DiAmOnDrUbY:
It is very simple.
..Pick a nairalander
..Ask the person to pick either truth or dare (kindly note that you should answer your question as truthful as you can)
..Let the game begin

I'll start..
Kingrex1, what is your biggest turn off in a partner?

Liability:
I just fvck now now


pree.eek sweet oooo

tomquest:

Several years ago while I was doing my NYSC in Rivers, I had this little bit older lady crushing on me. I had met her while working as an INEC ad hoc staff and she was really nice. Because I was such a guy who was always busy at work and leisure, I didn't really notice how deep in love this lady was. I thought we were just ordinary friends.

Few weeks into our friendship, and after visiting her several weekends and having very nice social times with her little family (she lived with her cousin brother), she insisted on visiting me in company of her cousin brother. I obliged. But to my utter surprise, she showed up alone at the Corpers' Lodge. It was around 6 pm.

Once we got in my room and talked for a while, she was all over me, breathing hard. I was shocked and a little perplexed. Not to act like a "Jew man" I had to respond to her kisses but held back my hands. Hers were already wandering nervously around my back and then down my zippers.

I told her "No please we can't do this, I'm really sorry"...

She thought it was a big evening joke but I insisted. I explained to her that we were merely friends and, also, she should recall that she once told me that she's engaged to a certain guy. How on earth am I supposed to make out with an engaged lady? That was gross to me. She was really upset and disappointed and later left angry and sad.



The second time I experienced something similar was about 3 years ago when I came in contact (at my workplace ) with one very beautiful 19 year old girl. Something in me just accepted her personality as someone who has a lot of potential in her newest future. Yes I had a steady girlfriend so sex wasn't my motive with my girlfriends.

Because of this teenager's quest for tertiary education, and also because I noticed that she saw me as a role model professionally, I vowed that I wasn't gonna be amongst that stupid category of guys who feel like they must take advantage of any girl they mentor or help. I already had a very active sex life with my then girlfriend (who was a tigress in bed).

I spent some cash on this girl to procure JAMB UME forms, get a few books (she was really the studious type). In no time she started visiting my apartment. Am this type of guy that had a very mature co-educational social experience and so handling girlfriends were just as neutral to me as handling my male friends. This was one aspect of me my girlfriend found complicated.

However, the frequency of this girl's visit tripled I had to turn down a lot of her requests to visit. It wasn't long before she started literally asking me to date her, to which I told her I wasn't her friend for sexual reasons but that I just wanted to be of help to her because I was once in her shoes of need. I wanted her in my favorites contact list.

To cut this long story short, I found this girl waiting- unannounced- at my gate on coming back from my office one Friday evening. Of course she apologized for not calling and for coming this late. We got in, I left her in my sitting room and went in to bath and change (my usual routine).

After bathing I found this girl in my bed! So I started preaching again like another holy mallam, explaining to her that we should keep the status quo, I didn't want issues or to be perceived as taking sexual advantage of a very young girl who should be studying for her UME examinations. But all my talks ended in deaf ears, cos she just walked up to me, started kissing me and taking off her blouse. I just shouted "no!", left her in my room and went to my sitting room. She later came out crying seriously that she loves me and wants to be with me. It sounded Greek to me, seriously.

Well that evening was really challenging because she simply could not believe that I would refuse to sleep with her. As beautiful as she was. And as sexually virile as I was too.

The other similar incidents I've had weren't that close as these cases I narrated above, and they keep me wondering all the time how exactly do these ladies feel when a guy turns them down for sex/date... Is it a forgettable experience? Do they tell their girlfriends about it or keep it a secret?

Is it annoying, disappointing or just ungentlemanly? How would you react in such situations? Maybe this will help some of us guys understand women better and take win-win decisions...













Had a smiliar experience way back too their was this frnd of mine who was engaged she always like visitin on her way 4rm wrk, then I was still squartin wif ma frnd, didn't even have a job back then, she always come arund wen ma frnd hasn't returned.

She being into 2 mii and I knw cuz of the frequent calls n visits but I never knw she wanted more than just being frnds.

On one fateful day she came as usual she chilled, gisted and talked, cudnt remember wat led 2 d kiss but I remembered returnin it as she she went further I knew she was wet n wanted s*x but I stopped her tellin her we frnds n it Wnt b nice takin advantage of her frndship, she insisted but I resisted she got pissed n left.

