Did you know that women can have several different types of orgasms? That’s right.

Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the center of gravity. But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her center of gravity is the hard part!

Here’s an A-to-Z on everything you need to know…
How to find the center of gravity

First of all, the center of gravity is actually a zone, rather than an actual ‘spot.’ The center of gravity is located about 2 inches inside the v*gina on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.)

You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.

While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with int*rcourse, it’s not always the best idea.

Why? Because it depends on factors like the position, her level of arousal, and p3nis and v*ginal shape and size. In short: using fingers is the easiest way to reach orgasm with the most chance of success.

In most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the center of gravity. But once it’s fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact. Ask your lady. Otherwise, the center of gravity may feel dry and uncomfortable. After this point, you can move onto the center of gravity.

To really stimulate the center of gravity, you’ll need to be in a position that gives you great easy access to work your magic. Here are two suggestions:
1) Your lady lies on her back while you lie next to her, using your stronger arm.

2) She sits in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind. Actually, if you want even more passion and excitement, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation. Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure it.

The motion you want to use is the “come over here” gesture, using your fingers. Keep in mind that the center of gravity is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris. Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.

First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman. Alternate between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best.

You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you. Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.

Did you know that prolonged pre-intimacy is said to intensify orgasms? That’s right. However, men often focus so much on “performing” that they forget about spicing up their lovemaking with new and exciting things. Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this.
You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over. But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make a woman achieve orgasms. Why? Because women long for variety in their s*xual experience.

The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to pull out whenever they’re needed. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That’s the secret to fulfilled lovemaking.
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“When a woman becomes pregnant, her v**ina largely takes on a personality of its own,” says Sheryl Ross, M.D., an OB/GYN and women’s health expert at Providence Saint John’s Health Center in Santa Monica, CA.

#1. Your vag!nal discharge has a new consistency. One of the earliest signs of pregnancy is an increase in vag!nal discharge and this continues throughout pregnancy. Normal v**ina discharge (leukorrhea) is thin, clear or milky white, and mild-smelling. As pregnancy progresses, this discharge usually becomes more noticeable (often times yellow and slimy) and is heaviest at the end of your pregnancy. One of the signs that labor has begun is that your discharge will contain streaks of thick mucus or blood called show.

Here’s what doctors and experts DON’T tell you about how your v**ina changes from pregnancy and childbirth:

#2. Your urine smells bad. My friend Anne described her urine as super smelly and pungent. Your kidneys produce more urine in response to the hormones and the needs of your growing unborn baby. Some mothers are more sensitive to the smell than others. It must be particularly annoying having bad smelling pee and having to go to the bathroom so often.

#3. You get what’s known as “cheeseburger crotch.” There’s increased blood flow to the area during pregnancy which can result in the v*ginal area swelling.

#4. You may develop vag!nal varicose veins. Twenty percent of women with leg varicose veins who have children, have v**ina and vulva varicose veins. It used to be that there wasn’t any treatment for this, but now there’s a special duplex scan called TVS (transvaginal duplex scan). The ultrasound scan shows which of the veins in the pelvis are causing the problem.

#5. Your v**ina stretches. In the late second and early third trimester, the hormone relaxin is secreted. It relaxes the ligaments so they can stretch, softening and widening the cervix.

#6. You can form blood blisters on your labia. It can be distressing if you rub these the wrong way and they start to bleed. The blood blisters should go away on their own.

But the stitches are only used to repair any torn tissue in the v*ginal area; they have nothing to do with how your v**ina looks. In some circumstances, the tearing might be so invasive that it actually damages the rectum and the rectal muscle, in which case a specialist will be asked to administer the stitches.

#8. You will probably get bruises down there. Your entire body goes through a lot with pregnancy and childbirth, so expect lots of bleeding and soreness in your v*ginal area. It may be old-fashioned, but ice-packs help with the pain.

#9. You may have urinary stress incontinence. Kegel exercises may help to tone the pelvic floor muscle, or you can opt for Laser v*ginal Rejuvenation surgery to help tighten up the muscles and give your v**ina a more youthful appearance.

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It has been said that while men prefer morning $ex, (they are naturally even ready for it if you know what I mean) women will rather get it on at night.
The reasons for this might be peculiar for each woman, but there are some basic reasons that will cut across most women.
Here are 5 reasons why she might prefer to have $ex with you at night.
1. Darkness:A woman who is insecure about her body might prefer $ex in the dark and only night-time offers that. She feels freer because she does not have to worry about how she looks and this might lead to a more satisfying $exual experience.
2. Relaxing:After a very busy day, most men just want to hit the sack, but not women. Some women might prefer to have a glass of wine, surf the net or watch someTVto unwind before bed, while some will prefer to have some fun with their men. The point is, women prefer to gradually unwind before actually going to bed, and $ex can help with this.

3. Better sleep:Experts have told us that $ex makes us sleep better. For a woman who has to be up early to deal with sleep, chores, etc, it makes sense that she will have to get the best sleep she can. So, don’t be surprised when she rubs up on you for that natural ‘valium.’
4. Mood:Something about the night makes a woman a bit freer. It is not necessarily the darkness, it is the ambience, quiet, and the overall cover that the night offers. This is why intimate dates, quiet walks, heart-to-heart talks, etc always seem so much more romantic at nights. It is this feeling that makes her want to connect with you at the end the day instead of during the harsh light of day.
5. Preparedness:Compared to morning $ex, women can actually prepare for night $ex. It is not as spontaneous as just getting up in the morning and doing it. She can take a shower, spray a little perfume, and wear lingerie in preparation for some good loving.
Women feel more $exual confidence when they are prepared, as opposed to the morning when they might be worried about morning breath among other things.
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Women with small boobs believe they’re cursed, and openly feel envious of ladies with bigger breasts. Enormous breasts don’t make women feel and look beautiful and sexy though. They cause more troubles than smaller breasts. Stop stuffing tissues into your bras and forget about breast implant surgery, girls. Be proud of being small-chested because you can enjoy all of these perks of having small breasts:

1. Avoid back pain: Big boobs are one of the causes of upper back pain. It’s hard to work out with ample breasts, which is why exercise may cause the pain too. With small boobs, you can avoid that pain. Just like breast enlargement, breast reduction isn’t fun and cheap. While women with large breasts sometimes have to opt for breast reduction to relieve back pain, you don’t have to choose between two options. All you need to do is to be proud of your small breasts.

2. Look feminine and natural: Just like with parents, we don’t choose what breast size we want to have. If you’re given small breasts, accept this fact and don’t consider it as one of your flaws. Large breasts look natural too, but no offence, ladies, they don’t look feminine. Moderation is important even here too. There are guys out there who find small boobs more natural and sexier.

3. Purchase clothing faster: Now I’m sure most women with large breasts will agree with me. It’s much easier to find and buy clothes when you have small boobs than when you have enormous ones. When it comes to shopping, size matters. Most pieces of clothing aren’t created to accommodate large breasts, so be happy that you have small breasts.

4. Sleep better: My friend who has beautiful yet too large breasts often wakes up frequently during the night because of terrible pain. The thing is, she likes to lie on her belly, but her large breasts make her sleep a real torture. When you have small breasts, you sleep much better at night. Small breasts are ideal for massages too.

5. Stick to proportion: Overweight women tend to have large breasts, while slim girls have small boobs. It’s all about proportion. Don’t ruin it just because you don’t like your breast size. The last thing you want to experience after getting a boob job is to look like an artificial doll. Just imagine a slim girl with large breasts and you will understand what I’m taking about.

6. Save money on bras: Women with large breasts have 3 major problems when buying their bras: a size problem, a price problem, and horrible styles. Large bras are a little bit more expensive than smaller ones. Plus, they don’t look gorgeous or sexy. Girls with small breasts can wear the bras of different styles without wrecking their wallets.

7. Avoid sagging: Sagging may happen to any woman at some point. However, large breasts sag easier and quicker than small boobs. While your friends with large boobs are struggling with sagging breasts in their early 30s, you won’t face this problem till your 50s. This benefit should make you forget about breast implants for good. Besides, implants have a great number of downsides. Life is complicated, so don’t make it more complicated by turning to breast implant surgery. You don’t need breast implants to look beautiful.

Getting a boob job may sound like a great idea, but unfortunately, it has many disadvantages and consequences. If your partner doesn’t like your boobs, he doesn’t love you. Love yourself and enjoy the things you have, including your small breasts. Believe it or not, most women with large boobs confess they wish they had small breasts. No wonder why, actually.
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Men sometimes ask too many questions that you get confused about what exactly he wants in s*x with you. Here are the most common questions men ask during s*x with their partners.


