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icedbeatz:
I like that you used the word "it appears" which is no confirmation that she's a virgin, BTW remind me what the guy is insisting on? having sex with her? I still stand by my word that puni really ain't shi+ rather the personality of the beholder of the puni counts more. see what guys want. we basically want someone to love, enjoy life with, Bleep and eat but let me break it down.
1. A loyal girl that is trustworthy,
2. A girl that will be and do all the crazy wild sexual acts, "all" that the guy desires and try to do it that time we want it and not later unless she's sick, I mean she's have to be our personal whor* and do wild wild things that will blow our goddamn brains out and make us run back to go and meet her. very important or else another girl might occupy the position.
3. A girl that respects us and doesn't lash out at us but will find a mellow way to tell us what what we did wrong that they didn't like or how we wronged them it goes a lot deeper than when you girls shout we don't listen when you females shout it only repels you from us. Our moms and sisters been doing that ish we hate it.
4. Nagging?! HELL NO HELL NO HELL NO if you want to chase us away from you as fast as a cheetah then just start nagging us we will look for another female to confide in, care and even love. Nothing kills a man's love faster than nagging. Better cool down and "communicate" with us than shout because we won't listen to shit immediately a female starts shouting.
5. A girl that can handle things, that can take care of things even when we're not around we can relax about somethings because we know we have you and that you can handle it.
6. A listener and supporter, most times before a guy talks to you about whatever is troubling you he already has plans of how he's going to solve it but just want someone to share his trials and tribulation with. When he knows that you got his back and you actually demonstrates so automatically you're now golden and he won't let anyone mess with you, he can murder for you if he believes and knows that you got his back there's nothing he won't do for you.
7. Don't pester him for money all the time, if you're observant you will be able to know when he's got dough and when he ain't got dough.
8. There's like two more but let me stop here but basically someone we can truly trust, that believes us and our goals (no matter what the goal is), that respects us and never CHALLENGES US or goes at a thug of war with us if we are mad and burning let us go off don't challenge us that moment we're red let us calm down then "communicate" to us about our bad act if we were wrong that simple act elevates you to the peak, we might do some crap but won't let no one fk with you........

Oh I see...

So y'all only want subservient?

Well, good luck with finding such a girl cos really for any girl to wantu to all of these, shez got to have motives... I mean she must really feel some deep stuff for sucha brother else... dang now way she's doing all of the above... between have u ever really thought about what the average sassy, witty, good girl out there wants? n not just the kinda ladies u describe the Naija girl to be like...

Anyways I can guarantee u before any lady has to go all out then she has to be sure of the dude in question and this is bottomline...is he gonna be serious with her, is he gonna want to take the time to study her n no wassup b4 proposing intimacies, u know stuff like that and just like u mean every reasonable lady out there is got expectations as well, trust me and it's not that complicated as the men folk think...

a girl just wants to know you care and how u show it speaks volumes, she wants to be treated right and be made to feel special, hey, it's nothing outta the ordinary, it's just a natural makeup and really, if she likes u, she doesn't bother much with whether u bankroll her often or not! Just do the right things andd see which girl will not be morethan willing to go all out, I know of none...

and hey, the girl in question is actually virgin...

icedbeatz:
No maybe not actually the sex bro, if she's the complete yards of wife material like you said and holding sex back then the number one thing is why is she holding sex back? why? was she a retired prostitutee? is her puni wider then borehole? was she raped?( might be worst if she has psychological issues) is she a virgin?( hmm hmm hmm lawdy lawd who no go value a virgin :-) ) so the reason she's holding it back will determine bro. One thing I know is that I must lash and confirm before I buy the whole product, who will buy a car without test driving it?!

It appears she happens to be a virgin, with all those qualities but this guy insists on that! Now tell me, what much choice has such a lady got? If she dwells on that she'd just prolly think all guys are like that and really not worth the stress... you have just asserted that any guy would value a virgin but nope, not this guy.... so brings me to the question again, what go guys really want? Cos asides all those qualities it's like they expect something more which you all claim isn't such a big deal cos they could get it anywhere with cash!!!

icedbeatz:
Dolly how have you been? well to be honest guys can do without girls but its just the punk that we can't do without, if puni are sold in cans like other goods believe me most guys won't look twice at a girl. Another thing is that if a girl has a lot to offer mentally and otherwise, being supportive, responsible and smart then she's a goldmine but unfortunately most girls only have puni to offer which the in turn develop this nauseating sense of entitlement on the guys money and demand for making hair, nails, bags what about books? money to enrol in any self enhancing program? I look at these dummies and bimbos asking for iPhone 6 & 7 when they don't have a source of income that brings such amount the phone costs into their account. Most Naija girls are still in cave man era they have a long way to go. when will they start asking for money to invest than money for all these nonsense that makes no sense after you must have bought pheeew I pity them. Most naija girls are like cars that the only thing that works in it is the radio(puni) so how can I value a car that doesn't move rather the only thing that works is the radio? and mind you every car has a radio so there's nothing special about it.