After few days she returned like nothin happened one thin led 2 the other we found our selves n d same situation again I also reisited this time pointin out that she wa engaged, she said she well aware but she wanted mii. I told her she was jokin hw can she refused a guy who's well-to-do for a guy like mii who has nathin 2 offer statin I was stayin wif ma frnd she said it didn't matter. I pesisited and she went home angry again.

This happened again a third time but this time was Hot and I gave n, damn she nw came regularly 4 s*x till she finally got married to the guy she was engaged to.

Babyboo92:
The only way you can punish your ex and get revenge is by using the "no contact rule".

There are certain things you must do in order to establish the "no contact" rule. I'll list them below:
1. Delete his number from your phone: This is the first thing you need to do before anything else.
Erase all his phone numbers from your phone. Don't write it down anywhere as a form of reference.
This prevents you from having the urge to call your ex when you miss him.
2. Don't call or text him: Whenever you feel like calling or texting your ex, please find something
else to occupy your mind. You're not supposed to call or text him till the "no contact" is over. As
far you're still hurting inside, refrain from contacting your ex; it will only hurt you more. If you call
him and he answers in a nonchalant tone or another girl answers, what would you do? Cry even
more! Don't call or text him no matter what.
3. Block him on Whatsapp :
It's normal for him to pretend to care about you even when he was the one who dumped you. He'll
chat you up on Whatsapp to see how you're coping or not coping without him. Just block him
already! All he wants is to fan his ego! When he sees or hears how miserable you are, he will feel
gratified. Don't give him that joy!
4. Defriend him on Facebook:
Facebook would be another means for him to see how you are coping with the break up. He may
post some updates or pictures and tag you in them; ignore all those tricks. He is on punishment
and therefore, he doesn't deserve your friendship. Defriend him and block him on Facebook.
5. Delete him on twitter:
Twitter will be his other target in getting your attention. Don't mind his mentions
or hashtags; just delete him, unfollow him and block him if possible. Just shut him out of your
head; you need time to recuperate.

killer50:
This is a thread for PS4 gamers who wanna swap games.

So hop on board and lets get it poppin.

I personally want Shadow of Mordor. Willing to trade for Killzone or MGS5.

You can reach me on 07061989373

Hansbireo:
Action: RPG and tps games.. apparently there's no game with great storyline.

Coolguy89:
Am Boy of 27 years and a final year student for that matter but still single,all i have and believe is being friends with girls,most of my friends used to say am afraid of girls but actually am not,pls is this normal for a guy at my age to be single up to now?

MzHolly:
am still in shock....boy tell me come to my house i came with clean mind...he wan climb by force..how can u get my odolondolo for free like that

Dmarketter:
I haven't been able to maintain any meaningful friendships. I meet someone today and its always tha bomb, the talk is cool and interesting and after a few days I find that person repulsive. I barely sleep with a lady more than once. After that first time , I begin to hate the person.

Something must be wrong with my psyche, I know I have trust issues, and thus never truly open up myself to genuine feelings, but could that make me this way? I don't have many friends and yet I have a full contact list of people, I don't call and if they call I won't pick. If I was a spiritual person , I would have gone to church for deliverance. I think its my psyche. Maybe if am abused, advised , and denigrated I might change.

I need all the emotions, abuses , insults , good words anything is wellcome. I wanna know which one would push me to be normal and treat people better. Happy sunday

ernesty20:
all nigerian totos are the same.. Wether big or small

ThaCarter:
No

ThaCarter:
I love adventure and horror games they fill the body wit adrenaline

ivyy:


I don't believe you

SANDOSKI:
...


Chai I no reach quarter for wer dis gal dey ....

kachi19:
Her legs tho

Kaycee7:
You just dey wait. I have begun serious fasting and prayer to bind any devil that will cause that game not to live up to expectations. I desperately want that game to be everything Ubisoft promises and more. I want that tattooed guy to go down as one of the most memorable characters in gaming history.

Kaycee7:
I didn't see any stealth games on your list. Not your fault sha, there hasn't been a good stealth game for some time now. Nowadays, devs are watering down the difficulty of games to attract newbies. I remember the good old days of Hitman: Blood Money, Splinter Cell: Chaos Theory, Metal Gear Solid 2 and 3, Sly Cooper, Thief and Tenchu. All these games can make a grown man cry

Arcard:
its a pc game called age of mythology

Arcard:
its a pc game called age of mythology

ernesty20:
Considering how smelly naija toto can be, do guys still suck it?

ernesty20:
Considering how smelly naija toto can be, do guys still suck it?

ernesty20:
Considering how smelly naija toto can be, do guys still suck it?

Arcard:
strategy games, still looking for age of myth