Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 4:34pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
oyeludef: Happy birthday sis dazzle. Keep dazzling wit the glory of God Thank you bro Oye, God bless you real... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 4:33pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
CharlyG1: Hello Guys,
Today ia Dazzle's birthday, Jdazzle! She just told me. Let's pray for her.
Imagine when a group of witches and wizards gather in their coven to curse a person? Urggh (won't work against us)
Now imagine when people of God gather to bless a person... (will work for us) That's beautiful How won't that blessing come to pass? For when two or more agree on a thing, God will hear.
So today, I pray that God raises Dazzle above all her enemies, may she be a dazzling light wherever she goes. May the hand of God keep her safe and may God send the answers to all her prayers speedily in Jesus Name.
God bless you dear. We all wish you Long Life and Prosperity. God's Goodness and Mercy shall fall in love with you all the days of your life. Amen
Happy Birthday! Hip! Hip! Hip! Hurray! 
Send me my cake via Whatsapp ooh  Awwwwww thank you so much bro Charles...... This is tooooo much, may God locate you speedily and bless you mightily for this kindness... God bless you and everyone else! Thanks for the love  and a mighty AMEN to the prayers.... I will send the cake ASAP ooo |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 4:11pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 4:09pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
oyeludef: my dear sis, d god of dis world has blinded their eyes. Alot of things happening in our communities we don't know of nd many of dis ppl involved occupy positions of authority in our society. An architect once told me that dey do visit mystic houses (like ogboni fraternity) to carry out some project nd b4 u enter u will b asked to swear u won't reveal identity of anyone u see there. Lo nd behold, u may just see ur state governor or a spiritual leader(false prophets) there. Satanic worship is happening right here in our communities let's stop thinking its only illuminati dat is a Satanic cult. D whole world lies in wicked as d Bible says. Anas09: Hmmm. The fight for souls. Men do not know how precious their souls are. For things they will leave behind, they sell their souls. Hmmmmmm this is some serious issue oooo So oblivious to the common man out there, may God help us mighty... Happy Sunday Brethren and Shallom! |
Family › Re: Connect With Someone Born On The Same Month & Day You Were Born! by Jdazzle: 4:03pm On Oct 09, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Connect With Someone Born On The Same Month & Day You Were Born! by Jdazzle: 8:05am On Oct 09, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Do Not Lose Your Soul To Worldly Music by Jdazzle: 10:12pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Lero15: LOL. Why bring Satan into this. Reason with what I posted rationally. I'm a believer too. Worldly songs not good, fine. But worldly movies are worse. You see them kissing, and portraying sex in movies. I have some secular music but I'm very choosy about them.
I have friends who do not have any "worldly ' song on their phone but have all sorts of movies. My argument is if you don't listen to worldly song, then do not watch worldly films.
Take care. Sir, that is actually the right thing to do! Just as the secular songs are bad for the soul I can bet you the movies are far much worse! They appeal to ur subconscious visuals n audio senses which is most dangerous! It's best to choose what kinda movies u see... but really one can get corrupted without even knowing.... the scenes come back graphic even after hours of watching these movies.... we shouldn't underestimate the power of the mind and how we could be infiltrated with evil thru what we see and hear... Between there are some good interesting christian movies to watch and learn from... God help us!!! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Has Anyone Gotten A Job From Career24? by Jdazzle: 7:19pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Connect With Someone Born On The Same Month & Day You Were Born! by Jdazzle: 5:44pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
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Family › Re: Help! I Am Going Back To Nigeria To Find A Wife! by Jdazzle: 5:39pm On Oct 04, 2016*. Modified: 9:18pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Contrary to ruling public opinion on here, OP don't let anyone discourage you! There are still an awful lot of great Nigerian ladies devoid of the demeaning traits that have been outilned above me...
