You want to be sexy. Incredibly sexy.
You know, Pierce Bronson or Liv Tyler
kind.
But then you look in the mirror and…
let’s just say, any similarity is well
hidden which understandably dampens
your enthusiasm.
Can I tell you something? Being sexy
has little to do with looks and
everything to do with “aura”.
An incredibly sexy person lives inside
of you, dying to come out.
Come on, let’s bring that magnetism to
the surface. That is, if you dare!
1. Stop thinking you’re not sexy and just
“be” sexy
Make yourself sexy by taking on the
right attitude. If you are burying your
sexiness, there’s a reason. Do yourself a
favor. Go on a mission and find that
reason.
Born within you, there is an attractive,
playful, seductive side so decide to own
it!
Change doesn’t happen over time, it
happens in the moment you make that
decision. Read on.
2. Deal with your past love stories so they
don’t fight with your current story
Bringing the pain and heartbreak of
past relationships into the present will
kill your sexiness with fear.
Those voices lie below the surface and
convince you that history is repeating
itself. The only way to live in today is to
first look the memories in the face and
heal those hurts.
Someone who has learned from where
they’ve been and determined to make
the present far better is emotionally
available. And that, my friend, is
extremely sexy.
3. Become a true lovemaking expert
True lovemaking starts with touching
the heart of someone else. From out of
that connection grows the magic of
head to toe, skin on skin, electric
contact.
Sex is an art. You can drive your
partner crazy by learning how the body
responds.
It isn’t difficult, time consuming or
mysterious. Obtaining your Master’s
Degree is all kinds of fun and very
rewarding.
Once you know the science of sex, it
becomes much easier to hold
conversations about it as well. It’s
surprising to someone when they
discover you can talk about it because
it means you know about what works.
Now that is incredibly sexy…
4. Find your James Bond confidence
That sense of knowing who you are and
what makes you worth kissing will
exude sexiness to everyone around you
even if that’s not your intention. I
learned this from my second time
around husband who says I was like a
magnet to him.
Inner confidence attracts (this is not
arrogance we are talking about here).
You laugh more easily.
It gives you a kind of mystery that tells
someone that you would not bring a lot
of “drama” into a relationship. Rather,
you would make life interesting.
5. Practice being naked
No matter how unsatisfied you may be
with your body, walk around naked – a
lot. ( I would suggest practicing when
you are alone or you may frighten your
children.) It’s amazing how sexy you
begin to feel.
The more you become comfortable in
your own skin, the less you care what
someone else thinks.
It sounds ridiculous but practice sexy
poses in the mirror and forget the
sagging tummy or thighs. Remember,
it’s all about attitude.
Let it be your eyes that say what you
are thinking and your body won’t
matter at all.
6. Seduce yourself by creating the perfect
Lover’s ambiance
Romance leads to intimacy. It’s a
beautiful thing and worth cultivating at
any stage of a relationship.
For example, turn your bedroom into a
boudoir complete with soft lighting and
an electric fireplace. Make it a place
you love to go.
Try out a variety of soft music and find
what you would enjoy sharing with
someone else.
Check out restaurants that have
atmosphere or find the best places in
the city to sit and look at the lights.
Anticipation is fun and being prepared
will give you the edge you need when
that “right moment” presents itself.
7. Dress yourself up and take yourself out
The clothes do not make the person but
they sure can enhance the person’s best
features. Even if you don’t like to shop,
make it an interesting project to find
out what colors and fit look great on
you.
Feeling sharp translates into confidence
so be prepared with a couple of outfits
that bring out that “Bond” quality in
you, man or woman.
Then take yourself on a date
somewhere you would love to go just
because you are worth it. Be truly ok
with being alone and soon you will be
giving off incredibly sexy vibes.
8. Stand tall, shoulders back and look
others in the eye. Smile.
Most men agree that the sexiest thing
about a woman is her smile . Why?
Because when a woman is happy, they
don’t have to wonder how to get her
there.
In the same way, the last thing a
woman wants to take on is being a
man’s mom. She wants a man, not a
boy.
Your posture and the way you present
yourself tells the world about you.
So practice standing tall and being
direct and don’t worry if you aren’t
feeling confident in the moment. Doing
this automatically communicates
confidence to your brain and soon your
feelings will follow.
9. Become a Romance Master
We know the moments. He guides her
into a dark room and suddenly its filled
with incredible light with music and a
table set for two. As a woman, I’ve
been told men fear romance because
they run out of ideas and they know
their lady’s heart responds to being
wooed.
Romance can be as simple as honestly
looking into the eyes of your lover in
order to see what’s really going on
inside of them.
Romance can be the words you use in a
text during the day or when you say
goodnight.
Taking the time to go into your heart
and find out what speaks to the heart of
your lover creates romance.
Be careful here because being open to
growing the romantic side of you will
make you incredibly sexy!
10. Fall in love with your life
You have so much to offer. “Incredibly
sexy” is simply knowing that and not
tolerating play-acting in your life.
It’s about what’s going on inside of you
– inside your deepest heart.
Imagine being so interested in your own
life that you can’t wait to get up in the
morning.
Imagine having a sense of passionate
purpose at the base of your life
continually exciting you about how you
are made and what you are meant to do
to make a difference.
Imagine taking control of your life so
that you spend your time the ways you
choose to and with whom you choose
to.
Imagine listening to someone because
you want to know them, not because
you want to impress them.
Imagine looking directly into someone’s
eyes and saying what you feel and
asking for what you want without fear.
How would this feel? Empowering,
right? Begin moving toward becoming
this person.
That’s the secret to making yourself
incredibly sexy.

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