₦airaland Forum

sexyyoyo:
Madam you really need to calm down , I have been married for twelve years now so don't think I have no experience.
You have to submit yourself totally, both of you can't be a goat , one has to be a sheep while the other is a goat . if your man call you names and asked you to leave his house and you also left, then something is wrong with you . do you really think its a good thing packing your stuffs and leaving your matrimonial home ?
So long he is not beating you , why must you pack out ?
All the names he call you, is it a true reflection of your character ?if not , why are you bothered ?
One of you have to sacrifice for the marriage to work .
As you both grow , you tend to understand each other the other .
The worst mistake of your life is to start giving attentions or thinking there are better men out there .
Don't fool yourself or make yourself a subject of ridicule .
Sit down and stop packing out . stay put in your marriage and make it work .
Your only complain is the names he do call you .
Do you go hungry in his house ?
Are you lacking any other thing ?
No marriage is perfect but please make yours work .
I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in and it shall end in praise .

I have a similar experience. My marriage is 5 years. I have left only twice despite the constant tantrums...the first time was because he hit me mercilessly for the first time. Though he slaps me occasionally out of anger previously. The second is because he threatened like he always does and ask me to leave. I left , now he is begging and swearing to be a changed person. I am still scared and confused..

Good day everyone.

Reapplication
Submitted July 8
Upfront medicals July 15
Eligiblity and background check running concurrently since July 18th
CIC Update medical passed on August 6th

Still yet to hear from them.
School starts September 3rd
I don't know what to do too
The waiting is killing oo

Good day everyone.

Reapplication
Submitted July 8
Upfront medicals July 15
CIC Update medical passed on August 6th

Still yet to hear from them.
School starts September 3rd
I don't know what to do too
The waiting is killing oo

Qudkom:
DEALING WITH PURPOSE OF VISIT (POV)

Sad to hear about the recent refusals based solely on purpose of visit. However Purpose of visit refusals can be tricky and sometimes can be linked with various clauses. The most popular reasons for purpose of visit refusal are down to:

1. Incoherent, poor and Vague Study plans (SOP)

2. Applying for a program that could otherwise be done locally in Nigeria.

3. VO not convinced the proposed program is of a reasonable expense.

4. Applying for a program under the same credential as your last qualification. I.e applying for another msc program or bsc program.

5. Applying for a program otherwise lower than what your previous credential qualifies you to apply for. Sometimes it's possible to get away with it but different VOs with different evaluations.

6. Applying for a program that doesn't correlate with previous work experience and education credentials. Etc....

POV refusals are tricky and can otherwise be broad. Pinpointing the exact clause is important in reapplying.

Please check your mail

@Frankrobbn1

Please I need help with SOP

Obehi44:
House, the refusal came again 2nd time. First time was personal assets and financial status but now they say it's "purpose of visit"
Yesterday I mentioned a few monikers that got this bvl same time as mine came in, today I can see two out of those monikers coming to say they have been refused this evening just as I got mine this evening too.
All same reason "purpose of visit"
I can almost conclude that it was same VO that dished was in charged. Him just de bomb people email and Cic account with same reasons.
If these people have limits of people they give visa to per a period, they should just say rather than letting us go through stress and keep paying application fee.
Anyway, I will other for the gcms again, defer admission and refire again.
@Franck please my dear, can I have a one on one? Just want to ask one question please.
Thanks.

@Frankrobbin same here...one question pls

Pls can I get a sample of good sop

Aaron321:
Reply my mail pls

Done aaron

Chukwuemekatehi:
So sorry to hear about your refusal, all hope is not lost,ordering your Gcms is the best step now. I wish success as you make steps to apply again. Also, I will advice you defer your admission to Winter so you can have enough time to prepare.

Am not a guru, just my opinion.

Ow do I order one and how long before I get it

Bracha:
Write a better statement of purpose that's all. A clearer, more straightforward and straight to the point type would suffice.

Thnks

Please I will apr8 a sample if u hv one....

Jadeejec@gmail.com

• I am not satisfied that you will leave Canada at the end of your stay, as stipulated in subsection 216(1) of the IRPR, based on the purpose of your visit.

You are welcome to reapply if you feel that you can respond to these concerns and can demonstrate that your situation meets the requirements. All new applications must be accompanied by a new processing fee.


All cic form submitted
60% tuition paid
24000cad in personal acct
15000cad in sponsor account (spouse)
Affidavit of support
Land docs
Spouse employment details
Land documents co owned
Employment details mine
Recommendation letter from employer
School cert plus professional degree certs
Business doc from spouse
LOE from Spouse stating support
Letter of intent
PCC
Pension statement ' spouse
Marriage cert
Marriage pic
Previous us Visa and visit stamps


Pls any suggestions

Please which the fastest way to get A GCMS note....nid to reapply

Reason for refusal

Purpose of visit

Pls hlp wit a sampl of strong SOP

Frankrobbn1:
Alright. Check your mail, I just responded.

@frankrobbin please I have been trying to send you a mail

Please how long does it take for one to get Gcms note if ordered and how can I order pls?

chinma13:
Hello folks. Please i need urgent responses to this question because I am panicking already. I got BVL this morning but no medicals yet. Is there any likelihood that I will be notified for medicals? This was within two to three weeks of online application. Thanks alot!!

Same here...anxious

Online application and BVL in less than 3 weeks. No upfront medicals oh. Do I need to ask if there is hope?
Has there ever been anyone who got a medical or approved after BVL? Pls I need all response

Biometrics done in 2017 for a diff application

Hello guys

Pls is it best to do upfront medicals
I have submitted my application- online
Biometrics updated as I had previously done biometrics in 2017 for visit Visa.

Is it wise to do upfront medicals?
Will it speed up the process?

Hello guys

Pls is it best to do upfront medicals
I have submitted my application- online...June 20th
Biometrics updated as I had previously done biometrics in 2017 for visit Visa.

Is it wise to do upfront medicals?
Will it speed up the process?

Hello guys

Pls is it best to do upfront medicals
I have submitted my application- online
Biometrics updated as I had previously done biometrics in 2017 for visit Visa.

Is it wise to do upfront medicals?
Will it speed up the process?