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goodfornothing:
Yeah, [size=18pt] jho [/size] wannabe.

SycophanticGoat:
The bolded. Maybe he loves your natural looks

The indented. Maybe he's just pretending to complement you when in fact, he loves your natural appearance.

On the fatness thingy, I know how my country folks sees things. One may be fat but wouldn't know because someone else asking her out calls her slim. Just like how fat girls say they're chubby and all that.. Therefore, until I see for myself, I can't say by your comments that you ain't fat and don't need exercise..

SycophanticGoat:
Really, do you know that the guy may simply want you to slim down? Can I see your recent pic on your DP? That way, I'd confirm if he wanted to help you slim down or he's just being stingy with his petrol (which is almost unlikely).

There could also be other reasons why he behaved in such manner, you never can tell..

goodfornothing:
JLopez is the typical Nigerian girl I was talking about. Go for the rich guy, and dump him when he's broke. Tell me what makes you different from roadside prostitutes

Cc Nma27, SycophanticGoat. Shebi both of you were insulting me. Come here now and insult Lopez and all the girls that supported her thread.

SycophanticGoat:
This is why Nigerians get fat easily.. exercise is never in their dictionary. A young fellow offers you an advise to exercise and you take it as being stingy...

mctowel01:
And problems with comprehension?

Smellymouth:
This is where you belong Kemi..

jezuzboi:
Are the guys the only ones entitled to give the said "gifts?" Can't a lady also give the said gifts to show love? I actually buy the idea. But must the gifts only come from the guys?

Love Machine:
Don't mind them.If he has been giving them upkeeps but didn't have at a particular time she will say he is stingy.

jezuzboi:
What about stingy girls? Should guys keep them?

Valprof:
givingb dnt make me feel lyk a real man.......givin a man cud as well make u feel lyk a superwoman

jezuzboi:
Is the guy the only one entitled to share with u? Can't u also share with him as part of love? Or it is not in a woman's place to also be generous with money and those other little things? I'm confused here...

sinizia:


Why did you edit out your other story? To make your reply doesn't fail the second time? Well, that guy in your story is super stingy and his case is pathetic. I would complain too if I was his gf.

Between me and you, I'll tell you this - relationships are between two people. It takes two to tango. the love, affection and time you said you bring to a relationship in your first post, a man can bring that too. A man can give you love and time too. If it's the sêx, you both enjoyed it and sêx is cheaper these days anyway and a man can get enough from other sources. What matters is what else you can bring to a relationship apart from the normal attributes you listed up there.

See, men are naturally less stingy than women coz we're by nature the bread winners and provider of the family which includes females. Yes, there are stingy men out there but there more stingy women than men out there too. Sometimes you don't expect the man to spend all the time, a little reciprocation according to your financial strength is okay. Buying foodstuffs and cooking for him is a way to spend on a guy. Getting him a perfume is also spending on a guy. And if that guys loves you and is financially okay, he'll appreciate those gestures and spoil you silly.

These days men are more attracted to women that shows they can contribute financially too no matter how little. For example, I don't mind a girl who's unemployed or maybe a student depending on her dad buying me boxers and stuff. Others might laugh at it but I'd appreciate it coz she's trying her best, and I'll reciprocate more than that depending on my financial status. She doesn't have to get me a gold. A little gesture is enough for me to know she's not stingy. Not staying back and allowing me spend all the time.


Also before you judge a guy as being stingy or not, try to juxtapose what he's earning or his current financial status with what he's affording for you. You don't expect a student who's depending on his father to get you costly gifts. The few he can afford, learn to appreciate it so he can be even be encouraged to do more. Reciprocate too. There's love in sharing. Cheers.

mctowel01:
What do you then give a guy for also dressing clean and fine ?

WiLdFLame:
[color=#000000]Funny you...i don know the person wey dey under d masquerade called Jlopez....no need to stress yaself [/color]

firstking01:
Nope, you got it right.

jezuzboi:
And "maybe" money too? Why "MAYBE?" Why not "and money too?" Sounds "stingy."

firstking01:
For your mind you sabi bible ba?

firstking01:
Who succeeded him?

firstking01:
And you think you got it

firstking01:
I think mine is recommendable…and btw, who's the firstking of israel in the bible??

H2Ossss:
Masikay obviously got the brains u lack... That's y she can lay her points properly... Now that's a girl I can spend on, her comments ever since shows class... Your comments shows you looking for a guy to save you from your poverty stricken life. Happy search

DarkRebel101:
I thought no earthly expression of pain could surpass the lamentations of the women of Owu...the OP just subverted that thought.

VanLucius:
A million likes [size=18pt] if u are a lady [/size]Thumbs yp with this post.

firstking01:
And you are imitating jenifer lopez??

Beadex1:
lol...u no well....... the ting for no concern me but for the mere fact say na my egg de fry use kick start..... reason am e no fresh at all

Beadex1:
didnt want to use egg as a criteria .... u know how gals reasons na

sinizia:
Lol. I cornered you pretty badly, right?

firstking01: