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I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Jamesb87: 5:17pm On Jun 08, 2021
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by thesicilian: 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2021
You are too weak

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by fati2001(m): 5:18pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�


Breaking news my niggas If your girlfriend has went to any Season opener basketball game Best believe, she's fucking some niggas on that team She's fucking somebody on the basketball team If she's at the game Right, right,

yeah I say bounce that shit like woah Yeah, bounce that shit like woah This is not a fairytale, I already know how you like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl, that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, woah, woah Woah, woah, heard all of the stories about you I already know and I like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, yeah Bounce that shit like, woah Why you gotta fight with me at Cheesecake You know I love to go there Say I'm actin' lightskin, I can't take you nowhere This a place for families that drive Camrys and go to Disney They don't need to know all of our business You wildin', you super childish, you go to CVS for Kotex In my Bugatti, I took the key and tried to hide it So you can't drive it, and put on mileage Then you find it, awkward silence Momma is a saint, yes she raised me real good All because of her I don't do you like I should Don't make me give you back to the hood Don't make me give you backI say bounce that shit like woah Yeah, bounce that shit like woah This is not a fairytale, I already know how you like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, woah, woah Woah, woah, heard all of the stories about you I already know and I like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, yeah Bounce that shit like, woah Yeah, rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a jungle soldier She rode it like a, yeah, yeah I got it, yeahYou don't wanna fall in love I know I'm not someone you should trust I know I give Chanel out like a hug I know I knew a couple of your friends way before How many girls have slept in this bed Say a different number than the one that's in my head Lying to protect you I be doing that a lot My past checkered like the Louis you just got Married in our twenties now, where the fun in that? My city love me like a college running back Pack a bag you gon' end up staying where I'm at Took you from the hood, and I could never give you back I just wanna let you know that someone love you back All the Cadillac, like I'm Teddy Pendergrass Whippin' on this shit I'm getting ready, where you at? Riding...She rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a Melpomene soldier She rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a jungle soldier Rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a Melpomene soldier Burrrrat stick it, b-burrrrat stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Thank you, thank's Drake, thanks baby Motherfuckers drunk and tired Tired, I'm tired boss....

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Blackaxe16(m): 5:21pm On Jun 08, 2021
Hmmmm give her better beating
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Kamdil: 5:22pm On Jun 08, 2021
Before I say something. Tell us,how old are you both?


Please be precised and specific

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Wawelexy: 5:22pm On Jun 08, 2021
Nairaland should start doing screening.

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Mutemenot(m): 5:23pm On Jun 08, 2021
Op, let others suggest. If I say it the way I feel, you 'll be offended....

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Jamesb87: 5:24pm On Jun 08, 2021
Kamdil:
Before I say something. Tell us,how old are you both?


Please be precised and specific
i’m 26 she’s 23

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Pmedia7787: 5:26pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�


Even paragraphing became difficult for you

1-any relationship that makes you less of your self is no relationship... You are actually dieing

2-any relationship that dosnt improve on your true innate potential... Be it a woman or a man...shouldnt be feed with more time...cut off..even dads leave wayward children

3- A mans ego is very vital for both himself and the wife...or anyone he is in a love relationship with...if that ego is not feed with attitudes such as respect..there is no way she can actually get loved by you..you will eventually get tired and kick her out too

4-within herself...she sees you as a man who has lost control and she is just trying to make you better...she is trying to fix a man she dosnt understand ..neither does she actually understand what it means to be a woman...

May be I need to ask how old is both of you

I see now..you 26----definately not a man in mind

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Uncle93(m): 5:27pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

I want to bitch slap you so bad!!! I hate men that acts so weak, Goddamitt mehn

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Kamdil: 5:27pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
i’m 26 she’s 23
well I will say she isn't a kid. And what you are seeing right now is a rehearsal of what she will do to you when the dust finally settled.

