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Family / Re: Please I Need A Loan Urgently !!! by jellybabee(f): 1:54pm On Apr 22, 2020
collinsfhk:
Try dialing *737*51*51#
I have tried it. But it shows, I have to open a salary account. Thanks.]Borrow from any online app and pay later.[/quote] I have tried, but the OTP was sent to my old number ,I misplaced the sim years back and am not using the same number I used for BVN registration again. I have gone back to the bank to change the number, but it seems they didn't process it.
Family / Re: Please I Need A Loan Urgently !!! by jellybabee(f): 1:51pm On Apr 22, 2020
collinsfhk:
Try dialing *737*51*51#
I have tried it,but it shows I have to open a salary account .Thanks
Family / Re: Alhamdulillah. by jellybabee(f): 10:17am On Apr 22, 2020
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Family / Please I Need A Loan Urgently !!! by jellybabee(f): 10:10am On Apr 22, 2020
Good morning Nairalanders,please I need someone to borrow me N60,000 to pay up within 6months with little interest rate because I really need it urgently and my bank has refused to borrow me.i have been trying to apply for a loan,but Gtbank keep asking me to open a salary account.But I do receive my salary in my savings account with them.,I need loan with little interest because our house rent is due already. Normally, we use contribution to pay,but this time the contribution has scatter because of this pandemic and we have only contributed for number two ,which I ought to be the third person out of seven of us at my working place. We have been trying to sell some household items but we haven't gotten a serious buyer yet. Please my hubby is a cab driver and no movement in Ogun State and our landlady is already complaining that she uses her house rent money to feed herself and her kids. Someone should please assist us.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by jellybabee(f): 11:55am On Apr 09, 2020
haywhy17:


I have both old decoder and new decoder..2k each.. the new decoder still has about 2 weeks sub. Gotv plus package...I'm ready to leg go for free if you are interested...
My location is ibadan
pls am interested in the new decoder, Abeokuta is my location. But is it possible during dis lockdown?
Family / Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by jellybabee(f): 3:45pm On Apr 02, 2020
Mutemenot:
cry first thing is to get her some medication, pregancy and infection. Then pain killer can also help reduce the pains she's passing through...
As for your bro, get him a place to learn work or trade, it should be a place he can live with his Boss. Keeping him in that house will expose that girl to more danger
for him to rape the girl both front n back, t means he can do the boys true the anus as well .
Family / Re: Covid-19 Stay At Home: What's The Light Situation In Your Area by jellybabee(f): 3:32pm On Mar 31, 2020
Very poor,no light for days now
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by jellybabee(f): 4:50pm On Mar 11, 2020
Chizzyozi:
Me too oo...My phone formatted and I lost all my documents
same here oo

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales, Abeokuta And Environs by jellybabee(f): 9:13am On Feb 22, 2020
pls post your location.
Family / Re: My Husband Gave Me An STD That Nearly Killed Me by jellybabee(f): 7:32am On Feb 08, 2020
cococandy:
Two options

Get a boyfriend that looks similar to your husband and have a baby for him. Make your husband pay for the kid until the kid is grown and then tell him the truth.

Or.....you’re only 26, you have the world ahead of you. You can dump him and find someone else.

That’s on the off chance that you’re not another troll account created for sensational stories.

No hypocrite should quote me to talk nonsense please. Thanks.
You are really funny ma'am ...laughing...

