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Celebrities / Re: Pretend Your Vagina Is Worth $500m - Dabota Lawson Tells Ladies by jaysan82(m): 11:49am On Apr 03, 2017
noetic5:
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The ex-beauty queen and mother of one took to snapchat to dish out advice to the ladies.She says believe your vagina is worth something and don't give it out for free..


Read more in the SnapChat image, below

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Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/04/pretend-your-vagina-is-worth-500m.html

this quote is dumb for a few reasons
1. savvy business men would not invest 500 million dollars on vagina,it depreciates over time, it's readily available for waaaay cheaper( alot of times even free ) and satisfaction is shortlisted
2. smart men don't chase the pussy,the pussy chases them... I c no reason why any right thinking individual would invest 500m to get a vagina that literally begs for his attention. it makes no logical sense

besides not all vaginas are appealing. real men want more than a vagina to value a woman and at that point she would be priceless

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Romance / Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 9:16am On Apr 03, 2017
gcof:
my brother , that something didn't work for someone doesn't mean it won't work for. I make a mistake, I find a better way of doing it better next time. That mr A does something and it didn't work for him doesn't mean it won't work for me too. We are so different therefore everyone should find out the things that work for him or her
I agree with u bredren. my point is there r certain tips and tricks infact I can call them hacks that typically works when it comes to women. women love comfort,they love ambition,they love confidence, they love persona, they love power..... I am talking about quality women... around d way chicks can fall for u for just money. if u exhibit these qualities i mentioned above a lot of high profile women would want to be around you
Romance / Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 7:42am On Apr 03, 2017
gcof:
Hehehehe... you've definitely not met someone you love when you do, you'd realize there's nothing like specific rules, "how to do this", "how not to do that". You'd be willing to do anything as long as it keeps both of you happy
that's the mistake alot of u guys make, whatever happens in a relationship must be earned. their r strict rules to dating that stem from mistakes lots of men made in the past. the essence of the article is to ensure that u don't fall victim to these dating pitfalls. understand how women think and how u shud act around them otherwise another guy wud b sleeping with ur woman in no time eventhough it seems ure doing everything right in the relationship

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Romance / Re: Rules : 3 Secrets Of Deflating Female Ego ( Guys Show) by jaysan82(m): 7:34am On Apr 03, 2017
Jengem:
Stupid threads like this is why bob risky, pretty mike, dat lightskin warri boy that sells cream, denrele and all the other homos are selling.

When men want to make themselves the prize...instead of developing themselves and attracting a prize. We are meant to woo women. I know naija girls can be full of themselves sometimes but get off your broke behind, get some money and they will comport.

Money and success is a language every Nigerian understands.
stupid quotes like urs is why men think all women want from a man is money money money. listen it's called a trophy mentality, women can perceive lack of confidence from a mile even if ure donald trump. fact is if u want to continue attracting goffball, run of the mill and unsophisticated women then ignore the details of this article cuz u can get those with JUST MONEY . however, if ur priority is classy,Top of the food chain exquisite women then money is not enuff. personality, confidence, decision making, dress sense ( good smell inclusive ) , ambition are qualities that would make women drool over you.
imagine a gathering of 5 rich and good looking men who all want a particular woman, money is no object at dis point, quality women want more than money cuz they understand that ANYONE can make money overnight by hook or by crook but personality is built over time and stays with u regardless of ur financial status

