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But u should have married her since na.

Anyway, am sure you love her. But I guess you love her so much you haven't been cautious of the fact that you guys were drifting away.

You said she had indicated interest to leave you before? Did you take time out to work on what might be the reasons behind her decisions?
Or did you just assured her of your love, made sweet promises and then take good care of her?

There's a difference between addressing the root of the matter and cooling off the pressure in relationship.

Well sha, I wish her happy birthday and wish you success. She'll be back I can assure you(if not for anything, for the bond you both share through childbirth) she loves you but you need to know that love shouldn't blind us to reality. Sit down and talk at length and kw wat the ish is.
Rather than assume it is outside influence that's the cause- even if it is, there's always a way to check it.

NB: love might not strong enough to keep a relationship.

Nice write up.

But I'll still agree with the statement for the following reasons:
(1) Even if you'll only need to apply that knowledge once in your lifetime, then it is worth having.

(2) Some knowledge might not be for you; someone may just need it from you. So if your knowledge is for the betterment of others, then it is worth it.

(3) We can't tell how our lives will dress up in the nearest future that's why all opportunities should be seized tightly.

(4) Some knowledge are needed to open the door to other areas of life.

(5) You are helping your mind. Knowledge in some simingly less important things, can directly or indirectly affect your response to the "important things"

Another meaningless pageant

Mtchewww!!! Look who's talking.

Only kate henshaw looks like a potential winner

mdbabah2008: stop telling us what
God did when me and you weren't there, my brother wake up and be free from these imported religious believe

are you married? If no, do you intend to get married? If no, do youu indulge in sex?

Ofcos it happens; even though both couples have a responsibility to one another's sexual needs, yet, if either couple pressure the other into giving in, then it is molestation.

This means that either of the couple can molest the other.

We have also heard and seen cases where the man outrightly forces himself on the woman against her will, and if the woman does that to the man(and it happens a lot)- that is rape even though they are both married.

APC stating the obvious!

Am sure they have searched and searched for a loophole but upon finding non, they had to eat humble pie..




APC!!! We live on propaganda and backbiting.

Abeg make una leave her alone o cos nairalanders love her like dat.

Same old Excuse they make when they can't find a reason to stay in a marriage.

Really these folks are making marriage look like a supermarket.

Smh

Now I know why her former profile on google said she was born in 1968.

but it has been edited now with her dob deleted.

Of all the names she could bear, why must it be chelsea

Why not losers like arsenal, man u, liverpool or even barcelona sef

I may not know where the others are, but I know atleast #27million of that sum is heading to the janja.weed HQ

But I believe the remaining will be going into oiling the wheels of governance.

Omololu007: d USSR broke up peacefully,,,and we must also support d peacefull break up of nigeria,if dats goin to happen....is not a must for nigeria to b one

are u sure of that? One thing about countries that break up is that one seem to prey and systematically dominate the other. That is if they are even at peace with one another.

Good move. Others should follow suit.



PDP!!!!! Power to the people!

Oya take the credit oga fash but when the americans come, allow oga jona school dem on how to stamp out ebola from their country.

No mind dem jare! Irreconcilliable difference is the word they use when they don't have any genuine excuse for divorce.

Btw, even adultry is not irreconciliable if both parties are willing to work around it.

You are dating a guy for 5years and you've not even met his family for once let alone talk marriage. Abeg wat are you still doing in that relationship? Abi u are waiting for the gods to come tell you that you are stuck with a rock?

Well you have one saying it to you now.

Btw, it is important to define every relationship from the outset. It will help check emotions that may arise later. And if both want to start as friends but leave the door open for something more, it will be clear to both parties.

It is not wrong to ask to know your fate in a relationship so that you don't "TIE YOURSELF DOWN" to a guy that isn't moving. But again, if the guy wait until it got to a point that you have to ask him, it shows he is either uncertain or un serious.