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Family / Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by jellybabee(f): 2:21pm On Jan 26, 2020
Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?
haa.... the first mistake you both made is making your 8years old child sleeping in the same bed/ room with you.....how sure are you that she hasn't been seeing things happen at night before. for the new baby can sleep beside you n your wife when you are not deeply asleep,but when you are ready to sleep off ,you can then lay the baby in between both of you. when the baby is almost a year old,you should get a baby's crib in your room for the baby. Then when the baby is almost 3years you should move to the other room with his/her sibling. my own piece of advice oo

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Family / Re: Motherchristmas Token Giveaway by jellybabee(f): 5:53am On Dec 25, 2019
I don't have much money but in the spirit of Christmas I want to bless some people with a token for Christmas .
Please how much is one whole chicken in Nigeria.
Give me a range.
Thanks
You can be of any religion or any culture the only qualification is that you are unemployed and not a new handle that registered after me or without active participation grin.At least you can buy chicken and give your mom for Christmas to celebrate.When things get better for you ,do it for someone else.
Now tell me your story I will pick one winner daily till Christmas day.
Merry Christmas to everyone ooo...please Op ...me nko
Family / Re: Reason I'm Scared Of Going Into Another Relationship Is Because Of My Heartless by jellybabee(f): 5:30am On Dec 25, 2019
A772:
Please Nigerians I really need your advice.

My father has never been responsible to us(my mother & her 4 children, I'm the third (all girls). Though he was never educated (but very exposed) giving excuses of how witches in his village never gave him the opportunity to get educated, my mother has been the bread winner of the family, though not educated but very hardworking unlike my father. ( my mother saw us through school).

Years later, my father came up with an accusation of my mother being initiated into witchcraft and that she is responsible for his inability to take care of his family( meanwhile my father has never been educated nor has a skill). This led to their divorce. (We really suffered due to this but I have to make this writing as short as possible). I was 10 when this happened ( in 2001)
My father had so many rich women as girlfriends, due to his exposure until he finally got married to one.

My father later got married to a woman, who later took him to USA for about 9years ( they later divorced due to the fact that my father was a tough and stubborn man, and this woman too has d same attitude, so they never lasted due to this ( my mum is very gentle and that was why my dad took a tough one on her). My father could not get a job over there because he had no qualification/skill, so he had to return back to Nigeria. At this time he was already 62( years)
(Don't forget since my childhood, my father was never responsible for our upbringing till now)

Ever since he returned, he was always telling people &us that our mother due to her witchcraft is responsible for his misfortune and that we her children must pay dearly.

This year around April I was preparing for introduction with my fiancee, my fiance,Pastors in my mums church,and other elders in my fathers family(despite the fact they were never there for us) around were giving advice that I must inform my father irrespective of his misdeed about my plans on marriage, making me see some importance of father's blessing towards marriage. ( I was feeling reluctant, wondering wat blessing could come out from a father that curses his children even on their birthdays)
As soon as I took my fiancee to him, he said he will allow my fiancee marry me without stress and that he doesn't need to go through any introduction or wedding with me because he hates my mother, but he is willing to support only court wedding. ( I wept bitterly on hearing this, (he doesn't want an introduction/ wedding except court wedding)

Pastors of RCCG( My mothers church since) met with my dad several times to beg him but he gave an order that no body must represent him in his entire family and I mustn't have a wedding until my mother releases him to go back to USA to make it in life, I became frustrated, so I had to break up the relationship since my guy was also bent on fatherly blessing and that without it he can't get married to me. No one is willing to represent him in my fathers family.

How will I get married without introduction/ traditional marriage?
When will my father make it in life ( without education/skill/ business)?
I am approaching 30years, my 2 elder sisters are between ages of 32-35 unmarried ( how/when do I get married)?
Yoruba People are really laying emphases on fatherly blessing ( how do I get it from such father)?
My mum can't take decision because she is too gentle and fear what people may say of her since she is a minister in the church.

Nigerians please we need help.
please Sis, since when did the presence of anybody defines a successful marriage/married life Don't rush but choose wisely....
Family / Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by jellybabee(f): 7:01pm On Dec 14, 2019
Xeexeex:

Sad story I will suggest you keep to your lane and paddle your own canoe and help your mom to the best of your ability and never victimize yourself. Hold your head high and you can make it.
Your dad will surely reap more than he has sown. That's the law of nature. Plant a seed reap hundreds.
He is not getting any younger. When he is old and lonely he will look for his children to stay at his side but he will have none then reality will dawn on him.
If something happens and he loses his job he will know that the new wife he has is just squatting in his place until things go wrong.
Anyway do your best. Pray for him.
Let the sleeping dogs lie
yeah you maybe right but most time I keep thinking of how lonely he might be feeling..... Only God knows if he does or not. Thanks for caring� t means a lot.