1. Do you like it? I find this question very funny. If she does not like you, she will never have s*x with you.


2. Did I hurt you? Women hide their feelings in their actions. They give codes, its your job to decode.



3. Are you enjoying it? This is a question most guys ask. If asked and you don’t want to lie, just smile and moan louder. He’ll get the message.


4. What’s your best s*x position? Every sexually active person has a favorite position. If you don’t know yours then you are not sexually active enough. Your spouse knows your favorite position so he doesn’t need to ask. A toaster you don’t like asks and your answer should be“ I don’t have one” but if you like him then you can tell him the truth.


5. What’s your weak point? Every lady has a major arousal spot. That place on her body that if anyone touches very well, she’ll loose her senses. That’s what he’s asking for. If you cannot figure it out yourself then go to bed.


6. Have you c*m? Every sexually active girl on earth has once being asked this question. If you haven’t c*m, not to hurt his ego, don’t say no, just say“ I am almost there”. Let’s hope you finally get there but if you don’t, keep saying you are almost there until everyone gets tired.


7. Who’s your daddy? Like seriously! who is your daddy, this seem like the dumbest question to ask because her daddy is definitely in his house chilling.


8. Am I sweet? This is a weird question as no man is perceived as candy or chocolate.


9. Did you enjoy it? In my own opinion you enjoy food or ice cream. If you can satisfy your woman, you should be rest assured that she enjoyed it.



10. Do you want more? You do not need to ask, she will ask for more if you are up to the task.

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5 ways to avoid dating an IDIOT

1. Don’t Compromise Beyond Reason: Almost every relationship involves some kind of compromise. But there are difference between compromises that help the make the relationship better and those that make you lose yourself. If you have to lose your identity to keep the relationship, it’s not worth it.

2. Give Yourself Time To Heal From Your Last Relationship: You think you already healed from your last relationship but you really need more time. Don’t be quick to jump at the first person who shows even the slightest interest in you so you can feel loved again. Give yourself time between serious relationships to heal. That way you’ll be better prepared to go after what you want. And you’ll be less likely to compare your new beau to your ex, too.

3. Enjoy Being Single: Enjoy the life of the ‘single pringle’. It helps you understand yourself and look within to reach your innermost self. By the time someone comes along, you already understand yourself well enough not to lose yourself.

4. Know The Kind Of Person You Want To Be With: Learn from your past relationships. You know the things that didn’t make the last one work. Don’t think it’ll be different with this new person. Relationships are definitely work, but it doesn’t have to be hard work.

5. Just Stop Looking This is the very important. Make the process as natural as possible. Don’t force it.

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Dating a tall guy definitely has its perks—you can wear the highest heels you can find, and nothing is out of reach when he’s nearby. But dating a dude with inches to spare has its drawbacks, too. In love with a man who’s the opposite of vertically challenged? You know what we’re talking about…

1. Standing kisses require serious skills. He’s hunched over like Quasimodo; you’re doing your best prima ballerina tip-toe attempt…it ain’t pretty.

2. He doesn’t fit in your car. Trying to squeeze his 6-foot-something man-frame into anything less than an SUV brings two words to mind: Clown car.

3. You kind of feel like a little kid sometimes. Having someone to reach the high-up spots comes in handy. Having to ask for help every time you need to reach the chocolate stash can give you serious childhood flashbacks. (And that’s right: need.)

4. Going for a “walk” is anything but. Ever seen a Chihuahua attempt to keep up with a mastiff? Yeah…

5. You don’t line up in bed. It’s a wee bit challenging to have a romantic moment when your face is forced to make out with his pecs. Upside: New move in bed!

6. Slow dancing…err, no. His forearms kind of dangle over your shoulders and your arms wrap around his waist like a two-year-old—because that’s not weird.

7. You have to get creative with photos. The sitting-in-his-lap pose? You nail it every time. The facing each other prom pose? So not going to happen.

8. You can forget borrowing his clothes. You’ll be all over the boyfriend jeans trend when the masses embrace inseams that droop to your knees. Until then, you’ll just buy a damn pair.

9. Shopping for him is a b*%&#. After a trip to the mall with him, you will never, ever complain again about not being able to find pants that fit right.

10. Talking in loud bars is awkward. Your voice is shot at the end of the night after all that yelling, trying to get your random (yet brilliant!) musings up to the summit of Mount Boyfriend.

11. It’s like hugging your dad. That bend-and-kneel combo he has to do to embrace you in a spot that won’t choke you just feels wrong.

12. You have negative legroom. Airplanes, buses, restaurants…boyfriend’s super-sized legs are going to take up whatever space you have to spare. Of course you won’t protest. You’re generous like that.

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ModelsModelsin photo we all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore, but there is more to her than a v*gina, br**sts and b*tt. The largest amount of nerve endings may be packed into those areas, but she has pleasure sensors all over her body, and getting her in the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected parts. Incorporating touching these places into pre-intimacy and s*x, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely earn you some brownie points.
1.hair maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.
2.pelvis concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea; however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her v*gina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more.
Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while, Inner thighs touching her inner thighs without venturing into the v*ginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.
3.FeetPulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown outa window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day.
Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion.
Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.
4. Ear LobesTouching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them.
You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.
5. Palms of her handsPeople often use their hands as tools to please their partners, butrarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves.
The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable.
Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.
6.Behind her knees this area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive.
Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.
7.Small of her back the best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back.
This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.

8. Clavicle A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very s*xy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.
9. Nape of her back Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.

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Give her breasts more attention

Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts during pre-intimacy but forget about them during the main event, which is a shame because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger orgasm for her. Plus, it’s important to pay attention to more than just her nipples, since her entire breast is packed with nerves, especially the underside. When she’s on top, use your fingertips to draw wide, slow circles, starting around the perimeter of one breast and spiraling in until you’re just about at her nipple. Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth and sucking gently.

Give her a center of gravity orgasm

This much-talked-about area is located about 2 inches inside her vaginal canal on the front wall. Some docs say it’s spongy and the size of a dime, but it can be hard to feel, so just stimulate that general area during sex and you may give her a more intense orgasm. To hit it with your penis, try modified doggie-style. Instead of having her keep her arms straight with her palms on the bed, ask her to lower herself onto her elbows. Holding her hips for balance, thrust slowly at first and then up the intensity. With each stroke, your penis will rub against the front wall of her vagina, stimulating that special spot.

Surprise her with a quickie

When you jump her out of the blue, it makes her feel like she’s so irresistible that you simply can’t wait to have her. Right when she gets home, pull her in for a deep kiss to get her going. Relieve her of any bags she’s carrying and lead her to the couch, bed, or kitchen table, where you will have already stashed a bottle of lube nearby. Don’t totally UnCloth her; just lift up her skirt or pull down her pants. Then use your lubed fingers to massage her clitoris while whispering how hot she is in her ear. The more aroused you are, the faster she’ll get into it. (Of course, there will be times when she’s not game. If that happens, let it go and try another night.)

Gently pull her hair

There are thousands of nerves in the scalp, and when she’s aroused, they’re more sensitive, so pulling on her tresses feels extra stimulating. But there’s a catch: If you do it while you’re having sex with her from behind, it’ll make her feel like you’re treating her like a hooker. Instead, while she’s on top, run your hand through her hair, grab a handful of strands close to her scalp, and give it a little pull. This works especially well when you’re having intense, passionate sex, because grabbing her anywhere, especially somewhere sensitive, adds to the feeling that she’s being ravished.

Talk dirty to her

Women are verbal creaturesand our love of words extends to the bedroom. Unfortunately, most of what you may have heard guys say in porn is all wrong (Ask “Who’s your daddy” and you just might get a slap across the face). What your partner does want to hear are phrases that let her know how turned on you are, how much you love her body, and how good you want to make her feel (see this month’s CFG Sex Map for more tips). And even more important than what you say is the way you say it—when she can hear the burning lust in your voice, her thighs pretty much catch on fire.

Nibble on her neck

The skin that stretches from underneath her ear to her collarbone is very thin, making it supersensitive to touch. Start out by using your tongue to lick from her ear down to where her neck and shoulders meet. Then blow along the trail you just left. The warmth of your tongue coupled with the coolness of your breath will shoot tingles all over her body. After that, get a little more aggressive, and lightly nip the bottom of her neck (the skin is slightly thicker here and can take more pressure). You should suck on her neck too, but for just a second and not hard enough to leave a markhickeys are so high school.

Bring her to climax with oral

A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and enjoy being spoiled. (Sound familiar?) But different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable to her on different days. To figure out what’s going to work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to the most enthusiastically. When you sense that she’s about to orgasm—her body will tense up and she’ll start breathing more quickly—go back to the move that elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it until she climaxes.

Touch her hot spot midaction

Most women can’t orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation, which is probably why so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from behind are two great positions for access), you should rub her hot spot. Your touches should be slow and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic mound—her moans will tell you when you have it right.