Pardon ice but when a girl is got all the good qualities u mentioned and is ready n willing to offer them minus the option of sex which she feels is secondary to making a relationship work, why will a dude still decide to pass that up? Except of course, there's something more... which is really, the sex!!!

slimtom1994:
Good day Nairalanders. I studied political science at school and would like to work at an HR department. I intend on doing this HRM program. Please do you have any advices for me on how I can tailor my CV or any other advice? I would really appreciate. Thanx a lot.

Check out kendor consulting, they are having a free training for starting a career in hr, the next session is Oct 8th, also you can look up volunteer jobs... go to human resources group Nigeria on facebook, I came across some yesterday. SD human resources also advertised for a hr volunteer intern. Use google to get all relevant info, all the best...

*whew* what a thread....

Cut any ice, no sir...

And all of these hogwash woluld last for how long of the useful life of an atheist? Say perhaps in his youthful days until the midlife crises... or perhaps, I know, but I just wonder what becomes of your lofty grammar and high and mighty words when the dark of age draws nigh...

To the atheist, will you still remember your fine grammar when you are old and wrinkled? I have heard that God spares the unfaithful long enough to buy them time to see reasons and change but I still wonder, what will become of the atheist when he is old and all and his lofty grammar and astute sense of reasoning is all gone with the wind of time

I Wonder...

Dear Friends, a food for thought, seek ye him whilst still near, time and tide waits for no man! It costs you absolutely nothing to believe even when the mother nature is been kind enough to point out salient features of the hand and wisdom of God in all the universe... i'm a deist, agnotist, freethinker, whatever....

Just think friend, think, cos talk is cheap but what is, will always be much to anybody's comprehension!!!

Jdazzle walks outta thread...

Mescopaul:
@Seun , bro you need help. The confusion you are in is really eating up every fabric of your thinking faculty.

I've always known that when people don't want to serve God, they hide under the guise of claiming to be atheists.

It's just laziness that's the problem of these so-called atheists.

I don't have the time to go through all your lenthy crappy post.

Religion indeed has hurt the world (not just Nigeria), but if you consider the good it has done to man in the light of JESUS every other thing grows dim in the light of his glory and grace.

Atheism is a psychological jargon.
You can choose to believe, or not. It doesn't change the fact.

I've always told people:

"It's better to play safe: You'ld make a good bargain if you believe on JESUS now, and at last discover that he really do exist rather than refusing him now, only to discover that he actually exists and by then it might be too late."

You wont party forever.
You wont have sex forever.
You wont dress naked forever.
Everything would still end someday.

At that time all these pleasures you treasure would be seen as dung in your eyes.

Speak to a dying shrunken old woman.

Can she ever still treasure having sex all the day? Or dressing nude? Or partying? Or dancing about?

No. She dont even know if there's any pleasure in those things.

All she knows is that her end is near.

It's just that our life on earth and what we're exposed to has made us so myopic.

We do not know anything outside our nose.
And we think we knew it all.

Remember Plato's Allegory of the cave?
That's just how we are.

Now you've written a piece Seun, and you might be thinking:

"Wow, I've killed them all. I've finished all these religious fanatics!"

But the sad truth is that, to you, you've written something worthwhile, but in the real sense one can look at how much knowledge you lack to have composed such criticism against religion all in the name of atheism.

I wonder what you'll do when you found out the truth.

Just do something for me Seun,

Lock up yourself in your room oneday.
Take a Bible. Spread it before you and say:

"God if there is a God. They said you exist and you sent Jesus to die for me. I don't believe this crap (That is if you trully don't). And if this is true, I want you to do anything that would make me believe, else I don't believe it."

Have a nice day.

Well said bro

Where is Analice

charix:
I wonder if these children ever have the slight nagging wonder over who their real father is? It's funny to think they'd accept hook, line and sinker a fully black male fathered them even when I'm sure they have a few mixed raced friends and probably a mixed race relative.

So I thought it was just me ooo....

surreal abeg!!

nnamdiosu:
Your first mistake....you looked up to seun to save you instead of God that created both you and seun.

Second mistake..you forgot the fact that everyone , even seun has his own problems. So why do u won't to saddle another human being with yours?
Look bro.....just look up to God. I know it aimt easy but trust me sooooooo many people are worst than you but them still keeping hope alive. Just be prayerful. Hopeful. God will see you thru ijn. Amen

Nnam You're so correct, we should only look up to Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith...