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Family / Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by jellybabee(f): 12:20pm On Dec 14, 2019
IceColdVeins:
MODIFIED
Dont be quick to judge.
I am the only one at loggerheads with my dad, my other siblings are not. And I never demonised my mom, I love her and I have showered my care on her. I'm just trying to make peace within myself and make the family balanced. MY mom and dad are still together. But the wounds dont ever heal.
Not that bro. I will always be on the side of every loyal woman and will treat them with love as well.
But I have now come to terms with the fact that no one is perfect, especially when it comes to marriage. During my childhood, I never saw things from the perspective OF my dad, we only kept on listening to mom's wailings(she suffered truthfully) but we never get to hear his own side of the story cos
a man never shows emotions. My reconcilation with dad is not a pat on his head for his wrongdoings but a move to make peace within myself.
You'll understand when you have a disagreement with your wife and your own children start taking sides.
I'm just trying to retrace my steps and lay a good foundation for my unborn children.
in life some children get to truly know what their mum passed through, while some know part of the whole story....
To start with my own dad....I do miss him a lot almost every day....I have tried to call him several times... His response z always who z speaking? When I tell him am d one...he start raining insult.... N t hurts me more n more everyday of my life. My dad never really cared for my Mum n we his children.. both emotionally,psychologically n financially. During my childhood we hardly av visitors at home because my dad comes home late from work including weekends, he was never at home. We barely eat twice in a day,we were always sent home for nonpayment of school fees but we lived in a well furnished apartment...while my dad was not paying house rent oo because d house belonged to his uncle based in another state then n we lived there for 14years plus ,with d fact that my dad's company was one of the leading companies in the state we were then. Through out my years of staying with my parents... I never saw my dad do anything by himself... Z either he ask my Mum or d any of his kids to do t....when my dad z eating one of d kids will av to stay close to b refilling his glass of water from d jug in his front ....practically right from childhood till date...I never saw my dad lifting anything up on his on....except glass of cup directly to his mouth ,food n drugs. He didn't allow my Mum to work because he thinks she z too beautiful to go outside. I can still remember how I cried hell begging my dad to give me waec registration fee a day before d registration close.... He laughed at me telling to wait for him to receive the 3million balance for the payment of the contract he was doing at that time n the same day was my 17th years birthday... I cried that night.... Eventually he gave me part of the money the next day n I borrowed d rest from my teacher at school..... The week I finished my exam ,I started working as a salesgirl... enrolled myself in night classes lesson n wrote jamb (medicine at OAU) ...n passed... I took my result to my dad ....he told me plainly.. that he z not ready to sponsor any child to school... I had to go back to my work n saved money till d following year n at the same time help to buy foodstuffs at home for my Mum n other siblings.... So a year after my secondary school, I decided to go for NCE since t cost less .....During that period my Mum moved out which we d kids supported because my dad was promiscuous together with his non caring attitude... but that period he always come home with a particular woman that tries to beat our mum if not for the intervention of my elder brothers.....my dad then called a meeting with us(kids) begging us not to associate no visit our mum n he z ready to sponsor our education to any level n he was making funny jokes as if he z a different man from d one DAT can slap u for a little mistake.... I finished school n got married quietly without any party because I feel tz not necessary....sometimes I wish to further my studies soon...Most people look at u wen u say u av NCE as if u r not serious... What if I had decided to work more after my NCE n then further instead of getting married? ....maybe I would av dated several men in d name of searching for Mr right huh? N t wouldn't av guaranteed govt job as well. There was a time I went for neco script marking interview..,... And the Interviewer were interrogating n looking at me like .....despite your good result you only av NCE They asked me y...n I told them my parents were not able to send me to university ooo...n d man z looking at me lyk am not serious at all oo... Back to the story... I don't hate my dad but he has refused to communicate with any of his kids... He doesn't have our phone number sef....we once had our dad arguing with our mum DAT he never wanted kids but just her alone. He has been married on n off since then, but I heard from my Mum that dad got married again recently n his wife just gave birth to a baby boy....well he still calls our Mum to come back to him....so please what do you think we the kids should do?