Kiss her during sex

If you’re like most guys, once intercourse starts, you probably stop kissing her. That’s a bad move, since kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her, which is crucial to female pleasure. Pick a position that allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or have her sit on your lap, then mix up your smooches so they mirror the mood of the sex you’re having. If you’re going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a deep, tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When things are slow and romantic, go with a more sensual kiss.

Be more aggressive

The number one thing women want is for you to be more aggressive in bed. That means handling her body with strength and confidence, which can be insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t require a lot of work or advanced skills on your part. In fact, doing just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal level. A few to try: In missionary, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress. When she’s on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. And when you want to change positions, don’t do it slowly or politely—grab her and put her where you want her.
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No excuse can be made for cheating. It”s NOT beyond anyone’s control. It’s NOT a mistake. It is a personal choice. Saying it happened because something was missing, unfulfilled or anything else is a cop out. PERIOD !

When you talk about cheating in relationships, many people dwell in the stereotypical belief that cheating is only peculiar to men NOT women. This is a lie from the pit of hell. In case you don’t know, ladies also cheat as men do just that they are very careful and smart about it since they know they are in a society where ladies are castigated, humiliated and ridiculed for cheating.

Enough of my prologue. Lemme discuss the excuses given by ladies to justify cheating as a rightful act.

1. Because Your Joystick is so Small
Any dude who thinks the size of a joystick is not a prerequisite or a thing of consideration before a lady dates/marries a man, is seriously sleeping on a moving Bajaj okada. Many at times, I even get scared that my own girlfriend might also be cheating on me because of the nature of my joystick. When these ladies do not derive expected intimate satisfaction from their boyfriends with a tooth-pick like joystick, they will cheat and by the time they are caught, they will say it’s because the dude’s joystick is nothing to write home about.

2. Because You are Very Lazy in Bed
Sometime I just laugh when ladies cheat and deem their promiscuous act right, saying their boyfriends’ laziness in bed actually led them to seek skillful guys who can do it better. The truth of the matter is that many of our ladies like s*x as much as men do, but you will always see them pretending and hypocritical about it. Have you ever wondered why your girlfriend is nagging unnecessarily without a cause? It might just be because you are fond of climaxing barely two minutes after.

3. It was the work of the Devil
We all know that Nigeria is a country where people don’t take responsibility of their action or misfortunes, rather, they blame it on the devil who doesn’t even know their house address or Matric No. When ladies are caught cheating, they will lie against the devil.

4. I Didn’t Know what came over Me
This reminds me when my erstwhile friend caught his girlfriend cheating red-handed, she started crying profusely saying she did not know what got into her to have opened her legs for her gate man.

5. Because You are very Stingy
All the ladies I have dated in my life are always complaining that I should be given a PhD for stinginess. It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for me to give my girlfriend N100. One even told me that I should not be disappointed if I ever caught her cheating cos she could no longer cope dating a stingy dude who has the component Of Gehazi in the Bible.

6. He Molested/ Forced Me
I don’t need to explain this. We all know that an average Nigerian lady is quick to bail herself out with rape allegation the moment she’s caught cheating. Some of them will seduce you and coerce you into s*x and by the time they are caught they will lie that they were molested.

7. Because You are also Cheating on Me
They say that two wrongs don’t make a right; and I am of the opinion that the fact that your boyfriend is cheating or unfaithful to you does not mean that you should also pay him back in his own coin. Since some of them have the component of infidelity in their blood, they quickly utilize that opportunity to also cheat.

8. Because You’re not Financially Capable to Provide My Needs
When I check the amount of money some ladies spend on their hair, manicure and pedicure, it’s even more than my house rent, school fee and project fee inclusive. However, when these ladies are dating men that lack have good financial standing, they will definitely seek other species of suitable chairmen that will provide their basic needs, and by the time they are caught cheating they will say that a relationship without finance leads to cheating.

9. Because I was under the Influence of Alcohol
I just shake my head in disdain when ladies consciously bleep another dude but lie that the guy took advantage of them since they were under the influence of alcohol; therefore, they couldn’t resist him.

10. Because I can’t Keep all my eggs in a Basket
I don’t know when men became eggs that should not be put in a basket. Some ladies are in relationships yet they flirt a lot. You will hear them saying they can’t date a keep just a man because they want to be on the safe side.

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Besides the vagina, butt, and breasts, there are some other areas that can arouse women and make them crazy for you.

Men should know what these areas are, because women can sense please all over their body. Touch these areas as pre-intimacy or to relax your girl after a hard day at work and you will see how it will turn out...

Tip #1
Place a few light kisses on the nape of the woman’s neck and you will see the reaction. Interesting fact about nape of the neck is that it was seen in ancient Japan as very attractive by men because it was one of the few places that were ‘naked’. Today the nape of the neck is underestimated area when it comes to pleasure but it still works. Give it a try with giving the woman gentle touches and kisses.

Tip #2
Let’s be honest –a well-defined clavicle can be very sexy on a woman. And you should show your woman your appreciation for its beauty with gently touches and kisses. Here is a tip from us –Pay a big attention to this area when she is fully clothed with just unbuttoning her shirt just to reveal the clavicle and nothing more. You can even come back to this area while you are having s ex for maximum pleasure.

Tip #3
Women will feel safe when in public places if you are placing your hand against the small of her back. This proves that you feel protective of her and another similar area is placing your hand around her shoulder but without being too pushy. When you are alone, kiss or lick her spine and end up with a kiss on the small of her back, will make the woman to go crazy for you!

Tip #4
Touch, kiss or even lightly bite the earlobes of your woman and watch her reaction to it. She will go insane for you! You can try nibbling around the outside of the rest of her ear but REMEMBER not to jam your to tongue into the ear.

Tip #5
To pleasure someone we are using our palms of the hands. When you are not alone, you can give your woman a little bit of attention and pleasure at the same time with tracing your finger along her palm.

Tip #6
We all know that women want to have always the perfect hair and that is why they often go to their hairstylists but sometimes that is not the only reason for it. What can be such a stress reliever for women is the process of wash, cut, colour and styling. Why? –Because through her hair hands are gently running. That is why you should try this too. Just massage with your fingers from her temples to the nape of her neck and she will be crazy for you! Give it a try.

Tip #7.
Pelvis is located near her va gina so this will be hard task because you will have to resist the urge to immediately slip down to her va gina. Do you want to give your woman the maximum pleasure? Just tease her inner thighs, give her some kisses and you can even lick the area around her pelvis.
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If you’ve been leaving the bathroom feeling sore, irritated, itchy, or otherwise uncomfortable, you aren’t alone.

Here’s the awful stuff that toilet paper can do to your vagina AND what you can do to stop the icky cycle.

1. Microcuts
This is the stuff of nightmares, but when you wipe your vagina you can create hundreds of microcuts on your labia and elsewhere. This is not only painful but can lead to dangerous infections. We’re not saying give up the TP, but try dabbing your vagina instead of wiping to protect yourself from dangerous microcuts.

2. Puffiness
So many toilet papers out there contains chemicals, fragrances, and dyes. These make for a nice looking and smelling product, but they can wreak havoc on your vagina, irritating the tissue which can lead to serious puffiness and itching.

White toilet paper often contains BLEACH which (surprise) can be very irritating to some more sensitive vaginas. Another cause of puffiness can be too much wiping. If your vagina is puffy, start with easing on the wiping pressure. If this doesn’t help, try buying an unbleached organic toilet paper that’s formeldahyde-free.

3. UTIs
In women the urethra is pretty darn short. That means it can be easier for bacteria to creep up and cause infections. If you’re wiping back to front you could be pushing feces (which is riddled with bacteria) into your urethra putting you on a one way track to UTI city. There’s an easy fix, start wiping front to back.

4. Yeast Infections
The chemicals in your toilet paper that are causing puffiness in your vagina? They can also be giving you yeast infections. The chemicals used to give paper fragrance can mess with your vagina’s perfectly balanced PH system and lead to recurring yeast infection. If you think your TP is giving you yeast infections, trying switching out to something hypoallergenic.

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“Oh, he’s taken? Challenge accepted!” So is there something about a wedding ring that makes a man seem nicer, smarter, funnier, and just overall more desirable. Is it because a man who is already taken is more experienced? Is he seen as able to commit? Is he more desirable because another woman has pre-screened him? For some, the food on someone else’s plate always looks tastier. If someone else wants him, he must be worth wanting.

REASONS BELOW
They have amazing PR managers in their girlfriends
Interestingly the more a woman praises her partner as smart, funny and caring, the more she – often unknowingly – fans the flames of mate poaching by her female friends. Ladies, watch your back.

They are already pre-screened
The most practical explanation why the attached men seem the most attractive is that they already possess most of the qualities women seek in a partner – only they have been discovered by other women first. Thus such guys may or may not be attractive but they are more likely to have stable jobs, wealth and a healthy sense of responsibility.

