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FamilyRe: Ladies, Is It Right To Choose Friends For Your Husband? by iyaegbe(op): 3:30pm On Aug 13, 2009
Thank you all for your various contributions.

I have tried to suggest making friend with the lady in question earlier but she said she can't. That she expects her to naturally interact with her the way she interacts with her husband but she isn't doing that (I think she needs to be the one to initiate this abi?). They talk and greet only not as best friends, its not that they are strangers.

Why she is very sure there is nothing between them according to her is that her parents' inlaw told her the lady in question is a distant family (cousin's cousin, cousin kind off) when she tried to report the case to them. The lady is a about the same age with the husband's family kid sister (early twenties) who happens to be very free with all the husbands family. I told her to do what she thinks best but also be careful.

Personally I find it hard to see any problem here (I can't tell her this though).

They have a wedding program tomorrow, she's inviting me so I can see the lady in question.
FamilyLadies, Is It Right To Choose Friends For Your Husband? by iyaegbe(op): 3:15pm On Aug 11, 2009
She is my good friend, she is happily married (at least in my own thinking).

She just left my place. She said her marriage is hell that she has always been in pains for the past five years she's married. I asked her what happened because to me she's been having the fun of her life.

She said her husband is truly the kool type, easy going and relatively wealthy. Neither drink nor smoke and surely not into womanizing which is what most women want. His only problem is that he has a lady friend whom she doesn't want around him and he has refused to cut off from the lady (because they have been friends for a long time). Asked if the husband is dating the lady in question, she said no that she is at least 95% sure he is not dating her. Her words, "he is not dating her, that I am very sure of but they are talk over the phone too often. I am sure they don't meet cos my husband hardly goes out without me". Asked if her husbands loves her as a wife, she said yes very much. He gives what she asks for, all but to cut off this lady.

Her worry and cause of pain is how to make her husband to totally forget about this lady. Please what advise can I give my friend?
Nairaland GeneralThis Earth, Other Planents, Heaven Or Hell by iyaegbe(op): 5:58am On Jun 10, 2009
I think want to travel to one of these two places. People are talking of traveling out of Nigeria but it appears the outside world is more dangerous. Outside there are different types of flu, serial killers, Earthquakes, suicide bombers, financial crisis, racists and so on. Just wondering if there is anyone that has really been to other planets like jupiter, mars and or even heaven or hell (apart from what we hear or read about them) that can advise me on what to do. I think I want to relocate, who knows, the outside world might worth more than this earth.
BusinessRe: What's The Best Courier Company For Shipping Within Nigeria? by iyaegbe(f): 1:19am On Jun 09, 2009
Strange but true, EMS is the best within Nigeria when you talk about courier services. I have tried DHL, FedEx and UPS. When your shipping to big cities like Abuja, Port Harcourt the DHL and co are effective but cities like Lokoja, Benin, Auchi (from experience ooo), they are not effective.
RomanceRe: Internet/cyber Flirt by iyaegbe(op): 11:10pm On Jun 08, 2009
Thanks for all your contributions. I think I will have to stop it since the majority said it is bad. My husband is not seeing anything bad in though. He even calls on me when the guy comes online (when at home). We seat together to reply his chats atimes, its fun. Though he has forbidden me to let him see my picture of give him any number if he asks. After reading all your comments, I have decided to put a stop to it.

Once again, thanks to you all.
RomanceInternet/cyber Flirt by iyaegbe(op): 7:12am On Jun 08, 2009
Is it really wrong to be flirting on the internet? I met this guy online, never seen him before (and would probably never see him). We chat on messenger everyday. My colleagues said it is bad because I am married. I don't know if the guy is married or not but I don't really see anything bad in it. help me out, is it bad?
PropertiesRe: Best Land Bargain In Tanke ( Ilorin) by iyaegbe(f): 9:19pm On Jun 06, 2009
What's your contact email? Lets talk
PropertiesRe: Land For Sale In Ilorin(tanke) by iyaegbe(f): 9:15pm On Jun 06, 2009
You have an email address?
PropertiesIn Need Of Agricultural Land by iyaegbe(op): 3:57am On Jun 04, 2009
I need some acres of Land for agricultural purpose in Kwara State, reasonably close to Ilorin, the capital city. Let me know if you can help.

