dollyjoy:
Again, Shut the fhuck up and go read your books lad!

And with such dirty language you expect me, if I happen to be your bf to respect you and give u money? I now see y u gals get nothing , cz u re not respected. Behind up girl... Speak with courtesy and see your life change for the better... Thank me later

JLopez:
ehmmmm... Not sure oooo Maybe. Saul?

And you think you got it

dollyjoy:
Actually, stingy people are the worst kind of people to be in an affair with.

do u gv ?

firstking01:
And you think you got it

ehn nah.. It's Saul jare

miremoses:
lol,I should read my books, do u know me,seriously most of you here use social media to hide ur dirty asses,b**ch I'm not a boy,I'm a working class,I can get your silly bf a job.

na so dat girl egocentric bitch dy do......i neva knw wetin dy pain am

JLopez:
ehn nah.. It's Saul jare

Who succeeded him?

firstking01:
Who succeeded him?

David jor who dosnt knw dat1

JLopez:
David jor who dosnt knw dat1

For your mind you sabi bible ba?

firstking01:
For your mind you sabi bible ba?

abi is it Nebuchadnezzar ?

JLopez:
my own love, time , affection and maybe money too.. How about that?

And "maybe" money too? Why "MAYBE?" Why not "and money too?" Sounds "stingy."

jezuzboi:

And "maybe" money too? Why "MAYBE?" Why not "and money too?" Sounds "stingy."

ok.. And obviously money too dear

JLopez:
abi is it Nebuchadnezzar ?

Nope, you got it right.

firstking01:
Nope, you got it right.

JLopez:
my dear dats surely d best thing.. No1 shuld keep a stingy guy. Wat for ??

What about stingy girls? Should guys keep them?

JLopez:

No one is saying a lady shuld b a gold digger, but an average man is happy to spend on the woman he loves, it makes him feel like a man that he his taking care of his girl.
So Bros, sure u love ur gf? Cos giving is love

givingb dnt make me feel lyk a real man.......givin a man cud as well make u feel lyk a superwoman

miremoses:
as in ehh,me give a girl money ?I'm I running a charity institution. Just last week a girl got her bf a cool lexus jeep,and the op is here making noise.

These are the kind of guys we have in this generation

JLopez:
a guy who dosnt give u anythjng while dating u wunt give u shishi wen he becomes ur husband .
It's not my money Bt sharing is part of love.. U can't claim to love me and see am in need of something and still turn ur face away.. Love isn't stingy

Is the guy the only one entitled to share with u? Can't u also share with him as part of love? Or it is not in a woman's place to also be generous with money and those other little things? I'm confused here...

JLopez:
walai talai
The maybe was just to show that if d guy isn't stingy den aw reciprocate.

Why did you edit out your other story? To make your reply doesn't fail the second time? Well, that guy in your story is super stingy and his case is pathetic. I would complain too if I was his gf.

Between me and you, I'll tell you this - relationships are between two people. It takes two to tango. the love, affection and time you said you bring to a relationship in your first post, a man can bring that too. A man can give you love and time too. If it's the sêx, you both enjoyed it and sêx is cheaper these days anyway and a man can get enough from other sources. What matters is what else you can bring to a relationship apart from the normal attributes you listed up there.

See, men are naturally less stingy than women coz we're by nature the bread winners and provider of the family which includes females. Yes, there are stingy men out there but there more stingy women than men out there too. Sometimes you don't expect the man to spend all the time, a little reciprocation according to your financial strength is okay. Buying foodstuffs and cooking for him is a way to spend on a guy. Getting him a perfume is also spending on a guy. And if that guys loves you and is financially okay, he'll appreciate those gestures and spoil you silly.

These days men are more attracted to women that shows they can contribute financially too no matter how little. For example, I don't mind a girl who's unemployed or maybe a student depending on her dad buying me boxers and stuff. Others might laugh at it but I'd appreciate it coz she's trying her best, and I'll reciprocate more than that depending on my financial status. She doesn't have to get me a gold. A little gesture is enough for me to know she's not stingy. Not staying back and allowing me spend all the time.


Also before you judge a guy as being stingy or not, try to juxtapose what he's earning or his current financial status with what he's affording for you. You don't expect a student who's depending on his father to get you costly gifts. The few he can afford, learn to appreciate it so he can be even be encouraged to do more. Reciprocate too. There's love in sharing. Cheers.

Ifakiland:

Don't go and hustle....be looking for a man dat will be working and giving u money....like say pvssy don hard to find sotee I go come dey pay one mumu gf allawee to fork.