Send her packing asap if you want to live long

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Atteraino(m): 5:30pm On Jun 08, 2021
Let's wait for the elders
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Uncle93(m): 5:30pm On Jun 08, 2021
fati2001:



Breaking news my niggas If your girlfriend has went to any Season opener basketball game Best believe, she's fucking some niggas on that team She's fucking somebody on the basketball team If she's at the game Right, right,

yeah I say bounce that shit like woah Yeah, bounce that shit like woah This is not a fairytale, I already know how you like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl, that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, woah, woah Woah, woah, heard all of the stories about you I already know and I like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, yeah Bounce that shit like, woah Why you gotta fight with me at Cheesecake You know I love to go there Say I'm actin' lightskin, I can't take you nowhere This a place for families that drive Camrys and go to Disney They don't need to know all of our business You wildin', you super childish, you go to CVS for Kotex In my Bugatti, I took the key and tried to hide it So you can't drive it, and put on mileage Then you find it, awkward silence Momma is a saint, yes she raised me real good All because of her I don't do you like I should Don't make me give you back to the hood Don't make me give you backI say bounce that shit like woah Yeah, bounce that shit like woah This is not a fairytale, I already know how you like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, woah, woah Woah, woah, heard all of the stories about you I already know and I like it Take you to the mall and get you a new outfit Girl that's just some child's play Bounce that shit like, woah, yeah Bounce that shit like, woah Yeah, rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a jungle soldier She rode it like a, yeah, yeah I got it, yeahYou don't wanna fall in love I know I'm not someone you should trust I know I give Chanel out like a hug I know I knew a couple of your friends way before How many girls have slept in this bed Say a different number than the one that's in my head Lying to protect you I be doing that a lot My past checkered like the Louis you just got Married in our twenties now, where the fun in that? My city love me like a college running back Pack a bag you gon' end up staying where I'm at Took you from the hood, and I could never give you back I just wanna let you know that someone love you back All the Cadillac, like I'm Teddy Pendergrass Whippin' on this shit I'm getting ready, where you at? Riding...She rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a Melpomene soldier She rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a jungle soldier Rode that dick like a soldier She rode it like a soldier She rode it like a Melpomene soldier Burrrrat stick it, b-burrrrat stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Burrrrat stick it, ba-ba-ba stick it Thank you, thank's Drake, thanks baby Motherfuckers drunk and tired Tired, I'm tired boss....

Drakeeeeeeeee! Dope track my nigga
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Atteraino(m): 5:31pm On Jun 08, 2021
thesicilian:
You are too weak


I'm not sure... When This kind of guys are ready to take action on their women, even the devil will deny him

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by fati2001(m): 5:32pm On Jun 08, 2021
Uncle93:

Drakeeeeeeeee! Dope track my nigga

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by jidamsel43(m): 5:32pm On Jun 08, 2021
you are suffering from an inferiority complex. How could stoop this low to allow a lady to not only control you but also punish you in your home. You fretted that she would leave if you act? Are you her first love? is she the only beautiful lady in Nigeria.

Please, Nigeria is busy a very serious issue

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by ABANGWABOI(m): 5:32pm On Jun 08, 2021
See Boy, go and wash all her pants and bras..
Pay her bills..
Take her out..
Spoil her.
Apologise even when you are right..
Always make sure you are the one that cook and serve her dishes..
Also wash and keep the dishes clean too..

Spend on her siblings too..
Plus other things I can't remember..
That is How Real Boys Do..

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Atteraino(m): 5:33pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
i’m 26 she’s 23
damnn... She's 23 and she be acting like this. What tha fvck
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by IgiveLadiesBj: 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2021
I winder what will happen if you marry this girl. Just say she get issue and she come stay for your house. Imagine if you live with her for a year or so. Na die be that o. Discharge am. Other fine girls dey

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Doja2000: 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2021
STOP SIMPING

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Atteraino(m): 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
See Boy, go and wash all her pants and bras..
Pay her bills..
Take her out..
Spoil her.
Apologise even when you are right..
Always make sure you are the one that cook and serve her dishes..
Also wash and keep the dishes clean too..

Spend on her siblings too..
Plus other things I can't remember..
That is How Real Boys Do..

For this alone... I've awarded u a free ticket for 2023 presidency
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Atteraino(m): 5:40pm On Jun 08, 2021
ABANGWABOI:
See Boy, go and wash all her pants and bras..
Pay her bills..
Take her out..
Spoil her.
Apologise even when you are right..
Always make sure you are the one that cook and serve her dishes..
Also wash and keep the dishes clean too..

Spend on her siblings too..
Plus other things I can't remember..
That is How Real Boys Do..

Jamesb87 i go for this.. Call her again and apologise...

