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Disclaimer: This piece of writing is 18+ and if you a minor do not attempt for a second to continue reading. Stay away and let the grown ups read. Also, this is not a shot at women in any way at all but I am sick and tired of guys complaining all the time about their women when they can actually do something about it. All views expressed in this piece are my own and do not represent the opinions of any entity whatsoever with which I have been, am now and will be affiliated. Lastly, I am not an English major, if there is any grammatical error, bear with me



CHAPTER ONE: HAVE A PASSION



In this material, I am going to keep it as 100% as possible. No woman would give you her soul if all you do is lay around from morning till night doing nothing.

At the same time, no woman would give her soul to a man who works all day but complains about his job, whether working for a company or self-employed.

A woman would happily give her soul to a charismatic carpenter than a man making six figures but always complaining about how much he hates his job.

Like I said earlier, the key thing you should know is that all women are highly emotional beings and have less rationale in them. If you reflect happiness and joy to them, you make them comfortable but if all you do is complain you make them complain as well. They are like computers if you must say Garbage In Garbage Out, If you are happy, your woman automatically is happy but if you are sad she would be sad too.

Now, if you are working on something you are highly passionate about, you will always be happy. You may be tired but there is a higher chance of happiness.
Do away with the fact that you think because women like money that you should take up a job that you hate so much.

Women like money from you if there is no guarantee that you can get her soul so no matter what you do always. I repeat always make sure you work on something that makes you happy internally and externally.

I know that some of you now would start saying that you can get a job you hate but be acting happy. Women are more spiritual than men. Why do you think there are always more women in churches or mosques than men, or why they pray more? Trust me, your woman would know whether you are happy or not. Your body would expose you even before your mouth speaks.

There is a case in point here though:

Always do proper and thorough research before selecting which of your passions to follow. Do not follow a passion that would not be able to put food on the table. I know some of you now would start saying that my passion is watching movies. That is all fine and good but if you must make it work to find a distribution channel for your passion to generate money for you.

If your passion is to watch movies, you can open up a blog or vlog to give reviews of all the movies you have or are watching and set up ad management to pipe in money for you.

This is very important and would be discussed further in the next chapter.

If a woman finds out that you cannot take good care of yourself, she would never give you her soul, no matter how much you love your passion.

For her to give you her soul, you must have a way to work on your passion and still make money for yourself.

Case Study: WIZKID

Do you know why ladies love wizkid so much?

Believe me, it is not because he is famous and wealthy after all there are many men who are richer than wizkid and probably more famous but you do not see women drooling over them. The reason is simple, Wizkid has so much passion for music that it makes him so happy and that passion is also generating crazy income for him. So you must find a way to mix the two: Like I said I would keep it 100% with you. Money is very essential to secure the soul of your woman but it has to mix with passion.


CHAPTER TWO: BE INDEPENDENT



If you want to secure the soul of your woman, this is one of the most important commandments. You simply have to be independent: emotionally, mentally and financially. I would explain it in a bit.

You see when I was at university. I entered university at a very early age (16 years). I got exposed to a whole lot of women being that I went to an all-boys secondary school. I remember some days when I would be in class my penis would be erect from morning till night, lol. It was crazy.

I am very observant and I noticed something, girls were always fighting for the guys who did not stay in the hostel, who did not give a crap about them and who spoke their minds freely regardless of the other person’s feelings.

I was still naive them but I remember one guy, Emeka. This guy had a boutique in school in our year 2. He stayed in one of the most expensive lodges in school and he never shied away from speaking his mind. Girls were practically fighting over him. It got to a point that the guy had to set up a contest for the girl he would take home after school. The guy was fashionable he owns a boutique, right? In simple terms, he was independent in the eyes of the ladies. It did not matter to them whether his parents were rich or not. None of them cared. He slept with as many girls as he wanted meanwhile there were a lot of virgin dudes in the same lecture hall.

Now let me analyze this further:

Emeka was I think about 20 years when he entered school and he had done a couple of business before then, so he knew how to be on his own, generate income on what he is passionate about (fashion) and keeps his emotions in check. In our class, Emeka was one of the oldest and most mature so he could talk back at anyone as much as he wants, he had a great physical stature so you dare not provoke him.

This is what I mean by being independent, I am not saying run away from your parents or push your friends away, No!

What I am saying is simple, start a business that you are passionate about that would generate you money to take good care of yourself, note: I did not say take care of your lady. I repeat: take good care of yourself. I learned this the hard way. You must also not be timid (this is where the mental independence comes from), you must not be afraid to speak your mind whenever necessary, most especially to women.
I remember the day, the most beautiful lady in our lecture hall stepped on Emeka shoe. Emeka shouted and embarrassed the lady so much that she almost cried. Now, most guys would be timid and even make her feel good that she stepped on their shoes but that is not the case with women. A woman wants to be able to know that you can speak your mind and make your intentions as clear as possible no matter the situation to her and as well to anyone.

Funny enough, after 2 weeks from that incident, the most beautiful lady started pursuing Emeka wherever he goes. Do you see my point?

