nlanders, something happened a week and the half ago, somehow someway the issue randomly ensued until this day. I called my wife on a Tuesday afternoon, lo and behold her voice from the tone of her voice seemed her breath was high as if she was jogging or just finished jogging or otherwise, immediately my instinct told me something was fishy. I said baby, where are you, she said surulere,i said am calling you with video call now, plz pick right now. She no p, I called immediately, it was ringing, she didnt pick until after like a minute and some seconds, lo and behold, she was walking in a compound as such as she just left the building inside of the compound. I was like, whats going on here, knowing fully well she's suppose to be at her shop.

She said I came to pick a delivery, cos she runs a logistic biz, but she has dispatch riders that runs majority of her delivery, but when they are fully occupied, she once in a while does pick up and delivery herself with her car. On her way walking back into her car as were on video call I asked, so where is the package u came to pick as her hands were emtpy, she said she's waiting for the lady that she was refered to to hand over the package to her, that her number aint going through. I was like ok, keep the video on while the lady comes, I want to see the package. she placed the phone on the passenger side while she repeatedly swiped off sweat off her face.

A minute later, she said the lady is calling, cut the video call and some minutes later called back to show me a peice of nylon and just a pack of drug inside saying this is it oo, that i dnt trust her, its not fair bla bla bla, i responded saying who in this world would send you to go pick drugs and deliver? She said Mrs() the mrs I know cos she was my daughters former lesson teacher, said shes not feeling fine, she asked her to go n pick her drug and deliver back to her. Mentioning that ladies name made me feel she may be right, I apologized and forgot about the issue. Next morin, without any reason to think of yesterday,my spirirt kept telling me sumtin was not right with that whole pick up and delivery thing. So I embarked on a celibate galore. The whole thing was heated up, saying why would I not want to have s3x with her, that is it because shes making up these days, doing her nails, and i think shes seeing someone, and it is obvious am burnt that have not been able to catch her cheating. Sigh! I was not moved, continued with my celibacy, until today when she came forth, asking me why am I doing all these, I mentioned all her past misbehaving in the last weeks inclusive of me not blving her pick up and delivery story, she was like ok, she will tell me the truth, that she went to a pastors church to pray, and she didnt want me to see her in the parish, reason why she walked out to pick the video call bla bla...now the story has changed, am not God, she could be right, but my spirit says its a lie. Husband in the house, faithful wives, what are your sincere thoughts on this, cant be wifing a cheat, spiritually risky for me,financially dangerous and also risk of being infected with STD.

if it turns out not to be mine, i will be able to handle the truth.

Ok guys thanks so much, but does anybody know any reputale DNA center in lagos? I mean most trusted? And has there been any news of if there are cases where paternity test result came out wrongly?

Thanks peeps, we'll continue tomorrow.

Hi People,

Its been two years to be precise that I have wanted to post this, but within me, the same epileptic move I always try to make in getting a DNA test done on my son. My mind has been pondering to go for a test,and my body keeps saying no. I have core and unselfish reasons to, though I dont want to go into details because after two children and years in marriage, will I now let go if I found out that my son could not be biological mine? But then my mind also keep telling me that, if u do this test and he is yours, a hole will be permanently drilled in my heart for betraying my son and not trusting my wife. But then like I said, it is like I hear voice at most times to go ahead and do this thing, for two years now am procrastinating. Experienced married people here, kindly advise, because sometimes one cant do this alone, when you are not sure its God that is speaking to you, attimes you can exract your final decision from strings of real and truthful advice here. I trust my mystery starts being over from this second.