Women like what is popular
It is one of the quirks of the female nature to want what someone else has. The very fact that a guy is wanted at least by one woman – his current girlfriend – makes him hot or at least interesting enough to be desired by others.

They are considered ‘safe’
Once a guy is taken, women find it easier to open up to their hearts to them. Thus a guy may find his girlfriend’s friend pouring out her relationship woes, car troubles, job issues and even PMS symptoms to him; indeed he may even be moved to offer a shoulder of support one time too many. Eventually the intimacy emerging from this kind friendship is too much to ignore and she may find herself falling for the guy who is already taken.

They make you feel really good about yourself
When a married guy flirts with you, calls you, or sleeps with you, he’s taking a major life risk to be able to enjoy your company. “Part of the intoxication is: ‘This person’s married so I must be really special,’”

As long as it’s illicit and forbidden, sparks fly. If he were to actually leave his wife or partner to make this relationship permanent, brace yourself for a nosedive. For starters, he cheated on her with you, so how could you ever know he wouldn’t treat you the same way.

The pursuit of the unattainable man can be a thrilling challenge, but the end result always ends up in heartache; one cannot unattach anything without ripping some seams. Either much time and effort is wasted by trying to change what doesn’t need fixing, or in the event you are successful and end up attaining the unattainable, there is bound to be distrust on both sides.

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I know that many ladies will not like this thread but the truth is bitter they say. These are perfect signs that your girlfriend just tumbled beneath the sheets with someone else Note:These signs doesn’t work for Badoos

1. She smells of Fluid For those of us who have high sense of smell than that of a shark will attest to this. As for me, I can smell Fluid on a lady’s body even if she’s 100km away. This mostly happens when a lady fails to shower or clean up herself aftermath of the deed

2. She rushes to the bathroom Just when your girlfriend returns from somewhere and the first thing she does is rush to the bathroom to clean up and sleep afterwards, something suspicious is happening.

3. She smiles sheepishly The moment she sets her eyes on you after sleeping with someone else she will be smiling sheepishly even when situation does not warrant that smile. This may be due to guilty conscience. 4. She tries to avoid eyes contact with You Another sign that your girlfriend just tumbled beneath the sheet with another dude is that she will avoid eyes contact with you during conversation. Try just to give her a suspicious look and you would notice discomfort printed on her face.

5. Her shirt looks Rough and Dirty The region of the left and right side of her breast pockets will be slight rough and dirty since na that region guys dey squeeze pass. Though, this may only be visible when she’s putting on a white shirt. I noticed this when my friend’s visitor came out of his room yesterday.

6. She would turn down your advances Just after she has made love with another person and you try to coerce her into love making, she won’t be excited to have intimacy with you. She will always look for an excuse telling you how tired she is, or she’s not in the mood.

7. She spends more time in the toilet Let’s assume she normally poo poo for 10 minutes but one day she returns from somewhere and goes to the toilet and spends up to one hour shocked This shows that something is wrong which might be what we are talking about.

8. She starts nagging unnecessarily She flares up the moment you ask what kept her so long. She will go mad telling you to stop getting her upset with you irrelevant question and that you don’t trust her to have asked such a question

9. Her lipstick is wiped off Another way to know that she just got laid with someone else is that her lipstick will be wiped off. Let’s assume she applied heavy lipstick before going out and on returning back her heavily applied lipstick disappears, there’s high tendency that she has locked her lips with someone else.

10. Her make up is freshly applied Another sign to watch out for is that her make-up is freshly applied. Her hair will be well packed, her clothes well adjusted and sprays perfume. Person wey commot in the morning dey return back in the evening and the make-up is freshly applied. This shows there’s possibility that she reapplied the make-up after the deed was done so that you won’t smell something. Written byTosyne2much

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Relationships are more than often a puzzle extremely difficult to solve. Women consider men an eternal puzzle, and men likewise. Every woman has to have several tricks up her sleeve when she embarks on the quest of wooing a man. Attracting men can be difficult, especially because they are all different. This is why we are here, to help you and guide your way.
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If you were wondering what attracts men to women, it’s actually quite easy, and once you master it, you’ll have no trouble. Whether he’s a shy guy, the outgoing socialite or the Harvard intellectual the same rule applies for every single one, so arm yourself with what we are about to tell you, and with the new gained knowledge you’ll be living happily ever after.
What Attracts Men the Most Is Exactly What You Have. Find out How to Attract Men with These Tricks worth Gold and Attract Men Just by Being Yourself

Willing to do whatever it takes to make a man attracted to you? Then, you are in the right place. Here are 5 ways to effectively attract men that such as using your smile that that has never been put this simple.
Smile wide: be positive and happy
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What guys find attractive about women is their positive spirit. This spirit manifests through your smile. Whether you have the perfect pearl white teeth or not it doesn’t matter, when you have an honest smile it radiates and attracts a man immediately.
Men like to be around positive and happy people, because that attitude can reflect on them as well. Smile, because it automatically motivates a man to approach you. Attract men with your happy disposition, because this trick can be applied to almost every single guy out there. No man wants to approach a woman that is grumpy and sad looking. Appearing grumpy will make you unattractive no matter how good-looking you are. You don’t have to smile at everyone, but if you see a guy you like, let your smile tell him he’s welcome to approach you. He won’t miss the sign.
Attract him with your smell
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Mesmerize him with your beautiful scent
It’s important to know what scents attract men. Every single guy has a certain preference about what kind of perfume he likes, but here is a tip for you.
Try to stay fresh all the time, and avoid strong perfumes and smells that will irritate rather than attract them to you. Thinking about what scent attracts men we came to the conclusion those are natural scents. The smell of your skin, and freshly washed hair… Every woman has a specific scent, and that is exactly what you should point it out and use to your advantage.
Be natural: relax and be yourself
Guys don’t like fake women so try to remember that. What attracts men the most is a woman who doesn’t pretend to be something else, so that a guy would like her, but is herself. You don’t need to pretend you are anything you are not.
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That would mean that you are trying to get him to like the fake you, not the real you. If so, you can’t blame him for being confused later on, once you take the ‘mask’ off. So here is a little tip from us. Right off the bat, try to be yourself and show him what kind of person you are. It will save you both the time and hassle if you don’t like each other. It’s not just about the time, but it’s fair. We’re not suggesting you don’t take a shower for two days, and don’t do your hair, no. Keep it together, but don’t over do it. There is no need to act like a diva in front of a guy and pretend you are crazy about baseball if you’re actually not that kind of a girl. If you do, next thing you know: he’s taking you to weekly baseball games, and you’re not happy.
Confidence: you are a strong, independent woman
Don’t be needy, because that won’t attract guys. What attracts men are women who are confident in their own personality and looks, and aren’t craving attention and fishing for compliments.
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If you’re asking yourself ‘Well, how do I attract men?’ all the time, that’s a sign of insecurity as well. When a woman walks and talks with confidence, men are attracted instantly. A woman that is confident knows what she is comfortable with, and will strive towards making other people feel good about themselves. She isn’t focused on making herself look amazing, while at the same time undermining her partner. She also takes the first step, if her partner is hesitant. And if you’re insecure about something, believe that a man can smell it from the distance. He can see it in your eyes, your gestures, and your voice. So lose the inhibitions and be confident in yourself and your achievements, and the way you’re going to do this is by always keeping in mind the positive and good things you have in your life.
Humor: jokes relax even the shiest guys
If you’re a girl that likes to joke around then you’re definitely in advantage if wondering how to attract men. And if you are serious, than just loosen up a bit, you don’t have to be a stand-up comedian for a guy to think you’re funny.
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Once you understand this, it kind of takes the pressure of the entire ‘hunt’. Humor is a great way to attract a guy to you, and to make him be interested in you, and if you’re wondering why, it’s simply because men love to be around women who are entertaining and know how to make him laugh. We always say men are not serious enough, well: draw a conclusion from it. That means they love to joke around, so once you know this take it to your advantage, trust us, you can’t go wrong.
All that is left is to choose

Once you have mastered all these steps, you will know exactly what attracts men to women scientifically, although we’re not going to get too deep into science. We have tried them out for you, and these really work! So start working on your smile and confidence, relax and get ready to woo a guy with your natural charm! It’s all it takes. And no matter what you read or hear out there, you don’t have to be a successful, independent business woman to be attractive to men. Just be yourself, and let your personality shine through!
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Relationships can come with their own unique struggles, but there are some things that are universally mature and accepted for a happier relationship.

Check out 10 things mature women do in relationships.

1. They Don’t Sacrifice Other Relationships

Many people drift apart from their friends during a relationship. While this is understandable during the initial ‘honeymoon’ period, it is important to remember that that your friends and family have been in your life for far longer than your partner. Mature women make sure they have a happy balance between all of their loved ones.