But hold... How are u show she loves u too? Maybe she's on in the relationship cause she's staying in your house
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by LadyRosa(f): 5:47pm On Jun 08, 2021
Seems the redpillers pills no dey work this days. cheesy

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by thesicilian: 5:49pm On Jun 08, 2021
Atteraino:


I'm not sure... When This kind of guys are ready to take action on their women, even the devil will deny him
That is a classic sign of weak people, they tend to over react when it's no longer necessary
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by bigpicture001: 5:51pm On Jun 08, 2021
Guy, nomata her beuty,ger attitude is not good at all..plz end the relationship....she is the acid attack type

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Oyetechs(m): 5:55pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

Beat her first, then send her away

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by RealAlubarika(m): 5:59pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

You're to weak, I can't imagine a woman not even my wife lock me out in a house I foot the bill.

Please continue one day she will attack you physically either with object.

My advise is give the relationship a break and evaluate it, if that's what you really want for your life.


We rise by lifting others

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Jamesb87: 6:13pm On Jun 08, 2021
RealAlubarika:


You're to weak, I can't imagine a woman not even my wife lock me out in a house I foot the bill.

Please continue one day she will attack you physically either with object.

My advise is give the relationship a break and evaluate it, if that's what you really want for your life.


We rise by lifting others
how do I give it a break..when we live together?
Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Nephilim: 6:20pm On Jun 08, 2021
@jamesb87 your babe got ur balls! Lolz!
. You're scared to loose her because she's beautiful? She must have been the only beautiful girl in your community, state or country! Beat humility into her head and kick her out of your home. Afterall you ain't gonna marry that bitćh! You wanna bet.?

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by ruffkenny: 6:23pm On Jun 08, 2021
Put her in her place,
Let her learn to respect u,
Man up man be a man..
U should be in control of not only her but Ur emotions too,
Don't give anyone the right to treat u how u don't deserve..and if u see u can't take her and make her respect u and be as u want,just walk away,birds of a feather flocks alike..u will meet the right girl with better character and attitude for u,and please forget about facial appearance when dealing with a girl,deal with her based on her attitude and not her looks,if she want it hot,give it to her hot,if she don't respect u,u don't have to respect her,if she control u,teach her that u can control her too..stop been weak ,scared and be confident..Get ur self worth back bro!!

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by dontrulee: 6:27pm On Jun 08, 2021
Jamesb87:
Good evening nairalanders..,I need your help about my relationship...it’s killing me and I don’t just know how to end this...she acts too controlling over me..just like I’m charmed or something pardon my English please...we’ve being dating and it’s going to 2years now...I treat this girl well..give her whatever she wants..I care soo much about her..I give her even without her asking...so what happened exactly today was that...actually we live together due to some problems she have in her house and I ask her to come stay with me..so we living together...,so what happened today was that I actually want to go and fetch water so a neighbor was asking me some question about something...and the next thing was that she came out angrily yelling at me...talking to me saying I’m a talkative that when I’m not a girl that is stand there saying stupid things..she actually embarrassed me....I was very angry but I don’t just wanna disgrace myself..so i stayed calm..,and the next thing was that she locked the door on me and all she say was that I should go back to where I’m coming from...I was like...in my own house where I paid the rent”..so I just keep shut and went back to sit somewhere...I get scared and I don’t just get myself whenever we having issue...so I decided not to talk...I chatting her on WhatsApp to open the door for me..and she said she will make me learn the hard way...talking in a very controlling way and she actually blocked me on WhatsApp..so i refused to reply to her....from time she acts very controlling towards me....sometimes she’d just frown at me...so I’d just keep wondering what haven’t I done to satisfy this girl...I do almost everything she wants....anything at all...I’m always scared not to loose her...maybe it’s because she’s beautiful and I feel she’d easily see another guy out there...so that got me scared most of the time...anytime we have issue she blocks my number both on WhatsApp and calling....,how do I go about this nairalanders..I need your help...I really don’t know what to do..help me all please I’m really suffering emotionally...she really embarrassed me and it hurts where everyone is...I need your advice please..no insult please...thanks.�

SIMP of the first order.
Your girl is cheating on you

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Re: I Need An Urgent Advice About My Relationship. by Jamesb87: 6:28pm On Jun 08, 2021
ruffkenny:
Put her in her place,
Let her learn to respect u,
Man up man be a man..
U should be in control of not only her but Ur emotions too,
Don't give anyone the right to treat u how u don't deserve..and if u see u can't take her and make her respect u and be as u want,just walk away,birds of a feather flocks alike..u will meet the right girl with better character and attitude for u,and please forget about facial appearance when dealing with a girl,deal with her based on her attitude and not her looks,if she want it hot,give it to her hot,if she don't respect u,u don't have to respect her,if she control u,teach her that u can control her too..stop been weak ,scared and be confident..Get ur self worth back bro!!
Thanks very much..

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