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SyndyB:
Hello phone experts.

Thank you for the good advice you guys have been giving us here.

Please I need a good and rugged phone for my wife, considering battery life, memory space and camera. Something not too fragile to be easily spoilt by my kids.

Thank you.

Go for phone with victus 2 glass, level 6 on the Mohs Hardness Scale, with deeper grooves appearing at level 7 which cost money

frozen70:
You are right if you choose to seize the phone, but I think you can get another sim card for them and then notify their dad that you got another sim card for them because he is poisoning their mind by feeding them wrong information about you and it's affecting their state of mind because they are minors

That hence forth if he wants to speak with them, he can call your line to speak with them

Send it as a chat on WhatsApp and keep it as evidence that you already notified him before the family will say that you refused him access to his children

You can also tell them to talk to their father about their feeling and school fees

Since he doesn't have the senses to do his job

Na dem be this #TeamBaddie, please give a more constructive advice. The op started the story from the end, the question is what caused the seperation?

Onegai:
Ittakescourage, please be careful to ignore every poster above mine (trust me on this).

Now uhmmm,

The first year of Separation is usually the worst. The emotional fallout and craziness is enough for both of you to go full America vs Iran and be throwing bombs at each other in hatred. Nobody cares about the welfare of the kids. Not even you (and I'll tell you why later).

So here's what to do:

1. Breathe and start praying about your healing. Don't think of anything else except forgiving that man, I didn't say reconcile, I am very clear: FORGIVE HIM. It is for your own sake and your own peace of mind (because I know you feel relief but the pain is enormous and you have to put a brave face on. Even women that their husbands beat them, they still grieved over what could have been).

2. He's in a lot of pain. Yes, I know he's acting like an arsehole, but trust me: that man is missing his boys and he is blaming you for "ruining his life". He's not ready to take accountability for his own actions and the only thing that makes him feel better is hating you and attacking you. Even if he's dating another woman, it will be a rebound because he spent all his time talking about how evil you are and how you stole his boys.

3. Call his family and your family and put them on the same WhatsApp call. Now, Babe, listen up:

BE VERY RESPECTFUL AND POLITE ON THAT CALL. KILL YOUR EMOTIONS, DIE THEM, BURY THEM.

You need to calmly tell them what he's doing, that he's hurting the kids and they should rein their son in. That will be a hard pill for his family to swallow, they can get defensive. Which is why you're going to be polite like you're speaking to Dangote or Tinubu. Give them no ammunition. Tell them that boys need their father, so please anytime he wants to visit or call, he should do so. But he shouldn't let his emotions destroy his relationship with his sons. Tell them that you're never going to poison your sons' minds against their dad, but his behaviors may do so.

Children should never be used to fight the other spouse but it happens a lot because 2 adults are hurting and fighting like elephants and children are the grass.

After that call, start sending him weekly updates on the kids. Send their exam results for this term to him, in April. Even if he's not paying schoolfees, still send it.

Marriage may be over, but you and that man are joined till the day you die, he dies or those boys die. Repeat that to yourself everything you wanna lose your shi.t over something he's doing. Your husband cannot remember that right now but I pray he will one day.

By the way, you cannot file in Nigeria until one more year. You can find some unscrupulous lawyer to help you concoct something to file, but know that it will have a full custody battle in Magistrate Court and they will have to send Child Welfare officers (whom you'll foot the bill for) to visit your home and the kids school. Also know that Magistrates will not be lenient if they think you're using the kids against them. Which is why I'm asking you to do these things and document it all, with witnesses

And Divorce is filed in a different court, before a Judge.

Better ask that man calmly for money, before you kill yourself with stress or he foolishly decides to remarry one chick so he can get custody and then watch her deal with him and his sons. What do you think you're trying to prove, doing Superwoman, do you want to die of HBP


Breathe. Calm down. Get on your knees in prayer. And don't ask God to punish him , leave it to the Lord, both of you messed up and you never know how your story will end.

So much sense you what you have said, I also think she is trying to gain sympathy to justify any action she wants to take... @op never underestimate the value of a father in the children's life (check history)

Go for the Redmi Note 14 Pro mainly due to its more recent and better specs (not sure of the camera though). Then, the Redmi Note 14 Pro has more upgrades to go, unlike the Google Pixel 7, which is old, and the upgrade might end this year.

seems we need to run a statistical analysis on the number of nairaland Married females, e reach threads like this and no they longer exist...a good reason most men won't know much about women or learn.

miketayo:
I lived in india for 7 years. Light is stable except for 45mins every Thursday in some cities, Good roads, cheap food.
You can walk into any mall as someone earning below average and get yourself clothes or sneakers from branded stores. Good healthcare.
What else do you want?