2. They Don’t Forget To Thank Their Partner

After you have been in a relationship for a while, it can be easy to forget to appreciate all of the little things that they do for you. Mature women realize that sharing your life with someone is a gift – so don’t forget to say please and thank you!

3. They Don’t Give Up Financial Independence

No matter how well off your partner is, completely giving up your financial independence can actually mean giving up your independence. Mature women don’t have to ask their partner for everything – it makes them feel proud and happy to be able to buy things with their own money.

4. They Don’t Focus On Their Partner’s Bad Traits

Mature women try to focus on their partner’s best traits rather than the negative ones. They focus on the good things their partner does and says, and they try not to judge their partner for their flaws, instead understanding that they too have flaws.
5. They Don’t Give Up Their Dreams

Mature women understand that a great relationship doesn’t drag you down – instead, it should bring out the best in you. A good relationship encourages you to pursue your dreams, and a mature woman would struggle to be happy in a relationship if she stopped following her dreams.

6. They Don’t Think Their Version Of Happiness Is The Only One

Mature women understand that everyone’s idea of happiness is different. If their partner enjoys space, they give it to them, and if they enjoy affection, they give them that instead. Most importantly, they do not make assumptions about how to make their partner happy.

7. They Don’t Give Up Their Self Respect

It is normal to change slightly during a relationship, but mature women don’t allow their relationships to take away their self-respect. They don’t allow their partners to speak to them negatively or condescendingly – they expect their partner to treat them just as well as everyone else in their life.

8. They Don’t Take “I Love You” Lightly

Mature women understand the importance of those three words, so they work hard to keep the words special, no matter how long they have been with their partner. They don’t say ‘I love you’ at the end of every conversation – instead they say it at the right moments, to show their partner how much they appreciate them.

9. They Don’t Give Up Their Happiness

Mature women understand the importance of their happiness, and that if they are not happy in a relationship, they shouldn’t be in one. They are aware that their partner is a part of their happiness, and should be someone who can bring them happiness when they are feeling sad.

10. They Don’t Feel Like They Need To Always Be In Contact With Their Partner

Mature women do not need constant contact in their relationships, as they have their own busy lives. They are secure enough to trust their partner when they are not with them, and find non-stop emailing and texting to be a waste of their own time.
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Are you stressed? Struggling to sleep? Turns out there are a number of ailments that can be cured simply by having sex regularly. Here are twelve reasons why you and your partner should be having sex daily!
1. Sex Reduces Stress.

If you’ve had a long day at work or you’re simply feeling a little overwhelmed, then sex will help you relax and reduce your stress levels! During sex our bodies produce dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin which together help us to de-stress, increases our natural happiness levels and enhances desire.
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2. Sex Is An Enjoyable Exercise.

When faced with the word ‘workout’ many of us will recoil in horror, unless of course that workout involves sex. Throughout sex our bodies are continually experiencing physiological changes that are consistent with an exercise routine. Our breathing rates rise which in turn burns calories, which means that if you have sex just three times a week you can burn around 7,500 calories a year. That’s the same as running 75 miles!
‘Sex is a really great form of exercise,’ says Joseph J. Pinzone, MD. CEO and medical director of Amai Wellness. ‘Like with exercise, consistency helps maximize the benefits.’
3. Sex Helps Your Immune System.

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Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that their students who stated they had sex at least twice a week had higher levels of particular antibodies than those who had no sex at all. During sex, antigens like immunoglobulin A are released which are proven to fight the common cold and even flu! Even more good news: the more frequently you engage in sex the more antigens will be released and the healthier you’ll get.
4. Sex Lowers Your Blood Pressure.

Even if it’s just a quickie, some forms of physical contact can improve your blood pressure significantly. A study conducted by the University of Paisleyfound that sex reduces diastolic blood pressure – which is the bottom number on a blood pressure reading – making us healthier all around!

5. Sex Helps a Healthy Heart.

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As our bodies burn calories, it also improves our heart health. Researchers from the New England Research Institute found that men are 45% less likely to suffer from cardiovascular diseases if they have regular sex.
6. Sex Helps Pain Relief.

If you’re experiencing aches, pains or migraines then sex may be a better form of pain relief than pills! Arthritis specialist Dr. George Erlich conducted a study on his patients and found that those who had sex often experienced significantly less pain than their counterparts who went without.
7. Sex Ensures Regular Periods.

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If your periods are a bit erratic, it could be down to a stressful lifestyle. As mentioned previously, sex reduces stress and so will also have an impact on your menstrual cycle!
8. Sex Creates Powerful Pelvic Muscles.

As well as quads, back and core muscles, sex also works out your pelvic muscles! Is there a better way of building muscle? I don’t think so! By creating stronger pelvic muscles you also benefit by having better orgasms according to the National Health Service (NHS).
‘For women, as well as helping improve symptoms of urinary incontinence, strong pelvic floor muscles can also mean increased sensitivity during sex and stronger orgasms,’ the NHS states. ‘Pelvic floor exercises can also benefit men with problems such as erectile dysfunction (difficulty getting or keeping an erection) and urinary incontinence’.
9. Sex Reduces The Risk Of Cancer.

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Particularly for men, regular sex reduces the chances of developing cancer. In an Australian study published the Journal of the American Medical Association, it was found that men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month were much less likely to suffer form prostate cancer.
10. Sex Makes You Sleep Well.

Like exercise, sex increases your heart rate which leads to relaxation. In addition to this, it’s common knowledge that male ejaculation leads to lethargy which can make men extremely sleepy after sex.
‘After orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released,’ saysSheenie Ambardar, MD. a psychiatrist in West Hollywood, California, ‘which is responsible for the feelings of relaxation and sleepiness afterraf.’

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You want to be sexy. Incredibly sexy.
You know, Pierce Bronson or Liv Tyler
kind.
But then you look in the mirror and…
let’s just say, any similarity is well
hidden which understandably dampens
your enthusiasm.
Can I tell you something? Being sexy
has little to do with looks and
everything to do with “aura”.
An incredibly sexy person lives inside
of you, dying to come out.
Come on, let’s bring that magnetism to
the surface. That is, if you dare!
1. Stop thinking you’re not sexy and just
“be” sexy
Make yourself sexy by taking on the
right attitude. If you are burying your
sexiness, there’s a reason. Do yourself a
favor. Go on a mission and find that
reason.
Born within you, there is an attractive,
playful, seductive side so decide to own
it!
Change doesn’t happen over time, it
happens in the moment you make that
decision. Read on.
2. Deal with your past love stories so they
don’t fight with your current story
Bringing the pain and heartbreak of
past relationships into the present will
kill your sexiness with fear.
Those voices lie below the surface and
convince you that history is repeating
itself. The only way to live in today is to
first look the memories in the face and
heal those hurts.
Someone who has learned from where
they’ve been and determined to make
the present far better is emotionally
available. And that, my friend, is
extremely sexy.
3. Become a true lovemaking expert
True lovemaking starts with touching
the heart of someone else. From out of
that connection grows the magic of
head to toe, skin on skin, electric
contact.
Sex is an art. You can drive your
partner crazy by learning how the body
responds.
It isn’t difficult, time consuming or
mysterious. Obtaining your Master’s
Degree is all kinds of fun and very
rewarding.
Once you know the science of sex, it
becomes much easier to hold
conversations about it as well. It’s
surprising to someone when they
discover you can talk about it because
it means you know about what works.
Now that is incredibly sexy…
4. Find your James Bond confidence
That sense of knowing who you are and
what makes you worth kissing will
exude sexiness to everyone around you
even if that’s not your intention. I
learned this from my second time
around husband who says I was like a
magnet to him.
Inner confidence attracts (this is not
arrogance we are talking about here).
You laugh more easily.
It gives you a kind of mystery that tells
someone that you would not bring a lot
of “drama” into a relationship. Rather,
you would make life interesting.
5. Practice being naked
No matter how unsatisfied you may be
with your body, walk around naked – a
lot. ( I would suggest practicing when
you are alone or you may frighten your
children.) It’s amazing how sexy you
begin to feel.
The more you become comfortable in
your own skin, the less you care what
someone else thinks.
It sounds ridiculous but practice sexy
poses in the mirror and forget the
sagging tummy or thighs. Remember,
it’s all about attitude.
Let it be your eyes that say what you
are thinking and your body won’t
matter at all.
6. Seduce yourself by creating the perfect
Lover’s ambiance
Romance leads to intimacy. It’s a
beautiful thing and worth cultivating at
any stage of a relationship.
For example, turn your bedroom into a
boudoir complete with soft lighting and
an electric fireplace. Make it a place
you love to go.
Try out a variety of soft music and find
what you would enjoy sharing with
someone else.
Check out restaurants that have
atmosphere or find the best places in
the city to sit and look at the lights.
Anticipation is fun and being prepared
will give you the edge you need when
that “right moment” presents itself.
7. Dress yourself up and take yourself out
The clothes do not make the person but
they sure can enhance the person’s best
features. Even if you don’t like to shop,
make it an interesting project to find
out what colors and fit look great on
you.
Feeling sharp translates into confidence
so be prepared with a couple of outfits
that bring out that “Bond” quality in
you, man or woman.
Then take yourself on a date
somewhere you would love to go just
because you are worth it. Be truly ok
with being alone and soon you will be
giving off incredibly sexy vibes.
8. Stand tall, shoulders back and look
others in the eye. Smile.
Most men agree that the sexiest thing
about a woman is her smile . Why?
Because when a woman is happy, they
don’t have to wonder how to get her
there.
In the same way, the last thing a
woman wants to take on is being a
man’s mom. She wants a man, not a
boy.
Your posture and the way you present
yourself tells the world about you.
So practice standing tall and being
direct and don’t worry if you aren’t
feeling confident in the moment. Doing
this automatically communicates
confidence to your brain and soon your
feelings will follow.
9. Become a Romance Master
We know the moments. He guides her
into a dark room and suddenly its filled
with incredible light with music and a
table set for two. As a woman, I’ve
been told men fear romance because
they run out of ideas and they know
their lady’s heart responds to being
wooed.
Romance can be as simple as honestly
looking into the eyes of your lover in
order to see what’s really going on
inside of them.
Romance can be the words you use in a
text during the day or when you say
goodnight.
Taking the time to go into your heart
and find out what speaks to the heart of
your lover creates romance.
Be careful here because being open to
growing the romantic side of you will
make you incredibly sexy!
10. Fall in love with your life
You have so much to offer. “Incredibly
sexy” is simply knowing that and not
tolerating play-acting in your life.
It’s about what’s going on inside of you
– inside your deepest heart.
Imagine being so interested in your own
life that you can’t wait to get up in the
morning.
Imagine having a sense of passionate
purpose at the base of your life
continually exciting you about how you
are made and what you are meant to do
to make a difference.
Imagine taking control of your life so
that you spend your time the ways you
choose to and with whom you choose
to.
Imagine listening to someone because
you want to know them, not because
you want to impress them.
Imagine looking directly into someone’s
eyes and saying what you feel and
asking for what you want without fear.
How would this feel? Empowering,
right? Begin moving toward becoming
this person.
That’s the secret to making yourself
incredibly sexy.

