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ummm i just have one question for black spade - i would like to know how the hell you can HATE a country without ever visiting it ?? Ohhh because you should always believe Everything the media says, its ALWAYS true !! Actually checking it out for yourself before you form such strong opinions may be wise ?? I am an Australian girl and I am with a Nigerian guy but I guess I must be racist cause I'm Ozzie is that right ?? Hahaha talk about having an open mind. I don't go around saying that all Nigerians are scam artists and I HATE Africa so give me a break. You shouldnt go dissing and hating my country cause that makes YOU racist doesnt it ?

Hi
My name is Jackie and I am a 25 yr old Australian. Ive just lived in London for a year on a working visa and met a great Nigerian man who is 30 and smart and great. I was with him for 9 months and have just come back to Australia. He wants to be with me and is ready for kids and everything. I love him and he is hot !!! but am so torn up as to what to do as I have to leave my whole life here behind to be with him. I am supposed to be goin back in jan but my visa only lasts for so long and i don't even know how long i could stay. I would love a kid but am not sure if I am ready for it right now and he is. I fell pregnant to him 3 months ago and I didnt think I was ready. It tore him up as he was ready. I guess I had different reasons but mostly because I was scared. I ran away back here and now thinking about it I don't know if I did the right thing. He would make a great dad. In London interacial marriages are normal but in other places not. Should this stop me ? I don't know whether I should try to let him go so he can find someone who isnt so afraid of commitment who would give him the family he deserves. I want to be with him but I don't know whether its forever !!! I would really appreciate some advice as I'm in limbo at the moment. PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE xxxx

I personally see nothing wrong with having a kid out of wedlock. If you love someone and they love you , thats all that matters right ? But I was not raised to have strong beliefs in that area so thats just my opinion. Thanks for all your advice guys still dont know what to do but I guess Ill work it out

Hi
My name is Jackie and I am a 25 yr old Australian. Ive just lived in London for a year on a working visa and met a great Nigerian man who is 30 and smart and great. Grin I was with him for 9 months and have just come back to Australia. He wants to be with me and is ready for kids and everything. I love him and he is hot !!! but am so torn up as to what to do as I have to leave my whole life here behind to be with him. I am supposed to be goin back in jan but my visa only lasts for so long and i don't even know how long i could stay. I would love a kid but am not sure if I am ready for it right now and he is. I fell pregnant to him 3 months ago and I didnt think I was ready. It tore him up as he was ready. I guess I had different reasons but mostly because I was scared. I ran away back here and now thinking about it I don't know if I did the right thing. He would make a great dad. In London interacial marriages and kids are normal but in other places not. Should this stop me from having his babies ? I have racist friends and have been worried about their opinions but have come to the realization they don't matter.I don't know whether I should try to let him go so he can find someone who isnt so afraid of commitment Huh? who would give him the family he deserves. I want to be with him but I don't know whether its forever !!! I would really appreciate some advice as I'm in limbo at the moment. PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE xxxx

anyone else

Nautilus - Thankyou !!
I see what you are saying , but why does it have to be me that has to give up everything ? I think he needs to make sacrifices too. Thanks again for ur post :p


and to the opther post - what advice are you telling me to take ?