Disclaimer: This piece of writing is 18+ and if you a minor do not attempt for a second to continue reading. Stay away and let the grown ups read. Also, this is not a shot at women in any way at all but I am sick and tired of guys complaining all the time about their women when they can actually do something about it. All views expressed in this piece are my own and do not represent the opinions of any entity whatsoever with which I have been, am now and will be affiliated. Lastly, I am not an English major, if there is any grammatical error, bear with me



CHAPTER ONE: HAVE A PASSION



In this material, I am going to keep it as 100% as possible. No woman would give you her soul if all you do is lay around from morning till night doing nothing.

At the same time, no woman would give her soul to a man who works all day but complains about his job, whether working for a company or self-employed.

A woman would happily give her soul to a charismatic carpenter than a man making six figures but always complaining about how much he hates his job.

Like I said earlier, the key thing you should know is that all women are highly emotional beings and have less rationale in them. If you reflect happiness and joy to them, you make them comfortable but if all you do is complain you make them complain as well. They are like computers if you must say Garbage In Garbage Out, If you are happy, your woman automatically is happy but if you are sad she would be sad too.

Now, if you are working on something you are highly passionate about, you will always be happy. You may be tired but there is a higher chance of happiness.
Do away with the fact that you think because women like money that you should take up a job that you hate so much.

Women like money from you if there is no guarantee that you can get her soul so no matter what you do always. I repeat always make sure you work on something that makes you happy internally and externally.

I know that some of you now would start saying that you can get a job you hate but be acting happy. Women are more spiritual than men. Why do you think there are always more women in churches or mosques than men, or why they pray more? Trust me, your woman would know whether you are happy or not. Your body would expose you even before your mouth speaks.

There is a case in point here though:

Always do proper and thorough research before selecting which of your passions to follow. Do not follow a passion that would not be able to put food on the table. I know some of you now would start saying that my passion is watching movies. That is all fine and good but if you must make it work to find a distribution channel for your passion to generate money for you.

If your passion is to watch movies, you can open up a blog or vlog to give reviews of all the movies you have or are watching and set up ad management to pipe in money for you.

This is very important and would be discussed further in the next chapter.

If a woman finds out that you cannot take good care of yourself, she would never give you her soul, no matter how much you love your passion.

For her to give you her soul, you must have a way to work on your passion and still make money for yourself.

Case Study: WIZKID

Do you know why ladies love wizkid so much?

Believe me, it is not because he is famous and wealthy after all there are many men who are richer than wizkid and probably more famous but you do not see women drooling over them. The reason is simple, Wizkid has so much passion for music that it makes him so happy and that passion is also generating crazy income for him. So you must find a way to mix the two: Like I said I would keep it 100% with you. Money is very essential to secure the soul of your woman but it has to mix with passion.


CHAPTER TWO: BE INDEPENDENT



If you want to secure the soul of your woman, this is one of the most important commandments. You simply have to be independent: emotionally, mentally and financially. I would explain it in a bit.

You see when I was at university. I entered university at a very early age (16 years). I got exposed to a whole lot of women being that I went to an all-boys secondary school. I remember some days when I would be in class my penis would be erect from morning till night, lol. It was crazy.

I am very observant and I noticed something, girls were always fighting for the guys who did not stay in the hostel, who did not give a crap about them and who spoke their minds freely regardless of the other person’s feelings.

I was still naive them but I remember one guy, Emeka. This guy had a boutique in school in our year 2. He stayed in one of the most expensive lodges in school and he never shied away from speaking his mind. Girls were practically fighting over him. It got to a point that the guy had to set up a contest for the girl he would take home after school. The guy was fashionable he owns a boutique, right? In simple terms, he was independent in the eyes of the ladies. It did not matter to them whether his parents were rich or not. None of them cared. He slept with as many girls as he wanted meanwhile there were a lot of virgin dudes in the same lecture hall.

Now let me analyze this further:

Emeka was I think about 20 years when he entered school and he had done a couple of business before then, so he knew how to be on his own, generate income on what he is passionate about (fashion) and keeps his emotions in check. In our class, Emeka was one of the oldest and most mature so he could talk back at anyone as much as he wants, he had a great physical stature so you dare not provoke him.

This is what I mean by being independent, I am not saying run away from your parents or push your friends away, No!