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I bet you know that feeling of fear you experience in your stomach when you go talking to a new girl. Even a guy who seemingly picks up women whenever he wants will tell you that the first interaction is the most difficult!
Unfortunately, it takes quite some timeto get over your worries! After all, there is always a chance you will be rejected.
Luckily for you, I am going to share with you 8 golden tips that I have learned about talking to girls. Since the first interaction is vital to your success, a discussion is a doorway to future dates, chats, and even sex!
TIP #8 – GET RID OF YOUR SHYNESS & INSECURITIES

attractive confident manAre you shy and insecure? If so, you have to start to make an immediate change! There is a reason that men try to pick up women at bars after they have had a few drinks; they are less shy.
What you want to do is leave all your worries on the table. Shine with confidence and turn your insecurities into strong traits! Chances are, she will not notice your insecurities on your first date if you do not mention them.
Instead, be confident, stay on the subject and make her your center of attention!
TIP #7 – TALK ABOUT ANYTHING BUT STAY ON THE POINT

woman talking on the phoneThere are a thousand things you can talk about, but you want to stay on point instead of jumping from one topic to the next. Ideally, you will find something that the both of you seem to enjoy and converse naturally.
In the flow of the conversation, you will eventually ease your way into new topicsand find that you two have opened up with each other.
Pay attention: The only exception to this rule is when the subject seems to change her demeanor. Perhaps you brought up family, and she has now become upset or distant. In this case, switch the subject and move on!
TIP #6 – BE YOURSELF & MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

woman keeping eye contactWhen the two of you sit down and talk, always make sure that you maintain eye contact the whole time. There is nothing worse than a man talking to a woman while staring down the pretty waitress that walks by.
You need to make her the center of your attention and making eye contact is the first step to success!
Please note: If you have wandering eyes or keep checking your watch for the time, you have utterly destroyed your chances.
TIP #5 – LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS & DO NOT INTERRUPT HER

man listening to woman over coffeeIs she boring you to death, and you want to change the subject to football at the next chance you get?
While it may be difficult, you need to listen to what she is saying and keep the conversation going. If you interrupt her or miss a vital point of what she says, you show that you do not care about her!
Pay attention: The reality is that she wants you to be interested in her, and if you are not listening, she will notice it quickly.
TIP #4 – ASK ABOUT HER LIFE

couple hugging each otherEveryone loves when others ask about them. Therefore, you need to ask about her life and show that you are interested in her.
This will include her:
Job and life dreams
Interests
Favorite movies and music
Place of living
Favorite hobbies
Keep in mind: By asking about her, you will find that the conversation is far more natural, and she will be more receptive to you as a result.
TIP #3 – MAKE HER LAUGH

woman laughingLaughing is great. In fact, everyone loves to smile. This is a relaxing, emotional response, and your internal chemistry will change when you begin laughing.
Studies have also shown that this is an effective form of stress relief.
When the two of you are talking, always try to make her laugh. You do not want to start with a corny joke, but making light of something funny will do the trick!
Keep in mind: You want to come off as naturally funny and not like a comedian that has a list of jokes that he tries with every girl.
TIP #2 – FLIRT WITH HER SOFTLY

couple flirting with each otherWhen talking to someone for the first time, you do not want to bend down on one knee and propose, but you do want to implement soft flirting.
This is simple and easy!
All you have to do is to comment on her:
Perfume
Shoes, purse or outfit
One of the best methods is to do it in the middle of a conversation. If she mentions that she is a yoga fanatic and spends 4 days a week in the gym, you can say that her body looks fantastic and well-toned.
Pay attention: You can also touch her hand or hair. You don’t want to put on too much pressure, but you do want to get the point across that you are interested in her!
TIP #1 – END YOUR CONVERSATION EARLY & LEAVE HER WANTING MORE!

happy smiling womanWhile women like to talk, you need to know when to end the conversation. After all, what fun would it be if you told her everything there is to know about you during your first date?
Just end the talking early while always remembering to take her number or schedule your next date!
This shows that you have your life tolive and that you are not ultra-clingy. Furthermore, ending the conversation at just the right time will leave her thinking about you all night long!
If you got to the end of this article, congratulations and I thank you for your attention. As a reward, I have a lot of other useful stuff you should check out as well!.

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Marriage isn’t a one-way street. When you or your partner fails to do something important, it can bring negativity to your relationship. But most often, people don’t recognize that their actions are actually hurting their marriage. Here are five things you’re unknowingly doing that are ruining your relationship with your spouse:
1. YOUR SPOUSE ISN’T YOUR FIRST PRIORITY

Your spouse should be your number one priority. If you’re putting less important things above your spouse, it may be time to rethink your actions. Ask yourself if what you’re doing is more important than spending time with your spouse. Could you be doing the same thing with your spouse? Or would your spouse approve of what you are doing? To have a loving marriage, you must make your spouse your first priority. All other things can come after.
2. NOT COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER

Miscommunication can and will happen in any relationship. But if you aren’t communicating with your spouse, you need to start doing so as soon as possible. Ignoring your spouse or purposely giving them the silent treatment is only detrimental to your relationship. The only way to work through your problems is together. Talk it out. Leave no secrets between both of you. The more communication you have with each other, the fewer problems you will have.
3. TAKING THINGS TOO SERIOUSLY

Chances are you married someone with a great sense of humor. Sometimes that humor can turn into sarcasm and at times, you may take things too seriously than what your spouse intended their comment to be. Don’t allow a little bit of miscommunication to ruin your life. If you’re constantly straight-faced, you need to let loose and have some fun. Allow some humor back into your life. Recognize that not everything is out to get you and your spouse is there to love and support you– not to hurt you.
4. HAVE UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS

If you have always dreamed of finding the perfect spouse, falling in love and living happily ever after, you may need to accept reality. Life is full of mistakes and trials and things that will try to hinder your happiness and faith. If your expectations are too high, you’ll be disappointed and end up hurting your spouse in the long run. Keep your expectations realistic. Remember that your spouse isn’t perfect and neither are you. Love your spouse for their flaws and all and you’ll have a much happier marriage.
5. YOU ARE UNFORGIVING OF EACH OTHER

Everyone makes mistakes. If your spouse has offended or hurt you in some way, it won’t do well to dwell on their faults. Talking through your problems and forgiving your spouse is a step in the right direction. Once you forgive your spouse you can move on and begin healing and mending your relationship to what it was before.
Once you’re made aware of these five things that are unknowingly ruining your marriage, you can start to make changes in your life and improve your marriage. Don’t be afraid to be the first one to reach out to your spouse and better yourself. The two of you are in this together. Don’t let small, tedious things destroy the love you have for each other.
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Men and women are at an emotional stalemate.