You must also be able to pick yourself first no matter the situation. This is where emotional independence comes in. Women always have the superior power in making men do their bidding and sacrifice their lives to please them. You must avoid that at all costs. Like I always say the vagina on its own is a supernatural power.

Women would chase you down to the tunnel to make you succumb to them and once you do that, they would still leave you. It is crazy but that is a simple truth. If you want to secure the soul of your woman make sure to always let her know that you would pick yourself first before anything else. To be even better let her be aware that you might even pick a couple of other things like your friends even before her. It is weird but that would secure you her soul. She just has to know that you are man enough to leave anytime you want or hang up the phone anytime you desire.

Case Study 1: ME

In my first relationship, there are some days that I would be very tired and all I wanted to do was to lay down and sleep like a baby but no. My lady at the time would call tell me to call her back and when I do she would speak for hours I would be so tired and yawning but it never even crossed her mind to allow me to sleep. Funny enough all she kept rambling about were rubbish. My roommate did this and that and as naive and stupid as I was back then, I would just be steady listening and this caused a whole lot of ripple effect.

Ripple Effect:

I was wasting my airtime and that made me recharge a lot which in turn made me disturb my parents for more pocket money.

I slept late and by morning the next day, I have missed my 08:00 AM class and when I even get to class I could not fully concentrate because I was exhausted from all the talking the previous night.

Do you know that during the time of our break she mentioned that as one of the reasons she is breaking up with me? That I am always available and she does not have much intensity in the relationship which is code for there is no fun of me (girl) chasing you or trying to get her attention. She was correct. Girls love to chase guys and if you do not create room for that to happen. Her soul can never be yours.

Case Study 2: Emeka

Emeka, we popularly call him “Mekus”, he never made any girl a priority. He never picked up the call of the girls chasing after him when he did not want to. He was bold enough to let girls leave him alone to sleep when he was tired. He talked to girls like he had no respect for their time and appreciate and you know what. That made him even loved more by ladies.
Is that not just crazy?
It was later when I and “Mekus” became friends that I knew that he did all those things on purpose because he learned it from his elder cousin and he does not know how it works so magically on the ladies. I am telling you girls were ready to leave their hostel by 11:00 PM at night just to see “Mekus”, have sex with him and go back to their hostel that same night.


CHAPTER THREE: NEVER GIVER HER MONEY ON HER REQUEST


In the beginning stages of securing the soul of your woman, this rule is the most important one. It is the cortex of female nature. This is the number one way a woman knows whether a man is weak or insecure. This is a mortal sin to female nature.

To secure the soul of your lady she has to always and constantly be at your mercy. You can not just go about giving her money whenever she requests it. It is a bleeped-up mind game. She would keep taking your money, she might even sleep with you but you can never get her soul and after you would be wondering why you cannot get her to orgasm.

If a lady does not want to be with you because you do not give her money. If you do not want to secure her soul that is fine. You can stay with her and be treated like a subject but if you want to secure her soul and be treated like a King. You must have to let her go because you can never secure the soul of a lady like that.

In this case, you are married and you still want to secure her soul. You have to make her sacrifice something in exchange for that money. Please, for married men this money is not money for your kids or food. I am referring to the money she wants just for herself. To begin your steps in securing her soul. You have to tell her to go out and get a job or you trade with her. Tell her to do something for you that would make her stress in equivalence to the money she requests. For Example, your wife requests money from you to plait her hair and you want to eat ogbono soup mixed with egusi and pounded yam. Give her money to buy the food items, prepare the food, serve you, wash all your dirty clothing and car(nice!) if possible before you then give her the money. If she refuses, you simply tell her that she is not ready to have your money yet.

Believe me, she would value you more for that and ride your penis to your extreme pleasure.
A woman sees a man who just gives her money on her request as a man who is weak and insecure of himself. Most especially, an unmarried man, forget about all these sugar daddies and what not. Those men can never secure the souls of those ladies and as the title says I am not here to teach how to get laid, you can pay a hooker for that but I am here to teach you how to secure the soul of your lady.

Let me further break this down for you:

As you are aware, we are all beasts (animals) and once you are of age, you will surely start to have sexual urges. Women have gotten so good at keeping their urges in check whereas men not so much.
So a woman now knows that she can use the power of her vagina to attract you to spend on how so well that she does not even need to have sex with you (in some cases). If you think I am lying ask around. There is somebody you know who has not had sex with a lady he desires but spends crazily on her.

So what goes on in her mind, is simple if this guy can just give me money anytime I ask for it then he must not even be man enough to handle my sexual urges and even though she proceeds to have sex with you. You would never get her soul not as much as a guy who she yearns to give her body to for free.

The Trick:

If you had read my writing properly, you would know that I said: “Never give her money on her request”. I did not say you can not give her any money at all. You have to be able to shower and pamper her once in a while but it must be on your terms and conditions. Be the one initiating the giving of money and even when you do so, do it in your capacity (cut your coat according to your size) in the barest minimum. This keeps her chasing you and trying to make you her soul bearer.

Women, generally do not want to own their souls. They want to give out their souls but you must have to be worthy to secure it.