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OP mail me. I think I can help you out a bit. In case you prefer to mail direct so I can share you my whatsapp - c p u I n f o r m e r s @ g m a I l . c o m

I will check from now until the next 10 days bro.

Is like the two of una na Villagers and Jobless, because if to say you don tire as you come back from work you for no dey get strength to eye person wife.

Hi OP I'm also your age, I also have passed through this, failing isn't a life, it's a temporary situation you could change, i am still facing issues today but going with God, seeing that he wants me to keep on trying and learning from my experiences and making sacrifices. I'm hopeful for my life and currently learning a profitable skill which I love and makes me happy.

Hit me up DM..I can add you to a group which were learning programming together.

Stay strong.

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My brother, my brother you're a good person. You will get hurt very very well in this life. But you will move on and keep being kind and loving. Some relationships are not meant to last forever no matter how sweet they started. Bro there's 200 million people in Nigeria haba you can find someone who is better than Stella for all o

mascot87:
What do you foolish guys mean by "breaking up with her without her hurting herself "
Hurt herself for who? You guys keep deceiving yourself. Hurt herself ko cold herself ni.

This is misleading, you better realize that different people have different take on breakup.

JAOS:
use a microphone and yell "LEAVE ME ALONE" at her face that will solve it

Thank you sir. Akanni the great Sound engineer.

landmark86:
Op I gat no time to read all the b*llshit up there. But the simple trick is that tell her u are Covid-19 positive simple & come and thank me later .
But u be thief ooooo after chopping her u want to drop her right?

Thank you my brother. But where did you see that I wrote "I chop her"? What is your problem, Don't furious me like the other op from two weeks ago.

Hello everyone, I'm in a sort of huge mess right now. I met this girl years ago and I asked her out for a serious relationship after noticing I liked her, things were ok (mind you no sex) until I moved to Katsina for a handwork training, work was too much, food was little and communication between me and her was poor. I felt broke and useless to her and decided to call it quits just to ease her of the many bills I could not afford. She was kind, understanding and an angel but I knew I had to because I felt she deserved more, then slowly I just did not feel the deep love there anymore but I still really cared.

Now na where the wahala start be this, after I called her on phone and told her everything and why, she agreed. But then she started calling, texting and it became an obsession, I felt her pain and she would try her best to just get me to text her goodnight. I tried to stop communication to ease but it seems she breakup made her worse. Her family members were beginning to call me and I was lost at some point. I returned to Adamawa to get a better Job after perfecting my handwork and since then she calls and cries for me to see her. I go to visit her (still no sex) but no matter how I try I cant find or create that love anymore. She now cries and texts me always that no one loves her and I am scared she might hurt herself because she Is very emotional, I have handled her with care but the case gets worse everyday, I dont know what to do anymore. I want to move on with my life and make sure she's fine and moved on too.

Dicktion:
But one-time I decided to move further with the intimacy levels and she mistook it for sex attempt



Exactly where I stopped reading the trash...
Can't be confused by reading stories from confused souls biko

You could be intimate with a person without having penetrative sex.

HRHQueenPhil:
Wait, ur girl sleeps with other men for money and u are still with her? I thought men like u don't exist. Unless this story is a lie

It's not a lie o. That's how its always been for me.

Hello everyone, I'm kinda puzzled and feel I could pour my heart on this thread concerning what I've been facing.

I met this girl whom I have been avoiding to bleep for a while despite her crushing on me and initiating everything since I didn't really want to date her for some proximity/space principle issues although I was developing feelings for her. My feelings escalated the first time I tried to be intimate with her when she had pushed me to the brim and I could no longer be nice. This girl halted the intimacy and I wondered why but I just thought she was only forming bad and was not ready. I apologized and kept my distance sexually.

Weeks passed only for her to come pushing the sexual tension thing more intense and then the shocking discovery I made that this girl wasn't as innocent as I thought, she's had several guys and was a chronic flirt although she told me it was just for the money. Anyways I cooled off my anger towards the discovery as I had come to appreciate her for her character and love she had shown me. I told her to stop living such a life and If i wasn't satisfying her I'd adjust which she hastily obliged to and I started making moves to show her all kinds of love. The second time I tried to be intimate she still resisted and it begins to look embarrassing to me. I feel as if this girl is toying with me for some reasons I can't figure out.

Just recently I find she still hangs out with the guys and is even intimate with some of which I have found in her home. I feel so insulted.

[Note: This is an updated/modified post due to misunderstanding/suggestions]