| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Afrikween(f): 9:32pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Like I said you stupid, Flappy fvck... GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Afrikween(f): 9:35pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
As you don’t have sense to know that everyone has a right to his/her opinion but your oversabi will not let you, now go take a rope and hang yourself you’re probably one of those irrelevant illiterates..... GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by TruthSpeaker: 9:36pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
PaAdu02:
Hello brother, I went thru this phase,but I tried till I conquered this phase.
Try to get customised raised bed for the two kids beside ur family bed in ur room.The bed will be taken off in the morning and placed back at night,my kids are 6 and 4 years respectively, and they sleep in our room,but on different bed,if possible, reduce the size of ur family bed to be able to contain the bed u re making for the kids.You know what,most women like ur wife and mine do not care ,they like this phase,morealso,they too are going thru post baby depression YOU LIVE IN A ONE ROOM APARTMENT? IF NO, THEN IT IS SENSELESS HAVING A 6 AND 4 YEARS OLD SLEEP IN THE SAME ROOM WITH YOU AND YOUR WIFE. YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO WITNESS YOU HAVING SEX WITH YOUR WIFE AT SUCH A TENDER AGE RIGHT? WILL YOU PERMIT THEM TO WATCH PORN MOVIE? DO YOU THINK IT IS EVERY TIME SOMEONE LIES ON THE BED WITH HIS/HER EYES CLOSED THAT THE PERSON IS SLEEPING? IS IT GHOST (100% SILENT) SEX YOU HAVE WITH YOUR WIFE? THIS YOUR SUGGESTION IS THAT OF A ONE ROOM ACCOMMODATION MAN’S MENTALITY. THIS DUDE HAS ALREADY SAID HE HAS MORE THAN ONE ROOM. I HAVE A COUPLE OF KIDS AND THE 2 & 3 YEARS OLD SLEEP IN THEIR OWN ROOM AND USE A DIFFERENT TOILET FROM MINE. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Afrikween(f): 9:42pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
As you don’t have sense to know that everyone is entitled to his/her opinions, but your oversabi will not let you know...now go take a rope and hang yourself, you’re one of those irrelevant illiterates..cunt GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Uyi168: 10:22pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
iso604:
Epa everywhere good
Any ideas men dey street inbox me .. Ok.. We go talk.. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by olajigaolamide: 10:22pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:
Just do as our elders did and marry another wife.
Problem solved. End of discussion. Lobatan. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by MasterofNL: 11:10pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Vortex369:
[s]Well, your last line was a question: What I think?
Are you sure you really want to know what I think?
Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.
I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.
The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.
You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?
My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.
It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.
You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.
Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?
Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains[/s].
You are actually a very st.upid woman for writing this rubbish. A wife should not allow her children take the place of their father. Do you know what sex means to a man? You're an iidiot for calling the OP stu.pid Animal. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by MasterofNL: 11:11pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
jenifer007:
Madam you are very wrong with your analysis.... Once you are married even your kids must not be a barrier when it comes to satisfying your man.....A reasonable married woman must know how to balance the equation.... That woman is a big foool. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Longman180(m): 11:55pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Davash222:
After the day's toil, a married man needs the wife's cuddle and touches at night. It's essential in every young marriage. Coming back home at night to behold your sexy wife alone with lingerie at your wide bed gives joy and also elongates life's span. Wives should stop depriving their husbands this privilege.
One of the reasons for having children bedrooms is to create provisions for these things.
OP, I understand how you feel. Imagine a 7 month old baby dragging your breast with you.. Breast that you paid for. I know you dont have access to that breast again. Nawao  
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| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Odemok(m): 12:41am On Jan 25, 2020 |
No she is right. There could be other ways to have sex with his wife than coming here to tell us he is sex starved. What happened to a couple of rounds when the kids are sleeping? What happened to doing it very early in the morning? What happened to a quickie when the kids are busy with cartoon in the living room? This is why he has to be the alpha male. Invent other ways to kill a rat in your house bros. Leave your wife to take care of the kids as it should be while you think of ways to get collect the sex from her. IMPROVISE! MasterofNL:
You are actually a very st.upid woman for writing this rubbish.