Ranchhoddas:
Your aggression tells me you have nothing to say in your defence. Bye.

Hah... defence? defend myself to who? you?

Ogbeni swerve....got no time for banters... as ur defiance is seemingly proposing, I can very well see through ur folly so the aggression is enough to give u a bit of sense to steer clear off!!!

Ranchhoddas:
So what is Hebrews 6 vs 4-6 talking about?

Maybe you should go read it properly urslf... don't quote me unnecessarily next time...

hopefulLandlord:
what's happening here is pretty obvious

I stayed outta it cuz I could see the dishonesty from a mile away but decided to say something now that someone a lot more neutral like you is talking

its very hilarious when these Christian apologists starts foaming in the mouth when they hear a Christian turn to another faith or become atheist

they'll say words like

"he/she was never a Christian"

"he was just a church goer"

"he was pretending to be Christian"

if you really look beneath these words and look deeper, it simply appears that they can't really accept that a Christian could POSSIBLY turn to another faith or atheism, those words up there are what they use to reassure themselves that they're "different"; "it can never happen to me"

its a kinda arrogance or delusion of grandeur that they're actually exhibiting here

so far a certain monicker has not been able to point out the contradictions but "knows" there's a contradiction, and the saddest part is that the "evidence" of the contradictions he's presented so far have been very empty but you definitely can see the "herd mentality" with the likes that are on those "evidences"; fellow Christian apologists just read and liked it while not bothering to digest it

as it appears, they just like whatever comment is against atheism or other faiths no matter how empty and idiotic the comment is in order to reassure themselves

Sir hopeful, of all the comments I have read on here and much as I tried to stay out of this, I will say something on yours...

I put it to you this day that NOONE that has ever seen the light of God Almighty truly and genuinely would ever be lured back into darkeness.... I say Noone! Save of course it was light of some different entity they got entwined with...

You can take that to the bank... And don't quote me back, I have said it all...
Just go make ur research for as far as this universe is concerned ;its never been heard before of a person who experienced God in all his glory with conversion and followership n and somehow managed to slip thru the cracks and decided to go back to darkness, on the contrary, it's always been from darkness to light, sir landlord, my God cannot be mocked...

ngobaby2264:
Please I had a dream where my natural hair was full long and black, just beautiful. This is the first time I've had a dream like that. Other times have been negative, I've even dreamt of were my hair was shaved.

Glory restoration....

Jacksonville:
I believe this nation will be better because God is involved.

If you look at the map of AFRICA, it looks like a PISTOL and if you see where NIGERIA is located, it's like the TRIGGER.

Secondly, from another view , the map of AFRICA looks like a WOLF head-shape with EARS, if you look at the position of NIGERIA, it's like the VOCAL region. NIGERIA gives voice to the continent AFRICA!

We are the giants of this great continent.

On sunday after church, i was in a meeting and the LORD gave me a vision of nigeria and where it's heading to.

In this vision, the flag colours representing NIGERIA(Green white green) was crested on a throne that was glittering(gold-like)... Then the image disappeared.

Then i asked the LORD, does this mean that NIGERIA would be great again??. I didn't get an answer but i knew deep down from that point that this nation shall arise greatly and every other nations will bow to our GLORY!

There's no success story without failure or good times without bad times because life is like a two edged sword!

Let's keep praying for our nation and our leaders!. It's because of the Church(body of christ), this nation is on the verge of rising to sky limits.. We are the seed of the righteous, therefore the seeds of the righteous are blessed!


Look around and tell me what you see... RECESSION??. Hahaha.. NO! I see a great nation NIGERIA on the throne . When others says there's a CASTING DOWN, we seeds of the righteous says there's a LIFTING UP!

Psalm 33:12 ... Blessed is the nation whose God is the LORD; and the people whom he hath chosen for his own inheritance.


SHALOM

Sighted, concur...


All we need I HOPE, reminds me of one of my favourite songs "HOPE" by Hillsong United beautiful beautiful song...

Indeed we shall testify again, God is in control of Nigeria, let's be still.... He is God!!! *smiles*

Just to encourage someone, stand firm, be of good courage, nothing can separate us from the love of God, I mean, God is ever merciful and faithful even when we are unfaithful.

He is not man, his perspectives and tendencies are way different.

Maybe you are bothered over something or somehow u have strayed from the right path and feel u can't find ur way back, but hey, here's the good part, God awaits ur point of realisation and submission to go back to him. He is ever loving and understanding so don't distance yourself for the sake of a little mistake.... pick yourself up and hurry back to God, before the adversary gains advantage, remember even the most righteous sinneth 77times as said, we only all strive for perfection daily... and with grace we shall overcome..

