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Kionrae:
Na mumu post dey make front page this days

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

SeeWahala:
Yes oh 😁 they like to run for every single political position available in any foreign land they travel to . . .

But for someone else to travel down to their own land and run for political office is a very huge taboo 😕

Even for their own brother just because he has an igbo mum who his Yoruba father loved 😍

scorenews:
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JACKSON50:
Is a new site, have not started making any money on.
I just registered on it : 2024-12-13.

greggng:
I am not the owner ...i am helping her to sell it . You cannot force people to do things your way . Is there decision. If she had to fix it ..., the price will go up to the extent that some of you will prefer they buy it and fix themselves.

greggng:
Most of the cars you are causing up and down were worse than this when they were brought in ...but after fixing it ...you became proud of them .

NewHe:
My spirit tells me this is a half told story !
Probably, the pastor announces people to join him to celebrate his wife?
Iam sure, it's not a compulsory donation!

Hier:
Firstly, Pastors have their own life

Secondly, Pastors are not working. If they are not working, where should they find money

Thirdly, in my little work with God, I discovered when you help a member of your church. They keep coming over and over and when you stop giving. They stop coming to church.

Sonnobax15:

If boobs were one of the criteria needed to win a Grammy award, nothing would have stopped our own very beautiful Yemi from winning it . But unfortunately,not all men are moved by boobs