What I am saying is simple, start a business that you are passionate about that would generate you money to take good care of yourself, note: I did not say take care of your lady. I repeat: take good care of yourself. I learned this the hard way. You must also not be timid (this is where the mental independence comes from), you must not be afraid to speak your mind whenever necessary, most especially to women.
I remember the day, the most beautiful lady in our lecture hall stepped on Emeka shoe. Emeka shouted and embarrassed the lady so much that she almost cried. Now, most guys would be timid and even make her feel good that she stepped on their shoes but that is not the case with women. A woman wants to be able to know that you can speak your mind and make your intentions as clear as possible no matter the situation to her and as well to anyone.

Funny enough, after 2 weeks from that incident, the most beautiful lady started pursuing Emeka wherever he goes. Do you see my point?

You must also be able to pick yourself first no matter the situation. This is where emotional independence comes in. Women always have the superior power in making men do their bidding and sacrifice their lives to please them. You must avoid that at all costs. Like I always say the vagina on its own is a supernatural power.

Women would chase you down to the tunnel to make you succumb to them and once you do that, they would still leave you. It is crazy but that is a simple truth. If you want to secure the soul of your woman make sure to always let her know that you would pick yourself first before anything else. To be even better let her be aware that you might even pick a couple of other things like your friends even before her. It is weird but that would secure you her soul. She just has to know that you are man enough to leave anytime you want or hang up the phone anytime you desire.

Case Study 1: ME

In my first relationship, there are some days that I would be very tired and all I wanted to do was to lay down and sleep like a baby but no. My lady at the time would call tell me to call her back and when I do she would speak for hours I would be so tired and yawning but it never even crossed her mind to allow me to sleep. Funny enough all she kept rambling about were rubbish. My roommate did this and that and as naive and stupid as I was back then, I would just be steady listening and this caused a whole lot of ripple effect.

Ripple Effect:

I was wasting my airtime and that made me recharge a lot which in turn made me disturb my parents for more pocket money.

I slept late and by morning the next day, I have missed my 08:00 AM class and when I even get to class I could not fully concentrate because I was exhausted from all the talking the previous night.

Do you know that during the time of our break she mentioned that as one of the reasons she is breaking up with me? That I am always available and she does not have much intensity in the relationship which is code for there is no fun of me (girl) chasing you or trying to get her attention. She was correct. Girls love to chase guys and if you do not create room for that to happen. Her soul can never be yours.

Case Study 2: Emeka

Emeka, we popularly call him “Mekus”, he never made any girl a priority. He never picked up the call of the girls chasing after him when he did not want to. He was bold enough to let girls leave him alone to sleep when he was tired. He talked to girls like he had no respect for their time and appreciate and you know what. That made him even loved more by ladies.
Is that not just crazy?
It was later when I and “Mekus” became friends that I knew that he did all those things on purpose because he learned it from his elder cousin and he does not know how it works so magically on the ladies. I am telling you girls were ready to leave their hostel by 11:00 PM at night just to see “Mekus”, have sex with him and go back to their hostel that same night.


CHAPTER THREE: NEVER GIVER HER MONEY ON HER REQUEST


In the beginning stages of securing the soul of your woman, this rule is the most important one. It is the cortex of female nature. This is the number one way a woman knows whether a man is weak or insecure. This is a mortal sin to female nature.

To secure the soul of your lady she has to always and constantly be at your mercy. You can not just go about giving her money whenever she requests it. It is a bleeped-up mind game. She would keep taking your money, she might even sleep with you but you can never get her soul and after you would be wondering why you cannot get her to orgasm.

If a lady does not want to be with you because you do not give her money. If you do not want to secure her soul that is fine. You can stay with her and be treated like a subject but if you want to secure her soul and be treated like a King. You must have to let her go because you can never secure the soul of a lady like that.

In this case, you are married and you still want to secure her soul. You have to make her sacrifice something in exchange for that money. Please, for married men this money is not money for your kids or food. I am referring to the money she wants just for herself. To begin your steps in securing her soul. You have to tell her to go out and get a job or you trade with her. Tell her to do something for you that would make her stress in equivalence to the money she requests. For Example, your wife requests money from you to plait her hair and you want to eat ogbono soup mixed with egusi and pounded yam. Give her money to buy the food items, prepare the food, serve you, wash all your dirty clothing and car(nice!) if possible before you then give her the money. If she refuses, you simply tell her that she is not ready to have your money yet.

Believe me, she would value you more for that and ride your penis to your extreme pleasure.
A woman sees a man who just gives her money on her request as a man who is weak and insecure of himself. Most especially, an unmarried man, forget about all these sugar daddies and what not. Those men can never secure the souls of those ladies and as the title says I am not here to teach how to get laid, you can pay a hooker for that but I am here to teach you how to secure the soul of your lady.

Let me further break this down for you:

As you are aware, we are all beasts (animals) and once you are of age, you will surely start to have sexual urges. Women have gotten so good at keeping their urges in check whereas men not so much.
So a woman now knows that she can use the power of her vagina to attract you to spend on how so well that she does not even need to have sex with you (in some cases). If you think I am lying ask around. There is somebody you know who has not had sex with a lady he desires but spends crazily on her.

So what goes on in her mind, is simple if this guy can just give me money anytime I ask for it then he must not even be man enough to handle my sexual urges and even though she proceeds to have sex with you. You would never get her soul not as much as a guy who she yearns to give her body to for free.

The Trick:

If you had read my writing properly, you would know that I said: “Never give her money on her request”. I did not say you can not give her any money at all. You have to be able to shower and pamper her once in a while but it must be on your terms and conditions. Be the one initiating the giving of money and even when you do so, do it in your capacity (cut your coat according to your size) in the barest minimum. This keeps her chasing you and trying to make you her soul bearer.

Women, generally do not want to own their souls. They want to give out their souls but you must have to be worthy to secure it.

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CHAPTER SEVEN: LOVE HER LIKE SHE IS THE ONLY GIRL IN THE WORLD



This is the easiest way to secure the soul of a lady and to a lady, this is the most important thing to her before, she can even give you her soul in the first place.

Casanova has gone down in history as one of the world’s greatest seducers and this particular rule was how he got the souls of various ladies and made them all submit to him.

Your lady has to feel special to you and there are many ways to do this.

Give her access to certain privileges in your life, something that you deny other ladies from. For this to work, she must know that she has access to this privilege.

For Example:

When I am sick. I like to be alone and do not even allow any girl to see me no matter how pressing the matter is but my lady is the only girl that has the privilege to see me and she knows. So this act makes her feel special.

My younger brother is someone that does not like girls in his car at all. It some weird shit and now his girl is the only girl that rides in his car and she knows this as well. This act makes her feel very special and wanted which in turn allows her to give him, her soul.

This theory applies to you as well. All you need to do is find something about you that you do not share at all with the opposite gender but your lady. Remember the only way this would work is if she knows other girls do not have access to this privilege.

Reversal:

If you do this too much, you run the risk of chasing her away for she will start sensing that you are getting attached to her and remember these ladies do not want that at all. So my advice to you is to give just give her one access but make it impactful. Something that if she thinks about, she would smile and feel privileged to be in your life.


There are some other impactful things you can do as well such as:

Bathe Her: When you are together with your lady, please do try at least once to bathe her. You would be surprised how special that act would make her feel. She would feel so much emotional rush, you earn huge points in her heart. When you bathe your lady always know her preferences. Some ladies like to bathe with hot water and some other cold water. Make sure the water is to her taste, your bathroom is clean and you have clean towels. All these matters, most importantly, do not bathe her like yourself. Bathe her in a seductive manner, look into her eyes as you scrub her body gently. Take some time to scrub her breasts well, under armpit, buttocks, under her legs, in-between fingers, and thighs. NB: do this in a very seductive way, if possible play some blues and music to the scene.

Feed Her Well: By now, I am aware you know that ladies like food a lot and they practically do not mess around with their meal. Try to know how best to handle this situation though so you do not lose money trying to please her. The first thing to do is to make sure you have enough food items to prepare a balanced diet. Also, make sure you have provisions as well, Golden Morn, Corn Flakes, Bread, Milk, Milo, Quaker Oats, whatever she truly like. If it is biscuit obtain it and keep do not wait for her to request for it every time, think ahead. Remember this is a game and your plan is to secure her soul for yourself.

Surprise Her By Taking Her Out: This is something you should do of your own accord and not because she said it. In fact, if you were planning to take her out, make it a surprise and a decision of your own accord. She would appreciate this to the top.

I am not a clubbing kind of guy but there was a time, I think 2 years ago. I was dating this girl that likes to club but because she was madly in love with me she resisted all the clubbing urges she had because I told her I rarely go to clubs and I do not get excited about it.

One day out of the blue I decided to surprise her and take her to the club. I swear to God! I have never seen her so happy as such before. She was so happy and funny enough we had the best time. She rocked my penis so damn well. By the time we were back home. She was so Hot she pulled my pants and gave me the best Mouth Action I have ever had to date. She literally bleeped me like a IndecentStar afterward. This is the power of surprise and taking your lady out of your own free will.

