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Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:25am On Aug 13, 2022 |
Arabella21: You got Poco f3 pouch? |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:23am On Aug 13, 2022 |
I need Poco f3 pouch. |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 1:33pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Shout out to this dude Legit and smooth business with him davolas: |
Celebrities / Re: Zazu Zeh Crooner, Portable Acquires A New Car (Photos) by joessi(m): 10:28pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
It's a messed up reality sincerely isaiah4life: |
Family / Which Is More Important For Women, Equality Or Mindset? by joessi(m): 4:51pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
EQUALITY OR MINDSET . Read till the end! The ring is set for the big match, long in the making. We gathered to watch and shortly, the Announcer took the center stage with a microphone and introduced himself and the two contenders. To the blue Corner he said “is the challenger, give it up for Lydia! And to the red corner is the reigning champion, Leonard!” and we all cheer with loud applause as we sat down. This match was scheduled for twelve rounds, except for a knock out. Unlike any other match fought before, this one isn’t about just wining but a match to determine EQUALITY should the challenger wins. The Announcer left the ring, leaving the referee to get the match started. The referee signaled the time keeper and ring! Ring! Ring! goes the bell for round one to start. From one round to the next we watched as they fought and staggered in the ring, with heightened emotions and taping of toes. most were expecting the champion to win the match in the first few round but Lydia came ready to get equality for her gender. The match got to the twelfth round and soon headed for the judges card to be the decider of the winner. We heard the Announcer's voice again this time, holding in his hand is the score card from each of the judges, he read it out and declared Lydia the winner by unanimous decision. The crowd exploded with mixed feelings, for Lydia and the rest of the her gender it was a dream come through, equality atlas was there chant. Its a new age, a new era or better still, a new world to come. With some degree of uncertainty we left the arena anticipating how the recently won equality would shape her. It’s been years since Lydia won the bout, and everything seems to remain the same: Like reality did not obey the contract of the match! Or the equality she won wasn’t what she actually wanted? So I ask, was it equality that was the problem or was it the mindset thing? Who holds the balance of gender? Who holds the scale of social equity? Who holds the scale rule of gender performance? Who determine what role fit each gender? Who determine who enjoy more social and economic benefit? or who says which gender is more political?. There is sure no fact that such a claim holds and any fight we engage on this filed is just a show of ignorance of the unique features that makes each gender perfect. I say its not gender equality that has being the problem, its is our mindset. Taking a close look on the African society and her culture, the girl child has being put under pressure and told a lot of lies on what she can be and what she can't be. This has gone a long way in time to create a mindset that guides her life all through existence. The pressure of time and the pressure of family have been the major drivers of this mindset the girl child owns, no girl wants to be like the 70 years old unmarried woman in the village, lol, neither do I want such for my sisters or anyone. The pressure of time has being from time past, it’s like the girl child is a time bomb set to explode if not intercepted in time. The heat of when to marry, to be in a relationship keeps bugging her and tick tock is all she hears and in desperate move to beat her biological time, the time the society sets for her, the time she has come to set for herself, she throws all that makes her a perfect woman by default. It’s is a known fact that the reproductive organ of the woman have a time frame, but this pressure of time has made her throw away dreams and visions and starve the world of the flavor and beauty she ought to contribute. Sometimes she is being pressured by family on when to tie the knot, the sight of her peers getting hooked up makes her throw caution into the wind. The society has dipped her into the sea of high moral standard, and she struggles to keep her head above the waters. Now all she wants to do is to escape from this reality and become equal with the supposed champion in a bid to fair opportunity. So I ask again is it equality or is it the mind set? Its true that the society has put you under pressure and lied to you. The society has crop your task, your scope has been made to contain the kitchen, and the rest of the house which is indeed sweet as it the pride of every girl but to this, you have a glorious destiny, a path to fulfill, in addition to being tender and loving you have a spice to add to life and existence. I tell you, you can be a mom and be a president, oh yes! you heard me, not just a mom but a super mom, a role model mom and still live your dreams. History in itself is filled with women that grew from girl-hood to woman hood and fulfill destiny even in marriage, the likes of serina Williams, mary kay, ngozi okonjo-iweala and much more, they didn't have to fight anyone for equality, yet they fulfilled a purpose and history won't forget their impact. How sweet it is when history remembers you not only as John’s mother but also as you. I say its not about equality, its about your mindset. Am not advocating for miss independence, neither am I advocating for feminist. But I am saying, “you are a girl child, an African pride, you are special and full of virtue, you have something amazing packed in you to offer, so don’t let the mindset or the lies of the society, family or yourself shout you down”. So tell me my dear girl child, what would you rather do different if you have all the equality you ever imagine?. Culled from Transformend.com.ng by Joseph Ezekwe joessiglow