A wife should not allow her children take the place of their father.
Do you know what sex means to a man?
You're an iidiot for calling the OP stu.pid
Animal. 1 Like |
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| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niorte: 8:39am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Vortex369:
You are thinking with your dick. Some of you think the world begins and ends with sex because you do not even know the purpose of life and why you were born.
When you realize your Life mission, you will not build your life around sex and madness. How can you be this UNCULTURED? How? I wondered! 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by MasterofNL: 8:49am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Odemok:
No she is right. There could be other ways to have sex with his wife than coming here to tell us he is sex starved. What happened to a couple of rounds when the kids are sleeping? What happened to doing it very early in the morning? What happened to a quickie when the kids are busy with cartoon in the living room? This is why he has to be the alpha male. Invent other ways to kill a rat in your house bros. Leave your wife to take care of the kids as it should be while you think of ways to get collect the sex from her. IMPROVISE! You are an eeediot |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by MedicH: 8:57am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Vortex369:
You are thinking with your dick. Some of you think the world begins and ends with sex because you do not even know the purpose of life and why you were born.
When you realize your Life mission, you will not build your life around sex and madness. You're not really smart. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by midnighter(f): 9:14am On Jan 25, 2020 |
MedicH:
You're not really smart. She has a point but she's talking in an extreme way which causes the meaning to get lost. |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by A305: 9:20am On Jan 25, 2020 |
Vortex369:
You are thinking with your dick. Some of you think the world begins and ends with sex because you do not even know the purpose of life and why you were born.
When you realize your Life mission, you will not build your life around sex and madness. Actually sex(orgasm) is one key purpose of life. The 3 purpose of life are 1- Survive(food) 2- Sex(reproduction) 3- Death. Now the sex part is tricky because you would say, We should always prioritize having sex only for reproduction. No! Turns out, Food is what to the stomach what orgasms is to the brain. Now, Do you always wait until your starving all the time before you eat? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by ThundrCork(m): 9:16pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
I have been following your responses and I have come to the conclusion that you know not what you are saying. I'm particularly curious about your marital status, and if you are married, do you actually apply these ideas you have revealed in this thread? I find it difficult to believe any sane man will put up with it, no matter how experienced and matured. You talk about 'Real man', I bet, you can't mention anyone you know that is your ideological 'real man'. your so called 'real man' is an imaginary character. The OP is wise to come up on a faceless forum to seek genuine advice because he simply doesn't want to cheat on his wife as no one knows it all. Would you sound this critical to the OP if it was the other way round, I mean if the OP was a woman who's husband has been depriving her of sex because the husband is too busy in search of money to care for the family? N/B "When you realize your Life mission, you will not build your life around sex and madness." Listen to yourself, you are so filled with ego. As if whatever 'life mission' your deluded mind may have found didn't take a process. Vortex369:
You are thinking with your dick. Some of you think the world begins and ends with sex because you do not even know the purpose of life and why you were born.
When you realize your Life mission, you will not build your life around sex and madness. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by mikolo80: 10:01pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Ladylite:
This is a real question that many singles have not begun to consider or discuss before marriage.
I hope you know that your wife loves you, but the sacrifice you have to make is beyond sleep, it also involves sex... Now that there is a 7month old blessed baby with you, simply DATE your wife.....
By date I mean, treat her well, do things for her and be very nice to her as expected, buy her gifts, pamper her... She will give you sex.. I assure you.
Your wife is going through a major phase and you need to understand it and be there for her.