In all, let he who stands take heed and ensures he doesn't fall for the advices of the wicked ones but if you do fall, remember we have a mediator to the father, Christ Jesus our Lord, who has bought our salvation and glory through his finished work on the cross of calvary for which we inherit the spirit of sonship and cry "Abba Father"

Dear friends judging from my last experience, this couple months I just want to state categorically that "nothing and absolutely nothing can separate us from the love of God" no matter what, the only chasm to be made between God and us is ourselves in the desire to seek him steadfastly and remain obedient!

Indeed God has brought me to a whole new level and I learnt anew that He is too faithful to fail.... I can't document it all but I know what I'm on about! May his name alone be praised for ever for he is the all perfect God...

God bless us all and shallom...

Nice one winner01, I enjoyed reading it!

I watched a video not too long ago of an ex satan worshipper giving his testimony... it was really moving, how God can reveal himself to a man who grew up knowing the devil as his father...


N: B - this is dazzle101, my new monker so pls include me in all writeups

The moniker dazzle101 is been deactivated...

GoodMuyis:
Its not possible to reactivate but to register another account, maybe with same username!

No need Sir, she's here now...

Thanks alot!

@Analice

Great0:
Welcome back sis dazzle. The Lord is bringing us back together once again. Waiting for more brethren to return.
Blessings.

Hello Great0 sir, thank you so much...

They will all return soonest...

nnamdiosu:
Dazzling like a dazzled dazzle star. Thank God you have a new dazzling moniker. How r you. Amongst other wonderful people here you mentioned this small boy. Thank you ma. Don't forget our very humours sister too hananhezron have a lovely night ma

Nnam.... you small boy? No naa.... we grew up learning from ppl like u on the thread lol! If I don't mention u as part of the main who I for mention na

Yes indeed, I had to retain the name so it's seems like I never went away...


Yes I have just come to learn of henanhezron, an intriguing character...

It's good to be back... God bless u dear!

HananHezron:
We allegedly[i] "ressemble"[/i] each other; that's how i fished you out

just awesome.....

temi4fash:
Madam madam...

God bless you ooo

How have you been??

Evangelist Analice has really missed you, Am sure she did put you in her prayers to ensure you came back.

its good to have you back..

God bless you..

and its Temi4fash no Temi4flash...

Maybe i just change to Temi4thunder...

I trust you have been having a great day.

Hello Sir, firstly apologies for the misspell, please blame it on the phone oooo lol..

Thank you so much for the welcome message, I have been good and I trust you are well too....

Keep up the good work please...

Cheers!

Anas09:
And here i present to you Newbies, Dazzle101. Welcome sis, we missed you.

We are able to go up and take the country

To Possess the land from Jodan to the Sea

Though the Loins maybe on the way to hinder

God will surely give us victory

Victory...

Move on to the rifhteous side

Move on to the righteous side

Move on to the righteous side of God...

We are Soldiers and Soldiers dont run from battle.
We will see the end of this.

We have read the script, we know the end.
We win, satan looses, but we must stay focus.

Let nothing seperate us from the love of God.

oooooh wowwwww God bless you real good....... sis, I feel so so so blessed to have you all........

Thank you so much.....

And nothing in deed shall separate us from the love of the most High God!

Tjayjosh:
Welcome back sis! Anas09 really missed you. We all do. Sanun da zuwa.

Hello bro, thanks alot...


Anas09, yes yes but maybe on here cos we still talk if not everyday outside this forum...

God bless u bro and keep up the good work.

Nagode!

oyeludef:
wow, good to have you back sis dazzle, we really missed you. I pray d mysterious mod doesn't get to ban dis account. Nice to have u on here again

Hi bro, loooool good to be back too...


Thanks for ur kind words! God bless u and Amen oo

HananHezron:
So this is the person i "ressemble" according to analice...welcome back sister. Very very pleased to meet you

Hi dear...


Loooool how did you guess it was me!

Thanks a lot and keep the flag flying with more inspiring posts...

Cheers!

analice107:
Gerarahia

Hi Sis...


I guess by the moniker you know who!

Great Brethren : CharlyG1, nnamdiosu, oyeludef, superior1, Great0, Tjayjosh, Goodmuyis, Vooks(awaiting your return) Temi4flash and other superb saints on here, I greet you all with the peace and love of Christ, please keep up the good work....

Greatly appreciated is Analice107, she wouldn't just let me stay away, I love you sis....

Shallom to all; both old and new members of this great fellowship and thread!

Welldone....