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Needtolove:
Hi nairalanders this post is going to be quite disorganized, as I am not such a good writer. Just need an avenue to let our some steam. No advise needed too. The only way forward for me is to quit my marriage.

The reason for this write up is to ease the pain of betrayal that comes from my husband cheating on me with a our neighbor,what really hurts is that after I investigated and found out her identity, I presented him with hard evidence ,instead of an apology he said he is an African man o and polygamy is allowed. He says I should better mind my business as the said girl is not disturbing me. He further stated that the girl is crazy o, so I should not even think of confronting her

Just this morning she had the nerve to come to my apartment with her room mate to clarify some house issues. The nerve of all of them. Really want to make them pay. Really want to make my husband suffer.
This guy body shames me at any chance he gets. (I have a four month old baby) he says am ugly and shapless, and my breast are flat

I want African men to know that women have feelings too, am expected to bottle up my pain and be a woman. When I react violently he calls me mad woman. He is still with her and I am still expected to mind my business.
I will though, but they will both get it.

I feel ur pain really

First of all what I would say is this: He body shames u at any given opportunity. I would say say u work on ur body, do some exercise, avoid fatty foods, watch your diet. and be discipled about it. I guess ur husband married u a slim lady? go back to that ur former shape.

If u ask me I don't like women who are fat unnecessarily. thruth be told.

So work on ur weight and body size.




Secondly, are u a spiritual woman?

A woman who kneels before God will stand before men.

I use to know an aunt whose husband cheats on her. Every time she complains to my mum until my mum told her what to do. She prayed a prayer that no man who cheats on his wife to pray


"O Lord my his penis never stand if he meets a strange woman" an it worked like fire cause God has said whatever God has joined together let no man put asunder, that girl is trying to put asunder(divide) in your marriage.


So what am trying to say is that u must be a prayer woman if u want a peaceful home.





Thirdly, Know how to cook, especially his favorite. it is said that the way to a man's heart is through the stomach which invariably means food, good food as at that. if u don't know learn from ur friends.

Fourthly, Be romantic, my sister know how to dob it in bed, like the above saying, another way to a Man's heart is through sex. This is the 21st century where the internet is at our finger tips. learn how to seduce him, learn how to u know moan, wriggle your body etc. Am not saying u should watch porn.



And Lastly, Be supportive: supportive in the sense that u are supportive emotionally, money wise and prayer wise.


In terms of money if u don't have something doing, men tend to get irritated especially when he has a girl outside. Learn a handwork such as decoration, pastry, confectioneries, catering etc



The ball is in your Court



I rest my case

For me I will say it depends on how long they are married. If it is the woman he started his life, I mean they have been married for like 25+ years. No wahala. But I will remember my children ( will adopt from chief daddy sha).




But say the said wife is a second wife( side chick turned wife) Big NO. I reserve my reasons.


Thanks My Opinion though

Man u just said my mind in this article. When they see that the attention is dwindling they either hook him up with a pregnancy. Some resorts to these new generation churches were they are duped and so on.


But what some ladies don't know is that Girls dey grow(in phyno's voice).


In summary it is easier said than done for our Ladies of today.




Nice write up. Kudos

At times u have to be crazy in a funny way. Once she starts her crying Oga join her and begin to cry (if possible bring out tears).



But all the same try to help her.



The Igbo culture will tell u it's obé or something like that( read it in a book titled "the concubine"). Make enquiries from her siblings if she cries a lot as a little girl.


But u have to deal with it because that is what marriage entails for better for worse

So Finally Sarri don win cup for his career

nice concept but I don't stay in Lagos thanks

the thing be like naija movie for her eyes

LIVERPOOL FANS BE LIKE REALLY

if u can change ur sex then why not your age?

since when did tiwa become his girlfriend. I want to know when

Thank GOD for your big god.

hallelujah

she was too excited to show off her body that she did not heed the doctor's advice. even with the liposuction Nicki's noons and butt are still BOOM

I quite agree with what that person said. am a bit confused. can someone clarify pleas

Must have been an active talk active.
Radio without Batteries

Am I the only one who thinks he wore that? @ the first pic there is a slight colour difference between the breast and neck region

Harrymig1:
Adesua

BANKY'S WIFE

u mean this big bellied police men
heavily armed me?
armed with a big belly

So all this full textbook for one comment someone made.


u could have just jump and pass



but u are pained by that comment I feel u.



if the woman wants to have four husband's she should migrate to India where it is allowed.


Because the last time I checked Nigeria(s) don't practice polyandry.

it might be true what ur friends say, she might be crushing on u. Girls and attitude be like 5&6. I got to knowvthis through a story i read here on nairaland (pastor zoned). a girl might like u but she doesn't know how to react instead they start acting funny.



What to do




shoot ur shot. if it backfires no worry try again.



if it still doesn't work, just like u said "I like breaking girls heart a lot" .
Find one of her friends and begin to "fake date" that one. make sure she sees u hug that one in front of her.



IN SUMMARY START UR OWN FUVKING MIND GAME.


DON'T JUST DULL


THANK ME LERRA

Instead of u to buy baby oil u are buying beard oil. who ur beard EPP.






some go say na bad belle

one overhyped series that ended so badly

nice one

Even the young ones are not left out. People dieing like chicken. This is the time to hold God very tight cause no one knows when he/she will cross over.at God see us (his children) through. Amen

the mortuary attendants should be investigated thorough. ritualists everywhere. God forbid

Ciaos:
Madam husband snatcher,instead way you go chop wetin you thief jeje, you still dey make noise about am... You no dey shame?

one bad belle spotted

JasonScoolari:
I don't know why some fools can't mind their business, when she replies the imbe now, people will start tagging her a bitter lady.

I quite agree with u. but someone has to speak up. the boobs she is going to enhance how many children has she fed it with? God in his infinite wisdom created us perfect. going to do such enhancement is an indirect way of telling God u didn't do a perfect work.


And also mind u, she is a celeb that influence people with their words and actions directly or indirectly. before u know it our ladies will start following the trend that is if they have not started following.


How would u feel Mr scoolarii u meet a gorgeous lady u find attractive and maybe want to date her and bu find out her boobs and butts are silicon implants (fake).


think about it. things are getting out of hand.


thank u

What a sad way to end life. but take a look at out country today. it na worse. the alders comment really touched me.



But the GOAT of all times in armed robbery in naija is ANINIH. the only man who Royal from Benin to Lagos on the reverse. and yet police no fit catch am.


but las las na woman expose am

more success to u bro. although I don't know you

this zlatan looks like clown here. smh