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I think lala don't do religion, I will take it to food or pet section

I kill this snake yesterday inside my house

And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel. Genesis3:15.

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4four:
The money don entered voice mail, it is just like the money she dey borrowed you too

I pay her every kobo she borrowed me.that why I have confidence when she ask for the loan.note.she did not say give,because I have already given her what I can afford. she say borrow

almost all of you can not be wrong. I will learn in hard way.am just been careful because if it escalates, even if I pay back in due time I will still loose that post because they will be scard of giving me money. for your information, I have been holding that post for more than 15years even before marriage.once again,I welcomed all abuses, insults, collections,opinions, advises,and name callings. you people are superb. each gives what he/she have.as you show concern on my issue, my your GOD show concern on everything that concerns you till the last day of your lifetime. SHALOM

bukatyne:
I am more concerned about the kind of marriage you have that:
1. Your wife doesnot know you are the treasurer of an association;
2. The money you gave her is stolen from said association;
3. You can not tell her that the money used to expand her business is stolen and you have to return it at the end of the month.

Since your mother 'pressured' you to start a business for your wife and your wife has referred you back to your mother, go and meet her.

You might have a solution.

PS: There is something wrong with an association that only the treasurer can withdraw money. It should be two signatories with/without a witness. At least, a number of people who have to be crazy at the same time to agree to funding your wife's business with public funds.

SMH.

you said the whole truth, but I just need solution now my sister

bukatyne:
@bold:

Is stealing now a trait of Alpha men?

When you follow ideologies without thinking.

Call the Chairman, NL Chapter of Alpha Men to help you out.

but you know human being learn by mistake. this is a fatal mistake and I need help if you have solution. once again, am wrong

Atk1nson:
Baba, it's like this everywhere o. Women rarely return money back, although it should be easier with your wife, just tell her you will borrow from someone with interest and deduct at source from your contribution to the home. So she should prepare for hard times.

Don't be fooled again sha, I personally don't borrow women money because I found out its difficult asking them to repay. I just give them what I can afford to loose.

her integrity is at stake if I report her to (mother's of good faith) she belong. but my own damage is fatal because it is a bleach of trust of many years. that why am careful

Alennsar:
You are not wrong for trying to establish your wife but you should have tell her that the money is not yours. Whatever you borrow must be pay back, it's a debt no matter the person involved.

sorry to ask,does it mean that you can t lend your wife your money and got it back?just asking

Alennsar:
You are not wrong for trying to establish your wife but you should have tell her that the money is not yours. Whatever you borrow must be pay back, it's a debt no matter the person involved.

she was the person that ask for loan because I just give her 100k the previous week,and she spend it to secure a portion for the business. now stranded on startup money before pleading for the loan.if I did not borrow, that portion would have been empty since then,that what happened

frozen70:
See guy, for peace to reign in your marriage, just talk to her to bring something so that you can also bring something to make it up

The mistake you made was not telling her from onset that the money is not yours

Money given to women especially a wife are hardly returned back as she assumes it's her own share

Unless she follows you to sign a paper from a money lender or bank

That's the only way she will participate in making up the money
They will rather prefer you dash them and don't talk about it

I would have know this before now.it is well

annayawchee:
Lol.... The higher your deposit, the higher your responsibility...

E go pass this 100k o

this is a serious issue please.

frozen70:
Consider that money gone

your signature said it all,but i need a second opinion

annayawchee:
Withdraw it on the bed sir....

men do not withdraw, they deposits. ask your father

chii8:
But,why is she using that tone?She sounds as if she's angry with you but nevertheless,sit her down and have a heart to heart discussion.Above all,pray about this because the devil came to steal,kill and destroy.Don't give him space to enter.

it is terrible my sister

chii8:
Not an accusation, just a question nah.As for your wife, explain the implication of what you have done by giving her other people's money,if she really loves you, she wouldn't want you to be disgraced.

NOTED, just that I use to borrow from her and pay back,I don't know why my own different.I would have feel guilty if I did not lend her because she once borrow me her friend money huge one self.but I pay back before the friend even know

first woman to comments here accuse me of using two moniker,you people are superb

chii8:
Why are you using two handlers on this thread?Ayodele17.... and Jomarag??

my handle is jomarq. I don't know ayodele,beside try to be convince on something before accuse,what do i need two account for? did i beg money on my post? that why you people fail WAEC

dasauce:
You're not suppose to lend your wife money that doesn't belong to you, You have nothing to prove to her, she's your wife and you're still trying to impress her by giving her loan..
My wife has been disturbing me since last year about going into business, i told her to do a feasibility study of what she want sell and location.
She did and i told her.. Madam, you'll be patient with me till i have money.. she understood and now i did not only setup the business for her, i did modify the place and made it look standard without going into debt or asking her to pay back.
In marriage, two becomes one. So talk to her about how you tried to impress her by giving her money trusted to you, and if she's a good woman, she'll help you raise it.

she insists that I own the money that it doesn't don in moon or star talkless of earth that husband give wife loan.i should ask my mum

chii8:
Why

to save the money of course, honestly if there is enough time. I will not think twice before taking that advice

ibrutex:
Guy that money is long gone since 1809,.

that means she was wright anyway. NOTED

ABOVEDELAW:
NEVER LEND WHAT IS NOT YOURS OR WHAT YOU CANNOT BEAR TO ANY HUMAN BEIGN!

even your wife?speechless

NeoWanZaeed:
of course.. it's your duty to take care of her. it's your duty to spend in her.. not her duty to spend on you

speechless

NeoWanZaeed:
that's if you inform her the money is not yours before lending her.. then that's borrow..

but others. . na charity o

but if she lend me, I do pay back.

Theslumflower:
It's still crazy how they are yet to understand how much of a "bad market" that statement causes their online business.

Like WTF, just say the price upfront. Nobody wants to come to your DM when we have other things to do. So many others buyers products to look at too.

fact

NeoWanZaeed:
have you told her what you would do if she does not pay up?

she might be thinking you joking the money is not yours..


let her know what's exactly happening before you take bold step o..even let her know what your bold steps would be if she doesn't pay up and that your integrity at the cooperation is at stake

noted, I will do this.but do husband borrow wife money and got it back, I want to know?

NeoWanZaeed:
mind the advices you take OP. Kids plenty here..



Sit her down and discuss the whole truth with her. She would understand and pay back.



if she doesn't, the aftermath would both affect you two. and that means you won't ever borrow her money again but give her the amount you can afford to give not borrow..



don't forget,don't act stupidly or take nonsense decision..

SHE'S YOUR WIFE

my brother said I should try my best till the meeting day but if I could not raise the money,I should auction her goods and pay it. I cant afford to loose trust build for years because of one single mistake.it is terrible

ayodele17893:
a pal said I should stop buying foodstuffs at residence to save the funds,but I don't buy everyday. I buy in deer which we still have at residence.

NOTED

dingbang:
I have people that do all these stuff for me.

same here

a friend said I should stop buying food at home to save the money,but I don't buy everyday. I buy in buck which we still have at home.