₦airaland Forum

Mistermoon:
Please, I need advice on what to do.
The community disconnected electricity supply to our compound because the landlord did not pay a community electrification due (money for transformer) that predates our tenancy and the landlord gave only me a quit notice with 30 days ultimatum because I was the only one brave enough to demand that he pays the due so that electricity can be restored to the house.

I want to take him up legally but I need guidance on how to go about it plus L do not personally know a lawyer.

Since you want to take it up legally. You should go see a lawyer, and not come on social media to seek advice from people who know next to nothing about anything.

OverCalculating:
This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.

As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.

As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.

There is a serious problem with your guy if:


1. He has a victim mentality.

2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.

3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.

4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.

5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.

6. He's a nice guy who's always available.

7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.

8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.


9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.

10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.

11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.

12. Likes gossiping about others.

13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.

14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.

15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems.

Well done with the generalization. So any man who smokes weed, is automatically a weak man? I see.

pu7pl3:
Mundus absolutely wrecked Argosaxin that Finale
Damn

Mundus showed Argosax who is boss and the real boss of Hell.

I even wondered how did Argosax even became the ruler of Hell, in the first place. That demon is just all mouth and noise making.

Devil May Cry. Season 2

I love the intense action. They didn't even waste anytime at all. Straight to action. A very good watch.

EmmyMaestro:
Nigerian Prison Food Video Sparks Outrage

A viral video showing inmates in a Nigerian correctional facility sharing a small portion of watery beans has sparked debate over prison conditions and inmate welfare. In the clip, one inmate describes the meal as the only food available for the day.

The conversation intensified after another video surfaced of a 17-year-old detainee who has reportedly spent three years at Kirikiri Medium Facility following his arrest at age 14. His case has allegedly faced repeated adjournments due to judicial delays.

Nigerian Prison Food Video Sparks Outrage

A viral video showing inmates in a Nigerian correctional facility sharing a small portion of watery beans has sparked debate over prison conditions and inmate welfare. In the clip, one inmate describes the meal as the only food available… pic.twitter.com/N5wVvhv48S

— ARISE NEWS (@ARISEtv) May 8, 2026

Before you commit that cr!me, before you d£fame, before you cyber bu lly, watch this video o, this is a video someone made inside Nigerian prison and the kind of food they eat there💔💔 pic.twitter.com/AXdh4C1WKV

— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) May 7, 2026

I'm curious to ask, how did someone make a video with a phone, when they're not suppose to use phones in prison.

Dogalmighty17:
Damage control that won't fly.
Even if he were to be believed, it shows his extreme political naivety not to have consulted widely before picking his nomination form. He is just trying to save face from the kind of disgrace he recieved yesterday.

This picture speaks a thousand words.

People like him, just believe because they have money and they are popular, everyone will bow to them. Imagine the bare face lie, according to that picture you posted. Lmao.

dawnomike:
https://guardian.ng/breakingnews/i-regret-trusting-my-community-elders-cubana-chief-priest-blasts/

He thinks money solves it all. Lemme even ask him, does he even attend community meeting? Does he attend community event, and join the elders to take part in community activities? This man just feel throwing money at them will make them cower and lose their senses. Lol

fergie001:
A troll who posted on X a malicious content about Adekunle Gold & Simi's daughter has been arrested & sentenced to two years imprisonment without an option of fine.

See Previous Story

However, some Nigerians including Sowore has accused the Nigerian Police for being the "Private army of the rich", also referencing a 2012 post by Adekunle against them President Goodluck Jonathan.

Omoyele Sowore

Adekunle Gold

Adekunle Gold

Well, the difference here is, Jonathan didn't file a complaint with the relevant authority, Adekunle Gold did. It's up to the person being insulted to decide to file a complaint or ignore.

Adekunle Gold is lucky. If I were Jonathan, I'll revisit that tweet and give him a taste of his own medicine. Lol.

naptu2:
https://leadership.ng/troll-jailed-two-years-over-fake-news-on-adekunle-golds-daughter/

]Whoa. For a first time offender, this is way too much. There should have been an option of fine. I think this offense fail under misdemeanor. Hmm.

DomPerignon:
Why is it so hard for you guys to read?

Read what? Point me to who she duped out of that money, or piss off.

Deollaa:
https://vop.ng/alleged-n36m-fraud-efcc-arraigns-blessing-ceo-in-lagos/

Who did Blessing C.E O dupe to get that amount of money? I honestly don't believe it's the FG, if it's them, what exactly did she do for the FG to dupe them of that amount?

SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

Better cancel everything now before it's too late, than have a mountain of regret later. She lied before, she can lie again.

If you feel you need to get along with the wedding and forgive her, call the chief of your village and the elders, and tell them your discovery, and ask for their counsel, I'm sure they will have one or two wise words to give.

