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Family / Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Jadeobee: 6:02pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
I feel like it’s left for your husband or sexual partner to judge. Because you might feel tight but your husband may not feel that way. Katier00: 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Jadeobee: 4:34pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Well I don’t want to ask him hence why I’m here asking strangers. If you have nothing reasonable to add to this thread then leave, miss advocate for women. Shior. Preshy561: 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Jadeobee: 4:21pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Are you married? Has your wife given birth? farady: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Jadeobee: 4:20pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Well it’s the truth. We like to lie to ourselves a lot which is understandable but I find men to be more truthful especially with topics like this. Sometimes some women will be like ‘I feel so tight, sometimes I feel like a virgin’ meanwhile the husband is not feeling the same thing. So that’s why I specifically aimed this thread for men to answer because I feel like they can judge best. Preshy561: 14 Likes |
Family / Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Jadeobee: 1:37pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Hi I’m currently pregnant for my husband and I’ve just been wondering after vaginal birth if it goes back to normal. I’ve heard instances where men will tell their wives it feels the same, but it’s only to make them feel good about themselves. I think this question is mainly directed to men because I feel like sometimes we women like to deceive ourselves with lies. Does sexual intercourse feel the same with someone who has had a child? Also can you tell the difference between someone who has a child and someone who doesn’t even if they don’t tell you? I just want to have a discussion about this. Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 8:04pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Yeah We’re not enemies we are cordial but we are not best buddies. We are cool. The same way I don’t expect my hubby to be forcefully friends with my friends husbands. That’s not even the issue here, the issue is that he is always out every minute neglecting me midnighter: |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 8:02pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Thank u I was starting to think mayb I’m being paranoid or I’m nagging. Truth to be told, his behaviour is frustrating my life. It’s like he wants to be single. Neglecting my needs as his wife pocohantas: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 7:55pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Only one of his close friend is married. Yes we (the wife and I ) relate but we are not the best of friends, we don’t have to be best buddies because our husband are friends. I personally just don’t like following him to meet his friends unless I have to. If he doesn’t want to lose himself, then why did he get married to me? And what is losing yourself if you’re spending time with your wife? I’ve had the convo with him many times, it’s always the same story and he goes back to his old ways. As of right now, he has gone to his friends place and I’m alone at home and he won’t be back until at least 10pm. Sick of it midnighter: |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 6:22pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
When you get married you must learn how to compromise and find balance. I’m not saying he can't hang with the squad but spending 6-7 hours 3-4 times a week is very unreasonable especially when you’re depriving your wife of attention. When you’re single you can do that, but things must change when you have a wife. If I start spending 6-7 hours with my gfs 3-4 times a week coming back home at 12am I know he wouldn’t take it well. It’s just annoying KiidaACE: 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 6:17pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
He runs his “business” from home, but I work we are not in each other’s face 24 hours. During weekends when we’re supposed to be together he will branch to see his friends. Or in the evenings on weekdays, he will go and visit them for a few hours till late. Let’s get out on a date , he will start doing behaving somehow or suggest we just stay at home and watch a film knowing I’m not a film person. If it’s to go out with friends now, he is all up for it. If not that then he is on the phone with family members talking about one thing or the other. I'm just fed up KillerBeauty: |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 5:06pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
My husband is my friend, but he prefers his ‘day one niggaz’ as he likes to call them. I think he just prefers spending time with them over me. I’ve not let myself go, we’ve not had kids yet. Thanks. RoyalBlu: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 5:00pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
The thing is, he never takes me out on dates. We never do things together but he is so quick to meet up with his friends. I’ve followed him to his friends house very few times and I just don’t enjoy listening to men talk about football and drink beer. Even when they come to our house, it’s the same thing. Sincerely, those are his friends and not mine I shouldn’t have to follow him around like a parrot. It’s like he puts his friends before everything and everyone. I’m sick and tired of him duduade: 3 Likes |
Family / Is This Normal? by Jadeobee: 4:53pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
My husband is starting to irritate me. He is always visiting his friends every minute, in a week it’s at least 3-4 times. Sometimes when we’re meant to spend quality time together, he will go to his friends house and spend 6-7 hours and come back at like 12am. If it’s not his friends, then he is on the phone with one family member for hours discussing one issue or the other. Every minute it’s one friend issue or family issue, I’m starting to think this is not normal. After discussing this problem, many times he claims he will try to change and find a balance but it only gets worse. I’m the homely type he is the outgoing type, but he can’t stay in one place. I don’t want to push him away from his people but for goodness sake, must he go to see his friends every minute, I just think it’s unreasonable. One of my friends also complains about the same thing, why are some men like this for crying out loud ? |
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