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Politics / Re: Third Class Graduates Should Not Be Allowed To Hold Important Political Posts by jaysan82(m): 7:09am On Mar 29, 2017
@op ur write up is ur opinion and I respect it. however,I believe it's flawed and can easily be rubbished. let's start by asking ourselves who a leader is... a leader essentially creates an inspiring vision of the future and motivates people to engage with that vision. you do not need to have the best grades from a university to inspire change or manage people effectively. some individuals are born with leadership qualities while other had to acquire it.
I have met quite a few 3rd class graduates who are sound intellectually and given the opportunity can contribute meaningfully to any government or organization, under no circumstances should they be sidelined. clarity,devisiveness, courage, passion and humility are 5 qualities of a great leader...a 1st class degree has nothing to do with these qualities quite frankly
it's similar to financial intelligence. some semi literate individuals have an enviable degree of financial intelligence(they can spot money making oportunities easily) as opposed to lots of 1st class graduates who seem to only be interested in gathering knowledge and not neccesarily converting it to financial freedom.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 8 Things You Can Do To Get A Job Despite Graduating With A 2.2 by jaysan82(m): 12:33pm On Mar 04, 2017
These things are relative. I graduated with a 3rd class in geology and never looked down on myself for a second. I have worked in an oil servicing company and 2 different media houses and earn what most nigerians would consider a very good salary. Thing is this, a lot of employers would offer you a job if ure confident, smart, look/ dress good, communicate effectively and ambitious. Develop urself and work on ur personality. Persona is everything.

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Culture / Re: Alaafin Of Oyo Arrives Abuja Airport In Limousine (Photos) by jaysan82(m): 10:27pm On Feb 16, 2017
joey150:


What business? Educate me..business that made him enough money to buy that limousine and maintain all those wives...
Dude, lots of obas were former top government functionaries, established business men, ex military officers , politicians and such before ascending the throne. The traditional institutions get 5% of the local government allocation per month which caters for the welfare of kings and chiefs. They also get a truckload of gifts from their subjects. This is what's left of our highly eroded culture, I believe we must celebrate kings and chiefs or risk losing our identity completely. Indians were colonized by the brits but they didn't adopt everything british like we did
Investment / Re: Reasons Why I Stand Against MMM by jaysan82(m): 7:27am On Jan 17, 2017
Hey bro. A few pointers I think u shud note
1. If u r going to play an advisory role to a group of people at least let them know and respect u enuff to listen to u. With this sort of post u simply imply that the people who r participating in the MMM scheme r not exactly intellects and quite frankly ur opinion doesn't count to them
2. The website clearly states the risks involved with throwing in some cash into the system and advices participants use spare money ONLY
3. 90% of the participants are adults who have chosen to take a chance on this scheme and hope for the best, as adults they have the right to choose and disregard as they please.
4. The scheme has not in any way defrauded any individual as no one so far has lodged such complaint to the authorities.

If u care so much about Nigerians then help add value to their lives in any productive way u can. People would always look for the easy way out and at the moment MMM seems to get nigerians to the promised land of financial prosperity.Talk is cheap. We have a million problems in this country dat need to be addressed urgently. MMM seems to be the one thing Nigerians have smiled about in ages.
Don't knock their hustle

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Religion / Re: Daniel Obinim Flogs Teenagers For Sex Act (Video) by jaysan82(m): 1:35pm On Aug 18, 2016
I am still trying to connect d pastors brutal approach with d act in itself and how it's supposed to get them to desist from such. He's a barbarian and shud be incarcerated for a long time.
How in d world did their parents let this happen?is this even legal?d poor girl had to run for cover... there are better punitive measures than public beatings, this is not Rome 500 years ago. government must have a zero tolerance policy for callous acts like this otherwise the western world would consider it justified for calling us monkies.
Religion has really brainwashed millions of people

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Romance / Re: This Pre-Wedding Photoshoot Of "Buy Gala" That Got People Talking by jaysan82(m): 1:21pm On Aug 14, 2016
lordkit400:

Wow...
People are coming up with different concepts everyday on Pre-wedding photos.

Lol...When your hubby-to-be wants to patronize your business.

Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/08/14/photo-checkout-this-pre-wedding-shoot-that-got-people-talking/
There is no bigger waste of time and money than pre wedding photo shoots. They are completely non african, have no marital significance and reek of vanity. Although I am not a big fan of pictures in general but if u take shots at ur wedding,it helps in reliving memories of one of d greatest days of ur life, that's justified, pre wedding shoots are forgotten in no time.
Nigerians just copy westerners at d slightest opportunity and photographers keep laughing to the bank with this inexplicable obsession by nigerians

