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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Gives Me 1k.whenever I Visit For Tfare.. by jedaii(m): 4:33pm On May 22, 2016 |
ireneony: so wat if he dont have enough fah.. is that the best advice to give to her?.. thats the little he has. . who said he is a working class?. .. I knw ur dating ur gran father 21 Likes |
Romance / I Met Dis Lady::: Part2 by jedaii(m): 10:00pm On May 15, 2016 |
so finally I called the girl and told her to come and visit me... she agreed. . she came.. we talked and laffd.. we we decided to try something different. . I told her to stand up.. I hugged her .. initially. . I neva wantd sex.. m a guy dat respects ladies ''first time in ur apartment''. . so I wantd a lite romance tho.. buh smthn different came up. . I was on her.. I toched her boobs.. nd she pushed ma hand away.. I tried kissing her and she pulled her face out.. I tried touchin her boobs again.. den she pushed me completely. . she looked at me.. den she pulled her cloths.. leaving pants nd bra.. den she lay on ma bed.. she wantd me to sex her without romance...?? I neva wanted sex at the first place... she wanted sex.. but I told her we cant have dat now.. I cant sex u without romance.. she told me if I dont sex her i ll feel bad.. I told her m okay we can do dat another day.. she wanted to beg buh I made her understand m not changing ma decision. . she told me she felt ashamed. . I told her not to worry.. she wore her cloths nd told me she would love to spend a nyt with me.. I said okay.. I led her way nd she left ma apartment. . I was scared sha. cus of the the way she pushed me nd pulled her cloths to sex her withou romance. . I really wanna cut her off.. she z too strange should I..?? need some nice advises from both lads nd lasss.. |
Romance / I Met This Girl Last Week by jedaii(m): 3:33pm On May 14, 2016 |
I met this girl last week.. around town .. I was actually going to school.. I wanted to pick a bike when I saw her I decided we walk together. . as we were walking. . I decided to be nice nd bought ha somthn to eat.. so after all we exchanged numbers... we talk yes2day nd she was like she wanted to cme nd knw ma place.. I don't really understand the plan she has gotten for me.. should I let her knw ma place..?? z she for reall..?? pls help an unprofessional lad out... |
Romance / Oh Ma God Dis World Z Wicked.. Just Imagin by jedaii(m): 6:40pm On May 03, 2016 |
so many people will open dis trend and ll not like ma fine dard skind picz. . all dis jealous bleached albinos.. ;Dso many people will open dis trend and ll not like ma fine dard skind picz. . all dis jealous bleached albinos.. press the like button |
Romance / Re: For Not Sending Her A Birthday Wishes This Happen by jedaii(m): 10:39am On Apr 26, 2016 |
wat was dy big deal of sending ha a birthday msg..
girls and birthdays. . a better story dan twilight |
Romance / Der Z Dis Girl I Met On Ma Matric Day by jedaii(m): 10:55am On Apr 21, 2016 |
ok |
Romance / Re: Woman Born Without A Vagina(photos) by jedaii(m): 11:24am On Apr 20, 2016 |
ohh.. she loves anal ;Dohh.. she loves anal 1 Like |
Romance / How To Hav Sex With A Lady For The First Time by jedaii(m): 9:24am On Apr 18, 2016 |
You
and a
girl are
back at
your
place
after a
date.
You sit
close
together. You go for the kiss, she kisses you back
passionately, and suddenly you’re tearing each
other clothes off. Boom, you’re having sex.
But sometimes, things are a bit more complicated.
Many women are not nearly as aggressive or
prepared. You may have had a great time together
but she’s still hesitant and nervous. This happens
especially with younger or inexperienced women.
She may want to take things slower. She may need
reassurance that she’s doing the right thing. She
may not want to be seen as a “slut”.
You need to get her…
Sexually comfortable with you.
That doesn’t mean you should wait around, hoping
some day she’ll be ready or make a move on you.
That’s how you lose a woman’s interest. You want
to be proactive, take the lead , and then calibrate
accordingly.
There are three elements you need to provide so
she’ll she feel ready to do the deed.
Relax Her
Before a woman can even become turned on, she
needs to be relaxed. Her mind has to be free of
worry and her body free of tension.
For her mindset, you have to create a judgment-
free environment. She can’t be stressing about
how she looks, what you’ll think, or if she’s being
too open with her sexuality. Reassure her.
“Damn, you look irresistible/so fucking amazing.”
“You’re so beautiful/sexy, I want to touch you all
over.”
For her body, remind her to relax in a soft,
soothing tone. Tell her to close her eyes, lay back,
and take a deep breath. Again, let her know that
you want her to feel taken care of.
“I want you to feel absolutely incredible.”
“All I want to do is worship every inch of your
body.”
“Just lay back and feel my hands all over your
soft skin.”
Only when she’s relaxed will she be ready for you
to…
Turn Her On
If she’s going to have sex with you, she needs to
get Hot for you. You want her so hot and wet
she can’t wait another second to have you inside
her.