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Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 2:51pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Meister: Okay.. is there any pouch that can match it? |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:46am On Mar 03, 2021 |
Good day.. please who has redmi 9t screen protector and pouch.. @Aiwanfojoy @Meister |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:40am On Mar 03, 2021 |
jboixxx: Thanks.. let me contact them |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 8:14am On Mar 03, 2021 |
jboixxx: Hello bro.. do you have screen protector and pouch for redmi 9t |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 6:15pm On Feb 09, 2021 |
Kiaso: Please share about the phone... I'm considering getting it |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 5:07pm On Feb 08, 2021 |
Please I need a used xaiomi phone, budget is btw 40-50k |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 2:29pm On Feb 03, 2021 |
Kingpeter404: How much |
Autos / Re: 2014 toks Mercedes-benz CLS 550 (Sexy car) by joessi(m): 7:53am On Aug 07, 2020 |
The business man coupe meaning one can do business even in motion.. the wheel base is amazing and the corved lights give a classy view. The. Interior of the cls 550 gives lots of space and stylishly designed. The perfect engine for both daily drive and sporty.. with a 5.5 litter engine and an all wheel drive or rear wheel drive model. A perfect car and the price tag on this far better than any deal on jiji.. |
Car Talk / Re: Mercedes Benz Thread by joessi(m): 6:59am On Jul 13, 2020 |
HeavenlyBang: Thanks |
Car Talk / Re: Mercedes Benz Thread by joessi(m): 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Please bosses in the house, how much is Mercedes Benz CLS 550, 2014 foreign used? |
Health / How To Win Over Addictions This Lockdown by joessi(m): 8:31pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
No matter how busy we try to be, we all now have more free time than we ever had; Thanks to the lockdown. At this time, buried addictions Resurrect and weak addictions gain strength. Join the online chat to get the knowledge you need to stay aloft addictions in this lockdown period. Follow this link to join transformend mindset 1.0: https:///LipMTiwyWig0fCjjP4zsXI
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Few Skill You Can Learn This Period. by joessi(m): 2:20pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
Well said... There would be a life after covid19 Utilize this period. Learn something jobfynder: |
Jobs/Vacancies / Few Skill You Can Learn This Period. by joessi(m): 11:49am On Apr 04, 2020 |
Sample skills you learn as side hustle A basic desire of the young person is to attain financial freedom, but how to go about it is sometimes not clear. So while waiting for a job or your dream job, your hand can find something to do to bring you closer to your dreams. Even in this period of isolation you can learn a skill to put you in the relevant spot after the covid -19. Click on the link and download the PDF.. choose one skill and learn.. https://transformend.com.ng/ebooks/sample-skills-you-learn-as-side-hustle/
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Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 5:28pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Please who has tempered glass , porch and USB cable for redmi 5 plus... Is there anyone that has for sale or dash.. thank you |
Events / Re: The First Igbo Islamic Marriage In Imo State (Photos) by joessi(m): 6:36pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
I don't like what I hate oh
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Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 3:42am On Feb 03, 2020 |
Am in need of a fairly use xiaomi phone but on a low budget of 27-30k . Any help would be appreciated.. |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 3:40am On Feb 03, 2020 |
In need of a fairly use xiaomi phone. ... Budget of 25-30k... Any help.... |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:13pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
In need of a fairly used xiaomi phone, budget is 25-30k..... Pls... |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 1:02pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
Richhard: Thanks ... I wait |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 5:26pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
Am in need of a fairly use xiaomi phone of 3gb ram or so.. my budget is 25-30k it's my first time trying to get onboard xiaomi family.... I will appreciate any help.. thanks 1 Like |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 5:09pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
samyd1: I don't have much... I have been using techno and infinix... Want to Port to xiaomi.. |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 4:16pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
samyd1: A used 3gb ram xiaomi or so would go well... |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 4:13pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
jboixxx: Thanks bro.... A used 3gb ram xiaomi would be great |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by joessi(m): 12:26pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Good day people, am in need of a xiaomi phone my budget is btw 25 to 30k.. it's my first time trying to Port to the xiaomi world. |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 11:35am On Jan 28, 2020 |
lordfalcao: 30? |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 10:07am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Richhard:Contact n price |
Technology Market / Re: The Xiaomi Thread Store by joessi(m): 7:28am On Dec 28, 2019 |
mathefaro: Thanks |
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