Career / Re: Like Hw Much Is The Salary Scale Of Radio OAP by jaysan82(m): 10:49am On Aug 14, 2016
I worked with cool fm for 4 years and can tell you this authoritatively. Forget the salary,on air personalities get alot of side money especially if they anchor shows on the premium belts. Lots of clients come in with sponsorship proposals,hypes and guest appearance requests and these oaps get paid per episode/hype.
The salary at cool fm is decent ( within the 100-200k range)obviously daddy freeze and a few other veteran oaps earn more due to years of experience.
Here's the thing, ride on the popularity of the brand and be good at what u do, b4 u know it all sorts of partners would want a piece of u. It has happened with freeze, yaw, lolo,nedu, dotun and other oaps. Dj exclusive probably earns a peanut salary but he gets to play his songs to the general public at will... Dats leveraging on the brand and am sure dats y he picked up d cool fm job. He makes a shit load of money from shows
Good luck

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Car Talk / Re: What Nigerian Drivers Should Have At The Back Of Their Mind by jaysan82(m): 6:55am On Aug 11, 2016
Talius:
LOL. As a chorister I just have to laugh, your choices of hymns are superb.

Meanwhile, today's my birthday, it won't hurt you all to wish me a happy birthday.
Happy birthday brethren.... mine was the 4th of august, had a blast... You take it easy and stay away from excessive liquor.

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Romance / Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by jaysan82(m): 7:10am On Jul 28, 2016
Benita27:
Never develop the habit of spending on a guy you're dating, there's no harm in helping them when they're in need, What real men want is a faithful lady, not one that spends on them.

To some spending on them reduces their self worth, even in marriages when a lady is the bread winner of the family, the men are not so happy, so why should your boyfriend be happy when you're the one doing virtually everything for him?, when such a relationship crashes, he has nothing to lose but you.

Imagine if all you do is:pay his school fees, pay rents, cook for him with your money whenever you visit, change his wardrobe, when there's no guarantee he will even marry you, neither are you his sugar mummy, is he handicap?. He will take all these and still cheat on you, and dump you when the need arise.

We ladies are naturally emotional, while the male counterparts are naturally logical, when he dumps you suicide is inevitable, he's likely to move on sooner that you.

He asked you out, you didn't ask him, why should you two go on a date, and you're the one buying everything, while he's collecting?.

Spending on a guy is not healthy, even your parents will frown at it.

Expecting the ladies you date to spend on you is like patronising a prostitute and asking her to pay you.

We're not in India where women marry men. grin


This is just sheer bigotry. If u've got money and ur man is worth the trouble y not? In d 1st instance if ure with a man with substance and self worth, he would ensure that regardless of what he earns, he takes care of his woman, but for you to imply dat spending on a man is a no go area is toxic, primitive and says alot about ur level of exposure ( no pun intended).
I am a high maintenance man, i wud spoil my woman silly and expect nothing less from her sexually, financialy,intellectually and in practically all areas.
Alot of times,ladies think sex and faithfulness is all dat matters and ignore other areas of d relationship. D difference between success and failure in ur relationship cud simply b ur financial liberty around ur man. It's veerry key
Romance / Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by jaysan82(m): 6:52am On Jul 28, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
I dont understand, so because he asked you out you should just be collecting? You won't surprise him with gifts or pay for dinner once in a while? This is why guys keep shading ladies on this forum, you present yourselves as leeches.
I am glad this school of thought is coming from a lady. Firstly, an individual who let's a lady pay all his bills is suffering from mental and financial incarceration,it is not manly one bit. However, expecting a man to pay all ur bills simply because ure a woman is highly delusional. It shud be proportional, a woman's worth is not measured only by her degree of faithfulness, but also what she's bringing to the table in terms of intellect, finances, moral support, enterprise, emotional control and how well she takes care of herself.
You would NEVER attract a quality man if u don't open ur wallet every now and then to show how far ure willing to go for him. It's as simple as dat

