Uyi168:
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Stop being a beggar.
It's irritating.

you can call whatever you like ....just because I do ask for assistance here means I shouldn't talk or wish for something again right If t irritates you that much ...am sorry....there z nothing I can do about that..... Life znt fair as well n am not blaming anybody or getting irritated by t..cos I didn't create myself n l av always been working/struggling hard...So please... I get your point

Twenty8:
Happy bathday bro James, LLNP.

My names is Jelilat... James'wife....Thanks

BLUELemon:
Happy birthday James

Am James's wife

Tomorrow November 28 is my birthday.... Someone should bless me with a good birthday gift � T has been years I got 1 last�

Uyi168:
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Try enter your names the same way u have it on your Facebook..

please I don't get t? What does Facebook has to do with the registration?

Uyi168:
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Names not associated with names on my bvn.. Pls, explain this..

to register I have to first fill in my BVN number and my names. So instead of showing registration successful. Tz showing error.. names not associated with the names on BVN

https://nyif.nmfb.com.ng/Applicants/New

Apply now
I have been trying to apply but it kept on showing the error!! the names are not associated with the names on my BVN. Whereas the names are correct. Please what should I do?

tobechi74:

Since she is violent, Non physical confrontation is ideal. I suggest you write a letter to her. The good thing about letter is that she will not interrupt you. writing gives you opportunity to organize your words .you may write,edit and correct them over a long time. Your letter should include

1) what she has done to you: e g when I was young ,you called me this cruel word..

2) how you felt about it ,e g I felt worthless. Like I would never amount to anything in life

3) how it affected your life e g . I never volunteered for any activity among my peers. It made me shy I was denied promotion twice because of this

4) what you want from her : e g I need you to acknowledge the harm you caused me. I need you to stop insulting me publicly as that reignite previous wounds. I want to re-establish a cordial relationship with you but I need to do that without fear of you hurting me.

You get the drift. Let her understand you are trying to establish a stained relationship. You still love her regardless of what she has done in the past and you have forgiven her but you need this before you may communicate freely with her.

hmmm...thanks for the advice/idea . I think I will try it n see what happens next

music4me:
My Father is my father,I can't buy another one at Gbagi market....Although myself and d man have not spoken to each other in like 25yrs,na my paale he still be....

if I may ask... Y pls?

techmo:





It was my aunt that I confronted had no issues with my parents... Funny enough she can never change I just wasted my confrontation on her, ever insultive and mean but deep down very good at heart


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. I can relate with you ooo... It seems you are trying to describe my Mum's attitude towards people... But t affects me more cos am an introvert , that never gives her reply whenever she z busy shouting n disgracing me....Recently,she comes to my home shouting n reigning abusive words at me....then I opened up to her n told her I don't lyk wat she z doing... D reply she gave me was that she will beat d hell out of me n I told her to go ahead n do that. The funny thing z she z very aggressive with words n i av been trying to cope with that right from childhood days but now am an adult for goodness sake ...but I don't know wat to do since am an extreme introvert... She makes me cry daily whenever I think of her....T z cos of her I do wish n hope I can make friends just to av someone I can relate with apart from my husband.

Your location

Klchnjoku:
Male

Am only searching for female friends to hangout with

Klchnjoku:
Jellybabee

Whaddup.. Let's roll here

Are you male or female pls?

Klchnjoku:

I'm in Osogbo too..
Will quote you on a dead thread.

ok

Klchnjoku:

U are in Oshogbo?

yes

Kindly add me up if available; 09093459209

cerpvad:
You are right. But next time when you want to beg for something, no dey tell people say you are married. It brings shame to your husband

hmmm

DenreleDave:


Madam... U said I wunt understand right..

I guess u don't know anytin ma... Every one get their problem..... Maybe bigger then urs sef.

I don't jst like the fact where u felt as if u were proud to say it was ur husband using ur acct number to seek assistance on nairaland

Do you want me to lie about it? I know there are issues that even money cannot solve...which makes t bigger.

DenreleDave:


Upload ur pics

Av been trying to,but it z not uploading due to the freebasics App am using to browse.

DenreleDave:



And you are proud to say this, ma..

you wouldn't understand..... I hope n pray you should never experience the sorrow that comes with being unable to achieve something tangible in life despite the fact that you know you have always been managing n struggling to aim higher but the grace n opportunity hasn't been granted to you yet....by God n man...

DenreleDave:


Seems ur husband jamesdamy has deactivated his acct

yes he did

cerpvad:
You are married and came online begging for what your husband can easily afford to get for you. You have no respect for your husband. Do you think he will be proud if sees this thread?

you are very funny though....Does being a husband mean he can afford it And if he can or I can....I won't have asked for it.

Am actually the quiet type,but wish to have few female friends here at Osogbo to hangout with,preferably quiet friends.Have never done this before....but I think I need t now. If you have interest, you can contact me ;09093459209. I don't have data to check my emails.

Some contacted me but they were both a male n single female ....will prefer a married female friend pls....cos there z no way I can tell my husband that I want take a single lady as my friend... If we'v been friends b4 marriage tz understandable.
Modified ...

Am actually the quiet type,but wish to have few female friends here at Osogbo to hangout with,preferably quiet friends.Have never done this before....but I think I need t now.

FaAbokiWithSuit:
you people sha

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10BabyApple:

A whole James Damy suddenly became jelilat

What a time to be alive. Wonderful transformation

pls how is that a problem? That is my husband using my bank account number. U can call his number if you wish to confirm because his bank account has been dormant for years now.

Wish someone can help me with a mini fridge !!! It will really help me with the provision store I recently open .

Hildagirl:
Please I am currently 8 months pregnant and I just want to know how mothers deal with this. My stomach is filled with black stretch marks all over, they’re not manageable. They look disgusting, I’ve added so much weight and this is making me depesssed. I’m a young woman in my early 20s, what have I done to deserve this? Why do we have to go through all of this just to bring a child into the world. This is affecting my self esteem and mental state. I cry every time I look in the mirror. What can I do about these horrible stretch marks, mothers in the house? What can I do about my low self esteem? I just can’t take this anymore.

u must have delivered by now I guess congratz. Am so sorry about what happened.... Hospitals should learn to educate pregnant women on the issue of stretch marks during pregnancy. During my first pregnancy; my Mum advised me never to scratch my tummy if I don't want to have stretch marks there. And now u won't believe I av babies without a stretch mark. During pregnancy your tummy expands n u will always av d urge to scratch t. But instead of scratching just use ur palm to rub the surface.

As a circumcised lady ...let her be in charge and C the difference.... So

My highest qualification is NCE(Maths/Biology), FCE(T) Bichi,Kano State.Please I really need a job...I don't mind cleaning jobs. Please my phone number is on my profile. Please kindly help me post any available job vacancies in Osogbo you might know here.Thanks.I have tried teaching jobs but the cost of transport/dressing code is not a good option at all.

Please, if you know of any available job at Oshogbo kindly drop the details here