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FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 9:13pm On Aug 09, 2012
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ronkebp: oh!!!!!....what natural disaster do you have there then?....actually someone just told me tornadoes!!!! so they have tornadoes .
Tornadoes yes... But it's not really a big deal sha. It's usual never severe for me or does it affect me directly. As long as u have a covered parking!Move here jo. grin
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 6:34pm On Aug 09, 2012
ronkebp: ^^^^ YEAH RIGHT!!!!thinking of moving to other States with normal weather(smiley) can't stand the cold.....but i am afraid of hurricanes and other natural disasters.... undecided smiley
Hurricane? HABA! This is Texas. No hurricanes oh
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 6:27pm On Aug 09, 2012
ronkebp: just saw this, great!!!!smiley smiley i love the hot weather...so i am enjoying it, i hate the fact that the stores are already changing their stuffs from summer wear to fall wears...sad smiley
Really?Loolz...Cool. I'm sure you rock shorts all day long. You should be in Dallas if you love the heat, with an average of 95, you'll definitely wanna be here forever. Out here, the Sun is not for Pedestrians! You know the stores have to start making sales for back to school, so items have to be changed.
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 5:12pm On Aug 09, 2012
ferhyntorlah: Let your friend tell the "arrangee" guy to tell her family they should let her be that he is not interested in marrying someone that has eyes, mind and heart for another man. IMO, the guy is the deal or is tie breaker here.

Since your friend's family like the african guy, they might consider his stand and that is if he is also not interested in marrying her.
This also makes sense...The 'arrangee' guy is the deal breaker! Good advice!
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 10:32pm On Aug 08, 2012
Oh thanks Miss Philly! How is summer turning out for you Ronke??
PropertiesRe: . by jaym112002(m): 8:15pm On Aug 08, 2012
Hi...My name is Dennis. Im coming into the country in September and will be staying for 6 months. Is a six month lease possible?
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 7:14pm On Aug 08, 2012
ennkey: Tnk u smiley Houston! I see u live in Dallas i used to bt i moved last year.
Why did you leave naw? DFW is the ish you know, more awesome places and things to do. Houston is more like London...its one of the annexes of Lagos. Nigerians too plenty there
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 4:59pm On Aug 08, 2012
ennkey: Hmmn If she is convinced that her guy is the right person for her, she should go ahead and follow her heart. The same thing happened to me and @the beginning of the year i travelled down to Nigeria and my bf nd i went to the registry. Family got to hear abt it nd were spitting fire, right now my mum doesnt want to see me or talk to me. That doesnt make me love her less, i know someday we'll make up and everything we'll b alright,though it hurts so bad but i guess thats d price i have to pay for my actions.Yes the bible says children should honor their parent it further stated that Parents should not provoke their children to wrath. They are there to guide us, love us not to control us with remote.Life is a gift from God, Parents are not God, they know so much but they dont know it all, they make mistakes cos they are human. Even God lets us choose even though he has the power to control us.
Perfect Ennkey...You said it well, same thing i told Rokiatu. And congrats on your union. Where in the US do you stay?
FamilyRe: Her Friend is Being Forced To Marry - Help! by jaym112002(m): 4:05pm On Aug 07, 2012
First she needs to pray hard! Challenges like this need wisdom, wisdom from God...because any wrong decision is one of a permanent nature. Also, your friend should be ready to SACRIFICE something. Either she sacrifices her family, or get pregnant and elopes with her man of choice..she needs to choose one. Because in this case, she can never eat her cake and have it. She needs to be ready to sacrifice. But one thing is for sure, whatever she chooses, as long as her HAPPINESS is in that choice, eventually, everything will work out well FOR GOOD. Thats certain
RomanceRe: Guys What Romantic Gestures Would You Appreciate From Women? by jaym112002(m): 5:42pm On Aug 03, 2012
kiss kiss S/O to Rokiatu...You bring up the coolest threads everytime. You must be an awesome individual in person
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 8:20pm On Jul 11, 2012
dowjones: the same as me. I broke up with this chic last night through whatsapp. It was meant to be a booty call relationship but she started taking it too far. the online breakup was my option cos she could be incredibly violent !
Last night? Choi! Hope she isnt stalking you! Cos thats what it leads to in most instances. The lesson here is to always define the relationship you are having with anybody...before things get mixed up
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 4:15pm On Jul 09, 2012
Big S/O to ROKIATU... This Smart lady always brings up cool topics :* :* It would be so cool to meet you...I'm just so so far away sad
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 3:50pm On Jul 09, 2012
born2fuck: Rokiatu can never married with someone else without offering me great Bleep as compensation
"Rokiatu can never married with someone else..." Mr. Born2fuck...GBAGAUN toh badt!!! cheesy
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 6:26pm On Jul 06, 2012
onila: I GOT game smiley
Game ke? *Now running away* Only kids play games naw...I guess you are a young lady, have fun! Small Small sha wink
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 6:22pm On Jul 06, 2012
Tinax: @op, mine was terrible..cos he's the violent and jealous type(som of the reasns i quit),he spent 2wks in the hospital,he just refusd to accept it and after recovery he threaten to bring his village juju for me..i pitied him and feared for my life thn..but we'r distant frnds nw..hmmm such a horrible experience!
Omg...Its never that serious oh! Haba...SMH. I thank God for your life, please run from Needy Niggahs
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 6:03pm On Jul 06, 2012
Vikin: One was over the phone, he cried .....I could still hear it. cry cry

Other one, was face to face....the tears was just rushing down the cheek

embarassed
Na wa ooo...All these dudes just crying crying crying for you...Im sure you have a River in front of your house already

grin
Vikin: One was over the phone, he cried .....I could still hear it. cry cry

Other one, was face to face....the tears was just rushing down the cheek

embarassed
Na wa ooo...All these dudes just crying crying crying for you...Im sure you have a River in front of your house already
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 6:00pm On Jul 06, 2012
onila: I have never been dumped
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I have always been the dumper and NOT the Dumpee wink grin
HAHA...Dumper! I'm sure you have got so many guys in your 'Dumpyard' Bad girl!Poor Boys!!
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 5:37pm On Jul 06, 2012
onila: grin
Onila, tell us your story boo...Or you've never ever split with a guy? I dont wanna believe guys are the ones always breaking up with you.
RomanceRe: What Was His/her Reaction When You Broke Up? by jaym112002(m): 5:22pm On Jul 06, 2012
You've gat nice topics Rokiatu...Loving your posts!

I couldn't break up with my ex face to face, i had to call her...She was too emotional on a relationship that was never serious, just mostly physical

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