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Christianity EtcRe: Jehovah's Witnesses: 17 Facts People Should Know About Them by jayshadow: 7:23pm On Nov 08, 2015
Amazing write up. I luv this!!
PoliticsRe: Ohanaeze gives Oba of Lagos 48 hours to withdraw threat to Igbos by jayshadow: 10:28pm On Apr 06, 2015
jayshadow:
This is one of the most dumb comments I'm reading. The fact you are free to air your views, doesn't you the right to spill bullshit. Without the igbo, business in lagos is zero. Next time get your facts!!
PoliticsRe: Ohanaeze gives Oba of Lagos 48 hours to withdraw threat to Igbos by jayshadow: 10:26pm On Apr 06, 2015
This is one of the most dumb comments I'm reading. The fact you are free to air your views, doesn't you the right to spill bullshit. Without the igbo the business sense in lagos is no where. Next time get your facts!!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Gtbank Test Of Wednesday 20th June 2012 by jayshadow: 5:29pm On Mar 06, 2015
Aisha90:
Hello everyone,Got an email for assessment in abj on the 10th pls what is the format of the test.Thank you
Pls, which email did u use in applying?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows WUNDERMAN, Got An Invite From Them by jayshadow: 3:48pm On Mar 05, 2015
Absolutely, she told she 25k too. I was so pissed, hw can she expect a graduate 2 leave his/her home nd come down 2 marina nd wrk 4 25k. I just stood up nd left immediately.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows WUNDERMAN, Got An Invite From Them by jayshadow: 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2015
D pay was rubbish. I was interviewed by an indian woman, when she told me how much I will be paid I was so embarassed.
I disagreed and told her immediately I can't accept such meagre amount. Indians are enslaving nigerians!!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is Zenithbank About To Recruit? by jayshadow: 10:12pm On Mar 02, 2015
Pls when are they writing the test
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows WUNDERMAN, Got An Invite From Them by jayshadow: 10:03pm On Mar 02, 2015
Yes.
RomanceRe: 8 Things You Should'nt Do For Your Partner If You Are Not Yet Married!! by jayshadow(op): 6:15pm On Mar 02, 2015
It takes lot of restraint and self control esp.when in love!!! I feel most tym pple who do these tins do it with a free mind, not minding the fact that such actions can backfire!!!
Romance8 Things You Should'nt Do For Your Partner If You Are Not Yet Married!! by jayshadow(op): 5:50pm On Mar 02, 2015
Don't do these 8 things in a non-committal relationship because, though love is spontaneous and doesn’t hold back, it pays to be cautious, especially when there is no formal commitment from the so-called lover.
Love is sharing, caring and living for and with someone.
Most people will agree also that falling in love, finding love, is getting more and more difficult – with most people preferring to go for physical relationships of sex without emotions.
What this means is that staying in a relationship for long is almost a dream.
A few days of sex and seeming love end in bitterness and you’re in the love market again.
This is why, even when the relationship seems perfect, there are some things you must never do for that person — at least not until you’re wedded or there’s a binding document in place.
Love is about giving in and giving up a few things, but…

1.Don’t change your personality.Now, they say you should change for the one you love. Yes, that is true. But when the changing comes from you alone and it seems like you’re being re-manufactured, then something is wrong. No man or woman should attempt to change you entirely, unless you really have bad habits. Aside this, in the event that you’re separated, the hurt will be worsened by the fact you won’t recognise yourself. You’ll be nothing without that person. A person who loves you must accept the real you.

2. Don’t abandon your dreams: This is another one you should be careful about. Two people in love ca exist without killing each other’s dreams. It is a good thing for both of you to alter your careers and dreams to accommodate each other. But there is a limit. A true lover would aid your dream, ask you to abandon it. Work out a middle way. If you lose your dream for a relationship that is not yet solid, marriage especially, sorry will be your consolation when it ends.

3. Don’t abandon your friends and family. Hmmm, it really is sad that some people let love kill their relationships with kith and kin that they had before meeting their lover. They do not realise that friends are the only thing you can fall back to when you hit life’s road bumps. If a lover makes it a case to break your link to friends and family, please exit. They should find a way to accommodate your friends. If you lose your friends to that relationship, what happens if it ends?

4. Don’t set up businesses or share details of official information.Many people think it is love to expose their entire business plans and financial information to a supposed lover. But this is dangerous. A lot of people ‘love’ just to deceive and maybe swindle. If they have access to sensitive official details, like ATM card pins, internet bank passwords, property document details, etc, you are exposed to danger!

5. Don’t become a donor agency.Lovers should help each other, morally and financially. However, don’t be saddled to a leech, a tick who only feeds off you. You’re not a bank account or donor agency to anyone. As you give, make sure it’s reasonable, and for genuine needs. A lover who always returns for more is a gold-digger, a fraud that you don’t need. Small money gifts are cool, but should not become the norm and basis of love.

