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Enjoy the side while it lasts. Whether for a year or a lifetime don't keep fretting and worrying.It would not add anything to your life.

Yummy ,indomie delicious

I won't mind inviting my girl to my place and cooking for her to entertain her or impress her ,whatever,but that can only be at the begining of the affair ,when we are just starting out. Since i live alone ,i am bound to cook since i don't like eating outside, in fact since this year,i have visited the restaurant on only two occassions.If my girls comes around and want to eat there will always be food around but if she comes around and asks that i cook for her then i would know what is worrying her since i would expect her to come around sometimes to do the cooking.

A true friend will be true to you.Know your weak points and dirtest secret ,yet will stand with you. Will tell you the truth that you need to hear.Will never desert you. A true friend carrys a piece of you in his heart,

Since the females are silent,i think the onus is on the man to learn how to satisfy his woman or , . .

livedit:
Sadly, that IS apart of life and it happens one time or another to the rest of us.   I know you are heartbroken and feel used and betrayed but in due time (ONLY) if you allow it, it shall pass.  It may not seem or feel like it now, but it will.  Believe it or not, you ARE much better off without this cheater/liar in your life.  You need someone positive and who can add to your life, not take away from it.  This is a horrific thing anybody has to go through in their life, but just like the rest of us, you just have to chop this up to a lesson well learned of trusting and choosing more carefully whom you let be apart of your life.  There is no need to hold unforgiveness and bitterness against this guy.  I'm not saying you don't deserve to be angry, because you have every right to.  Be angry, but sin not.  Unforgiveness is a terrible terrible thing to hold on to and that's something you definitely don't want pending you down in your life.  Because when you do, it's ONLY hurting YOU not HIM.  He is not even worth it.  He has moved on with his life.  And the best revenge you can do at this point is forgive him and her, and release them then move on with your life.  What future can they possibly have with a foundation built on lies and cheating??  Just pray and ask God to help you and bring someone whom will be faithful, loyal and honest.  Don't let this man continue to have any more power over you than he already has.   You will never be able to move on to bigger and better things in your life holding on to *garbage*.

well said,take heart sis.

Don't have time for all that drama

MRbrownJAY:
if a man dates poor/hungry damsel and expects them NOT to ask for help/handouts then he surely has lost the plot AND THEREFORE should start dating financially secure women for peace of mind.

this man should look at women as his equal therefore compare himself with women who are equally stable in life as he is, AND ask the question: what can they offer him? and also what can HE offer them?

OF COURSE, this woman must love you to even think of offering you ANYTHING or even respecting you. these gold diggers (who has NO love for you) have only sex to offer and should NEVER be compared with true r/ship.

how them do we get into true relationships.

ogugua88:
What is your point?

would love to be in another site like this whether african or otherwise,want to expand my scope.You feel me. Do you know of any.

Play with caution,shine your eyes,keep your ear to the ground . Guard your heart ,keep ur kool and catch her red handed.

Still searching and seeking.

MRbrownJAY:
i completly disagree with you on what you stated above: approaching a woman has nothing to do with getting them in a relax environment, its all about getting their attention.

any place is good to make the first approach, it all depends on what strategy you use. in the grocery store, if you come up as a lost guy looking for some help while doing your groceries then you would be in there regardless of her doing her biz or not. you dont have to show your cards straight from the get go but at least get a contact number to continue later on.
as for the gym, again, many women go there to meet new people (to begin with) so as long as you say the right words, you would get contact.

ANY man who goes from "hello" to "can i have you digits?" in 3mins is a damn fool!

are you saying that if lets say i meet a lady on my way to work chatted her up that i shouldn't ask for her digits just because i didn't talk to her for upto 2 minutes even if i want to see her again.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Depends on how the break up went.
But i always opt for friends if possible.[/color]

always the best alternative except for bitter breakups.

No woman ,no cry

Are the two dating?If yes look somewhere else. If not ?Why not tell him what has been on your mind.

Lol

ogugua88:
This is what it says on the home page:

Nairaland Forum: Home Of Nigerians And Friends Of Nigeria. Welcome!

You are a not a friend, but a prejudice foe. What are YOU doing in this forum?

. Do you know of another forum like this ,maybe of other nationals where one can also go and mingle with other minds, please drop the address or link. Any one?

adamsrib:
If you knew she was not the love of your life then why did you marry her? Your impatience is now going to cause grief to a innocent person.  

let say because you got tired of waiting for who you don't know whether she will ever come around and your clock is ticking damn fast  and loud.

MRbrownJAY:
do YOU also believe in real love or not?! let us hear what is your concept of REAL LOVE.

what does THAT have to do with love?! just because some hungry gal is asking for presents DOESNT in any way says that she loves you. open your mind, pls.


again, what does that have to do with real love?! everybody wants rewards for their deeds cause i doubt you would pay for dinner for NO reason! the question IS: are you silly enough to believe that this is real love AND reward these hungry rats?!


may i ask what A MAN can offer that a woman cant?! i mean, if you were dating a financially stable woman (not the hungry rats out there)

in summary ,you mean what a woman can offer in a relationship depends on her financial stability and her love for you.