Romance › Re: How Can I Forgive Her? by Jideh9ty(m): 10:46pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
ReineViolet: I read this in church and i made up my mind to write here, my heart broke after reading this.
Please to all those insulting him, please try to understand that when you are in the illusion of love, it is hard to tell yourself there is something wrong and i need to back out even though its true.
I'm sorry for all she did to you, and honestly, i did wish you revenged. You have stupid friends. No offence, they don't care about you because if they did care even for one second, they wont let that girl get away with what she did to you. I mean you gave your all! She hurt you big time and you let her go scot free? See sometimes people need to be taught a lesson for the greater good. (MY opinion though) She might be planning to creep back again and hurt you 50 times more. What on earth did they say that made you change your mind? Dayum!
See, what I feel you should do in my opinion is to forgive but NEVER forget. If you forget, you will repeat the same thing again and all those friends that were begging you to forgive, would laugh their asses off at you.
In my life, I have never seen anyone as wicked and she really put you in a charm and now when men become wicked and stuff, women will be complaining that they are not caring when this a-hole of a girl hurt you this way.
Please liven up. Get better. Forgive because you cannot turn back the hands of time. But you can manipulate how your future may be (if all factors are held constant). BE WARY OF HER. If i were you i will not even touch her with a 50 foot pole. Be wary of being kind. There is a difference between being smart and being kind and I am saying this so you should not offer any help again. Its not worth it.
Sorry Man Start concentrating on yourself now. It will be well. Just don't bottle it up so you wont fall into a terrible depression. nice one from a lady. I think i agree and also disagree with somethings you said. Well, its your school of thoughts. But you are worded dear |
Family › Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Say ''i'm Sorry'' When Have Hurt Us ??? by Jideh9ty(op): 10:39pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
specialguest: I used to wonder the same too especially with my mum. She sometimes insists i do things her own way and when i do and it turns out she was wrong she would never say sorry. I believe most parents especially our Nigerian parents have so much pride when it come to apologizing to their kids or admitting they are wrong. Since you know its their nature, Learn to live with it so you don't give yourself high BP. thats true. Guess its the setting we find ourselves but some i believe some parents might be different |
Family › Re: Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Say ''i'm Sorry'' When Have Hurt Us ??? by Jideh9ty(op): 5:57pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
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Family › Re: If You Can Grab Only 3 Things From Your Burning House, What Would They Be? by Jideh9ty(m): 4:40pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Depending on the location. I won't be thinking of any thing except my family. |
Family › Why Do Parents Find It Hard To Say ''i'm Sorry'' When Have Hurt Us ??? by Jideh9ty(op): 4:37pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Have been thinking a long time about this but i decided to throw the question. Is it the AFRICAN setting or EGO at work ? |
Romance › Re: See What I Saw On Her Facebook by Jideh9ty(m): 4:32pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
What if you did not see it ? Memories could hurt but if you love her, let bygones be bygones. |
Romance › Re: How Can I Forgive Her? by Jideh9ty(m): 4:30pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Just have one word for you bro. Love covers all things. |
Romance › Re: Did Your Parents Educate You On Sex As A Young Adult? by Jideh9ty(m): 4:27pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Adult education, for where  I don't remember if they did. |
Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Feel When A Woman Loves You And You Don't Love Her by Jideh9ty(m): 4:24pm On Oct 13, 2013*. Modified: 10:55pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
