Dantedasz:


What do you mean by ofe mmanu type?
Why use such a derogatory word on a public forum?
This is what I mean when I say don't create problems for your poor hubby.
I will be reporting this to a moderator.

Yomieluv: op,you are the one being sentimental,or feel everybody,or everything should stop cos hubby bought dstv that cost 12500 now,and other things,thank God you said your neighbour owns a car,why would someone with a car envy someone that just bought dstv.
Your landlord's inlaw is angry cos you are owing your house rent,yet forming dangote with your recent upgrade,tell hubby to pay outstanding rent,and cordial relationship would continue.

yellowpawpaw: That is why I lv guys.
Who get time for all these drama?
She looked at me scornfully, she hissed as she passed me, her greetings wasn't as cheerful as before, infact, I'm suspecting her!
Women r their worst enemies.
Always imagining things and making mountain out of molehill. If she locked door and u knocked and knocked b4 she opened, thank her and go to ur flat.
What happened to minding ur biz?

Even if she is the type that stirs trouble, use diplomacy and cool it at least for the fact that u r their tenant abi u want ur hubby to start lookin for a new flat when it wasn't in his budget yet?
Secondly, it pays to live in peace with ur nebor. Maintain ur distance yet be close.
Hope u don't brag or gossip although ur posts says otherwise.

Oh my, what a mentality!

chaircover:

Have you asked her what the problem is and why she no longer responds to your greeting.

Did you seek permission before you started painting the landlords house or is that not in your tenancy agreement? are you not breaking her wall to install your split AC?

Sha take it easy. You say you are not working so its your husband who will have to go and find 2 years rent money plus agency fee when you finally cause them to give you quit notice

Instead of you to be supporting your hubby and encouraging him to build his own place, you are on the path of giving him more headache when he has to start looking for new accommodation due to petty petty women squabbles.

bluuu:
what is the meaning of ofem@nu please??

damiso:

I think it means those people that eat oil but is said in derogatory way (I have alot of igbo friends so they told me).

nne4: Hello friends,
There is a problem am facing now and it disturbs me alot. I have 3 kids and pregg now.Recently my husband and i planned to buy new thing in our home which will cost thousands of naira.so this December we painted our flat,bought new Tv,water dispenser,split unit AC,foam,Dstv, washing machine etc.
When we started buying these things,one of my neighbours stops greeting me even when i greeted her she doesn't reply.l am really surprised bc i don't know that such people exist.I pray always and even do midnight prayers for myself and my family, Pls married people in d house with such neighbours or landlady how do u handle such situation.
Pls help a sister.

Chillisauce: Funny thread!

OP don arrive and feel everyone is jealous or after them.
My dear, talk to her and see what's the problem, maybe you have done something wrong which you don't know. But since you say you don't like trouble, call her and find out what going on.

Maybe she is going through a lot, maybe lost something very dear.dont judge people esp if you don't know what's happening on their daily lives,

ireneidiva:
she is the landlord's daugther-in-law, not the landlord or the landlord's son. If the op and her hubby want to break the house, the DIL shld leave the matter to the Landlord!

baggy4luv: fool to the core..keep your talent

Ennyhollar: Op, just ignored them, you are not from the same family, and they are not your landlord or landlady, Just go ur way