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FamilyRe: What Exactly Would You Do In A Situation Like This ? by James4358(m): 1:23pm On May 29
That's blessing in disguise. I will go home and abandon the date
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: AFC Bournemouth Vs Manchester City (1 - 1) On 19th May 2026 by James4358(m): 9:16pm On May 19
Congrats to Arsenal. The wait is finally over
AgricultureRe: How My Side Hustle Became My Major Income Earner. Pictures Included by James4358(op): 5:51pm On May 12
ambu2:
Please OP, sorry to bother you. Why are many people not investing in cocoa farming as Nigeria has the potentials to be a world producer? Do you have plans to expand?
I'm currently expanding
AgricultureRe: How My Side Hustle Became My Major Income Earner. Pictures Included by James4358(op): 2:23pm On May 12
I can proudly call myself a farmer. It sounds funny when I say I'm a farmer when ever I'm asked what I do for a living. People still under rate farmers to this day. Farming cash crops Is the best. My children will inherit my farm just the way I inherited from my father.
When I got married, I told my father inlaw I was a farmer, he wondered how ill take care of his daughter,. But today major family decisions can't be taken without consulting me. Thanks to President BAT the high rate of foreign exchange has been one of the reason cocoa prizes are high
AgricultureRe: How My Side Hustle Became My Major Income Earner. Pictures Included by James4358(op): 2:09pm On May 12
My wife and I still farm on the remaining part of the land for consumption. I don't buy yams, corn or cocumbers. I simply get them from my small farm. Truly, Agriculture has helped me to mitigate the shocks of the Nigeria Economy.

AgricultureHow My Side Hustle Became My Major Income Earner. Pictures Included by James4358(op): 2:04pm On May 12
I inherited seven stems of Cocoa with a plot of land in the village that was only good for Agriculture from my dad about 5 years ago when he transion to the other side. I was struggling with a Para military job that the pay couldn't take me home.

I decided to look homeward. Applied for study leave, went back home to my father's land, cleared the only plot he had and extended the cocoa farm of seven stems to about 300 stems as at today.

I initially did 900 nursery for transplant but only about 300 survived.

Today my farm pays me more than what I spent 5years to study in school.

