xreal:


Yes, Ibadan native alone, just as you requested in your first post.

Ok. Thank you very much sir.

xreal:


It's a pleasure.

Does the Oriki you wrote Eulogize Ibadan only?
I need something that focuses on him mainly. Eulogizing him as a person.

xreal:



Ibadan mesi Ogo, nile Oluyole. Ilu Ogunmola, olodogbo keri loju ogun. Ilu Ibikunle alagbala jaya-jaya. Ilu Ajayi, o gbori Efon se filafila. Ilu Latosa, Aare-ona kakanfo. Ibadan Omo ajoro sun. Omo a je Igbin yoo,fi ikarahun fo ri mu. Ibadan maja-maja bii tojo kin-in-ni, eyi too ja aladuugbo gbogbo logun, Ibadan ki ba ni s’ore ai mu ni lo s’ogun. Ibadan Kure! Ibadan beere ki o too wo o, Ni bi Olè gbe n jare Olohun. B’Ibadan ti n gbonile bee lo n gba Ajoji. Eleyele lomi ti teru-tomo ‘Layipo n mu. Asejire lomi abumu-buwe nile Ibadan. A ki waye ka maa larun kan lara, Ija igboro larun Ibadan

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Thanks so much. I'm really grateful.

Hello my NL people.

I am engaged to this guy I absolutely adore and I just wanna blow his mind.
I want to compose an Oriki for him. He's an Ibadan boy and I understand Yoruba Oriki varies from towns. Kindly help this calabar babe put the final icing on her cake

suzzy16:
seriously,pls,d guy dnt love u,dnt u get it,dnt go and do d mistake. Of getting pregnant. For him o,he will leave ur sorry ass,those guys re like dat,especially in lagos here,be vry careful

Thanks. I know you're really worried about me but don't worry, my love ain't stupid or dangerous. I know my limit.

suzzy16:
okay,just be careful noni and love with ur brain,nt ur heart

Thanks dear. I'm trying.

suzzy16:
wait,what did this guy now said about not contacting u since,and what red reasons he gave,did he come back to be with u again,or destroy ur life once more,Abeg,I need reply to dis. P.s:dnt let any guy take u as an option in his life

Thanks dear.

He asked how I was and apologized for his late reply to my earlier msg because he didn't know what to say when I told him he can do what makes him happy because he's not happy about our break up. He has sent two msgs but I haven't replied.

I love him so much!

I can't reply

robinicule:
ok guess ur happy now. depends on d context of d message. is he just saying hi, does he wanna talk? if i were him tho d suspense of ur late reply would be killing me....u shld reply him and see what's up with him...hope m on d right track as feelings cant be shared online....and btw come back to earth u wont last much on d moon..cheers..

Lol. Happy is sooooo not good enough to express my feelings now.

He asked how I was and apologized for his late reply to my msg because he didn't know what to say because he's not happy about our break up.

robinicule:
lol..temme abt it

An hour ago. He sent me msg. I'm over the moon but I haven't replied

Harvard13:
i pity u sincerly if its true. thats one reason i feel pple especially ladies shouldnt indulge in premarital sex. it leaves too much heartbrk when its over.

dere is still chance for you two. give him time and space then later mayb u can ask him how he feels about being back with his ex, if he still has a futute with you inside,

I don't love this guy because I slept with him though. I slept with him because I love him. Not the other way round.

suzzy16, robinicle, Harvard13, czarr, hey all!

The guy just sent me a msg! I'm sooooooooooo happy! But I haven't replied him

liberty300:
Rochas and aregbe has a lot to answer. Has anyone noticed how quiet Rochas is of late? He knows buhari is still mad @ him at that mansion he built in his village

That same Rochas is the Chairman of APC govs forum FYI.

Tiwa o

Yesterday one of my exes contacted me. Today another one did. Both saying how much they miss me and want me back because I'm a very "sweet" "loveable" girl.

How I wish this guy would do same.... Soon

grimandevil:


Please shut up.

I'm sorry if that statement hurt sensitive guys like you. I was just trying to stress that money is JUST NOT the reason why I love that guy. Thank you.

Thanks a lot mzpetite. I haven't contacted him since then and I believe I won't and yeah I won't fall for the pregnancy thing.

But come to think of it if he loves the girl and wants to marry her will he be thinking of getting me pregnant? There was a time I forgot my umbrella in his car, a very feminine umbrella, if he's been seeing her he won't leave the umbrella at the rear of his car knowing very well it's a very feminine umbrella. I was even expectinng him to hide it in his boot or something and was surprised when it saw it in full view (he wasn't expecting me that day so he didn't quickly arrange it there). He also calls and chats with me late at night on weekends when he should be with her.

My insticts tells me he likes or even loves me (although that wasn't his original plan) it's just that he's finding it difficult breaking this to his family. Such things are usually gradual and not automatic. Yes the girl has an advantage of 6 years and familiarity with his family. That's what's breaking my heart because only the strongest love can overcome this kind of obstacle.

suzzy16:
yeah,how can someone call someones real life situation a movie,some people re just damn funny

Very insensitive of them.

czarr:
......his parents must be religious people, getting you pregnant may be to justify marrying you to his parents, I think he respects their opinion!
.....he knows the parents may even be nicer knowing you are carrying their grandchild.
..its survival of the fittest out there,be the Fittest!