6. Don’t give unofficial loans, bad personal investments. Loans are relationship killers.If a lover wants huge sums of money from you, be wise and make it legal. At worst, make sure the money is deposited to his/her bank account, to leave a trail that can be used to retrieve it in case you guys fight. To withdraw N200,000 and give to your lover in cash as a loan is not wise. Instead, transfer via bank and write ‘loan’. If the money is big a signed IOU might be necessary. Also avoid foolish investments like setting up businesses or funding projects without legal documents. This may look rigid, but many people have killed ex-lovers because they could not retrieve their ‘investments’.

7. Don’t give unfettered access to private emails and social media accounts.In these modern times, social media accounts are very sensitive. It should be as personal as possible. Making it a public affair for a transient lover is bad, bad and bad. Imagine the damage they could do if you break up? He or she could for example lock you out of your own account or even send out compromising messages through your account.

8. Don’t reveal compromising information or damaging materials.When we fall in love, there is the temptation to talk too much, way too much than we need to. There should a lot of discussion between people in a relationship. But some things should never be said to some people who are not yet fully committed to a relationship. Sharing intimate secrets will put you up for future attacks. Ex-lovers are fond of sharing demining information, like nudes or private talks
Crime14-year-old Girl Dies In Triple Shooting Over Facebook Dispute by jayshadow(op): 5:22pm On Mar 01, 2015
The fatal feud started with a squabble on Facebook, devolved into a planned brawl at a park, and ended with a 14-year-old girl dead.

Police in Alabama say a group of girls who quarreled on Facebook decided to take their grievances to a Birmingham park, where their fight was going to be videotaped and then posted online.

After the melee ensued, two teenage males pulled out guns and started shooting at the girls. The shots killed 14-year-old Kierra'onna Rice and wounded two others.

Birmingham police arrested two suspects who were identified by witnesses. The names of the suspects, ages 17 and 19, have not been released.
WIAT said authorities believe one of the suspects was dating one of the girls who was fighting Kierra'onna.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 9:16pm On Feb 26, 2015
Gbam!!
U nailed it @Godditex, d pay is not encouraging
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 9:47pm On Feb 25, 2015
Godditex:
Thanks bro. I pray you land d job!
cheesy amen!!! We will get in by God,s grace
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 9:27pm On Feb 25, 2015
From oshodi,take a bus going towards pwd, then drop at ladipo, cross the railway line and take kekenapep 2 oduduwa crescent, tell d driver 2 drop u at 7 oduduwa crescent
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 8:56pm On Feb 25, 2015
U nid 2 be very fast about it, cuz u,ve just 2hrs between d zinox and wunderman interview. Try leave zinox on tym so u can come in relaxed.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows WUNDERMAN, Got An Invite From Them by jayshadow: 8:51pm On Feb 25, 2015
@Godditex, u can call them 2 shift d tym or reschedule if possible!!@equiano, pls wht should I expect 4 d oral/written test. Your kind response will be highly appreciated!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 7:21pm On Feb 25, 2015
@johnorji, will u attend d interview 2morrow nd what did u apply 4?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Wunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 7:15pm On Feb 25, 2015
The job description was not stated. But I google d coy nd I think they are into advertsing/marketing and communications
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows WUNDERMAN, Got An Invite From Them by jayshadow: 6:32pm On Feb 25, 2015
I just got an invite 4 a job chat 2morrow. Pls who is with me.
Jobs/VacanciesWunderman Invite by jayshadow(op): 6:26pm On Feb 25, 2015
Just got an invite from wunderman for a job chat tomorrow.. I can't remember when I applied. Pls, does anybody knw abt dem?
RomanceRe: Annoying Things Guys Do When Chatting With A Lady(1st Time) by jayshadow: 8:11am On Feb 23, 2015
Mayor21:
The way i just da hit 1st spot this days ehhnn...
grin u too dey ambitious!!!
HealthRe: Please Help Safe Folake (urgent) by jayshadow: 9:46pm On Feb 18, 2015
notoriousbabe:
are you done?now fok off tongue
U must be a slowpoke. Get d hell out of dis thread!!
HealthRe: Please Help Safe Folake (urgent) by jayshadow: 9:13pm On Feb 18, 2015
notoriousbabe:
keep falling for it,ayaf sed my own
U must be very insensitive, you really need to think and know the right time to say somethings..in dire situations like this you don't talk anyhw
HealthRe: Please Help Safe Folake (urgent) by jayshadow: 9:13pm On Feb 18, 2015
notoriousbabe:
keep falling for it,ayaf sed my own
U must be very insensitive, you real need to think and know the right time to say somethings..in dire situations like this you don't talk anyhw
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dansa Food by jayshadow: 10:38am On Feb 17, 2015
Pls what did u apply 4?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Invite From Capital Express Assurance by jayshadow(op): 8:52am On Feb 15, 2015
The position wuznt specified in d mail they sent 2 me. I called d no dat sent d mail nd d lady couldn't rily tell me if d position wuz 4 marketin or not!

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