Just be wise in your decision!!! All the best... |
Family › Re: Becoming A Desirable Wife by Jdazzle: 6:46pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
And the man brings what to the table after the woman has gone the whole hundred?  Men, you guys should step up and man up, stop leaving the bulk of the onus to fall on the women folk alone! Both parties have a greater responsibility to make the relationship work... Let's take it a woman decides to do the above posted by OP is she appreciated? No! Instead she's seen as weak and is got no choice but to treat a man as some demi god, while she is taken for granted and not even appreciated for her many efforts!!! Please abeg ehen next time you make such a list @OP, do well to make a corresponding list for the men, it should be both ways and not one sided... Some ladies spend their hearts out tryna be all that they should for a man, but he sees her as desperate, deranged and psychotic all cos she tries to make some chauvinist realize she is just the one for him! Enough of all this rules and regs/dos n don'ts! Women too know what they want in relationships not just you men so u can start by treating them right for better results... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 6:16pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
temi4fash: Wonderful piece from Jdazzle and my wonderful CharlyG1
May God continue to increase us.
Some times i fear for the ministry poeple in our generation because rate of powerlessness and spiritual naivety in these generation of ours is so alarming.
I remember my G.O would always complain and complain of how powerless these generation is. And he would say the deliverance ministers of these generation would have a lot of work to do when the time comes.
A lot of us has refused to grow, a lot of us has refused to pay the price for power, even in the occult there are sacrifice and price people pay to get to advance level where they control things.
I would just continue to encourage us to take spiritual things serious, the truth is that in spiritual warfare ignorance is not excuse. i dont know is not permitted, you want to make something out of these life, you have to fight and fight well.
Remember the book of Job says the life of a man is of few days and many troubles.
In these my young life, I have seen things, heard things and begins to make me wonder. But i thank God for everything.
In these season, wheat we talk about grace, grace and grace. I believe in grace, we live by grace but grace can be frustrated, the amount of grace in the life of A is different from the life of B.
I wish us best of luck in these Journey and pray that at the end we would not only make it to heaven but we would fulfill, God mandate and agenda for our lives.
Do have a wonderful holiday. Thanks Temi  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 11:38am On Oct 03, 2016 |
CharlyG1: Thank you so much Jdazzle. You just put the icing on the cake. I like the phrase where you said 'Stand for something lest you fall for anything'. Very true indeed.
I thank God for giving you this insight and wisdom. I pray God touch the lives of men and women who seek Him with a sincere heart, that He may take away their deaths and give them life through His Son Jesus Christ. Amen. This world is not our home. People need to remember that though we are in this world, we are not from this world (John 17:14-16)
Our very lives (past, present & future) is a reminder that there is a God who loves us. Have we not seemed to always come out from the hardship, pains, sufferings bitterness and strive? We've always survived because of His grace, and not by our power. God is waiting patiently for us come to our senses and realize that this world is just a chapter to be closed when the time comes. We should not give in to its distractions.
God bless you dazzle. God help us all. Shalom  Amen bro Charles, Amen... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 8:20am On Oct 03, 2016 |
CharlyG1: If a demon can make you stop believing in Jesus, then you're as good as dead. Demons will definitely throw circumstances, troubles and all sorts of trials and temptation to a person to make a person lose their faith in God. If a demon can make you to stop believing in Jesus, consider yourself dead, for it means you just gave victory to satan and his demons. They would be throwing a party if this happens, opposite to angels rejoicing in heaven when a soul is won (Luke 15:10).
Atheist are as good as dead people without Jesus. Anyone without Jesus is as good as dead (John 3:16). Man has forgotten his roots. We've thrown away our Godliness and adopted Worldliness. We're driven by what we see, what we touch, what we hear and how we feel. And we have forgotten that there is a God who put us in this world for a greater good, for a perfect reason. How did we ever lose our track in the first place? How have we let down our guard?
Am I in this world to just be born, cry, laugh, grow, sleep, walk, talk, eat, sh*t, school, work, play, marry, have kids, grow old and die? Definitely not! Not me!