RomanceRe: “i’m The Only One On This 6 By 6 By Bed” – Single Woman Cries Out by James4358(m): 11:21pm On May 11
Sorry o. Men are the prize... I just finished 3rd round. Let me rest abeg
PoliticsRe: Kano Chairman Of The Kwankwasiyya Movement, Musa Gambo Hamisu, Resigns From ADC by James4358(m): 5:30am On May 02
It's normal. Selfish interest at play
PoliticsRe: President Tinubu To Visit Kenya, Rwanda And France by James4358(m): 5:27am On May 02
Barely 3 years in office, T-Pain has traveled more than buhari's entire 8 year regime with no meaningful impact. Just wasting tax payers money.
PoliticsRe: SNAPSHOT: Actual Minimum Wage Across Nigeria’s States by James4358(m): 5:22am On May 02
Most of this states only pay minimum wage, no other tangible projects are implemented to better the lives of people in the private sectors. Private School teachers in my state Akwa Ibom still end 35k and below, I've even seen a P. O. S. boy end 10k monthly. All the talks about workers welfare are just for civil servants only.
FamilyRe: I Am At Crossroads Should I Forgive Him ? by James4358(m): 12:40pm On Apr 27
I would have advised you to do to a single father what guys always advise us on this forum to do to single mothers, but who I'm I... Just follow your heart my dear.
Personally I'm still married to a lady who slept with one of the officiating ministers few days to our wedding,. I discovered few months after our marriage. I had not even recovered from the marriage expensis when the news hit me through a text message the man sent to my wife's phone. Some of us are left with scars all through our lifetime
PoliticsRe: Senator Solomon Adeola (Yayi) Adopted As APC Consensus Candidate In Ogun State by James4358(m): 8:26pm On Apr 13
Iyabo Obasanjo left the group chat
PoliticsRe: Electoral Act Breach: Retired Judge, SANs Knock Judges After NBA Outcry by James4358(m): 3:08am On Apr 13
The current problem in our political space today is the word 'Status quo antebellum'. Even the professor at INEC have lost it
RomanceRe: What Will You Do If Given This Bride Price List by James4358(m): 1:05pm On Mar 23
VOsimhen144:
sorry bro. this is heartbreaking, how did you discover she went to give her pastor lover goodbye sex? Are both of you still together? Did you forgive her?
I forgave her, but how can I forget? I was using my wife's Sim card for data, and the pastor dropped a text that he just remembered the style my wife gave him, and it made his pennis to stand. This was 2am at night o. I just came out of depression not long ago. She is even having problems with conception. It's a scar I'll leave with till I die
RomanceRe: What Will You Do If Given This Bride Price List by James4358(m): 10:43am On Mar 23
Marriage is not poverty alleviation program na. After spending my life savings marring my wife, she still went to give her pastor lover good buy sex just days to our wedding. I've not even recovered from that trauma yet. Things dey happen for life.
SportsRe: How About Those Who Bet Morocco To Win And Their Ticket Were Cut by James4358(m): 10:55am On Mar 18
Na CAF go pay them naw. No be betting company fault
PoliticsRe: Budget Implementation: Tinubu’s Govt Most Incompetent In History, Says ADC by James4358(m): 5:52am On Mar 06
What A P C can not do does not exist
RomanceRe: Sex Is Never Free To A Man by James4358(m): 5:25am On Mar 06
I've spent nearly 800k treating my wife's infertility issues just after 2 years of marriage. I'm even praying God to bless us with just a child, and you are here complaining about 73k. Please pass that pregnancy to my wife, we need it badly.
RomanceRe: Young Man Shows Off His Two Wives by James4358(m): 11:06am On Feb 22
They will show you shege one day. I used to be like you until my wife brought shege promax
PoliticsRe: Ibori's Daughter, Erhiatake Escapes Assassination Attempt by James4358(m): 8:09am On Feb 22
This is very unfortunate... I always remember what former president oga Jona always say, that the blood of any Nigerian is not worth his political ambition. Political offices should be made less lucrative
PoliticsRe: Indigenous People Of Abuja Celebrate APC Victories In Style by James4358(m): 7:41am On Feb 22
I don't care who wins an election... The process just have to be very transparent
PoliticsRe: "FG Targets 15 Million Households For Cash Support" - Dr Bernard Mohammed Doro by James4358(m): 3:11pm On Feb 14
I've been a beneficiary for the past 3 months. I started receiving 25k monthly since November last year. I was a doubting Thomas until I started receiving alerts. My one vote is for TINUBU
RomanceRe: Hit And Run Goes Wrong: His Own Parents Force Him To Marry Her(photos) by James4358(m): 12:50pm On Feb 04
Any man mature enough to dig that hole must be ready for the responsibility when it arises.
RomanceRe: I Just Remembered This And Felt Sad by James4358(m): 5:23pm On Feb 01
Tow tow is the sweetest thing God created
RomanceRe: Marriage Is Scary (photo) by James4358(m): 2:50am On Dec 19, 2025
This can not happen in naija. Shi shi you no go see.
RomanceRe: This Is The After Effect Of A DNA Test by James4358(m): 7:04am On Dec 18, 2025
lilsmart:
Government suppose make DNA test for hospital compulsory immediately after woman born pikin.

The DNA test result dem go give am direct to the papa wey dey for marriage certificate.

Because na de mama dey born de pikin, you no fit question am about who be de real papa.

Dis go help make sure say de papa wey dey for certificate na de true biological papa.

E go reduce cases of paternity fraud for Nigeria.

De father go get peace of mind from de beginning.

E go make family life more transparent and trustful.

So, government should implement dis policy fast.
DNA should be free or very affordable too. Most men shy away because of the cost
RomanceRe: This Is The After Effect Of A DNA Test by James4358(m): 6:59am On Dec 18, 2025
ManknowThyself:
God really loved you

My brother even in future, it’s DNA after birth.

God will give you a better partner
Amen my brother
RomanceRe: This Is The After Effect Of A DNA Test by James4358(m): 2:07pm On Dec 17, 2025
Diamond098454:
I'm speechless. Women face a lot of Temptations this days
And they gladly open their legs for other men aside their spouses to deposit sperm
RomanceRe: This Is The After Effect Of A DNA Test by James4358(m): 12:36pm On Dec 17, 2025
OlaOfLagos:
Please share your story/experience with us so that others can learn from you. Thank you
my wedding was 3weeks away. Preparation was gaining serious momentum, I was in another state hustling to meet up other expenses, then boom... My wife to be slept with one of the officiating ministers. I had no idea. The wedding went on. I got to know when 8 months later I was using my wife's Sim card for data and at past 2am the pastor sent an SMS how the style my wife gave him just made his John Thomas to stand. I sent him several SMS with her line that night and he unknowingly confessed the month it happened and how many times they did it. I was depressed, I almost died from high blood pressure. It turned out the pregnancy was not mine. I returned her to her parents with the help of my family. I have not even recovered from the expenses of that marriage. I just came out from depression recently and trying to pick up my life again. I don't wish my enemy what that daughter of eve did to me
RomanceRe: This Is The After Effect Of A DNA Test by James4358(m): 11:27pm On Dec 16, 2025
If not for God, I would have been a victim of paternity fraud. Chai... The God I serve came through for me

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