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ruffkenny:
Just be strong and less caring to her,women are funny creatures,they seem to prefer guys who use strong hands for them,if u start been harsh and brutal to her,she will start been subjected and submissive to u,but if u loose out or give out your power to her or any other woman for that,u are the one who is going to suffer it, because when u give a woman power,or control, she will always misuse it,or use it to her benefit or advantage which means total manipulation towards u,which will make her treat u like shit or a nobody,and trust me u don't need that in ur life not at this age or even when u get older,cos every man need peace of mind and happiness..Don't stay with any girl who cannot celebrate u or submit to u,the worst thing a girl can do to u is bruise ur ego..

Bro thanks very much for your advice...I really appreciate you...I’ll take Steps about this now..I know it’s definitely gonna work.

ruffkenny:
Put her in her place,
Let her learn to respect u,
Man up man be a man..
U should be in control of not only her but Ur emotions too,
Don't give anyone the right to treat u how u don't deserve..and if u see u can't take her and make her respect u and be as u want,just walk away,birds of a feather flocks alike..u will meet the right girl with better character and attitude for u,and please forget about facial appearance when dealing with a girl,deal with her based on her attitude and not her looks,if she want it hot,give it to her hot,if she don't respect u,u don't have to respect her,if she control u,teach her that u can control her too..stop been weak ,scared and be confident..Get ur self worth back bro!!

Thanks very much..

RealAlubarika:
You're to weak, I can't imagine a woman not even my wife lock me out in a house I foot the bill.

Please continue one day she will attack you physically either with object.

My advise is give the relationship a break and evaluate it, if that's what you really want for your life.


We rise by lifting others

how do I give it a break..when we live together?

Kamdil:
Before I say something. Tell us,how old are you both?


Please be precised and specific

i’m 26 she’s 23

Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