There is something going on behind the scene that most people have not noticed. The stage is so full of drama, when the real drama is going on behind the scene. The real drama is the 'spiritual' not the 'physical'. The noisy stage is a setup to distract us from the real deal. There are lots of acting here on this stage; they are all talking and acting about fame, money, immorality, power, sex, lying & stealing, corruption and i-don't-care attitudes and belief system(atheism). They’re dressed in purple with an agenda of attracting more fans to the drama.
Satan and his demons are very good directors in this world of acting, and they have the perfect actors which they call 'role models'. Behind the stage there's an ongoing battle between the forces of light and darkness and only those tuned to the Spirit of God can know this. Only those who have Jesus in them. The more a person sees and enjoys this world drama, the more that person will be drawn to participate in the fun acting, after all everyone is free to act out.
It's a free world as it's called. Just pick your role and a demon will attend to you, to rehearse the script with you. Yeah, for instance, if you pick the money or sex role, a demon will show you what it means to be married to money (mammon) or to sex; spirit husband/wife (succubus/incubi).
The demon will be your chief supervisor in that role (sin) and you will be under it's command. And you won't stop acting (addictive sinning) until it says stop. Now is that a bondage or what? Yes it is a bondage. Overtime the person gets to realize it is a bondage.
So these is all a lie to seduce us to bondage? To our own deaths? OMG! It’s like an Ox walking into it's own grave not knowing (Proverbs 7:22).
Our purpose on this earth isn't physical. It's spiritual. Every man and woman has a purpose on earth. If we're careless and continue to participate in this fake stage drama set up by Satan and demons, we will miss our destinies. Our spiritual goals. We are disciples of Jesus Christ, called by His name, called from the dark, and delivered from shame. We don’t need all these drama.
We need to carry the message to people that all of this world's actings are fake. All the lust for fame, money, wealth, sex, immorality, power, corruption, cheating, blood, vengeance etc. This drama is action packed but it's all fake. It's all a distraction! It is staged to blind us and distract us from the real thing. This isn’t for us.
We need to go behind the stages to see the real thing. We need to think deeply about our lives. From the time of our true ancestor's, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David... they’ve all been close to God. What went wrong in our time? Why are we paying so much attention to worldly drama?
People need to know who they REALLY are. People need to know that there is a struggle in the spiritual. There is a heaven and a hell. We shall be hated for discovering who we truly are and for sharing this message with people(but do I care?). Jesus Christ already told us to expect something like this (Matthew 10:22), so I'm just going to roll with it 
Let's announce to the world that they're being deceived, they need to wake up! We need to wake up if we're also asleep. Let's spread the Message of Jesus Christ. The real show is all about Him. He is all that matters in our lives. People need to meet with Him.
God bless us all. You are so correct bro Charles, you know it's been certified the bulk of our lives rests with the spiritual but the people of this day are tooooooo carnally mined to realize this! The things and behaviours which should be eschewed are now the basis for some people's very existence. You see of some people even on here(religion section) openly claim to be atheist without batting an eyelid! Is this normal, no.... they have surely been possessed by some spirit of pride and self glorification which makes them deny their very own maker.... it is quite sad but sad enough as you I reckon and as you put it up there, they are a lost cause cos a life without Christ is a crisis.... or is it even the spirit of fornication? Which has become so so banal and common place, it's every where and so people now think it's right and Normal, hmmm "I remember the portion of the bible that tells us not to be unequally yoked with the unbelievers cos these ppl can surly and subtly lead us astray without our knowing and of course by the help of the demons working in them.... this message came clearly to me after I mistakenly got involved with an old friend from school, brethren we have to be careful, if you think you stand please be cautious lest you fall... I was able to overcome because I listened to the inner voice warning me the whole time! it seemed as if everytime I picked up my bible to study, God was trying to tell