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Crime / Re: Hairdresser And Boyfriend Fighting Over Sex In Lagos by jaysan82(m): 12:55pm On Jul 15, 2016
Story is hilarious. Y in d world would he want sex with a hooker without protection? And secondly, ajah is before vgc coming in from Abraham adesanya, Mr h***y devil has no business taking her all d way 2 d vgc roundabout.
Their story is weird and disturbing
Where wud dis olosho get 500k from? She might as well start taking her medicine cuz she wud b locked up for a long time
Romance / Re: Ask Me Anything..... by jaysan82(m): 8:03am On Jul 11, 2016
Hii demilade. Okies wud like to know real quick 2 things, 1. The average nigerian girl doesn't give good head, some even say all sorts of crap( it's not hygienic, am I a slut? Bla bla bla) can u explain why? Cuz am sure alot of y'all watch porn. Some girls are not adventurous 1 bit and believe me a relationship gets stale in no time with lack of adventure

2. Why does the average naija girl not instigate dates, and if u do they expect u 2 always pay d bills even when alot of them make their own money. It's utterly selfish of them.
Props to the ladies who take care of their men thoo, shows a high level of exposure on their part
Career / Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by jaysan82(m): 7:59pm On Feb 20, 2016
Wooow. The description u gave for ypur boss' s attitude is a reflection of mine. Truth is there is nothing more depressing than a place of work where u dont feel appreciated. Its simple, ur happiness vs staying employed? Nothing beats happiness to me. Dnt know what they pay u but if u feel dis way after only 2 months then i wonder what happens after 12 months... like scar told simba in the lion king....... Run.... run
Romance / Re: Is This Green Light? Or Am I Over Thinking? by jaysan82(m): 7:05am On Sep 14, 2015
Hey bro, let me be honest, for me i judge ladies by their actions not their words. If a girl initiates a visit to urs, dats a seed.its ur job to water dat seed. I suggest u try to kiss her (dats d easiest way to establish if a ladies interest level is high )and then subsequently try 2 always b in her private space and amplify her commitment level.
Please note however dat u need to know when to throw in the towel as she simply mite not b attracted to u
Romance / Re: How To Woo A Girl by jaysan82(m): 1:25pm On Jul 05, 2015
Hey op, its interesting dat u brought up dis topic cuz tons of nigerian boys/men are most definitely in ur shoes. I used 2 b shy around girls as well until i asked maself what woman are realy attracted to in a man. From my research, personality, confidence, charisma, wealth, looks (not very important ), intelligence r major traits dat wud make a woman want 2 know u better. Nothong beats personality, not even money. Money comes and goes, personality stays with you even if ure broke. Back to ur question, how to woo a woman? There is no 1 size fits all approach. When i spot a lady dat tickles my fancy, i simply walk up to her and introduce myself as respectfuly as possible, but i always make sure i am well groomed ( smell good, well dressed and beaming a smile), all this is associated with personality. Subsequently i compliment something shes wearing ( cud b her earrings or wristwatch ), most ladies wud say thank u. And then boom, d ice is broken i start a regular convo hoping to get her no. Dats just d basic start. Subsequently u need to find out more about her and perhaps ask her out on a date. But its gradual, dont push it. U must act cobfident all thru dis, a lady knows when ure nervous.
Music/Radio / Re: Who Is The Next Rated Act? Your Choice by jaysan82(m): 8:27am On Jul 03, 2015
Maaan, there's something about lil kesh for me dat just cuts it. He seems like d next big thing here in naija and he has been in some respectable collabos. I know alota folks wud go wit reekado and korede. Kiss daniel is a joke abeg. Tekno hasnt done enough for me
just my 2 cents
Music/Radio / Re: Why Is Reminisce So Underatted by jaysan82(m): 7:37am On Jul 03, 2015
SPG4U:
[size=20pt]OP u said it all u are d only one thinking dat way[/size]
lol. Do u really understand rap music though? It would be a waste of time debating this with you if you're not a hiphop head
Music/Radio / Why Is Reminisce So Underatted by jaysan82(m): 7:27am On Jul 03, 2015
Hey guys, quick one, i grew up listening to american hiphop like most of y'all and recognize talent/ punchlines when i hear it. I have listened to quite a no of tracks by reminisce on his old and current album. He ticks the major boxes as a rap artist 4 me ( punchlines/ wordplay and delivery/ flow). I feel he doesnt get the credit he deserves. D oda day some folks were comparing his rap skills with olamide's, i was shocked. Lyrically olamide is a mongreal, reminisce is a pitbull. Just wondering if i am d only one who thinks this way.
Romance / Re: She Dumped Me, Now She Wants Me Back After Two Years by jaysan82(m): 7:12am On Jul 03, 2015
ksbusari:
I met this girl few yrs ago, I enjoyed everytin in d relationship ( d sex life, blah blah blah). After a yr, i started suspectin her of havin an affair wit a guy unknowingly to me was her Ex who came back frm the State. To cut d lng story short, she broke up wit me as she said she was no longer interested in d relationship anymore. After two yrs she contacted me on phone. She started calling, chating and later opened up that she wants me back. I still love her bt i still feel used. Wot will u do if u were in my shoes?
hey bro, she cheated on u and then dumped u for an ex, it doesnt get worse than that. To even contemplate getting back with her potrays you as a weakling. I agree that some couples ve broken up and gotten back together but when d a relationship has infidelity as one of its faultlines then getting back together with such an individual is nothing short of another potential disaster. My verdict, if she has a good persona u guys cant still communicate at best, there wud b countless cases of insomnia/ trust issues wit dis woman which wud only cause more fractures in ur relationship. Let sleeping dogs lie