We feel something’s lacking in our relationships. The majority of men aren’t able to penetrate their women fully, nor are women fully opening to their men.

Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they need. Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering. When women suffer, and they feel like they aren’t being seen, they close off to their men.

Fortunately, you can learn the right tools to be able to more fully penetrate your woman. You can give your partner what she needs, allowing her to feel seen so that she will open again.

Take the time to read through these needs. Let them sink in. Understanding what you can do to help your partner fully open will not only improve your relationship, but it will improve your entire life.

Here are the seven things that all women want in a relationship.

1. To Feel Loved

When women feel loved, they relax and open to us. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant, and their nurturing feminine energy flows throughout our lives.

Not feeling loved is the subtext of every argument that you and your partner have.

If she is unhappy that you are going out with your friends, or she’s upset about her day at work, or she is only responding to you with brief snippets of sentences, then the cause is most likely her not feeling loved enough.

Learn to see through her words, actions, and moods and see what the real root of it is.

2. To Feel Safe

There is a war being waged on women’s self-esteem, sexuality, and safety from a very young age.

Because of the barrage of disempowering messages being sent to women regarding their sexuality, women need to have a safe space where they feel that they can trust their partners.

She wants to trust your strength. She wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you.

She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something risqué. She wants to know you won’t collapse in defeat if she tells you to do it “This way” instead.

By creating a safe space for your woman to open up to you emotionally and sexually, you will be giving her a very powerful gift- you allow her to grow within your relationship and undo old emotional damage.

3. To Feel Seen

Women want to feel seen.

She wants to feel you hearing her, and being aware of her emotional state.

She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it.

If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less. She will think, “If he can’t see that I am hurting now, how long will it take him to figure it out? Will I be suffering for days or weeks before he is aware of it or cares enough to help me through this? I guess I have to rely on myself for my own emotional support.”

Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship. You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will be witness to her and her journey through life. (Hint: that person is you.)

4. To Be Allowed To Be Nurturing

Just as masculine energy has the need to protect, feminine energy has the desire to nurture.

Women want to see the cracks in our armour. They want to see that we trust them enough to open up to them. They want to be able to help us through our sadness.

An integrated, evolved man who has a balanced masculine energy as well as his own sliver of feminine would welcome his woman’s nurturing.

If you are a guy reading this, have you ever held open a door for a woman because it’s the polite thing to do (but more just because she’s a person and it wasn’t even a gender-based act) and she chews your ear off for it? “Oh what? I can’t open the door for myself because I’m a woman?! You sexist pig!”

That is an example of a wounded, unbalanced woman who doesn’t want to accept help from a masculine source. This is exactly how it feels to your partner when you push her away when you feel the most vulnerable. “I don’t need to lay my head down on your chest and tell you about my feelings because I don’t have any!” That is a lie. It’s a lie that serves your purpose of not letting your partner in. This lack of vulnerability and authenticity is what is making you and your partner suffer.

So let her in. She wants to love you.

5. To Feel Sexually Desired

What’s a major difference between your relationship to your partner and your relationship to everyone else in your life? You have sex with your partner.

Women need to feel sexual desired. They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being.

Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.

6. To Be Appreciated

The feminine in all people responds primarily to praise and appreciation.

Remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life. Show her how much she means to you.

The fastest way to run your relationship into the ground is by ignoring your partner and taking her for granted. Appreciation is the opposite of those things. Appreciation is the embodying this mindset: “I am aware of what you bring to my life, and I want you to be sure that I am aware of it as well.”

So tell her what you appreciate, and tell her often.

7. To Feel Like She Can Count On You

Life gets pretty messy sometimes.

When life’s unavoidable difficulties arise, do you fall apart under pressure or are you able to bend and not break?

Women want to know that we can handle ourselves when life happens. They want to know that we won’t run and hide when they get a bit ‘too emotional’ for our liking. They want to know that they can count on us.

When you tell your partner you’ll do something, and then you don’t do it, it hurts her. She loses a piece of trust in you that has to be earned back. Even seemingly small things break that trust like you saying that you will wash the dishes shortly after dinner, but washing them the next morning instead.

When enough small transgressions like this are sprinkled throughout your relationship, she will distrust you.

Do what you say you will do, be who you say you are, and be consistent in your actions.

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As a man, you need to realise that there are various ways to please a woman. This is because women have a number of erogenous zones on their bodies. The only challenge is realising where they are. So, read on to see where you should touch, and how.
1. Her head: The skin on the top of your head is loaded with nerves that are extremely sensitive to the touch. Stimulating the scalp increases blood flow, not just to her brain but all over her body. Next time you and your partner are kissing or cuddling, open your fingers wide and run them slowly through her hair, lightly stroking her scalp with your fingertips. Start behind her ears, at the base of the head, and circulate to the front, kind of like you’re lathering shampoo into your hair. Scalp massages are both soothing and sensual: They help release tension, and get her in the mood for other stimulating activities.
2. Her ears: Start by lightly tracing the C-shaped outline of your partner’s ear with your fingertips or with your tongue. Gently kiss her earlobe or hold it lightly in your mouth and massage it with your lips. If she seems okay with this, you can take it as a green light to start to nibble or suck on the lobe. Once you become more comfortable with the landscape, try combining all of these moves together and every once and while, work your tongue into the center of her ear for a surprising but pleasurable sensation. Another great way to stimulate this spot is with sound! Never underestimate the power of a low moan or a sultry whisper sent directly (but softly) into her ear canal to drive her mad with desire.
3. Her lips: Lips are the most exposed of all erogenous zones, and are packed with a ton of nerve endings that are sensitive to even the slightest touch. That’s why kissing is such an essential act for couples. It enhances intimacy and helps partners connect, plus it just feels good. Lips can be best stimulated through kissing, obviously, but don’t be afraid to add a little variety to the way you’re pleasuring them! Your mouth should not be pressed up against hers like a dead fish. Use your lips, tongue and teeth to lick, nibble and caress her top and bottom lips.
4. Her neck: The neck is an area that is most sensitive to LIGHT sensations, and it’s also one of the sexiest places to touch, lick and kiss. Because the skin in this area is thin, it does not take a lot to make it feel good. Even the feeling of gentle breath on the nape of the neck can send shivers down a woman’s spine. This is a great erogenous zone to start stimulating, even before your partner is fully aroused. Try sweeping her hair up and planting gentle, warm kisses along the side of her neck, close to the place you would touch to check a pulse. The skin here is especially thin, meaning every sensation will be magnified.
5. Her nipples: Although men have been paying very special attention to nipple for years, it’s remarkable how few men know how to pleasure them to their full potential. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as touch to the clitoris and vagina, making it a key part of the holy trinity of female pleasure. While gently massaging your partner’s breast with one hand, use your fingers or tongue to lightly trace the area around the areola, before placing your open mouth on her nipple. Try using your lips to softly hold the nipple in your mouth and run your tongue back and forth over it; use your lips and tongue to massage the area, paying attention to her bodily cues to determine what she likes best.
6. Her lower back: Whether it’s at the end of a long day, or just another Tuesday, no woman can resist the power of a sensual back massage. The back is riddled with muscles and nerves that respond positively to touch, and the small of the back is especially sensitive. Start off by gently rubbing and caressing her back, focusing most of your attention to the sacrum, which is the area of her lower back just above the tailbone that is rich with nerve endings. Then you can start massaging the area right above her buttocks, using your thumbs to knead either side of (but not directly over) her spine.
7. Her abdomen: The abdomen is an extremely erotic area that should not be ignored. A woman’s abdominal muscles are connected to her vagina, which is why some women can even orgasm simply from doing core exercises. When these muscles are lightly stimulated during pre-intimacy, it causes them to contract in anticipation, which actually boosts arousal. With your partner straddling you, start slowly stroking your fingers up and down her stomach or across her lower abdomen (between her bellybutton and pubic mound) which will stimulate blood flow to her nether regions. Allow your strokes to get lower and lower, closer to her nether regions, then bring them back up. The anticipation will build arousal until she is begging you for more direct stimulation.
8. Her clitoris: The clitoris is the only part of the human body that’s sole purpose is to provide pleasure. With 8,000 nerve endings packed in such a small little space, you’ve gotta respect that ratio! Every clitoris is different in terms of sensitivity; even light pressure from fingertips may be too much for some ladies, while others can take a lot more stimulation. Start off light: Use two fingertips to gently massage the clitoris. Try using a circular motion, or switch it up with some up and down movements as well. Experiment with different speeds and pressure to see what works best for the recipe.
9. Her inner thighs: The inner thighs are ridiculously sensitive to all forms of touch. Along with the backs of her knees, the inner thighs are loaded with nerve endings and are often considered to be among the most sensitive parts of the body, so gentle touches and licks are most preferred. Next time you’re planning on going down on your partner, take a detour and show a little love to her inner thighs. Use gentle finger strokes and light licks to stimulate the skin there, as well as soft breaths against the slightly moist spots where your tongue has just been. You can even massage her thighs while your perform oral on her, which will stimulate the blood-flow to her genitals, making everything your mouth is doing feel that much better.
10. Her feet: You don’t have to have a fetish to be able to show your partner’s feet a little love. Many are surprised to find that a foot stimulation can actually be a real turn on! Plop your partner’s feet into your lap and treat her (hopefully clean) feet to a sensual rub down. Start by massaging the pads of her feet, using your thumbs to rub upward in a circular motion. Repeat this kneading motion as you move slowly down the length of her foot, then move back up again all the way to the toes. Remember to ask her what type of pressure she prefers.
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Try these ways to become better for your partner in bedroom, increase your S3@.x:’ual desires
LIBIDO IS EASILY REFERRED TO AS S3@.X:’ DRIVE, THE PASSION FOR S3@.X:’ WHICH MOST TIMES DETERMINE HOW HEALTHY A S3@.X:’ LIFE CAN BE. S3@.X:’ THERAPIST AND HEALTH CONTRIBUTING EDITOR GAIL SALTZ HAS DECIDED TO GIVE US A COUPLE OF WAYS ON HOW TO BOOST THE LIBIDO, REKINDLE THE FIRE IN THE BEDROOM.