But I wonder how the guy won't find out, she's not a virgin, on their wedding night, and she has been lying this whole time .. 🤦

GloriousGbola:
aside from banger boys thinking that hidden cameras are 'tech guy' things which is a story for another day]

this is what someone posted on this discussion

that is what i was referring to - recording people privately without their knowledge - and more so intimately . this is not putting a nanny cam in your baby's room. this is actual voy--eur territory

what you are referring to is the debate about recording people in public spaces

👍

GloriousGbola:
allegedly hiding a camera in a persons clothes may count as matter of intimate encounter chief
that is how some people do Indecent videos
if i put a hidden camera on your shirt i may see you prk when you pee.
[i may put the camera there because i want to catch you receiving bj]

I'm not talking about putting hidden camera on another person's clothes. I'm talking about using phone camera to video a person, when they're walking, talking, eating, working out etc.

Putting a hidden camera on my clothes, without my knowledge is a breach of my personal space. That sh1t is creepy as hell. Kai.

@gloriousgbola. You can expressly record any person without their permission. The only exception is if it involves matters of intimate encounter. Other than that, carry they go.

What I'm basically interested in, is she proving that Frank didn't pay school fees for their children. She should post receipt of the school fees she has been paying. This is I am most particular about.

b0rn2fuck:
that's why we dey Bleep una anyhow... Use and dumb una like tissue paper

Baba Walexi. You never fail to make me laugh. Shey you still dey back upandan like you dey do before?

b0rn2fuck:
Na girls, this one still sound better, the one that told me I will die untimely death just because I claimed I don't have the 5k I promised her anymore on that day she mentioned. She dragged me while did I give her hope and waited, why did I promise her but I insisted I had no choice to promise when she kept pressuring and pressuring. Cursed hit me that day and truly, money no dey

You should have told her to go take a hike and block her.

h777:
“What I Saw At My Friend’s Wedding Shocked Me”

Yesterday was supposed to be a happy day.

My friend finally got married after almost seven years with his girlfriend. Everybody came out fresh, smiling, dancing, spraying money, taking pictures, acting like love still conquers everything.

But something happened during the reception that honestly disturbed me.

While the bride and groom were dancing, I noticed an older woman sitting quietly at the back. She wasn’t eating, smiling, or talking to anybody. Just watching them.

At first, I ignored her.

Then one of the groom’s friends leaned close to me and said quietly,
“That woman almost became his wife.”

I thought he was joking.

Apparently, they dated for years. Everybody expected marriage. According to him, she stood with this guy when he had nothing. Paid bills sometimes. Helped him survive difficult years.

Then suddenly he met this new lady abroad through a relative, and everything changed fast.

What shocked me wasn’t even the story.

It was the woman’s face.

No anger.
No drama.
No tears.

Just silence.

At one point, the groom accidentally looked toward her side, and for about three seconds his smile disappeared completely.

Three seconds.

Then he smiled again and continued dancing like nothing happened.

That moment has been sitting in my mind since yesterday.

Life is strange honestly.

Sometimes the person who helps build the house is not the one who lives inside it.

And sometimes, what people celebrate publicly has a story nobody wants to mention quietly.

I still don’t know exactly what lesson to take from what I saw.

But one thing became clear to me:

Not every smiling couple in wedding pictures arrived there with clean footprints behind them.


Image is from Google

How did she get an invite to the wedding?

ufotunang:
.. Bianca Ojukwu fine pass am

At all. Natasha is pretty facially, character wise, she isn't. Bianca has it. I love the way Bianca has carried herself ever since she lost her husband. Scandal free and she respects herself massively.

Ishilove:
Roby is 47. You want make e kpai on top nack?? Just leave am make e dey manage his once in a month nacks in peace

Roby is just one man, amongst the many who knack for a living. Hehehe

Compare ruby to those guys in the ashawo thread. How many times have I read about women shielding their vaginas and running for their dear life.

ufotunang:
.. wetin your eyes dey find for her fine 🙄

The woman fine Wella abeg. Man no fit lie.

seunmsg:
BREAKING: Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan has submitted her PDP senatorial nomination forms at the party's National Secretariat, Wadata Plaza, Abuja.

source

Ah well, the Senator is looking finer than ever. Kudos to her.

Nova15:
but i also wondered why the Sith always seem stronger than a Jedi?

Depends on the Jedi they face.

Darth Vader can't even defeat Obi Wan, neither can he defeat Mace Windu, Yoda, Yaddle and some other Jedi.

Jedi aren't equal in skill and power. Some are weak and others are average.

All this isn't enough reason to hit her. Now she has him where she wants him.

If she prosecute him, he might just go in for it, since he has wholeheartedly accepted that, he hit her.

Ishilove:
Yes dear. I hear it helps with quick ejaculation, and to strengthen their prostate

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XayUCLgxS5c&list=RDXayUCLgxS5c&start_radio=1&pp=ygUcb25lIG1pbnV0ZSBtYW4gbWlzc3kgZWxsaW90dKAHAQ%3D%3D

Hehehe

Ishilove:
I read voraciously, my gee...

How did I forget. I was thinking you've started hanging around badt people oh, for you to hear that. Hehehe

Ishilove:
I am not a man but I hear kegel works...when you feel the thunder coming, pull out and flex your buttocks.

Or something like that.

Now I am curious to know how you heard Kegel works?