I will feel for her and put her in my shoes. Will take her as if its my younger sister in the situation. What i will do is to tell her the truth and won't try to take her emotions for granted. |
Romance › Re: Is Admiring My Neighbor's Wife A Sin by Jideh9ty(m): 4:21pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
That kind of admire get comma ooo |
Education › Re: Why Do People Do Copy And Paste When Writing Their Project/thesis by Jideh9ty(m): 4:35pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
The main word is PLAGIARISM. |
Politics › Re: Who Knows This Man Chris Ngige,,,,okey Obirah(abr Anambra State) by Jideh9ty(m): 4:29pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
Politics. It gets interesting each day |
Education › Re: The University Of Nigeria Nsukka (UNN) Has Successfully Pulled Out Of ASUU. by Jideh9ty(m): 9:13am On Oct 12, 2013 |
This guys don't know when one is seriously serious. Walking out of thread... |
Education › Re: Would You Like HND To Be Equivalent To B.SC? by Jideh9ty(m): 8:30am On Oct 12, 2013 |
Its the NIGERIAN system. |
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Politics › Re: Rival APC Factions Clash In Abeokuta by Jideh9ty(m): 10:28pm On Oct 11, 2013 |
'peeps in' |
Education › Re: Federal University Of Agriculture Abeokuta Student Chat Room by Jideh9ty(m): 10:24pm On Oct 11, 2013 |
Just Passing thru this page. Missing school anyway. Any 'agbe' in da house ? |
Phones › Re: Airtel 80mb With Only #100. Working Perfectly. by Jideh9ty(m): 9:40am On Oct 02, 2013 |
How long does it last ? |
Phones › Re: Airtel 80mb With Only #100. Working Perfectly. by Jideh9ty(m): 1:45am On Oct 02, 2013 |
If e no work nko ? |
Education › Re: Universities Workers Begin Strike (SSANU) by Jideh9ty(m): 1:38am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Wonders shall never end. |
Education › Re: ASUU Strike: FG Stops University Lecturers’ Salary. by Jideh9ty(m): 1:34am On Oct 02, 2013 |
No work, no pay but lets be candid to ourselves, they will be paid even if the strike lingers for a thousand years. Just tried of staying at home doing partially nothing. ASUU should end this strike action. They will surely collect their pay even after ten years of strike but its affecting our calender. Wetin concern nigerian student with ASUU self ? |
Education › Re: Five Strategic Wayz To Enhance/develop Your Vocabulary. by Jideh9ty(m): 1:27am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Na dictionary things sure pass. ASUU never gree. Me self go vex learn new words. Make i use my englishes break head small. Nice one here. |
Romance › Re: Why Sex Is Better In Hotel by Jideh9ty(m): 1:20am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Its like hotels don't make sales thats why this write up is here. Na una sabi. Just passing by... |
Romance › Re: A Love Letter. by Jideh9ty(m): 1:17am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Oh my God, tot it was a love letter. Its been years since i read one. Anyway, nice write up. |
Health › Re: Know About Cancer And The Foods You Consume by Jideh9ty(m): 1:14am On Oct 02, 2013 |
[color=#006600][/color]GOD HELP US |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Male Friend by Jideh9ty(m): 12:44am On Oct 02, 2013 |
Am yet to get your mail @joy |
Romance › Re: Those Love Realy Exist by Jideh9ty(m): 2:28pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Love exists but its hard to find. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Male Friend by Jideh9ty(m): 2:26pm On Sep 29, 2013*. Modified: 4:48pm On Aug 02, 2018 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Male Friend by Jideh9ty(m): 2:07pm On Sep 29, 2013*. Modified: 4:48pm On Aug 02, 2018 |
Goodluck |
Phones › Re: Is Etisalat Now Unlimited? by Jideh9ty(m): 12:21pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
No. Tell how ? |
Nairaland General › Re: Be A Legend. by Jideh9ty(m): 9:25am On Sep 05, 2013 |
[color=#770077][/color] this is a wonderful piece this early morning. Learnt something new. Big thumbs to the writer. Wish you don't dry out. God bless you. |
Education › Re: . by Jideh9ty(m): 5:29pm On Aug 31, 2013 |
p.josh: Lately, I have been seeing advert online saying "Are you a Nigerian student! study in ukraine for low tuition fee". Why are they interested in Nigerians? i don't know either. Malaysia , Sweden and many other countries offer mouth watering scholarship to AFRICAN students. Some even pay for their trip and gives them pocket money per day. |