1. Masturbation
You might not like it but its still one of the best ways to start with yourself, pleasuring yourself, its important that you know thyself before taking it to your partner.
2. Take a gynecologist talk
It might just be easier to talk to a professional about increasing your S3@.x:’ drive, maybe there is something about your hormonal situations it could be that you need certain medications.
3. Imagine things
As an adult, we’ve been asked to dismiss things such as imagining or fantasizing especially S3@.x:’ually but this might be one of the ways to help you boost your libido.
4. Talk more
Communication is key, if there are situations, it might be ideal for you to talk to your partner about it. Take about your concerns and carry each other along.
5. Change is constant
To spice things up in a relationship, trying new things might be the way. Talk to your partner to see what new thing they might be up to.
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Online dating: can be very overwhelming. Although it’s probably the best place to search for a potential partner, it can also be a very frustrating journey if you don’t put a lot of thinking into it.
You probably wonder why you’re getting few to zero responses or feel like there are no good, high-quality, your-type prospects. If you can’t figure out what you’re doing wrong and you are ready to experience online dating success you’ve come to the right place.
WHAT YOUR STRAGEDY?
Online dating is no longer a numbers game. It’s a strategy. A no-games, smart, efficient, and effective pre-qualifying strategy that includes profile mapping, photo analyzing, and asking specific questions in order to elicit substantive responses. Simultaneously, online dating is your opportunity to Show and Tell who you are and what a life with you would look like.
To improve your online dating success,
follow these 10 strategic steps to find love online:

What are you looking for when it comes to love?

1. What Are You Looking For?
Before you get online, you have to be honest with yourself. What is your dating purpose? What are you looking to find? Is it fun, self-exploration & expansion or a serious relationship?
Perhaps you’ve recently got out of a relationship and really; all you are ready for right now is to see that there really are other pretty great fish in the sea. You’re not actually ready to date, but you are excited to window shop.
With thousands of active dating sites thriving on the internet today, there is absolutely a dating site to fit every agenda. If education is important to you, try Elite single If you are marriage-minded and seeking your better half, most likely eHarmony is the place to go.

2. Write Your Profile Towards That Purpose
You want to reveal something about yourself that comes from your core values, your essence, who you really are. If you have something funny about yourself, share that. The last thing you want to write is a bland, canned, throwaway profile that says nothing. The purpose is to give a few peeks into your life. Exposing a side of you that makes the user feel intrigued, as if they noticed something that might not have come across in your photos. Maybe it’s something that makes them feel like they get you, and definitely something that they can personally relate to.

3. Narrow the Playing Field!
THE most essential, but often ignored strategy when it comes to online dating is ELIMINATION. Yes, one of the benefits of online dating is that you are expanding your reach and jumping into a huge pool of potential partners; still it’s important to narrow down your options.
Take a proactive approach and tell a story about who you are and what describes you best. I’m not talking just about the physical description of your height, age, location, etc., but more about what you like to do in your free time or what core values are important for you in a partner.
An authentic profile is an invitation to attract certain people- the ones you share things in common with, while simultaneously filtering through the wrong matches.

What’s your dating purpose?

4. Match Their Purpose With Yours
As you know your dating purpose, you now want to examine others’ profile to make sure that they match yours. If you don’t, chances are high that it simply won’t be a fit from the get go, as the both of you are looking for different things.

5. Profile Mapping
This is how you set your standards and compare each person using the same strategy, and it’s your first pre-qualifying opportunity. Train your eye to “map" every profile in the same way, scanning for your specific relationship needs based on priority. What are your priorities? Career, kids, religion, health, interests, education? If your main criteria aren’t fulfilled, move on.
NOTICE that I didn't mention “looks." Although extremely tough, you should try and look at the photos LAST. When it comes to lasting love, do looks really rate higher than core values?

6. What Do Their Photos Describe?
Once you start looking at their photos, before you look at their face, examine their environment, what activities they are doing, who are they with and where were the pictures taken. Their photos can reveal a lot on who they are, what their lives look like, and help you determine if you are more interested or less.

7. Are You Attracted?
Once you’ve given an in-depth look into their profile, getting a good enough picture of who they are, you should obviously look more into their profile pictures and see if you feel attracted to their looks. As I mentioned, there are other factors that are just as important, but looks mean so much to us and are usually the initial drive to make that first step, so don’t ignore it, just save it for last.

Get personal with talking online

8. Start Communicating
If they sent the first message- great! If not, send them a short message (not a wink or instant message), referencing something from their profile that you relate to. Make sure to also ask a question, giving them a reason to respond. DO NOT just say “you’re hot, let’s meet!” but be more personal and tell them what you are interested in.

9. Avoid Fraud – Do Your Research
If you start communicating with someone, before you disclose any personal information like your last name, phone number, place of business, or email address, run a little background check to make sure their profile is not a scam. My best advice is that if their profile looks too good to be true, it must be fake. Don’t worry too much, most online dating sites have great security features that provide a safe dating experience overall.

10. Initiate a Call
If after several substantive back and forth email messages you’re still intrigued, schedule a phone date or better yet, a video call. Dating sites like Zoosk provide a built in video call gesture that makes it very simple to connect.
This call should truly be like a date- set a time, then talk for as long as you feel right. Be real and revealing and learn about your dynamics. If, by the end of the call you’re STILL interested, set a date!
THE HARD WORK PAYS OFF
Yes, if you really want to get the best out of online dating you have to put a lot of effort in creating that successful strategy. But once you get the hang of it, you will find that this prequalifying technique actually helps to make your online dating experience more efficient, effective, and fun!

1. When you wake Up You start thinking of him: He becomes the first person you want to talk to and see at every start of your day. You are always eager to check in on him, and see how his morning is going. 2. You Start To Sacrifice Things to Him: Whether it’s something big like moving across the country for him, or a small thing like changing your eating habits for him, this is a definite sign you’re in love. 3. You Don't Mind His Flaws: No matter how annoying he tends to be, or how many pet peeves of yours that he does, you frankly don’t give a damn. You find his flaws and imperfections adorable and unique. And you wouldn’t want him to be anyone but himself. 4. You Will Feel Comfort When You Touch: When you are hurting or are upset, just the small touch of his hand or the small smile he gives you, makes you immediately feel better. It doesn’t matter what he does, but just his presence gives you great comfort and makes you feel like you’re at home. 5. Do Not Minor Problem become an issue: No matter how bad your arguments get with him, you know that there will always be a silver lining. You also don’t get too hung up on these fights with him, because you know that your love is more powerful than silly disagreements. 6. He Become The Best Thing About Your Day : No matter what you are doing or what you are talking abut, being in their presence makes your day brighter and better even if it is a shorter part of your day. 7. You Find Happiness In Doing Things With Him: Spending a lazy Sunday afternoon means the world to you. Seeing him smile makes you beam with energy. Having him give you hug after a hard day, makes your week. You find beauty and happiness in every little thing that he does.