make we burst your farome! The next day, she is out late, and then the next day, and then the next weeks and months.

Seeing this, the man tries to take charge of his home, albeit, the wrong way. He stamps his foot. No! This is how I want it and so shall it be. Still high from the sweet smoke of her escapades, she says No Way! And then, in that still moment, a swift, heavy but directed arm lands on her left jaw, and then some more arm shots are forgotten on her face in quick succession...

...to be continued.

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Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Ken4Christ: 10:16pm On Apr 27, 2018
Is it dependent on wealth? What about Dangote the richest man in African who has divorced thrice?
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by asksteve(m): 10:37pm On Apr 27, 2018
Martinez19:
1) ego. Some can't say sorry or yield when necessary to their spouse. They want to flex their wings all the time.
2) unrestrained sexual appetite. Infidelity.
3) unrestrained interference by a third party particularly in-laws.

Some people get married to physical appearance n not character, unlike our parents dat consider beauty after being satisfied with her character.

Some get married cos others are n not cos they've found dat special person they want to spend the rest of their life with.

Others get married for wrong reasons n when the chips r down, d marriage simply crashes.
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Nofav0rs(m): 11:20pm On Apr 27, 2018
Because love is not enough. For a successful marriage/home, it takes more than love

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Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by Twoclans(f): 11:55pm On Apr 27, 2018
For marriages :
1,Money issues (lack of it or too much of it)
2,Lack of good sex and cuddlings
3, Any form of violence either domestic or emotional violence.
4,Giving birth to too many children (imagine a woman taking care of eight children within the same age bracket without a help in the house)
5, Social Media
Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 8:49am On Apr 28, 2018
Twoclans:
For marriages :
1,Money issues (lack of it or too much of it)
2,Lack of good sex and cuddlings
3, Any form of violence either domestic or emotional violence.
4,Giving birth to too many children (imagine a woman taking care of eight children within the same age bracket without a help in the house)
5, Social Media

The no1 will only come into effect if both parties aren't contributing

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Re: Why Do Many Relationships And Marriages Crumble? by IwillSucced(m): 11:58am On Apr 28, 2018
Marriages and relationships scatter because people are confused...

Love is not a physical quantity and it is not a feeling either, love isn't about caring at all... Love isn't about helping someone actually... Love goes beyond that and that is what most people don't get...

In the end most people don't date becausee of love but just because of their emotions and one thing about emotion is that they change... A time goes on the feeling of touching an iphone X fades away so the same way the feeling of being happy with someone fades away and that is why love is not a feeling...

To answer your question, relationship scatter because as time goes on those feelings that brought both of you together fade away, thye change and you find out you can't stand the same person you wouldn't live without and you find out you can have sex with the same person that keeps your thing at attention daily... Feelings have changed so you can't tolerate each other anymore, feelings have changed so you expect him/her to do some things like house chores, share money, have great sex and is any of them is not giving enough there becomes a problem and that is because the strong feelings you once had that made you tolerant and caring and always seeking for each other's happiness is fading away.... That is why people cheat, to get that feeling again...

Love is not a feeling, it is not about caring, helping and doing the best for another person...

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