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Amya:
No seriously, when will this Nigerian women bashing thread stop? Sometimes there are two or three of these threads running concurrently!


Now, to the topic. . . . The typical Nigerian male sees himself as an alpha male. Ego comes into play. They wouldn't want to settle with  with a self sufficient woman, age and the fear of losing respect make them run to those ladies that are dependent. Having someone who depend on them unconciously make them feel the hero.

There are so many beautiful independent women out there that believe in footing their bills and tabs, but our nigerian men happen to not-be-attracted to them.

So, there it is guys, you can't eat your cake and have it!

but amya that does make what we are saying to be a lie. These before i approach a girl ,i study her to make sure i can bear the expenses that will be sure to follow.Okay , i have been in ikom here for like ten months and with my third gf. The second time out the girl will begin,i want to do my hair, phone request will follow etc. The first two r/ships , i çut when the demands became too much thinking the next one will be better but for where ? You simply learn how to play this game or they chop you die,

Amya:
No seriously, when will this Nigerian women bashing thread stop? Sometimes there are two or three of these threads running concurrently!


Now, to the topic. . . . The typical Nigerian male sees himself as an alpha male. Ego comes into play. They wouldn't want to settle with  with a self sufficient woman, age and the fear of losing respect make them run to those ladies that are dependent. Having someone who depend on them unconciously make them feel the hero.

There are so many beautiful independent women out there that believe in footing their bills and tabs, but our nigerian men happen to not-be-attracted to them.

So, there it is guys, you can't eat your cake and have it!

but amya that does not make what we are saying to be a lie. These days before i approach a girl ,i study her to make sure i can bear the expenses that will be sure to follow.Okay , i have been in ikom here for like ten months and with my third gf. The second time out the girls will begin,i want to do my hair, phone request will follow etc. The first two r/ships , i çutted off, when the demands became too much thinking the next one will be better but for where ? You simply learn how to play this game or they chop you die.

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Follow me ask the question.

Phate07:
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Why would you even ask her out if you don't even know her?

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because the knowing of her can start from the asking out in the first instance.

I remember the first time i approached a girl for friendship ,was in my final year in the university then, after the second outing ,i told her i wanted her as my gf. She told me she wouldn't double date.Whenever i approach a girl and she begins to talk about dating ,i always feel like she wants to play me.But am more comfortable with having a girlfriend.Its like yes, i have someone.

Why not give urself a break and her a break too. Avoid her for like a forthnight and don't call her but answer if she calls and see what happens.R/ships should be about caring,love and fun .It should not be by force or forced.If e no go work ,let it die and move on.

Having a girlfriend and dating a woman,are they the same or is there any difference?

It is quite appaulling,i mean i was going after a girl and when she was to agree she told ME that i should care for her and that it is when she sees that i care for her that she can care for me in return. To her caring for her means giving her money for hair,cream,cloth,soap etc. Buying her suya,ice cream,credit etc.The girl no gree make i touch her till i gave her money for hair.Now a month into the r/ship i have spend about #10,000 on her. Imagine my surprise when she called me õne night asking me to send her love text sms. I wäs like what has love got to do with this,after all,i am buying it.So most times it all about money for our girls and what they can get fröm you.And you trying to get ur money's worth.So it has become a game.How sad and disheartening.

It is quite appaulling,i mean i was going after a girl and when she was to agree she told ME that i should care for her and that it is when she sees that i care for her that she can care for me in return. To her caring for her means giving her money for hair,cream,cloth,soap etc. Buying her suya,ice cream,credit etc.The girl no gree make i touch her till i gave her money for hair.Now a month into the r/ship i have spend about #10,000 on her. Imagine my surprise when she called me õne night asking me to send her love text sms. I wäs like what has love got to do with this,after all,i am buying it.So most times it all about money for our girls and what they can get fröm you.And you trying to get ur money's worth.So it has become a game.How sad!

But that is true love i.e love from the heart

Poster, i disagree with you,i would rather say that nigerian girls no de like kissing. One use to complain to me say she no like saliva and another that it hots her lips,though i have entangled with some,who are game.So i think it is a matter of individual difference.

In my school then,unn.There was stories of another male student,they bleeped till he fainted.

@190, just like a squâre cannot fill a circle,so will all the riches in the world not fill a humans heart. I would like to fall in love and recieve that love in return though i hãve accepted that i could probable have my heart broken ä few times,but it will be worth it. No journey is too great,if a man finds what he seeks.

Will try and read it later.

Will try and read it later.

How do you do that?

A friend is a gift you give to yourself. Friendship may not last for a life time but its impact does.

How do i begin the journey?