I hope this is clear so the rent he is paying is not gift enough or pampering until he poshu her for 2nd wife ko? |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by mikolo80: 10:02pm On Jan 25, 2020 |
Shiloh and divorce loafing for this one and her folders Vortex369:
Well, your last line was a question: What I think?
Are you sure you really want to know what I think?
Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.
I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.
The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.
You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?
My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.
It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.
You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.
Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?
Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.
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| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by unmask: 10:02am On Jan 26, 2020 |
Ladylite:
How inhumane can you be again... Disposable? Someone's daughter. Choi it's a contract thing....if they are honest from the onset....then the issue of somebody's daughter doesn't come in. At the end they are both gaining from each other |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by jellybabee(f): 2:21pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart
I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.
My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.
Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.
Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.
So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.
As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.
This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.
I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.
We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.
I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.
Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.
I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?
What do you guys think?
haa.... the first mistake you both made is making your 8years old child sleeping in the same bed/ room with you.....how sure are you that she hasn't been seeing things happen at night before. for the new baby can sleep beside you n your wife when you are not deeply asleep,but when you are ready to sleep off ,you can then lay the baby in between both of you. when the baby is almost a year old,you should get a baby's crib in your room for the baby. Then when the baby is almost 3years you should move to the other room with his/her sibling. my own piece of advice oo 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by alezzy13: 2:57pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Irore:
My baby boy sucking mummy's right breast while I'm sucking the left breast and having sex with my wife at the same time. It was fun to my wife and I,so sweet. I did this several times and I repeat, fun and enjoyable to both of us. Baby boy is now 12 years old in JS2. Hmmm.  1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Fonyeri(m): 6:30pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Vortex369:
Well, your last line was a question: What I think?
Are you sure you really want to know what I think?
Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.
I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.
The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.
You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?
My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.
It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.
You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.
Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?
Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.
Undiluted Truth |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by midnighter(f): 6:41pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
alezzy13:
Hmmm. I thought I was the only one who found that post very strange. As long as they're happy with it sha! |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Nobody: 2:59am On Jan 28, 2020 |
You need to remind your wife that she married you and not the children. If she continues like this, it will be difficult for her to let them grow up and do things on their own. Moreover, at some point in life when the kids are all grown up, she will be left with just you. Because the kids would not want this kind of over attachment.
So she better gets her priorities right 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by hammerU: 2:37pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
Afrikween:
As you don’t have sense to know that everyone has a right to his/her opinion but your oversabi will not let you, now go take a rope and hang yourself you’re probably one of those irrelevant illiterates..... Baby i am in the toasting mood this afternoon. Wat brought u online? |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Afrikween(f): 6:08pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
 hammerU:
Baby i am in the toasting mood this afternoon. Wat brought u online? |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by Liposure: 9:20am On Feb 03, 2020 |
kambili999:
thank you for pouring out my heart.
just imagine. He just left the woman to be taking care of the kids alone and is accusing her of sex deprival. will she kill herself? mtchewwww
hi |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by DexterousOne(m): 11:44pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
Ladylite:
This is a real question that many singles have not begun to consider or discuss before marriage.
I hope you know that your wife loves you, but the sacrifice you have to make is beyond sleep, it also involves sex... Now that there is a 7month old blessed baby with you, simply DATE your wife.....
By date I mean, treat her well, do things for her and be very nice to her as expected, buy her gifts, pamper her... She will give you sex.. I assure you.
Your wife is going through a major phase and you need to understand it and be there for her.
I hope this is clear Interesting stuff |
| Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by DexterousOne(m): 11:47pm On Feb 04, 2020 |
midnighter:
Is it not what they use as comedy in American tv drama? Those backward families in the rural areas where incest is common and people dont have good boundaries..the running joke is that the grown children sleep in their parents bed and end up developing some strange character
Thats the problem with fake "woke" people in this country... instead of evaluating an idea sensibly, you try to be more American than the Americans and end up getting it all wrong
Some people here are actually defending the wife and insulting the OP, Im shocked. I don't get |