I have thought of that but it's too risky. God!
I think I'll just go with prayers.

czarr:
.....okay,you know yourself better,good luck tho

Yeah. And I would have jumped at the chance of getting pregnant for him. Come to think of it, why would he want to get me pregnant

czarr:
......from the above information I can deduce the following:
* you like this dude
*he likes you
*he's not strong willed(he can be emotionally manipulated)
*he is not yet sure if he loves you,he just enjoys your company.
*you are so desperate to be the one he picks.
*you are not putting yourself in the other ladies shoes.
*you are looking to settle down.(asap)
*you too like fine boys(tread carefully)

......when you marry someone you marry their family,
looks like the family already loves the other girl.

.....I see obstacles,problem go plenty.

but my advice is fight(not literally)for your happiness,
tell him how you feel and that together you should both fight to be happy.,so you don't regret later in life.
......nothing more painful than a love that could have been,life is too short to not go for what you want!

Thank you. But I don't agree with the desperate part or I wouldn't have let him go and sent him a msg that he should do what makes him happy.

tohphunmie:
Letting him go is the best decision except u'd be good with being his side bae

Yes I have and it's so painful

Why are people thinking this is a movie? What's so strange here that can't happen in real life? Pls I came here to pour my heart out and draw some strength. Pls Nlers help a heart broken sister

robinicule:
ok now am beginning to take this personal...apparently the guy needs time to cool off and go for what he wants, since u really love him, try talking to him and if he really needs a break u give him, if he loves u with same reciprocation..he will definitely come back to u, as uve said he described u as someone that is sweet, easy to love and intelligent and he is fond of u, give it time...time heals faster than u think..my token, although I don't have 100 percent of the details. Thank u.bye

Thank you. Talking to him is off for now as he says he wants to be alone for now to clear his head. I just wish I knew why he didn't respond to my last msg. I told him that I have let him go and that he should do whatever makes him happy.

robinicule:
ok ok calm d eff down, with what u just wrote, I believe he is d normal sharp guy we have out there...plain truth (we can be that deceiving) no matter how sharp u think u are...free him and stop whining like a baby, u will get over him soon, in no time...just remember what if u never met him......or contrary to everything he loves u and there is something wrong somewhere...talk to him!

It seems you only read the "airconditioner" part else you would have seen what the problem is.

jonaifame22:
I thought cheap articles cld only be found in yaba, but now judging by ur story I think it's now littered everywhere,thank you,#sharpguyinacoolairconditiontightcarweyseefreecheapbabefuck.

I have far richer toasters pls. I'm in pains pls.

robinicule:
Sorry wha movies is this?

This is life. Things happen in real life. Get off the internet for once and see what's happening around you.

Hello guys.
One hot sunny Sunday about 4 months ago while standing under the sun trying to get a taxi to a party, a car stopped for me and driver beckoned to me to come over. Not really one to accept free rides from strangers I couldn’t resist the air conditioned car beckoning to me (as in the weather was REALLY hot) I walked closer and took a look at the driver I almost screamed. He was cute as wow! I hoped in. We talked, laughed and complimented each other (I’m quite above average pretty myself) I asked why a drop dead gorgeous guy like him with a good job will still be single and he told me they broke up 3 months ago after dating for 6 years.
We exchanged bbm pins and numbers and the toasting began. He would call and we would chat every day. Some days he would also come looking for me where I go to work out after work and beg me to follow him to his house. I always turned him down until one month later. To be honest, I noticed a slight change in him a little before we eventually did it. However after that day, I started having to wait and wait and ask before we could see each other. I tried repeatedly to talk to him but he just says he’s having some issues….. until one day he dropped the bombshell that his babe was back in his life and that things were complicated because his family is familiar with her and they are angry with him for wanting to waste her time if he knew he wasn’t going to marry her. He went further to say that his original intention was for me to be a rebound girl, someone to keep him preoccupied during the difficult days he was apart from his gf but he genuinely fell hard for me along the way because he saw I’m a very “sweet” “easy to love” “good” “intelligent” etc girl that no sane guy would just want to sleep with and leave. He said he’s been avoiding his gf and even spending most nights in his friend’s instead of his house. I think I believe this because when he calls it’s late at night, after 11pm, even on weekends. I tried putting pressure on him by telling him about other guys who are interested in marrying me and that he should hurry up if he still wants me.
The last two times we saw I noticed him playing with my ring finger. Last week, while we were talking in his car for the first time I saw real feelings from him. He usually has this bad boyish air around him but that evening he looked like a regular guy. Before now, I have been letting him know how sad and heartbroken I was about the whole thing. He fondled my ring finger again and for the first time asked me some more personal questions about me, family, etc. after a while asked if I could get pregnant for him. I turned him down of course and said he should go see my dad if he wants to impregnate me. I called him on Sunday night and brought up breaking off because the pain of the whole thing was killing me. When I mentioned that we couldn’t be friends and that I may be gone forever when/if he ever wants to come back. Then he burst into tears. He cried like a baby and I’ve never heard so much agony in anyone’s voice before. He tried to explain that it wasn’t that easy to just throw out someone that is already so familiar with his family and that since it causes me so much pain then we could break off. Although he said he really didn't think he wanted her anymore that he just wanted to be alone to clear his head, I feel so heartbroken that she has so much advantage over me.
Yesterday I sent him a bbm message that he could do whatever he wants that makes him happy he read the msg but hasn’t replied till now. I’m so heartbroken. I have let him go but I’m so so sad.