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Maychang:


its the same guy that would want you to look hot so he can brag abt u to his friends.

Many guys are missyn the point. its not about the money. its the care and love. one of the ways of showing love is by giving gifts. it works any day any time.

Any man that is stingy to you while dating, will be stingy when you married.

Are the guys the only ones entitled to give the said "gifts?" Can't a lady also give the said gifts to show love? I actually buy the idea. But must the gifts only come from the guys?

berryice:
Lol...I detest dem so much that's y d name STINGY is for dem,dey re so wicked

If he give you today and he doesn't have tomorrow you will still call him a stingy guy.

H2Ossss:


And with such dirty language you expect me, if I happen to be your bf to respect you and give u money? I now see y u gals get nothing , cz u re not respected. Behind up girl... Speak with courtesy and see your life change for the better... Thank me later

Don't mind them.If he has been giving them upkeeps but didn't have at a particular time she will say he is stingy.

GiaGunn:
I'm an independent woman. I date for love

And you Shall find Love *Ameen*

Boyfriend Not AtM

Love Machine:
If he give you today and he doesn't have tomorrow you will still call him a stingy guy.

not atall I won't...cos I knw he got no money cos he has given me befr

JLopez:
ofcourse if I have enof money I can get it for my bf.. Dats if he isn't stingy oooo and he shows me dat he's worth it

Are you worth it?

JLopez:
babe God bless u.. Wen u dress fine from hair to shoes they show u off to all their frnds. But shishi they can't give u.
Am not asking u to pay for my hair all d time, or buy me dresses.. Bt once in a while do something. No one is asking u to start performin my father's role.
They just don't get it

What do you then give a guy for also dressing clean and fine ?

mctowel01:
What do you then give a guy for also dressing clean and fine ?

u say?

sinizia:




Why did you edit out your other story? To make your reply doesn't fail the second time? Well, that guy in your story is super stingy and his case is pathetic. I would complain too if I was his gf.

Between me and you, I'll tell you this - relationships are between two people. It takes two to tango. the love, affection and time you said you bring to a relationship in your first post, a man can bring that too. A man can give you love and time too. If it's the sêx, you both enjoyed it and sêx is cheaper these days anyway and a man can get enough from other sources. What matters is what else you can bring to a relationship apart from the normal attributes you listed up there.

See, men are naturally less stingy than women coz we're by nature the bread winners and provider of the family which includes females. Yes, there are stingy men out there but there more stingy women than men out there too. Sometimes you don't expect the man to spend all the time, a little reciprocation according to your financial strength is okay. Buying foodstuffs and cooking for him is a way to spend on a guy. Getting him a perfume is also spending on a guy. And if that guys loves you and is financially okay, he'll appreciate those gestures and spoil you silly.

These days men are more attracted to women that shows they can contribute financially too no matter how little. For example, I don't mind a girl who's unemployed or maybe a student depending on her dad buying me boxers and stuff. Others might laugh at it but I'd appreciate it coz she's trying her best, and I'll reciprocate more than that depending on my financial status. She doesn't have to get me a gold. A little gesture is enough for me to know she's not stingy. Not staying back and allowing me spend all the time.


Also before you judge a guy as being stingy or not, try to juxtapose what he's earning or his current financial status with what he's affording for you. You don't expect a student who's depending on his father to get you costly gifts. The few he can afford, learn to appreciate it so he can be even be encouraged to do more. Reciprocate too. There's love in sharing. Cheers.

a lady will buy the boxers etc wen d guy is also trying his best and dropping something. It's d guy who will pave d way on how the giving or sharing of the relationship shuld be. Wen he gives u all d time , u have no option dan to do same no mata how little. But ehn some guys wunt drop anything Atall .. So Whr will d buying of boxers come from?

jezuzboi:

Is the guy the only one entitled to share with u? Can't u also share with him as part of love? Or it is not in a woman's place to also be generous with money and those other little things? I'm confused here...

both should do d sharing.. Bt u knw some pple are naturally stingy ryt,? Date dem for a year and 1k wunt even join u both .. How den do u expect me to give him in such case?

Valprof:
givingb dnt make me feel lyk a real man.......givin a man cud as well make u feel lyk a superwoman

jezuzboi:

What about stingy girls? Should guys keep them?

stingy pple r generally disgusting

Love Machine:
Don't mind them.If he has been giving them upkeeps but didn't have at a particular time she will say he is stingy.

ofcourse we will undastnd wen he dosnt have bcus he has been giving us . Wat abt guys dat claim not to have all d tym.