Thanks.
AutosRe: Order Your Car Of Chioce And Get It In 30 Days No Advance Payment! by iyaegbe(f): 8:43am On Feb 29, 2008
Hello Vanesa, please how much will it cost me to get a clean low mileage 2007 Nissan xtera to Lagos. Please give me the quote for both 2WD and 4WD. Either manual or auot transmission would do. All other color but red and white is okay. Interior could be leather or cloth, peferably cloth. Thanks.
ComputersHelp Me Solve This Problem With My Computer by iyaegbe(op): 11:24am On Oct 31, 2007
My computer is giving me this message anytime I want to put it on , Plug and play plug in error, stike F1 to boot, F2 to run set up. Please how do i go about solving this problem?
PropertiesRe: Home Plans For Bungalows In Nigeria? by iyaegbe(f): 1:57am On Aug 23, 2007
I will be greatful to have a good building plan for a four bedroom bungalow (all ensuite) with two living rooms and a study. I need this for my brother who is willing to build in 9ja. Reach me on iyabo.olufemi@yahoo.com. thanks
AutosRe: Need Nigerian Used Car In Top Condition by iyaegbe(f): 1:28pm On Aug 08, 2007
Viperman,
Could you please post the pix?
AutosRe: Need Nigerian Used Car In Top Condition by iyaegbe(f): 2:27pm On Aug 07, 2007
Please how much can I a clean Acura legend, 1996 model?
EducationUnilorin At It Agian Oooooo by iyaegbe(op): 6:27pm On May 10, 2007
My sister received a call from one of her room mates today that all their belongings has been thrown out from the hostel. The reason according to the student affairs' messengers (Porters) is because they have moved all the departs in the mini campus to the Parmanent Site and so all students are expected to move out of the hostel.

What baffles me in this is that the school is not making provision (for hostels in the PS) for these affected students. Meanwhile they paid for a full session of two semesters. Thay have spent only one semester and their goods are being thrown out like a landlord ejecting tenants who refuse to pay their rents.

Please fellow Nairalanders, what do u think can be done about this?
BusinessRe: Setting Up A Reputable Boutique by iyaegbe(op): 5:53pm On May 10, 2007
hola2ng:
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Business Plan -[/b]How about starting with a business plan which should contain whatever information is needed to decide whether or not to pursue your goal.
[b]Research/Feasibility study
-Do your research and feasibility study. Go out and visit other boutiques around, see the way they operate,the kind of customers they deal with, where they source their supplies from, etc.
Target audience- [/b]who is your target audience? Students, teenagers, workers, etc ?
[b]Location-
where is it going to be located, bearing in mind that the more highbrow the area is, the higher you'd more likely pay as rent . Also consider power problems, security, tax and Local govt. dues etc.
Capital- what available capital do you have. What are your cost and revenue estimates, etc all these really matter a lot.
[b]Competition- [/b]Who are your competitors. What are the things that'll make your boutique stand out from the rest, because believe me there are many of them out there.
Many other things for you to consider like finance, operations management, and marketing, among others. You need to take things one at a time.

Hope that helps, wish you all the best with your plans.

Thanks for these highlights. I have done the first two. Just settled on a location. I sure hope to beat the competitors.

globalaid, I will holla you once I am set.

Thanks all for the contributions.
BusinessSetting Up A Reputable Boutique by iyaegbe(op): 6:06pm On May 07, 2007
Please I need your help/assistance as to steps in setting up a reputable boutique that will deal in ladies and men's wears. Like how much would I need to achieve this and also what are the logistics involved in setting up this kind of biz.

Thanks
InvestmentRe: Stock Market Tips For Nigerians by iyaegbe(f): 11:59pm On Mar 29, 2007
Ooooh, this is a wonderful site. Thank you for your replies. I think I would settle with Lead securities as it appears to be the one that is affordable (at least for now) though I think it will be better for me to wait till after election.

Yes, I have already bought some IPOs. I have been buying IPOs for sometime now but just for the sake of buying. I never understood what I was doing, only doing it because friends and colleagues were doing it.

Thanks, thanks and thanks
InvestmentRe: Stock Market Tips For Nigerians by iyaegbe(f): 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2007
Hello all, I am new to Nairaland and to shares as well. Reading through this trend has greatly increased my interest in buying stocks. I need a broker. Please does anybody know how much it costs to get an account with BGL, Cashcraft, Zenith Securities and or Lead Securities. Which is the best and why? Thank you for your anticipated assistance.

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