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Old pic, but my back probably still looks the same, just with longer dreadlock.
This is about..4,5years ago.

I have around 17 now, and planning on many more.

PAGAN 9JA:
As a Pagan Traditionalist, i believe in reincarnation. it makes sense and is very closely related to the 1st Law of Physics.

i certainly cant take in any heaven/hell bull****. these are all fairytales and ki :Pds stories. .

For the first time I actually agree with you.

CAMEROONPRIDE:
BTW who called u by your skin color here?

...you did.

It was something about white people not needed in this discussion. Remember?

PAGAN 9JA:
you are of mixed ethnicity.so ill call you half-breed.

Nah, if I am mixed of many different, that is not correct either.
How long back does it have to be "clean and pure" to call yourself full-breed anything?
You say you are hausa, the nomad-people. You really don`t think they mixed with other nomadegroups..? Seriously..?

Thanks for the welcomes

Today our likkle baby is 2 years old. Time flies! So today it is cake and family and gifts. I called my hubby and said he should thank me for all the pain I had two years back. Lol.
I am still tired from travelling, though, and it takes time to adjust to the life in Europe again, compared to the life down there. I know which one I prefer..

PAGAN 9JA:
good. they are pink, beige and white. so the should stop being racist against us and categorizing us all as one on the basis of physical appearance/skin.

Then you should stop calling us white as well.

Call me buy my ethnic group, my country, not my colour.

Goes both ways, hon.

Back

Had a very good time, and I felt like coming home when I saw him again.
The girl recognized him at once and kissed and hugged him, and I criiiiied.

I enjoyed more this time than the last, probably because I knew what to expect down there.
Went out much with his brother to the marked, even went for one day of pure shopping in the capital, which I didnt have a chance to do last time when I was there for two whole months. Lol.

It felt so good to see him again..it felt like I left him at the airport a few weeks before, but he is different now. It has done good for him to go there, I see that.
He is more calm, more focused on family-life rather than money, and his temper is low..and I am damn proud of him. Being away from your family makes you see and recognize what you truly have of blessings in your life.

I came home today, and I feel like I left a part of myself there. He is in another european country now, trying to find out the easiest way to Norway. If there is a low, low chance on getting here, we will go to either Denmark or Sweden. Before one month, we will know what to do, and that calms me down.
Where I am living now, is absolutely the wrong place for me, I see that now. The capital in Norway is my home, not my home-town, and if we are staying in Norway, it will be the capital, no where else.

I drank attaya, I went out to a club in one of the villages to see Vybrant and Bugle, I sat down in the evenings talking with his mother and sisters, and I miss Gambia so, so much. I truly wished Gambia was different when it comes to jobs, so it was possible for us to stay, I love that country.

So..still without my spouse, but I had two weeks that I enjoyed oh, so much. I know where my heart belongs, even more than before.

This will be my last evening in two weeks online..wish me luck, people, I can`t wait to give my hubby a big hug, and see our daughter kiss him again.

Enjoy yourself in the meantime, see you soon

How and where am I rotten?

Like I said..go talk all this to your mother, with the exact words and anger you do here. See what she says. She would be ashamed, so should you.

Abagworo: Nigerians generally tolerate lesbians but male gays no. They disgust me.

Lol. Hypocrite.

Warfibabe: you go gurl!.... happy for you. my hubby is leaving very soon.. hopefully he will be back for our son's first birthday.

I will cross my fingers for you

Haha, I would fix you up with some nice patterns and everything. Damnit.

jidegirl12: 2days, 2 days, 2 days

Wow how time flies!

Wuhu!

And my journey starts tomorrow morning Long travel-time, but oh, so worth it.
I`m finished packing everything, except toothbrushes and things like that. Going to pick the baby up early from kindergarden, so I can braid her. Lol.