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Family / Re: The Six Importance Of Educational Toys To Children by jellybabee(f): 1:46pm On Sep 09, 2019
Thanks for the information
Politics / Re: EFCC Postpones Auctioning Of Forfeited Trucks, Vehicles, Others by jellybabee(f): 1:42pm On Sep 09, 2019
Hmmmmn...
Family / Re: Back To School: Children Shoes And School Bags - Nationwide Delivery by jellybabee(f): 8:59am On Sep 08, 2019
ClothingandShoe:
Back to School Children Shoes.
how much is the brown shoe?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: .. by jellybabee(f): 9:13am On Sep 05, 2019
Zabiboy:
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drop ur mail if interested
please I have interest and kindly send me the details of how to do it. jelilatjamesabolade@gmail.com .Thanks.

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Education / Re: Naija Quiz Show #4 - Win N5,000!! Sept 5th by jellybabee(f): 9:03am On Sep 05, 2019
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by jellybabee(f): 1:16pm On Aug 16, 2019
MicroSweet:
Nope
Thanks.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by jellybabee(f): 1:14pm On Aug 16, 2019
Ojolfc:
Good day to you all...
Is it possible for me to print my acknowledge slip at buiz center cox my application was done on my phone last night.
yes, I did the same thing.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by jellybabee(f): 1:14pm On Aug 16, 2019
fabem:


For now, no. Just hold your acknowledgement slip.
okay, thanks.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by jellybabee(f): 9:01am On Aug 16, 2019
Please is there anything like referee form to print out?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Dispatch Rider Needed by jellybabee(f): 11:55pm On Aug 05, 2019
location pls.
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Family / Re: H by jellybabee(f): 11:21pm On Jun 21, 2019
orbitalgis:


All lies.Althoigh I hope this doesn't become your portion but eventually it will as you continue to use this false story to fraudulently collect money from strangers.
hmmmnn.....should I be angry with the fact that you judged me without any evidence? Or ask God why me? Because I started working to earn my own income from my secondary school days as a young girl,so why should I rely on strangers money? as you tagged it huh? If BH bombings didn't start suddenly God knows things won't be like this... Do you know how it feels to run for your life 1st,leaving all you worked for behind you ? Running to a new city where you don't know anybody,no prior plan for relocation or accommodation in the new city?,no job waiting for you in the new city? You just have to start your life a fresh one; searching for affordable accommodation, job,feeding, and also get few new things you will need to survive first and all these new and sudden expenses are from whatever amount you have in your account. Then the jobs you get in the new city, the pay is always low......... Please good night

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Family / Re: H by jellybabee(f): 12:54pm On Jun 21, 2019
Erediauwa:
Continue your hustle, you or your husband cannot be millionaires overnight.


Don't use the "suicide" talk as a ploy to attract online sympathy.

Your pay day will come.
Amen ...Thanks
Family / Re: H by jellybabee(f): 12:53pm On Jun 21, 2019
Thanks a lot to Mr/Mrs/Miss Tosin A.A. May Almighty God in his infinite blessings continue to enrich you and your family from this moment till eternity, Amen.
Family / Re: H by jellybabee(f): 12:44pm On Jun 21, 2019
FannySwindler1:
The poster above was instructed by me to put a smile on your face. Have a nice weekend.
Wow !!! Thanks Sir . We are sincerely grateful Sir.

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