Also, as a lady, don't keep the guy waiting for donkey years. If you are interesting in him, no need to dey play hide and seek- LET HIM KNOW!
If you are not interested or unsure of your feeling after 2 or 3years, release him to make progress cos you neva ready yet

Oya from now, make every aboki hol him own kettle no more sharing.

Singles respect yourselves and make the most of your singleness. See how many marriages are breaking up because they were not properly established. Prepare yourself so that your own won't end up that way.

But if you don tire to be single, go get married to YOUR OWN GOD GIVEN PARTNER.

Married people honour the sacredness of marriage and prune your desires for any other person other than your spouse. If your marriage is experiencing crisis, thankGod for it because you have been presented a great chance to re-shape and re-design it to the way it will suit you.

The most important thing about marriage, is to have a reason for wanting to get married.

This is what will help you look beyond all physical limitations when seeking a partner. There are people who marry for the wrong reasons, eg: looks, wealth or fame. Such union won't last. Even if they do, you won't enjoy it because you may have all the material benefits, but lack satisfaction.

NB: material possessions cannot guarantee satisfaction in life.

When you have a good reason for marriage, you won't feel tied or bound, you will look beyond the mistakes of your partner(there should be nothing like unforgiveable sin in marriage)

If you are scared of getting married, it isn't a bad thing to be scared. But it is bad to cave in because of your fears. You don't run away from challenges; you tackle it head on because in marriage you'll meet more challenges.

Nevertheless, I will advise you work on your self emotionally, spiritually, mentally etc before going into marriage. IT IS WORTH WAITING FOR and shouldn't be rushed into cos others are going into it.

Also, you don't choose partner randomly or mainly by what he present physically. Get to know him more.

Dating or courting, is not the period where you storm all the clubs, post selfie of your boo on social media, satisfy your sexual urges, or all them aimless activities. It is the period where you get to know each other better, Ask questions, test your strengths and weaknesses, help each other grow, find out how compatible the both of you are. Get to know his family etc.
This will help you infer if you are both suitable.

NB: not all good eligible bachelor is suitable for you.


But all in all, marriage is sweet and worth entering.

It is possible but not worth the risk.

Love! if is not agape, tend to drop as couples get more familiar with each other.

Why marry when you have no cogent reason you can look back on when the murky waters begin to rise?

Even though I don't encourage people to marry "just because they love each other", love is still an important ingredient as it help both party to be comfortable and tolerate each other.

Another reason why GEJ should continue until I take over in 2019....

What! Export power to us, generated from the gas we exported to them

For us to believe he's still alive, let him come to defence HQ and show himself

But we have those that studied under worse conditions in this country years ago that are doing very well both locally and internationally.

You can't have it all; so you make the best of what you have. No doubt the school structure is not too good, but over the last few years, reforms have come into the education sector and teaching is now better with improved curriculum and teaching aids(even though they are inadequate).

To remedy the situation, parents need to start early with the informal education before these kids are old enough for formal training, and while they are even in the regular schools, the informal system should continue. That is where values that can mould the lives of these ones, are easily passed.
Too much television, celebrity fast lives and all them reality tv stuff that gives cheap and quick fame, is really affecting the younger generation negatively and that is why their minds need to be shaped early.
When this is done, learning environment becomes secondary.

Also parent need to learn to study their wards and understand where they fit in-all these wanting my kids to study xyz, aint working anymore jare.

But the truth is, much of the work still lies in the hands of the student himself.

Even devils upon a thousand horse backs can't stop him

Ok! We have heard. Stop crying like a baby whose bottle was taken from him.

We won't vote for PDP, but we'll vote for GEJ. Satisfied

Not as if she's any better sef

I saw a rainbow yesterday in kaduna na. For the 3rd time this year alone that I've taken note of....no biggie

So ur music no sell again, u wan go use politics take bring up your growing army of kids ba.

Why burning the vehicle na

People wasting their lives for nothing.