me to stay away from anyone immoral! Of course the first step to going astray is quenching the voice of reason in ur head and making up false excuses...... A friend recently told me : a guy she was dating openly told her he needed to consulate the relationship before things would work out before them and I asked her: are you married? Isn't consummation for married couples, is that how perverse the world now is? Sister, I told her, please flee before he brings you down! Fornication is the worst form of sin one could ever do to themselves cos it is against the body! CharlyG1 I wish young folks everywhere will be made to understand the wickedness and negativity this sin brings, it's demeaning, steals your peace, calm, health, dignity, purity, intimacy with God and lastly opens one up for demon possession and control.... Everyone is got to be steadfast and decisive. Stand for something lest you fall for anything..... Let God guide and direct us and help us! this world is a constant struggle and by the power of God most High, we the children of light must prevail because our father is King over all...... Shallom brethen... Bro Charles God bless you and more power as you continue to expose the kindgom of darkness through God's directions and revelations. Amen... |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 10:46pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
onetrack: Well, telling someone to change the name their parents chose for them is not respectable either. But I am not losing sleep over this. Your parents aware you atheist now  ? See him like :telling someone to change the name their parents gave them kwa kwa kwa Sounding like a kindergarten pupil... run along now kiddo... SMH |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 10:41pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 10:37pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
onetrack: Yes, my real name contains a reference to the Jewish god, but I'm not about to change it because I don't care enough about this issue, and I'm certainly not going to change it just because some offended Christian wants me to. That's laughable. Offended Christian? Dude..... really! that was pretty lame! Had I not told you in my earlier mention I didn't care about you  I only advised you changed your name to help you sleep better at night as the mention of God gives you trouble sleeping that's all! Take it like a friendly advice... P:S- It's not my business if u are atheist or not, again I couldn't careless what your beliefs nor perceptions are, now for your own. Sanity, quit mentioning me! You really shouldn't after now!!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 3:38pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
promise101: why sweating it?!
why not "Zeus", "Batman", "Spiderman", "Invsible pink unicorn" or even "Buddha"? Nice..... Promise101 |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 3:37pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
raphieMontella: My name is Rapha-el native name chukwu...... Both have ''God'' in them... M an agnostic atheist... Changes nothing I couldn't careless....  if u don't care about God in heaven, just drop his name... it shouldn't make any diff to you! |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 3:35pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
promise101: please can someone remind me the full name of seun!  ur moniker reminds me of my old moniker "dazzle101" |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 3:32pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
onetrack: My name has a reference to god in it, but since I don't believe he exists, I'm not worried about his wrath. As for people who might be butthurt about it, I could not care less about what they think.
In fact I should probably change my name to Yahweh or Allah. Sorry onetrack... but I can't spot God in that! Kindly change your 'supposed' real name which is not onetrack or don't derail this thread, not interested in your submission  |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 3:30pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
bennyann:
 Nice one OP. Please, what's the full name of the owner of nairaland? Is it just Seun.? Seriously, if Oluwa is attached to it, then he must be very wise for opting it out. It's quite tiring oooo They should just be wise and do the needful.... Nice suggestion bennyann |
Christianity Etc › Re: The Evil Apple: Did Adam And Eve Really Eat An Apple? by Jdazzle: 12:57pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Vickiweezy: That's how the story was put for us as kids, but we all know the apple represented sex. The devil opened their eyes to see the pleasure of sex.
OK, seems a lot of people are quoting and want to chew me. Lemme enlighten u a bit.
