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coogar: don't distort the facts......
she's mrs joke jacobs at home & joke silva as her stage name. olu jacobs stated clearly he met joke silva as an actress & he wasn't interested in changing her stage name & denying her fans just because she was getting married to him. abeg, find another example. this is a public forum, don't misinform the public.

Lmao, how can you claim to know what she's called at home , do you live with the family. And Abeg who calls anyone Mrs. Blah blah surname at home? Official her surname is her maiden name and that is what matters, when is is called for an award or in public she is referred to as Joke silva, house name is a nickname. This is a statement made by her in an interview so she qualifies as a feminist " "Excuse me, at this stage of my life, I cook when I like. The laundry? Abeg, even when we were newly married, it was underlined, I don't do laundry".

Joke Sylvia I believe qualifies, this is a woman who refused to change her surname when she married Olu Jacobs till today and she even stated in an article how she doesn't do the cooking or cleaning yet they've been married for decades. Ultimately it depends on the man and woman in question. The success of every marriage depends on getting a spouse who understands you and can deal with what others may perceive as your flaws. I remember how many people were making noise about how can she say she does cook or wash her husbands clothes and how can she not change her surname yet time and time again Olu Jacobs has said he wasn't look for cleaning or cooking in a wife and he had no problem with her keeping her name. We all want different things, so just find someone who fits you and stay out of other's relationship or marriages.

So many children here, anyone who can't have intelligent discussions without resorting to insulting other tribes has low IQ and self esteem.

Such bad photoshop even a blind man can tell that body doesn't belong with the head. Silly things marketers do to decide gullible people, some will buy the movie now hoping to see that and I can assure you you will be very disappointed.

Dantedasz: What do you mean by ofe mmanu type?
Why use such a derogatory word on a public forum?
This is what I mean when I say don't create problems for your poor hubby.
I will be reporting this to a moderator.

Maybe she stopped greeting you because she noticed you are a bigot. What is the meaning of referring to someone with the derogatory name ofe mmanu. Why bring her tribe into this simple issue? It seems more like you are the one who has a problem with her and I truly doubt that the woman is jealous of you.

It is very possible to forgive him but not love him, I guess during that period you discovered his real character and since you no longer love him please don't marry him at least not right away.i have seen extremely happy "blended families" and extremely unhappy biological families. Since you do not love him there is no way you'll have a good marriage and your son will be affected even worse by that. Best thing to do if you are confused is to agree to date him, get to know him afresh and don't rush into marrying him. If after a year you don't like what you get to know about him then you can move on knowing you have tried.

What we should rather be discussing is how to collectively make our cities and Nigeria at large better.How do we make our Governors accountable and such important things. Imagine the amount of time young people spend online throwing silly insults at each other's tribe! Why can't we use that for something constructive instead? When IBB said the youths are ready to lead this Country we complained yet we keep proving them right. How will the young people of this nation ever be taken seriously when people spend hours here over tribalistic rubbish!

ngozievergreen: I have the treasure of time

How about you use that time to develop yourself personally? If you put this much passion into your own business you could be on the forbes list by now you know. What is the point of all this tribal rubbish about which tribe is richer, at the end of the day what matters is your personal success. People like Dangote don't care if Yoruba or Igbo people are richer or more successful than other tribes, all that matters is how much he has. Will someone give you land because they are from your tribe?
The same goes to all those who spend so much time beating their chests about how their tribe is superior in whatever way. Tribal bashing and chest beating is a poor man's passtime!

That is why it is so sad when the bigots here start beating their chests about how the women in their tribe are more beautiful that those of another tribe or saying that women of one tribe are ugly. The rest of the world thinks almost all black women are ugly anyway.

tzetzefly: The dropbox system is a renewal of the same category of expired visa without an interview slot. To qualify, an applicant must possess an expired one or two years visa.

Thank you

Please how does the dropbox thing work? My 2years visa just expired and I want to renew it.

Why is it that any small thing we start shouting about how people are jealous of us ! This is a simple case of a government trying to protect its citizens which is its primary responsibility. What we should be clouding for is that our government will put in place such polices to protect us. If we had such policies and they are well implemented, fewer Nigerians would even need to travel out as there would be more opportunities here. Dubai and other Countries practice such and it pays their citizens, we need to stop getting sentimental over everything. Not everything is as a result of jealousy they are just protecting their own.

Her outfit is so nice and unique, pretty lady

Fine girl, love her outfit

And later you will call yourselves Christians, so sad that some of the tribalistic posts here come from people who will later go on to religious posts and claim they are Christians. Remember that you will be judged by every word that comes out of your mouth and that includes those on the internet. Repent for hating people because of where they come from. You will surely end up in hell fire for your hateful words and actions.

Congrats to her