Now, had it been she told me she wanted to club and I grudgingly agreed and taken her there. Trust me the outcome would never have been the same. She would have not been so Hot.

The power of this effect is to not do it all the time but once in a blue moon. The moment you begin to do it all the time, the feeling fades and you would not be able to secure her soul.

Every girl you know is a freak. There is definitely something naughty or exciting she would like to do. Find that out and plan according to your budget. Once the planning is complete, surprise her and reap the benefits of your reward.

Seduce Her: Most men these days do not know her to seduce a lady. You need to master the skill of seduction and use it to your advantage. It is not only the woman that knows how to seduce. Your voice alone is a seduction mechanism. You cannot speak to your lady the same way you speak with your guy friends. You have to be able to speak to her seductively. Know what she likes to hear and use it against her. You might be thinking these girls are angels. Allow me to burst your bubble. They are not angels at all. You should be able to know when to talk dirty to them. Do not be afraid to mix in your dirtiest sexual pleasures. Hearing those words sets her vagina in the mood and she becomes more receptive to your advances, thinks of you and practically starts touching herself. There are so many materials out there for you to read and learn how to talk seductive and dirty to your lady. Give names to her sensitive body parts such as her vagina, breasts, ass, lips, etc. Play around with these names and make her tell you, “You are such a naughty guy”. That is what you should want to hear. Make her temperature hot and steamy. You must also know the right mood to apply this. This is not meant to be applied all the time. Be smart!


Forgive and Forget Her Past: I have seen a lot of guys get completely hung up on the past of their ladies and this causes a whole lot of friction and she cannot be able to give you her soul that way. If you truly want to get the soul of your lady. You must be willing to forgive and forget her past. Deal with the present and future.

She might tell you that she did an abortion 3 times or she was a runs girl. The most important thing you should do is to not freak out. That would put shame on her face and drive her away from you. All you need to do is hug her, and convince her that all that matters to you is her present, now and in the future. If you love her. This is the best time to reassure her and tell her you love her. Also, mean it, she does not need you to judge her, she has already confided in you so make her feel loved and special and she would give you every ounce of her soul at the moment. NB: NEVER EVER BRING UP THE TOPIC AGAIN UNLESS SHE DOES. JUST FORGET IT COMPLETELY.
I believe by now, you have got the concept of how to cherish your lady and make her interest in you to the charts. There are other ways though but I cannot write them all out so you can research, explore and find what your lady likes. Also, remember not to be attached to her but develop her emotions so high she offers you her soul willing.


CHAPTER EIGHT: GIVE HER SPACE AND TIME



The easiest way to become unattractive to a lady is to always bug her and pressure to fit into her timeline. Your lady wants to fit in your timeline, not the other way round. You must have the skill to know when to back off and relax for a while, let your lady miss your presence. Let her miss your voice.

Even if this means block her from your phone, calling her or picking up her phone calls. This is paramount because absence makes the heart grow fonder and you need to be able to use absence to your advantage.

Pivot Point:
The only way this rule can work effectively is if you have started securing her soul bit by bit and she has started to see you as a liability and not an asset. You must have to be careful and sure she is madly in love with you for this work.

What this does is to reaffirm the love and make her surrender to you. She would give you her soul once you are back in a platter of gold.




My Experience

I was dating this lady, Bisola and she played a whole lot of game on me but I was never bothered because I understood the game and I have paid my dues by studying female nature appropriately so I got into the game. I played along with her so well. She started to fall madly in love. Bisola is the kind of girl that plays hard to get but when she falls in love with you, she falls hard.

Knowing the game well, for a girl like this I played the game well right back at her and when I started seeing that she has started to fall for me. I did not call or pick up her call for 2 weeks. This act I played very well. It drove her so crazy that she had to hunt me down from Lagos to Abuja during the weekend. To be honest, that was exactly what I wanted. Her coming to Abuja from Lagos was an act of surrender and at the moment she gave me her soul to secure.

This tactic works for some girls but mostly works on the most beautiful girls. Every beautiful girl is entitled and this is not their fault in any way. It is just how our society is shaped. So when a beautiful girl starts falling in love with you and you pull this tactic, it drives them crazy because they are used to guys begging to be with them always.

Apart from getting a girl to miss you. Giving her space creates room for you to think and evaluate the relationship. You get to stay in your zone and think as to whether the relationship is something you would like to continue. You get to know whether you love the girl or not.