First of all, we see in Gen. 2:25 that Adam and Eve were not ashamed of their unclothedness. They obviously had the perfect bodies that God had intended for them when they were created. Now, notice after the Fall, in Gen. 3:7 & 10, that Adam and Eve were suddenly ashamed of their bodies. Why would you be ashamed of your body if all you had done was eat a piece of fruit? Now, back in Gen. 3:3, Eve tells Satan that neither she nor Adam can 'touch' the 'fruit' of the 'Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil' because if they do, they'll die. The word 'touch' here means 'to lay hands upon, to lie with.' See Strong's again. When you 'lie' with someone in this capacity, it's obviously sexual in nature. The words 'eat' or 'ate' when used in these passages do not mean the literal consumption of food. The words 'eat' or 'ate' when used in the first 15 verses of Genesis chapter three means '(lit. or fig.) to consume, devour (partake).' Consult Strong's one more time. When you partake in something, that means you are engaging in an activity. And Eve certainly did partake here! She engaged in sex with Satan (the 'serpent') who appeared to her in human form and sexually seduced her. In Gen. 3:13, we read that Eve, called in front of God to account for her misdeed said, 'The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat (partake)' . The word 'beguiled' here means to 'morally seduce.' IT'S NOT A MORAL SEDUCTION TO EAT A LITERAL PIECE OF FRUIT! This further confirms that the grand sin that led to the Fall in the Garden was sexual in nature. In Gen. 3:6 & 12, we see that Eve led Adam into this debauchery by coaxing him into having sex with a member of one of the Pre-Adamic races. Gen. 3:15 then tells us that two literal, biological seedlines are to come forth from Eve. They are the seedline of Satan and the seedline of the woman (through Adam). Verse 15 also tells us that the two seedlines would be in direct conflict with one another and in the end the Satantic seed will be crushed. And there is to be a major 'enmity (hatred)' between the two seedlines. Also, the 'fruit' spoken of in these passages is not literal fruit like an apple or an orange. Finally, Eve was to have two literal seedlines come forth from her womb. One being the 'serpents' (Satan in human form) and the other being hers through Adam. And these two seedlines are to be in direct conflict and have a deep-seated hatred of one another until the end times. In Gen. 4:1 & 2, we read that Eve gave birth to Cain and Abel. NOw Abel was Adam's son. But Cain was not! Cain is found nowhere in any geneaology in the Bible that traces back to Adam. Read Gen. 5:3-5; 1 Chron. 1:1 and Luke 3:38. In Luke 3:38, it states that the unpolluted descendants of Adam are the sons of God (this of course is a verse tracing the geneaology of Jesus on Mary's (His blood's) side). Why is Cain not mentioned here if he was an unpolluted descendant of Adam? In Gen. 4:8-12, we read about the first major enmity between the two seedlines that was promised by God in Gen. 3:15. Here, Cain murders murders Abel. Now, in Gen. 4:25 and 5:3, we read that Adam and Eve had a son named Seth. The name 'Seth' means 'substitute.' Go to Strong's one more time! Seth was the 'substitute' for who? ABEL! Remember, Cain was driven away from Adam and Eve. So why couldn't Seth have been a 'substitute' for Cain if he was Adam and Eve's son as well? After all, he no longer lived with them. The answer is simple. Cain was NOT Adam's son! In 1 John 3:12, we read who Cain's literal, biological father is. It's Satan! Hope you are satisfied.
CC: Uncountable likes for you......... this is true hidden knowledge you have just decoded... |
Christianity Etc › Re: All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 12:28pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
branhampaul: Cool Thanks, we need to address that which has been left unattended to for sometime now...  |
Christianity Etc › All The Atheists- Time To Change Your Name by Jdazzle(op): 12:20pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
I don't wish to reel of much! But if you are an atheist, self acclaimed, professed or initiated, a thorough blasphemer of God without remorse then do yourself a huge favour... If you bear any biblical name or you have any traces of God in your name for instance: Timothy, Paul, Joseph, Chika, Chukwudi, Oluwasope, Olorunfemi etc... stop wasting your time, do the needful run to the nearest registry, change your name! No point bashing the name of God and still leaving traces of his name with yours! You have already established the fact he doesn't exist so help your self now, change your name... it doesn't make sense someone stiill bearing Jesu or Oluwa or Chi and be claiming atheist..... P:S-. As an ardent participant on here this has been my observation so biko all of you save yourself further self deceit, totally break off all ties with the name of God.... Mind you nobody come on here and derail this thread just do as I have suggested  |
Christianity Etc › Re: A Riddle For Our Atheist Friends by Jdazzle: 4:55pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: A Riddle For Our Atheist Friends by Jdazzle: 4:53pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Take Good Women For Granted by Jdazzle: 6:22pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
No such thing as a good or bad guy, a real mature man would treat a lady right, no disputing...