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Romance / Re: When Is It Right To Sleep Over In Your Boyfriend's House? by jaysan82(m): 6:58am On Jul 03, 2015
Its all relative. How long you have to wait before you pass the night at ur boyfriend's house depends on 2 factors, trust and how safe you feel around him. If you can beat your chest positively in response to these 2 questions then do ur thing lady. However, it should not be abused. U want ur man to have some privacy so u dnt look like a potential stalker
Politics / Re: Jonathan Destroying Nigeria Before Handover – APC by jaysan82(m): 7:21pm On May 24, 2015
lilprinze:
APC should Stop the noise, assume power and let's see the change they promised. Lamentations to cover future inadequacies will not help the APC. if they feel the enormity of the task ahead is beyond them they should shut the f**k up and step down.
Dont be ridiculous man, can u not see the amount of bleeding our nation is currently experiencing? Its all due to jona's sheer imcompetence and negligence of duty. APC is only putting the whole fiasco in perspective, its their opinion, u dnt ve to agree with it but don't make it sound like what they are saying is absolute gibberish
Family / Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by jaysan82(m): 6:32am On Apr 29, 2015
selfmade22:
am intrested in dis n i have my reason
Absolutely bro. D fact is u r not ready for a successful woman unless u ooze of confidence, charm,charisma and make a decent living. From my observation, d average successful woman wants a man who can take charge and command respect from her and others alike, if d description above does not fit ur profile then trust me, Even if u ve money u would not attract classy women
Family / Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by jaysan82(m): 5:48am On Apr 29, 2015
This is a very interesting topic. When a man feels inferior around a lady with high earnings, it says alot about his personality. Real men dont let their financial status influence their decisions, d real asset is d wealth of ur mind and level of exposure. At d end of d day dats all u ve, trust me, it doesnt matter if a woman makes a milion dollars daily, she would b submissive if she feels more complete around u, in a nutshell, her money is garbage if ure not in her life, u dnt need 2 b rich to attract or even marry a very successful woman but u do need a trophy mentality

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Celebrities / Re: Ini Edo Shows Off Massive Weight Loss In New Photos by jaysan82(m): 12:09pm On Feb 14, 2015
seems pretty impressive. her arms used to be big and unattractive
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Hotel Manager Job With 25,000 Naira Salary. Would You Take The Offer? by jaysan82(m): 4:20pm On Jan 03, 2014
bro, take the job man,yes the salary is lousy, yes the job looks unattractive, but like alot of peeps have said, you have to relish the prospects of building on ur cv and also meeting loads of contacts as the the hotel manager. these contacts could even assist in getting a better job in d future. finaly, the change of status, (regular guy to hotel manager) is reaaaly appealing. money is not everything, there is no limit to what you can achieve with the right personality. good luck

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