It also gives you the chance to focus 100% on your business and let her know that you are not attached to her. Remember the earlier chapter, do not get attached to your lady.

Giving her space and time makes more room for your friends as well, puts you back into the guy’s mind and set up your bar and standards to your lady.

I cannot stress this enough giving your lady space and time is very important. If you do not do this, you would not create room for your lady to miss you and if she cannot miss you. She would not think about you which then degrades you in her eyes and if she had given you her soul before, she would retrieve it and go look for another man that can secure it for her.


CHAPTER NINE: STAGE HER AS AN ACTRESS IN YOUR PLAY



I am yet to meet the lady who does not like to be in a play. Every girl wants to be an actress in one form or the other.

This is a dark psychological attack on how to secure your lady’s soul so apply with caution else you might get burnt.

The first step to this is to create a list of tasks that you know your lady cannot do at the moment and the stage it for her.

Set it up for her in such a way that if she passes a stage you grade her.

For Example:
I have used this method on a lady of whom I secured her soul and I created a play with 10 scenes that I know she has not done in order so if she accomplishes any she climbs up the ladder. The truth is you have to make the order from easiest to hardest but the trick is you have to make the play unsurmountable. It has to be something you are sure she can never complete.

Women are competitive by nature and when she is presented with such a contest by you. She would want to do everything in her power to surmount the play. Especially, when she hears that nobody has ever surmounted it before. You can not list all the stages of the play to her at once, you have to reveal it to her one by one as she accomplished each one.

I was with a girl once told me she has never had an orgasm in her past relationships. It struck me as odd but there are some silly men out there who do not know how to pleasure a woman.

So I crafted a play and staged her in it. I told her that I have 10 tasks that she must complete to become my committed girlfriend and no girl has ever gotten that status before. Normal, she was like, she would beat that record. I told her that the first stage is “you must orgasm three times while we make love”. What I simply did was take the pressure of her not having orgasms from me and shoved it right back at her. Immediately, I said that she told me: “Let’s go and Bleep.” She had her first orgasm that night but it was once. After about 1 month, she had four orgasms in one round.

As I said, women are emotional beings you cannot be thinking rational with them. You might be wondering I must have bleeped her like crazy but the answer is NO! I just understood that most of the time a lady having an orgasm has to do with the mind as opposed to your penis. Therefore, I made her receive a reward for having an orgasm and it was mind-blowing to her. She was so happy to have passed stage one of the play.

She is a Yoruba girl and before I met she does not even know what Oha soup is. Igbo Kwenu! Well, oha soup is my favorite soup and I told her that to pass stage 2 she would have to cook oha soup for me and pounded yam and she would be the one doing the pounding. She happily accepted after 2 months, I had my soup and pounded yam.

You see the thing here is, the play has to be specific to the girl and set up in such a way that she does things she has never done before, for you.

You might be wondering what is the purpose of this?
Well, when you stage this play for your lady, her brain gets very excited about you and all she would be thinking about is how to surmount that play and in the process of all that thinking and worrying, she has fallen madly in love with you. By the time you reach stage 5, she would have already given you her soul without herself knowing. This is why I said this is a dark psychological tactic because she would beg you to take her soul but not being fully aware she is doing so.

Like all things magical, you have to be very cautious about this and know how to present this play to be fun, seductive and rewarding for her and yourself but most especially her.



CHAPTER TEN: NEVER LET HER BE SATISFIED



This rule is as simple as the title, never let her be satisfied. Once you get satisfied with something, that thing automatically loses its value.

The value that made it precious before was gone. It is just like being very hungry and you then go to a restaurant to eat. Once you are done eating to your fill, the food at that moment no longer becomes appealing to you.

This same thing applies to humans as well. It is never OK to let your lady be satisfied, you constantly have to have her seek your validation and respect. Make sure to always be the one to hang up the phone. Always know when to shut the Bleep up and not share too much information all at once to her.

Respect your dignity by letting her discover you out at her own pace. She has to be able to work hard to get to know you. You should not just let her know you that easy, let her discover those things out by herself. This is the only way she can never be fully satisfied. Women are like police detectives and always ready to dig deep to get information and knowledge. Although, she has to care about you a lot to be able to dig deep and get to know you so much more.

This also applies to sex, do not give her all the styles you know in bed in one round. Spice things up, make it different at certain encounters and generally make it an adventure for there is nothing that excites the mind of a lady who is madly interested in you than trying to figure you out so never give her that satisfaction.

In the process of trying to figure you out. She falls deeply in love with you and offers you her soul to secure.

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