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[quote author= post=82346648]The problem with masturbation, is that it is contrary to the purposes of the act of sex. Sex is intended to be an expression of love between a married man and woman. They express this love through a complete self-giving to one another in the act. Love never takes or is selfish. It should always be about the other person, not me. Masturbation is an exact opposite act – it is all about the selfish feelings one derives from the act. By the very nature of the act, it turns one in on oneself. This is the opposite of love, because it isn’t about another person While many young people suffer from compulsive self-gratification, it is not impossible to stop. The temporary relief and feelings quickly lead to emptiness and in many cases shame. It is like being thirsty and trying to quench your thirst by drinking water from the ocean, which only hurts you and makes you need good clean water. A few practical tips for those that struggle with this sin: Try to understand what makes you want to indulge sexually. Is it boredom, self-hate, stress, etc. Then try to prepare yourself to battle during theses times. You must fill up the negative thoughts and lustful images with positive ones. Sacred Scripture and holy images can help. Stay away from moments of temptation, the computer, being alone, watching movies with sex, etc. Have a battle plan to combat these problems. You MUST work on your spiritual life. The closer you draw to Jesus in prayer and the Sacrament the more you will conquer this problem. Most people need some kind of accountability to stop once they acquire this habit. As for whether it is healthy or not. Some studies show that masturbation might help with a healthier prostate for men and have a few other small health benefits. But, these are negligible. There are some reports of problems in sex with their spouses for men who masturbate frequently, especially premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction at early ages, etc. So, health-wise, there is no good reason to have a habit of masturbation. Remember: In Conclusion, “You were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” -1 Cor 6:20 I strongly agree[/quote] |
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