Jadeobee:
Hi

I’m currently pregnant for my husband and I’ve just been wondering after vaginal birth if it goes back to normal. I’ve heard instances where men will tell their wives it feels the same, but it’s only to make them feel good about themselves.

I think this question is mainly directed to men because I feel like sometimes we women like to deceive ourselves with lies. Does sexual intercourse feel the same with someone who has had a child? Also can you tell the difference between someone who has a child and someone who doesn’t even if they don’t tell you? I just want to have a discussion about this.

Thanks.

vickydankal:
At first it will not feel the same for you and your partner, especially if you had virginal delivery. The muscles will stretch not to talk about the tear you are most likely to have. Depending on the tear, muscles recovery and other virginal healing, sex will likely not feel the same for you and Oga. With time, exercise, vitamins, and vegetables your body will not just heal your virginal will recover, then you could start having even a better sex than when you started.

Gaggi:

What do we have to do to let people know virgin and vagina are different. It's worse when women can't even spell vagina.

@Op, trust me if you've always been tight, chances are you will remain tight.

Jadeobee:
Hi

I’m currently pregnant for my husband and I’ve just been wondering after vaginal birth if it goes back to normal. I’ve heard instances where men will tell their wives it feels the same, but it’s only to make them feel good about themselves.

I think this question is mainly directed to men because I feel like sometimes we women like to deceive ourselves with lies. Does sexual intercourse feel the same with someone who has had a child? Also can you tell the difference between someone who has a child and someone who doesn’t even if they don’t tell you? I just want to have a discussion about this.

Thanks.

Preshy561:

Highly unnecessary.

farady:
Yes it can come back to normal. It only requires you to start doing kegels few days to 6weeks after normal delivery. If you are consistent with the exercises, your vagina muscles/walls can tighten up in few months. Even after that, you still need to do it occasionally. Good luck

Jadeobee:
Well it’s the truth. We like to lie to ourselves a lot which is understandable but I find men to be more truthful especially with topics like this. Sometimes some women will be like ‘I feel so tight, sometimes I feel like a virgin’ meanwhile the husband is not feeling the same thing. So that’s why I specifically aimed this thread for men to answer because I feel like they can judge best.

Preshy561:

Madam, since you already know which gender lies and tells the truth, isn't it best you ask the man at home instead of coming here to seek for advise?
Don't you have a man at home to tell you the truth? Mtchew.

Jadeobee:
Well I don’t want to ask him hence why I’m here asking strangers. If you have nothing reasonable to add to this thread then leave, miss advocate for women. Shior.

vickydankal:


That was a silly mistake I made right there. But you could still drive home your point without insulting me and women generally you know.... No be my Papa be queen of England.

Jadeobee:
Are you married? Has your wife given birth?

vickydankal:


That was a silly mistake I made right there. But you could still drive home your point without insulting me and women generally you know.... No be my Papa be queen of England.

Jadeobee:
Hi

I’m currently pregnant for my husband and I’ve just been wondering after vaginal birth if it goes back to normal. I’ve heard instances where men will tell their wives it feels the same, but it’s only to make them feel good about themselves.

I think this question is mainly directed to men because I feel like sometimes we women like to deceive ourselves with lies. Does sexual intercourse feel the same with someone who has had a child? Also can you tell the difference between someone who has a child and someone who doesn’t even if they don’t tell you? I just want to have a discussion about this.

Thanks.

belcom10:

Your papa no fit be Queen na.

Asquare84:
after child birth the vigee will not remain the same again, you can know that when the man penetrate it will be wild open and when a lady engage in sex with different men you can also tell too

Katier00:
i felt tighter after giving birth to my son. So maybe body differs

Jadeobee:
I feel like it’s left for your husband or sexual partner to judge. Because you might feel tight but your husband may not feel that way.

Jadeobee:
Well it’s the truth. We like to lie to ourselves a lot which is understandable but I find men to be more truthful especially with topics like this. Sometimes some women will be like ‘I feel so tight, sometimes I feel like a virgin’ meanwhile the husband is not feeling the same thing. So that’s why I specifically aimed this thread for men to answer because I feel like they can judge best.

Miarose:
What is your concern exactly?
Are u worried about loose vagina for yourself or for your husband?
Does lose vagina kill anybody?
What is the calibration for lose vagina?
Don't come and kill yourself.. if it bothers u that much, go for elective CS.
With time ,you will learn to put your well-being above a man's pleasure, they will find reason to dance naked outside no matter how choking the vagina is.