I just feel the OP is biased, though some areas are dirty but india is a much more better place to live in than Nigeria (talking from experience)

Peakdesign23:
You're very foolish for hurting her.

I believe it's best to offer constructive advice or remain quiet. Sometimes, people tend to act prematurely without considering all the facts.

jonescosmos:
You either do 24 panels in series and toss 1 panel or you add 1 more panel and do 13S2P (13 Panels in Series in 2 Strings, Then Parallel the two Strings)

24 Panels will give you 6000W @ STC but your best shot is 13S2P which will give you 6500W PV @ STC.

NOTE: Your actual yield will depend factors like quality of the PVs and Installation Conditions.

Thanks

Edrizz:
What is VOC of the 250watt panel?

37.2 (Canadian panel)

@jonescosmos @dollarnaira @juror How will you connect 25 panels (250 watts, 24v) to 5kva Felicity hybrid inverters with 450voc?

nani667:
Psarip

Thanks

nani667:
Peak ⬇️

Which torrent site are you using?

What's the possible way our of this, order was automatically confirm and don't even know much about this custom wahala

noobody:
Very very strange,

Never had such occurred before,

Call speedaf on phone and lay a complaint asap.

The numbers pasted there are not connecting

noobody:
Which carrier is this?

What is the content of the item?

Speedaf, ear piece

Pls what's the way out for custom clearance unsuccessful

EduTechTainMent:
Isn't IVEM3024 3KVA 24V felicity hybrid inverter rated mppt 120 to 450Vdc, 4000W?

Yes....so does that mean four 550watts PV panels needs to be connected in series?

brightk:
lol.. oga wen nor like hybrid

It's an hybrid inverter (Felicity ivem3024)

Obnoxious2001:
Check if you have met the minimum required PV input voltage

Ok thanks.... minimum input voltage is 125V

@ Dam5reey1 @dollarnaira @ Obnoxious2001
What could be the reason PV input is zero on my Felicity 3kva inverter (pv reading 37V testing using multimeter)

Dam5reey1:
25.6V 100ah LFP will serve you better.

24V 200ah has more capacity technically, however what is use if they only recommended you use half of it, which results to 24V 100ah and the Life span still lower than lithium.

Thanks, any idea where I can get one to buy?

24v 200ah tubular batteries or 24v 100ah lifepo4 battery. Which is preferable
@ dollarnaira
@ Dam5reey1

Kaycee7:
Try gogotaku

Thanks

nani667:
°°°

Pls where else can I download my hero academia season 2, animephe is giving error

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TechGeek777:
Batteryless inverter also requires that you get small battery bank to support during raining season and bad weather conditions

Ok thanks

Valto:
24v 105ah 2662kwh available 560k - 620k.

Let me chat you up on WhatsApp

TechGeek777:
Ask @Zeestone99 or @Valto, they have posted it here few pages back and I have seen some YouTubers put the inverter to action and it performed accordingly and also it batteryless function didn't disappoint.

Note that you shouldn't load it more than 80% of rated capacity.

Even a user posted few days ago on how they fixed his SMS inverter for him under warranty and even apologized on top it.

Repairs is the reason some people fear hybrid and also it's like putting your eggs in one basket 🧺

TBH hybrid is the way to go, am not saying Standalone is bad either but few points have been stated above on its merits.

Pls what's your experience using a batteryless inverter (bought Felicity inverter IVEM3024LI).... saw some post around 2022 you mentioned using a batteryless inverter.

Valto:
24v 4.2kw hybrid inverter
5pcs 550w jinko panels
24v 280ah 7168kwh lifepo4 lithium, from me
that is all u need

Do you have 24v 100ah available?

jasp12:
What's the minimum / maximum panels required for a 3.5kva 24v (450VDC), it's a Felicity inverter

@bassdow @dollarnaira

What's the minimum / maximum panels required for a 3.5kva 24v (450VDC), it's a Felicity inverter

TechGeek777:
Although the HP of your AC wasn't stated, but if you can up your budget to 1.8m, you could get the following:

24v 3.6Kw SMS Sunmate Inverter 350k - 400k

24v 105Ah(2688w) LiFePO4 Battery 650k
Expected price according to Valto from previous response.

Jinko 435w * 4(1740w) 480k

Installation, Cables & Accessories 270k

Above are 1.75m - 1.8m

UPDATED

@parser @TechGeek777
Pls where can I get this inverter to buy?