Only boys exhibit such characterless traits! A girl gives her heart whole and some baga comes to form bad guy,deceiving themselves.
After acting all out the lady left with no much choice is forced to quit and tries to get over the hurt with the inkling there's still a better man out there. Mr bad boy meets a truly worthy opponent in karma with his next date and after a while remembers his misdeeds with the good girl and wishes, sorry brother, that ship sailed long ago, you could only just keep whining " why are girls wicked " SMH
@OP I totally feel you... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Jdazzle: 10:55am On Sep 29, 2016 |
CharlyG1: To all those that sent me emails, I've seen them. I'll respond to them before 2am this morning. Thanks for your patience.
God bless you  finally bro Charles... I didn't use the opera as u suggested... God bless you real good as always for the other time, the manifestation are becoming visible, I have been awe struck, when they say God works in mysterious ways, I am just starting to try to comprehend it cos it's overwhelming, it's very surreal but very real.... I bless God for his awesomeness.... Thank you too bro Charles!!! My dear Analice, u will always be in my mention, peace saint... Shallom to all! |
Family › Re: Solved by Jdazzle: 6:40pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Dear OP I am terribly sorry for how you feel.
Noone should be made to feel they're a bother to someone who they're dating and muchless to one who you're gonna be spending the rest of your life with.
At first I was gonna call you insensitive but after reading through your subsequent comments I find indeed the problem mostly is not from you but this doesn't mean you have not contributed to it all whether by action or inaction.... Now I have read a lot of pretty good advice given you on here but might I just add that communication is the key, you and ur wife are on totally different priorities. @filani has done a good job dissecting and analysing so i'd advise u read up his comment again.... your wife sadly doesn't know she's playing with something bigger than her, there is a distraction somewhere and you have to find it out if anything is to be resolved. Above all, why not seek God to help you through, we who comment on here just say the much we know infact this situation is debilitating, I pray the peace and joy of your home will be restored soonest with understanding....
All the best!!! |
Romance › Re: Living With Your Boyfriend And Going To Church Together by Jdazzle: 12:17pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
How they just see casual sex as nothing, beats me a lot man.... smh!
Body count countless chai, may God have mercy..
No be only going to church together they go ff enter fire together smh! |
Romance › Re: Reasons Why You Should Have A Girlfriend by Jdazzle: 11:12am On Sep 26, 2016 |
icedbeatz: Guess you're the girl in question then, yeah we all have expectations dear I understand that but now its kinda a game of who is to show commitment first. About the doesn't care whether you bankroll her part unless you're talking about a girl that knows herself, knows she's responsible for herself and has no sense of entitlement to her man's money but an average Nigerian girl comes with that silly sense of entitlement which is irritating some ask their guy to put them on a payroll from his salary for doing what?! being his gf?! is it now a profession? I wish a mofo would ask me for that kinda thing, I'm not saying a guy shouldn't show love to her girl. Personality plays a big role dear, as relationship goes on both partners should observe each other you will know who's good for you and who's trash. Nature gave the male folks an upper hand in these kind of things for instance he's the one to make a move in switching the relationship to the next level. We all have to compromise at a certain time, ladies are like the goods and guys are like the buyers ( no pun intended) so the goods have to be outstanding than the other goods to win the buyers interest, dating is like advertising we show what we got to offer and if its awesome its being. At the end of the day no one should marry out of pity. Lol my moniker doesn't depict my gender, so u can't call me a girl... I have just been observant with the kinda stories I hear girls reel off and I kinda wonder... anyways you are a hundred percent right with your analysis and submission and will definitely make a good partner haha! Gracias and Ciao...  |