Take your time, there’s no rush. This is pre-intimacy!
I know you only need 10 seconds to get going, but
women need to be primed before they’re ready.
You want to tease, touch, and caress her body.
Focus on her pleasure. Too many guys immediately
go for getting themselves off. It doesn’t help her
trust that you have her best interests in mind. If
you get a girl off, she will not only reciprocate
the same to you but have a much easier time
wanting to move forward.
Start with less intimate touching and work your
way up. Some women consider certain actions
more intimate than others but here’s a general
guideline of how things escalate sexually:
Playing with her fingers.
Running your fingers on her arms or legs.
Massaging her back.
Kissing her neck.
Kissing her cheek.
Kissing / nibbling / licking her ear.
Kissing her collarbone.
Kissing her lips softly.
Kissing her lips more passionately (with
tongue).
Running your hands through her hair.
Running your hands on her body: outer thighs,
inner thighs, stomach/waist, ass, and chest/
breasts.
Kissing her stomach, breasts, and panty line.
Lifting her shirt up to expose her skin or
taking it off completely.
Unbuttoning/unzipping her pants slowly with
your fingers or teeth.
Rubbing her vagina through the outside of her
panties.
Sensually removing her panties while looking
her in the eyes.
Teasing the bare skin around and on her
vaginal lips.
Rubbing her clit.
Fingering her.
Performing MouthAction on her.
Having sex with her.
Don’t be afraid to mix it up a little. Take a few
steps forward, go back to less intimate touching,
and then continue escalating.
You also don’t have to hit every point. These are
just some ideas to consider to ensure a smooth
progression from pre-intimacy to sex. Everyone is
different but most women want at least 10-15
minutes before having intercourse.
Develop Trust
Sex is a physically scarier act for most women
than men. She is being completely vulnerable and
allowing you to enter her body.
There’s always a fear that she’s alone with
someone who could potentially overpower her and
go further than she desires. You want to relieve
her of that fear through your words and actions.
As you’re touching her body, say something that
confirms you’ll respect her boundaries. Don’t dwell
on it, just say it once with conviction.
“Tell me if you want me to slow down or stop at
any point.”
“Let me know if you feel uncomfortable about
anything.”
“I promise I won’t do anything you don’t want me
to do.”
Whatever you do, never go against your word.
Don’t get caught up in the moment and ignore a
girl’s signals . If she says “stop”, “no”, or moves
you off her at any time – ease off calmly. Never
jerk away suddenly, look hurt, or pout. Keep calm,
smile, and stay turned on. Reinforce the
judgment-free environment.
Never keep going, try convince her otherwise, or
brush her off by saying, “it’s okay, just relax.”
You will kill all the trust you’ve worked to build.
If she’s rebuffing your advances, go back to what
you were previously doing. You can even take a
few minutes to softly talk to her and get her to
relax again.
For example, if you took her shirt off but she
didn’t want you to take her pants off, return to
kissing or massaging her body. Continue pleasing
her and try to move forward again in a few
minutes. She may just need a little more time
before she’s ready to go.
When you return to what she was hesitant about,
ask her if it’s okay or gently try again. Look her
in the eyes and say, “Can I take these off?”, “Are
you comfortable with this?” or “Is this good?”
Don’t be afraid to ask a girl for what she wants,
either. “What would make you feel amazing right
now?”
If she rebuffs your advances again, I wouldn’t go
further. That’s usually a clear indication she’s
not comfortable yet. Continue doing what she is
comfortable with. If during the current session she
changes her mind, she can let you know.
Sex ALWAYS has to be consensual.
And if it doesn’t happen that night, doing the
above and respecting her boundaries will make her
want to Bleep you later. Guys worry too much
about getting laid that very day. Enjoy the
experience for how far it goes.
When you do that, she’s almost guaranteed to be
ready next time. You’re still building immense
amounts of attraction. You’re not going to end
up in the friend zone.
Remember, you can’t make a girl want to have sex
with you. She has to come to that conclusion on
her own.
Techniques like guilt tripping or “freeze
outs” (where you ignore her until she feels so
awkward/bad she sleeps with you) may work on
occasion. But, you’re manipulating and pressuring
her into having sex. That’s not the way to start a
healthy sexual connection.
If you treat her poorly, she often won’t want to
see you again. Be the guy that provides a positive,
supportive, and memorable experience. Not only
will she want to continue hooking up, she’ll want
to further explore her sexuality with you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Sha God Pass All Dis Gold Diggers by jedaii(m): 5:16pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
just imagine u offered to come and check on someone and u want somone to pay u for the visit... sha na low employment dy cause am
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Romance / Re: Here Is Why You Shouldnt Give Up On Average Looking Girls[photo] by jedaii(m): 4:38pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
seriously som1 should show me how to upload a pic and post a story... m tried or trying |
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